TLDR - Spoke to two random girls at a hotel party, both of them sat on each of my lap, later on the night our group of 20 or so friends went to the club, I danced with both girls at the same time, while grabbing one of their asses, ended up K closing two OTHER random girls in the club, whilst ANOTHER girl from hotel party kept coming up to me saying "I could do better".
So the other night my mate invited me to this girls hotel party that she was throwing for her birthday, he needed a wing to go with as he really didn't know many of them at this party so I was like fuck it. Let's see how the night will go down, by applying what I've learnt about TRP
The Hotel - My mate and I arrive at the hotel very early, possibly one the first people there, just to get started and feel the environment around us. As we enter the room, I have established my mindset for my frame, "Be fun, careless, and enjoy yourself. Always keep talking and show people you're having a good time".
A few hours pass by, where the room is actually packed out, although still enough room to move around and interact with people. As I walked around I spot this girl that I had a thing with a while back (lets call her A) and I started chatting with her and whatnot, maintaining frame, playfully teasing her about something she wore. As we were talking, I spot another girl, (we'll call get B) which I managed to call her over to join our conversation. So while chatting with A and B for a fair while, I decided to leave them so I could talk to some of the other boys that attended the party. (Note: My intention was to never hook up with these girls).
20 minutes go by, where I eventually find a couch to sit on. As I'm sitting down, A has seen that I've been a social butterfly all night, capturing the attention of most people at the party, so she decided to sit on my lap. As we exchange a couple of words in less than 10 seconds, B happens to walk over and ALSO sit on my lap. So now, you can imagine that theres this guy in a small hotel room, with two girls both sitting on each of my lap, the attention on me has got both genders looking especially the females.
The Club - So we all arrive at the club, everyone there's having a jolly good time drinking and talking shit. Now I happen to hit the dance floor, and because I have no fucks to give about trying to get girls or worry what people think, my mate and I are killing it up there. So then comes along A, who tries to dance with me, as she came closer to me I said in her ear "I'm not getting with you tonight, and I don't know who you are in here" her face was shocked, although still trying to get closer to me to kiss. All of a sudden, guess who mysteriously gravitates towards me and dancing all over me? Yeah, you got that right, B. I decided to show more attention to B to rub the jealousy a little deeper into A, Ironically, also rubbing her ass too (fuck I felt bad for doing that, but thats what they say about TRP, it's a bitter pill to swallow [DGAF Mentality]) as I'm doing that, A backs off abit and stuck up her finger at me. Anyway, I decided to ditch these two AGAIN, to enjoy myself dancing with my mate, which a complete stranger decided to compliment me on my dancing and looks, nek minnut my tongue is down her mouth. The disgust look of both A and B was memorable, not to mention the lowkey hate for eachother as they didn't speak to each other for the rest of the night.
Hours go by, where it has literally been atleast over a dozen attempts to grab my attention by dancing closer to me and grabbing my arm. It actually started to creep me out, but the part which struck me the most is that they had a scarcity mentality, ONLY desiring me, as if I was the only male in the club. It felt great knowing that I had the abundance mentality, and I had many viable options to choose from. Anyway, this random group of girls that freshly turned 18, saw what was happening, and saw me gently pushing A and B off me, came up and grabbed me away from them, after a few words with this group of girls, one girl said "I'll save you from them tonight" nek minnut. bam. Tongue in her mouth. Now I happen to finishing off making out with this girl, where I see the rest of the original girls from the hotel party, eyeing me out, now as soon as I realise that I've been talked about by 4 girls in the distance, one of them starts walking my way, and then states to me "You can do so much better, you're so attractive, I don't know why you got with her". Sounds like jealousy to me.
I ditch the girl that came up to me, ditch A and B, ditch the two random girls that I got with and called it a night. F closing was difficult for me as I had work in the morning and I lived far from town.
Conclusion - To conclude, girls want you when you're desired by other girls (High perceived SMV). By establishing a healthy frame earlier on for the night, it will TREMENDOUSLY help your interactions with other individuals (I can't express this enough). By applying a few TRP principles, I have realised how females actually are when it comes to "chasing the chad" (not that I'm a chad, but to them I was. I still have MUCH to learn).
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Good example of pre-selection but not banging any of them was a mistake. At least get their numbers and bang them 1 by 1, after which select the qualified ones to become plates. Since you had no interest in banging them it tells me all these girls are probably 5s and 6s.
There's no way a lion would just tickle a zebra and let it go on it's merry way.
Zweihander747 6y ago
Thread is wrongly titled.
