I worked at a coffee shop for a little while and it is known for being very pricey. I just had a fond memory of it.
One day, it's the afternoon and it's dead and some chick in her early 30's and her BF walk-in. She's blonde, kinda hot, more meh than anything, approaching the wall hard. But the way she wore her make-up made it seem like she'd taken a couple rides around the carousel. Her BF was the quiet type, and just sat their while she ordered some lavish drinks, lattes, that go for around 7-8 bucks from what I remember.
I get to making their drinks when I hear her talking low to her boyfriend.
"This place is so expensive." mutters "Watch, I'll get them discounted."
My back was facing them as I made their coffee.
So I finish making the coffee and we approach the register simultaneously, me with coffee, her with a welcoming smile. I ring her up to something around 16$. Then she smiles, cocks her head at me, and says:
"Don't you think there's some sort of discount you can enter in? You know, for valued customers?" And then she winked at me.
I knew this was going to happen, she should've kept her mouth shut before if she wanted me to even fathom giving her a discount. Her confidence disgusted me, and her nerve for telling her boyfriend she would "get the discount" prompted me to fuck with her a bit.
So, I stop what I'm doing, tilt my chin up high so I'm looking down at her, dead serious. And say the coldest:
"what."
It looked like she had a mini-stroke. She was speechless and surprised to the point where she was half-smiling in shame and red from embarrassment. She paid me the full amount and left, distraught as fuck. Post-wall bitches don't get my discount.
SwirlPiece_McCoy 8y ago
I just want to say, your reaction to this was brilliant. I'd have racked my brain for something witty to say, but you did a 10/10 by just saying "what". Clap.
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-Quotidian 8y ago
Pussypass denials can be fucking hilarious. This is a great example, another one being that gif of a police officer writing a girl a ticket after she says, "I thought you didn't give tickets to pretty girls?" and he responds, "We don't. Sign here."
Thanks for sharing.
RS73 8y ago
I used to know an attractive woman who worked the scam in a slightly different manner. Every time we'd eat out someplace nice, she'd order three or four little items. She wasn't a fat hog, she was in excellent shape but she'd eat at least half of everything and then ask the waiter to take one or two (or even more) items off the bill claiming that they were subpar (even when they weren't). Y'know, because she was so high class and the items just weren't up to her expectations. Sometimes there'd be some pushback from the waiter but I always saw her get away with it.
I thought it was just her at first but her sister used to do the same thing. They were just small time grifters and they did similar things in other areas of life. It was their whole approach to life - to wear that pussy pass out at every single opportunity. And if anyone tried to work some angle on them to get something they'd be real hardasses, totally outraged that anybody was trying to get something from them.
TCGT3 8y ago
Did she also purchase items (such as clothes), use them for day, and return them for a full refund?
RS73 8y ago
Y'know, I don't really remember if she did that. I wouldn't be surprised if she did, though.
beware_the_syllogism 8y ago
When I was bartending it was very similar except the women were usually ugly and/or fat. "You should give us discounts because tee hee we're cute and you should want women in your bar." It wasn't that the women were hot or not, but free drinks aren't my thing unless you are a regular, tip heavily, or lost your job then I'll get you fucked up on my dollar.
jx234 8y ago
Ha ! Do people really go to the bar after they lose their job? Art influencing life... Let me guess they order a scotch and sigh heavily and have slicked back hair.
seattleron 8y ago
Just another example of women expecting shit handed to them for having a vagina.
rpreader 8y ago
I wish I could remember who said it, but someone on here was talking about how during a class they had, a bunch of women were talking about the patriarchy and equality until someone brought up ladies nights at bars and clubs.
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seattleron 8y ago
Fuck, I love reading this shit. Women think they can get anything they desire just for having a vagina. It's so funny to see them squirm when you deny the PP.
king_eggroll 8y ago
I thought for a second that PP meant peepee.
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seattleron 8y ago
Yeah, it's fucking glorious.
