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ThrowFader

Posted 6y ago in Red Pill Theory - Permalink - Locked - 286 Views

"Treat women like children."

But in order to do this well you must remember what it was like to be a child.

"Treat women like you are children" captures what I am trying to say more adequately.

Young males boys have not yet realized the usage of females, which causes them to view females with a clear lens.

They are not on a pedestal. They have cooties. They are not as smart. They are not funny. You can't do anything useful with them.

That is the way it used to be. What changed?

The girls grew up, and had boobs. Their waists extended. Suddenly they had meaning. They went from being the thing every boy liked the least, to the thing they wanted to stick their sticks in the most.

But what changed?

For the girls, nothing. In their eyes, boys are the ones who have changed.

Before, guys were cool and funny and teased her and made her laugh and feel excited.

Now they are all servants or awkward or uninteresting. Except for the few.

The ones that remember how to be a kid again.

The ones that never stop thinking they were better, that never stopped teasing her, that never stopped being in charge.

Girls are not looking for a myth, they are looking for the boy who was authentic.

They want you to make her feel like a girl again.

So put aside all the irrelevant shit.

Recapture that confident swagger that your seven year old self had, but you think you can't muster up now.

Become funny. Become physically imposing. Become rich. Become knowledgeable.

Stop taking girls too ducking seriously, they are girls.

Don't you think the more you age, the less you should take someone who doesn't age seriously?

Remember your childhood, and learn from it

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Luckyluke23 6y ago

Stop taking girls too ducking seriously, they are girls.

i think this is the biggest lesson in this post. and should be taken so lightly.

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[deleted] 6y ago

Do you mean alpha father figure?

Cause I’m not going to pick my nose and wipe it on Linda’s shirt ever again.

riot2100 6y ago

I guess I'm doing this... Sometimes I'm referred to as a little immature. I suppose I act like a kid but don't actively apply it to the girls around me?

ThrowFader 6y ago

You want to establish a teasing dynamic with women.

Whether or not you are childish or dad like, always tease them.

Around other men you might want to toughen up or you may not be taken seriously.

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Be a Captain. An authority. A leader. A daddy.

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.

You're talking prepubescent existence, where nothing mattered, you had zero life, zero responsibilities... you didn't care what Sally did because you didn't want to fuck her. Guess who was and is the biggest figure in Sally's world?

Don't be a child. Be a dad.

dum_dum_boy 6y ago

But it's only a matter of time before Sally's feels get bored with Big Mr. Serious Captain Daddy.

[deleted] 6y ago

Nowhere did I say don't have fun.

Jesus. Read my reply below to gladdick because you seem to need it spelled out for you.

Girls don't want to play with other little boys. BP thinking.

Be a playful MAN.

ThrowFader 6y ago

Of course.

But there are of course archetypes to masculinity, and in each an every single one, you must be cognizant of how your actions effect others.

Remembering how to act carefree doesn't mean you can't still be in charge of your shit.

I don't disagree with you response though as I think it hits the nail on the head.

Thanks for commenting.

Launch_On_Warning 6y ago

Fucking brilliant. Thanks for this.

FinancierGuru 6y ago

There a reason why hoes call their pimp "Daddy" and respect them, while looking at Johns (and all others) as nothing.

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[deleted] 6y ago

Dad is not used in the biologically paternal here. I'm 47, never wanted kids, never had kids, snipped for over 10 years. Biodad is NOT what I'm referencing.

"fearless with my interests, and pursued them with great joy"

Of course. You had literally nothing to lose. Break your arm? Do you miss work? Pay hospital bills? Nope, mommy and daddy coddled your ass.

Fearlessness is meaningless when there are zero consequences.

The was a standup routine where the guy says you spend the first ten years of your kids' life keeping them from actively but inadvertently killing themselves.

My point is, have fun, sure, but remember at the end of the day you have to pick up your toys and put them back. OP and I are on the same wave.