When you can have any woman, the woman you desire most is the church going, cares deeply about family and one day having her own, traditional, conservative, no social media, virgin, intelligent, cultured etc.
Unfortunately this woman does not exist.
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[deleted] 6y ago
You did not fuck them so this is all just mental masturbation. Preselection is an ancient concept. Nothing to learn here. I hate these sorts of field reports.
max_peenor 6y ago
It's like watching a two hour movie where the hero dies at the end because of an infected hangnail.
OmegaMan2 6y ago
Give the guy a break. That was an interesting read and good advice for newbies.
Sometimes you couldn't care less whether or not you fucked them. Besides he had to work in the morning.
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To quote Seinfeld, "no man trades sex for sleep".
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
What a night wasted. You kissed all those chicks and got them all riled up but didn't fuck not even one?
vengefully_yours 6y ago
It's not like he didn't have opportunity, shit with that much attention I'd have gotten two or three that night when I was his age. Two a day it's the max at my age, recovery time is considerably longer now and I lose interest in them immediately after.
bobjoe177 6y ago
Back in my day I banged twice as many barstars as OP, they were hotter and sluttier back then too (in geezer voice)
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Had opportunity or not, he wasted it.
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beta_no_mo 6y ago
No, because none of this actually happened.
Redpillandrew 6y ago
c'mon, i believe him. He just made out with those chicks and you should know that's exactly how they behave if you're a social butterfly and well groomed.
tibikush2012 6y ago
Read your post history.
All your interactions with women are where you are either drunk or high and you have erection problems...
This is nothing but self masturbation and self ego boosting..
Kissing for me was considered a success when I was 14 years old.
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omgwowsuchyay 6y ago
Isn't this human psychology generally? We're pack animals; validation from another member of the group instantly increases something's value to the rest of the group.
0signal0 6y ago
Damn, OP. This is some revolutionary knowledge you are sharing with us. Never heard that ever before on TRP...
lifestuff69 6y ago
You should have taken them to an alley or bathroom and at least gotten head. Still good practice, though.
metallicdrama 6y ago
Even if they're disgusting pigs so long as you aren't taking them seriously. Queen Bee syndrome with an easy target works like a charm.
cashmoney_x 6y ago
You just masturbated all over this forum.
OneInAZillion 6y ago
K-close
Gotta love the PUA lingo
blackedoutfast 6y ago
lol at all these salty comments. good job OP- if you've got haters you're doing something right.
it's the most revolutionary post ever, but this FR is a good example of how powerful pre-selection can be. without seeing it in action it seems like an obvious concept- yeah women like popular guys no shit. but it's way more than that.
we can discuss lifting and game and frame and improving SMV all day long, but IMO if you can get quality pre-selection that's the key. you flip the game on its head. you stop competing with other dudes for the best girls and start having the girls all compete for you.
i get in situations like this sometimes when the pre-selection has a snowball effect and it's pretty crazy. you'll just be in the zone having a good time, then you look up and realize EVERYONE is looking at you. all it takes is being in the right place at the right time and have two girls start competing for you.
yessum447 6y ago
The problem with the post is that he's treating it like a win when he should be treating it like a loss. The most difficult part of game is actually sealing the deal and having sex, until that point very little investment is required from the girl. The overwhelming majority of girls at a nightclub are totally willing to have their ass grabbed and make out with a guy, even if they're not into him or don't find him that attractive. That's just part of the fun at a club, it's not anything. If he had pulled this off in a grocery store it would be different.
Acting like grabbing a girl's ass and making out is some sort of victory and that makes him an authority on the subject is just silly. It's like bragging about getting 2nd place. It isn't nothing, but it's not really worth bragging about either and certainly doesn't make you an authority to speak on the topic in which you got second place.
empatheticapathetic 6y ago
We all start and progress at different places/rates. Don't knock him, he had a new experience and identified it as pre selection. That's the point of the FR. It could have been a total failure of a night and still have learned a load of shit. He could have fucked a girl but he was probably scared of fucking up a good night if he does have erection issues (as noted by another commenter). He'll progress at the rate he progresses and it's no one else's life to tell him otherwise.
yessum447 6y ago
Nothing wrong with sharing experiences, however there is something wrong with writing from the perspective of an authority on a topic when you're not an authority.
empatheticapathetic 6y ago
In my perception, all he did was tell a story and relate it to the concept of pre selection. He was surprised himself at the concept working so well; he never talked from a place of superior intellect on the topic.
tropzumuch 6y ago
Let me guess: A stands for Anal
stonesfan99 6y ago
Who cares if one is wanted or not. All that results is she sees you as another source of income and will cheat on you/divorce you as soon as it is convenient.