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R1fle 8y ago
Fucking amazing. I'm totally going to use this if I ever get the opportunity.
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veerakannadiga 8y ago
No
Bitches don't get my discount.
waitfor_ittt 8y ago
a.k.a the title of my post
Justice-Beever 8y ago
You really showed her! I'm sure she'll be eventually be diagnosed with PTSD because the barista making $8/hour did not give her a discount.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
THANKS FOR THE TRIGGER WARNING ASS CAKES! I AM TRIGGERED BY $8/hour BARISTAS YOU INSENSITIVE SWINE!
jx234 8y ago
You can always tell a true redditor because they have this distinctive way of commenting. Like this one. Anyone know what I mean? Picking up on something and making their own joke about it, kind of circle jerking.
Epicureanist 8y ago
I completely agree. Reddit humor is usually self-referential, word play, and kind of silly.
Not sure if reddit's upvote/downvote structure lends itself to this (jokes unoffensive enough for everyone to upvote) humor on top or if that's just the people reddit attracts.
Bodybuilding.com, with usernames and rep points, has similar humor; lots of repeated phrases and rep hugging. 4chan also sorta has repeated memes, but the shit that everyone finds funny is usually pretty funny.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
ARE YOU INSINUATING I HAVE NO LIFE NOR ORIGINAL THOUGHT AND THAT I'M NOTHING MORE THAN A BILE SPEWING AUTOMATON?
~guilty as charged~
Bleakjavelinqqwerty 8y ago
Ass cakes. Thanks for that.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
Figured it'd be better than twat waffle, cunt odor, or menstral chunk.
inferno1234 8y ago
So how did you not just repeat that at the end of your post? It's a completely different statement, and your title thus did not reflect your post.
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waitfor_ittt 8y ago
To be fair, post-wall bitches wouldn't get my discount either.
my_redpill_account 8y ago
I think it was obvious as to what you meant. Why people take text written on a screen so damn literally I will never know.
42andatowel 8y ago
all post wall bitches are bitches, but not all bitches are post wall bitches. Therefore your title statement includes everyone applicable, the rephrasing at the end is unnecessary and changes the meaning of your post.
DimorphisticLies 8y ago
What lack of vision!
You are right, of course. The error will lead some newbies (perhaps subconsciously) to misunderstanding, that perhaps pre-wall bitches might should be given discounts rather than be discounted.
Don't allow the standing of your karma status here effect you. To the barely-initiated and the narrow-minded you are whiny and annoyingly pedantic. For your own sake I would advise you to work towards improving your communication skills.
the_red_scimitar 8y ago
They really can't face how their SMV declines. Ever read dating profiles of women in their 40s, who've long since hit the wall? They believe they deserve the most handsome, wealthy, loving, honest, generous, and supportive man in existence. It's absolutely laughable what they expect.
TheRedPilsner 8y ago
Oh yeah. A lot of women think that having a pussy entitles them to the perfect man, and if they haven't found "Mr. Right" by the time they hit the wall it breaks them mentally and causes them to become even more insane in their delusions. I always chuckle when I'm browsing Tinder or OKCupid and I see an average-looking, mid-to-late 30s woman who basically says that she's looking for a wealthy Brad Pitt lookalike who loves cats.
Hey, I'd like a Jessa Hinton lookalike who has no gag reflex, enjoys MFF threesomes, and owns a liqour store and a boat. But I'm not delusional enough to demand one via my online dating profile.
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the_red_scimitar 8y ago
I think you absolutely should put that in your online profiles. It's hilarious, and the women who respond will be a whole lot closer to a close.
scarletspider3 8y ago
I bet that mini-stroke was really major vaginal tingles
trpobserver 8y ago
Possibly the most cringey thing I have read on this subreddit
ArtistBlock 8y ago
Awesome. I do the same thing in my job. I work in a frozen yogurt place and we give discounts for college students. If students want the discount they need to show their school ID. You would not believe the amount of bullshit I have to hear when I tell them I won't give them the discount when they don't have their IDs.