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lordkrink 6y ago

I never thought on that perspective, the male/female dynamics during pre-puberty really resembles the alpha men/women dynamics during adulthood.

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FuckMichaelMcCoy 6y ago

It makes sense because you are so pure as a child, so purely human. Its almost as if nature designed us to naturally purely have that alpha dynamic with women, since we were essentially instinctively born with it

Psychocist 6y ago

Naturally, we're born with the tools to impregnate them as they are born with the tools to manipulate us. Overthinking this whole dynamic I'm sure causes many of our problems.

buddhadarko 6y ago

Yes, you are correct. But, if you let mainstream sources tell you, women have the same qualities innately. This of course, is folly. Women are not natural leaders/alphas. They use male characteristics to appear “strong”, “confident”, and “fearless”. When women do this it is anything BUT natural, and that is why we have so many fundamentals of society, life, and basic structure of thought and action between men and women completely fucked up. One of the greatest tricks wome play is against themselves by thinking they are the same as a man and can thus think and behave like a man with little to no consequence. (Side note: this plays perfectly into the fact that women do not understand, nor are they capable of utilizing consequences. Blame shifting is one of their pillars.) Women only have their vaginas and looks to offer the world/men, so they exchange it for something of equal or higher value; that something is either a guy with looks/high sexual market value, a guy with money, or a guy who, just by being involved with, increases her ability to wield a modicum of power over others.

This is what women live for, on a subconscious level of course. They could and would never explain to you what makes them tick/operate in a desired way. Everything is covert and instinctual with them. If you miss the message, you end up a chump/beta/cuck/broke ass door mat of a man with nothing to live for but the material satisfaction of your girlfriend or wife, whilst she deep throats and rides Mike the personal trainer who lives in a trailer. You know, the guy she told you was just a friend and she wasn’t interested in.

This is the true nature of women. Anything contrary to this is a manipulation of reality, and a rabbit hole filled with illusions and ass-backwards, weak ass dogma.

TaylorWolf 6y ago

Then Disney and the like fucked us by telling us they want to be treated like princesses

iSwallowedTRP 6y ago

Before my TRP days I called this The Disney Curse. It was the first time I saw a blue pill. At the time, I couldn't conceptualized why it was wrong, I just knew it was. I'd go further and add that it made me feel like I could fall in love within a couple hours. Being younger, I don't think you can track how much time has past in a movie. That shit was a blue anchor.

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casemodsalt 6y ago

The only thing women have going for them is their vagina. The outside just reflects how it's going to look. That's why we care about looks.

RisingTogether 6y ago

I don't think it is about bein a child. It is about not giving a fuck actually. Because if you see a child never actually give a fuck. About their interactions and all because if we are to be one. It is absolutely immature and creepy

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mgtowolf 6y ago

Remember my childhood. I remember having my school recommend I be put on ridilin. I remember my first two teachers not bothering to teach me, instead sending me on useless errands. I remember being pretty popular with the girls in my school, up until I accidentally broke a girl's wrist after she challenged me to a game of "mercy" for the hundredth time. I remember being just about fearless, but brainwashed to be a beta.

Become funny. Become physically imposing. Become rich. Become knowledgeable.

Funny is subjective, who do you want to make laugh? Physically imposing to who? Women? Easy mode. Become rich, as opposed to who? If you want to compete with the elite, good luck with that. Become knowledgeable about what? The world at hand, then you need to do that yourself. In your own line of work, I can commend that. So many people waste too much time becoming knowledgeable about shit that will never help them to succeed in their life.

buddhadarko 6y ago

This needs more up votes.

It’s much more beneficial for a man to learn on his own, and apply knowledge that directly serves him, than to blindly suck up information that he has no idea what it will do to him in the long run. Too much emphasis is put on education, but it should be practical education. Not just education for the sake of education. That is why learning about the TRUE nature of women and the REAL dynamic that exists between men and women can be the difference between an emotionally-balanced, diligent man that has a healthy control over his life, and the man who is controlled by a walking collection of orifices that thinks she is the only choice on Earth.

