Don't offer these stupid bitches anything more than anal-only plate status. Elevate yourself. Join a local fascist organization. Read everything you can about Julius Evola and Augosto Pinochet.

One of the most powerful abilities a man has is the ability to walk away. Good job, bro!

Any tip for when that girl is a coworker ?

I'm not exactly an orbiter (she has very clearly expressed both verbally and physically that I made her wet) but she has an orbiter and I want to truly move on. I've kept the flirting alive for so long, out of boredom at the workplace (seriously, i can't have 8 hours a day of NON STOP productivity), because i thought i could manage it and because it felt good that the sexiest girl at the job felt that way for me.

But it's taking a toll on my sleep, appetite, drug use, overall discipline, and interest in other chicks.

The OIS is mild enough that if she were to just disappear out of my life, I'd be totally fine. But I have to fucking be around her most days if not every day.

And yes, I'm trying to look for another job (I would be doing that with or without her in the picture) but I believe I'll have to stick for a long while still and build something I can sell to another company.

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Ran into her last night and just gave a courteous hello have fun (I don't believe it's professional to not do this - makes you look like you have baggage).

Handled with maturity and class - that's the way to do it.

"Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace."

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Great post. Simple, but I needed to hear it. I've been dealing with the same thing.

This is off topic, but I just want to point something out here. I am a non religious Buddhist, but I also consider myself pretty alpha. Sometimes on here I see things that I cannot agree with, just too much sometimes, too far. I am on other subs and see Red Pill hate from plenty of users, mostly from people who clearly do not understand what it's all about. But sometimes I see things like this post and it is just so positive it makes me proud. That's really it, just an observation. Keep it up op.

Went out last night with friends and didn't awkwardly keep thinking about how to see her again.

It sucks to be the one to say that, but it's not that easy. You'll be thinking about her for a very, very long time, whether you want this or not. You can boast as much as you can, and sure, you'll be patted on the back by a bunch of other redpillers, but it takes ages before you can really recover. If ever.

Well done.

Wondering how to behave when a girl does X or Y? Ask yourself:

"What would I do if I had 100 other girls at the moment?" (credit deangelo)

Even if you don't have other prospects/plates, the answer to this question is often the best thing you can do in any situation.

It's refreshing isn't it? The second you decide not to depend on someone for your happiness is the second you have freed yourself.

"Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than defending or hanging on." - Eckhart Tolle

You have great friends, keep them.

Well done brother, the more we kill the beta orbiter within us, the more strength we will have. Congrats on breaking out of it!

Next time you see her around fart in her face and just walk away smirking.

Did you really though? Like hard next her? Maybe you'll return in a month?

Agreed, this is exactly how it's done, you just be courteous and show them that they didn't get the best of you and they'll be the ones feeling like they missed out.

I was in a similar position once and told her I thought we should just be friends. Few weeks after that she contacts me asking if she could come over but I held my ground. She spent the next few months looking at every single one of my snapchat stories literally the instant I posted them.

It ain't nothin' to cut that bitch off

I had a conversation with a this girl at work the other day. She is a 4 at best with a horrendous personality. We were talking life, relationship w.e and she told me she was dating this guy. She then asked me, " what if a girl that don't like you but you like her, would you stop or trying to make her like you?" I literally busted out laughing, " No, what for, she can leave." The looked on her face, "No, I don't agree with that." "Ok, i don't care."

This girl then go on and told me about her bf who chased her over time and she of course finally let "HIM" won over her heart. (he was orbiting for 6 months and she finally give him a chance because her ugly ass can't find anyone else.)

I can tell this bitch will branch swing the moment she find a replacement. So I probed her and she told me about how her bf cry all the time and she didn't like that. This is a classic case of weak man with weak frame dating ugly ass woman who thinks they are better and act like cunts. GOD, I feel sorry for this dude, but damn I guess when you're that ugly you have to settled. LOL. I can't stand women who act like cunts. I don't mind ugly women. I can't stand ugly women with entitlement personality.

Congratulations, brother. Keep acting like a man. Only good things will come. Don't let anyone tell you you are not great. You are always great as long as you prove it.

So youre not thinking about her at all except when you're posting a novel about her on Reddit. Smh

I love this. I was an orbiter to a chick except we had no dates at all I was just blindly thinking I'd have a chance. So one day I just told her flat out I like you do you feel anything for me yes or no? She said no and just like that I cut her out of my life.

It's been 2 months and she's tried to come back into my life in so many ways. Especially cause I've lost like 30 pounds since we last spoke and I'm turning into a hot god so she defintly tryna get some. But fuck those chicks ????

Edit: Because people took the weight cut literally Im gonna be more specific. In truth I went down 27.8 Lbs. From 203 to 175.2 from April 27th to today July 3rd. I went on a Ketosis diet and worked out twice a day lifting in the mornings and burning at least 1000 calories doing HIIT whether it be inclined sprints or stairmaster. Alongside I would on somedays train in MMA.

Second Month I was fasting for ramadan, which lowered my caloric intake by a lot less then it already was and still was working out.

TL; DR: It's possible to lose like 30 lbs in 2 months

If you know deep down inside that you're keeping someone around who you should next, trust me, just do it.

Us men would be in a much better position if more guys adopted this mentality.

Great FR. Now use this instance masculine momentum to push yourself to the next level!

You handled this like a man (Alpha). Not like a man-child (beta) whining or complaining. Just accepting this wasn't going anywhere so you moved on.

You were polite but not grovelling or attempting to manipulate her into coming back. I agree that it's best to be polite rather than just ignore her. "Hi." and moving on.

Don't let your dreams be dreams!

Kudos! Rinse that empowerment for all it is worth. Next time, DROP any woman who shows signs of resistance. None are worth the effort of chasing. If they're interested they'll chase you, anyway.

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I'm still new to swallowing the pill but I must say this is one of the most awakening moments to me.. Realizing that despite what society may make you believe you honestly have no obligations to these girls and owe them nothing and you have all right to next them in a heartbeat... I love reading post likes this that help me realize that I'm on the right path.. Good luck in the rest of your journey brother

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For the first time I stuck to my guns, and (key point here) didn't overthink it and try to come up with an asshole way to "get her back" - just accepted that it's over and that I can do better.

This is key.

If you want to free yourself, you have truly accept that a certains hip has sailed and also get into the mindset that you wouldn't change it even if you could. And this change of heart must be genuine, not just sour grapes. You must be willing to kick her out of your bed if you found her there tonight.

Once you get into that mindset, the oneitis will disappear.