"I'm a student!"
"Can I show you next time?"
"Please! I forgot it!"
"They gave it to me last time without it!"
These bitches think they can get anything if they wear a push up bra and talk in a sweet voice. Granted I do give a free cup to a customer who is a female, simply because 1). She's a regular 2). She genuinely ask how I'm doing and 3). She tips very, very well.
seattleron 8y ago
There's a picture floating around social media of a man and woman walking down the street, and it says, "Can you see what's wrong with this picture?" There is absolutely nothing wrong with the picture, "except" that the woman is walking nearest to the street, and since men's lives are less important than women's lives, it is somehow rude to make her walk closest to teh street in case a car sideswipes her and ends her shallow life.
Ya know, because having a vagina makes you a princess and having a dick makes you expendable.
I'm always sure to comment under the picture, "Yeah, the woman's out of the kitchen." Boy does the entertainment ensure from that point on bahahahaha!
Dr_Shakalu22 8y ago
I actually did this with one of the last few girls I was with. She noticed it and said it was chivalrous. She branch swung hard though, as I turned even more beta after being with her for a couple months.
Thank God I was with that girl though, because immediately after she crushed me I found TRP.
Chaohinon 8y ago
Stefan Molyneux had a great anecdote about this exact issue. He's on a first date, and they're walking down the street, she's closest to the cars. The date ends up flatlining when she forcefully demands he walk on the other side, "because that's what men do!!!" If she would've simply said something to the effect of, "would you mind switching sides with me? I just feel uncomfortable being so close to oncoming traffic." He would've happily obliged.
Much like with putting the toilet seat down, or any number of other odd demands, I would be more than happy to comply if they just weren't phrased as mandates. Just ask me like a normal fucking human being who sees me as an equal, don't start a nuclear war before you've even bothered to check your targets for friendly fire.
mister_barfly75 8y ago
You should anyway, and the lid, simply from a hygienic point of view. Flushing toilet water creates an aerosol that can send fecal matter, legionella and all other kinds of lovely bugs into the air and onto things like your toothbrush, your wash cloths etc etc.
Besides, if you can put the seat down, she should have to raise the lid up. Fair's fair.
StManTiS 8y ago
Fecal matter get everywhere. It what you have an immune system for.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Best to put her next to the traffic, and occasionally playfully push her into (stationary) things.
CherryPickTheGirls 8y ago
What's worse is that she's done it before and it worked so she tried again.
Who the fuck falls for that shit? A smile and a wink? Not even a little hand job or some minor caressing of the genitals?
Idk maybe my standards are high.
rpreader 8y ago
Exactly. Treat it as a transaction. If she's trying to use her "looks" and attractiveness to get something, then you need to get something of value as well. A bj, sex etc. Treat her as the whore she's behaving as.
ArtistBlock 8y ago
There are always Betas that fall for it. There are circumstance that some of the employees are alpha but the managers/supervisors are beta that they bend the rules just for the girl. It's sad.
Doctor_Mayhem 8y ago
Yeah, that's my standard. No special treatment unless the bitch at least makes an effort to make me think she's trying to seduce me.
abdada 8y ago
I own a retail service shop in Chicago's university hub. Coeds come in every day and most of them try to flirt for deals.
My stoic response is "if I see you more frequently, you can get the neighborly rate."
Of course, I never say this to 19 year olds with FUPAs -- which sadly is now 80% of the young set.
Gross.
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MrShickadance9 8y ago
So either south loop or UIC area?
I live in West loop. Need more cool non beta dudes in my life, you ever chill with those that have fairly recently swallowed the red pill?
abdada 8y ago
Sloop -- just south of UIC. I'm in the process of exiting the area after 9 strong years. The coeds are all FUPA owners now anyway.
I don't really socialize after 4pm. All my hanging with my peers happens at 5am -- either we're flinging a disc at each other on campus fields or we're doing dawn patrol paddleboarding or shit like that.