FuckMichaelMcCoy 6y ago

Elementary and middle school were a blast. Better than high school IMO. And Ive had good experiences in all, never bullied or anything. Just that being a kid, the world was so radiant and mysterious. Even ordering McDonalds was an adventure in itself.

vengefully_yours 6y ago

I'd almost want to trade with you, but a nice easy life of safety doesn't harden you at all. How about we trade half the sit in my life, that way we are both hardened and I'm not a sociopath...

FuckMichaelMcCoy 6y ago

It helps that I have a Chad face + body type, multi-sport athlete since 4 years old, raised by an alpha father. By default I was in the "in crowd" before being redpilled. But yeah.. just because someone has some success it doesnt mean youre not built for adversity either.

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mishasam89 6y ago

I think it's mostly the media that does the harm..

Movies especially. Movies and books indoctrinate men into believing lies. And since men are idealists and have a conscience, unlike women, they buy into this bullshit.

Now, if you ask why the media does this, I'm not sure. However I don't think it's a coincidence. There is a reason behind it, and I have a feeling it's a shady one at that!

Dmva100 6y ago

All media is cultural terrorism. Burn their flags (papers), as it makes for a greater backyard camp fire.

The mere fact that the mass media needs to exist demonstrates that people are too lazy to think for themselves.

CountVP 6y ago

Social Engeneering. Taming man (to produce a compliant citizenry) is something hollywood has been doing seen television was invented

vengefully_yours 6y ago

It's as simple as marketing. Girls buy more bullshit than men do. Catering to the female is lucrative. Didn't have to be done nefarious plot, and the effect of getting weak fuck boys from the process is an unintended consequence that happens to work in the favor of the marketing people. Be more like a girl and go shopping, win-win for them, who cares what effect it has on the people as long as we get our profit.

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Hoodwink 6y ago

It's going to get a lot worse in the next decade. I remember a time when computer games weren't mainstream. I remember a time when sitting on your phone wasn't a universal in school. I remember a time when 'incest porn' was equivalent to bestiality. And transexual porn was maybe just below it. I saw most of these become more and more available, then talked about randomly at weird corners, then accepted.

I took a community college class (english) to finish up an associates. Transexual porn came up in the literature we read. And two classes had asked about our preferred pronouns. There's a bunch of fashion shit coming down the line trying to put teenagers/men into dresses. There's a bunch of young male kids doing pornstar make-up and getting on Ellen constantly. Etc. Etc.

We'll see MTF transexualism as a way for boys struggling with women to get sexual attention. I already see the roots in the messaging.

Whitified 6y ago

Book of Pook

"Fountain of Youth" chapter

"He, whom the gods love, grows young,"

iwasbornred 6y ago

ty, you just made me realize so much about myself

Grothendi3ck 6y ago

I fell in love with a cam whore.

biglaughingcock 6y ago

what’s that got to do with anything?

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Marsupian 6y ago

Future generations are so fucked. Nearly every 10yr old has a smartphone and spends more time watching a screen than playing outside.

I'm glad I grew up with a dumb phone and a less widespread internet.

iamanalterror_ 6y ago

There's a benefit to this, too.

Some young relatives of mine watch a lot of videos on learning new skills, like solving a rubik's cube, for instance. In addition, with the popularity of minecraft, their creativity will skyrocket.

There's a balance needed to be had. Get your kid into sports so that not all time is spent on devices, and also so that their social skills develop.

all4gibs 6y ago

“when i grew up we didn’t have TV”

i understand more about my parents and grandparents these days because they used to say this shit

EdAnt 6y ago

Consequentially, access to a computer at an early age has made me far more educated, confident, and financially successful than my parents. So really fuck all that noise. Computers are a miracle tool, and if a tool hurts someone, it's not the tool's fault.