The idea of going to a bar doesn't really enthuse me (ex-bar owner here, there are no real alpha winners on the customer side of the bar). At best I may do a later BBQ but if there's alcohol out I'm probably not going to show up, lol
laere 8y ago
I work retail and people try to get discounts because the corner of the box is damaged. I always tell them "well you are not buying the box."
the_red_scimitar 8y ago
Ha! Obviously none of those customers were cats.
jx234 8y ago
Er... Technically they are. Packaging etc is considered part of the product.
Chinkibus 8y ago
Right? When i go out on the town there's nothing but chubby chicks. There's even less hot ones now
poopymcfartnugget 8y ago
I just got back to Australia from Japan. First week back I couldn't handle it. It seemed 90% of women were too big, too tall or fat usually both. In Japan only 10% are chubby. Fat was rare. I'm adjusting to Australian standards again slowly which makes me sad. God damn it I want to go back to Japan, I'm not into Australian women, their attitudes make it 1000X worse.
fasterpussycatdie 8y ago
It's a epidemic man. I feel bad for you young single guys. The pickings are getting slim. Over the weekend wife and I were at a night time spot, having a beverage out in the beer garden people watching. Even my wife notices this; every one of the SWF that walked in the place was a fatty.
When I was a kid, in the neighborhood a big fat woman was something to be pointed out. It wasn't that common. Now, it's almost the opposite.
hamsterbator 8y ago
when we were growing up this used to be fat: https://bazzlebabble.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/chunk.jpg
Now that's like below average. I want to slap most parents I see out there.
Chinkibus 8y ago
Dude it's nuts, these hoes have over inflated egos and stomachs. All they do is take IG picks at odd angles to look human and pick from the chumps in orbit
vengefully_yours 8y ago
In the flyover states, usually if they're thin the abuse aderall, meth, or something of that sort. The rest a Bufforillas, buffalo crossed with gorilla.
fasterpussycatdie 8y ago
I will say this though. Last month I spent a week in downtown Chicago, I had never been there before. I was somewhat surprise at how many attractive women there were. I was thinking that day game would be a blast, if I were single...and my wife wasn't with me. (heh, I kid, I kid)
abdada 8y ago
This is why I never did night game. Beer goggles makes it worse.
Day game centered around activities that fit people are involved in, not just fit women.
Over the years, Saturday morning beach open volleyball has been a fantastic resource. Ultimate disc as well.
Not too many chubsters in either.
coffee_and_lumber 8y ago
Never obviously turned so many heads, as when I go trail running, both from casuals and female athletes. Just makes me run even harder.
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Chinkibus 8y ago
Both great sports, night game versus day game is an interesting concept. Most of the girls that have been going out for fun at night drink too much and pack on weight because of it.
beerthroway 8y ago
Dude every fucking girl I knew from high school and college that was a party girl is at the very least 15 lbs overweight from partying. Meanwhile the actual "fun" girls (ones that exercise, play sports, barely go out to party, etc.) are fit.
Chinkibus 8y ago
I'm 23, we've just begun to see people's lives unraveling after high school. It's amazing, the skeezballs are putting on weight and developing health problems from doing drugs with the same people while i get better.
zombig 8y ago
I just recently "discovered" that club going girls are uglier than average (I'm such a late bloomer). They are just handy with a makeup. I came up with another hypothesis: it actually works the other way round, nature not nurture. They don't get approached that often during the day so they loooooove to party, because drunk guys are horny and not really selective. Dark enviroment full of drunk people makes for a great ego pump for them.
I live in Poland tho, less fatties here overall so maybe I lack the perspective.
moosevice_dot_com 8y ago
You make an interesting observation in terms of ugly makeup proficient girls attending clubs to favor their odds since daylight drops their SMV level by a couple of points.
Chinkibus 8y ago
Yeah the fatties in America have become noticeable, like you can see how fewer good looking girls are out at night. Ugly chick's go out all the time for sex, hot chick's go out when they're bored to cheat on their boyfriend
A_Cubicle_Jockey 8y ago
That is my friend to the T. She's in her late 30's now, but in her late teens through her 20's, Wednesday through Sunday she was in the club. And she got by for years being a pretty white girl with a nice ass and rack. What was once a 5'5" 110lbs cutie, is now a 200 pound beast. Stick to the girls who like to do fit people stuff.
Chinkibus 8y ago
Jeeeesussssss, does she still think she's hot?
A_Cubicle_Jockey 8y ago
Ehhh, it took her a while to accept her new reality. She notices that the attention she receives from men is different. At least she's not on the whole, "big girls are sexy too thing" that's going around now.
abdada 8y ago
I personally don't socialize with women who drink socially. That's my schtick, and it has led to more than a decade of drama-free plates and LTRs.
I actually bought a bottle of wine with my LTR this weekend. She was surprised. We worked really hard together last week (I bought a new house on a whim in May) and I wanted to celebrate hard work together.
We both had less than 1/2 a glass and "went to bed". The rest of the bottle will end up being used for my sous vide reduction glazes.
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abdada 8y ago
I've always been LTR oriented, even when I dated in my early teens. I also have always been good at maintaining multiple LTRs (openly, not secretly) without a shit ton of drama.
For me, my "target" has always been an alpha female who is self led and responsible. As a sigma myself, I'm her missing link. Responsible alpha females generally do not succumb to PUA and seduction tactics that are so popular in TRP communities. Instead, the responsible alpha females respond best to the natural leader instinct ("alpha") combined with the inherent stoicism in sigmadom ("IDGAF").
My dating style is to approach women who are more likely to be health oriented. My long term success rate in finding women who don't party, drink socially or use drugs is pretty stunning to a lot of people who have watched my life from a third party perspective.
I've met plenty of LTRs just doing Saturday morning or Sunday morning activities. I love going to a local park and doing BWF at 7am. Guess how many women I've met at 7am on a weekend who were out late getting wasted and banging Chads?
I do my grocery shopping 4-5 days a week and always when the stores are opening. I grocery shop in a primarily university area but it is seeded with a lot of smaller startups. When I am grocery shopping at 7am, I'm not running into girls who are just leaving the club.
Beach volleyball, ultimate disc fields, paddleboarding docks, etc -- do it early enough and you're interacting with women who tend to be healthier, fitter, and typically less drama. Part of that is my opinion that women who drink alcohol socially (or use any drugs, including prescriptions) are not LTR material and will likely never grow out of their teenage dramatic immaturity.
processedfoodkills 8y ago
Weekend-morning game. That is fucking brilliant.
ChadThundercockII 8y ago
This a good way to approach relationships and women generally. I think it is best suited to guys who want to make money and enjoy life with less drama.
abdada 8y ago
Even making money doesn't impress me. 2 years ago I made a change in my life that saved me $16,000 a year. Guess what I did?
I worked $16,000 less the following year.
Whenever I save more money than I expected to, I modify my work hours the following season to work less.
My lifestyle is 14 work days followed by 7 off days. I travel 1 week a month and 2 weeks on alternate months (typically) instead of taking weekends. Weekends are a consumer-driven idea. Give consumers just enough time to reboot but never give them a chance to turn off and really rebuild.
ChadThundercockII 8y ago
The idea of working fixed hours every day for god knows how many years is painful to me. The economy is changing and we should adapt too. Doesn't more money mean more opportunities to enjoy life ?
ChaletBoy 8y ago
I feel as if many of the stories TRP tells or FRs on are shitty women that spend their youths going to clubs and bars. It's like there's constant complaints of meeting trailer trash women when most men here frequent the bar across the street from a trailer park. I know there's decent women out there, but they are tough to find because they occupy places like you mentioned. It's unhunted territory for good reason, only hard charging women are out shopping for food at 7am. They are the ones that actually want LTRs.
Unfortunately they don't pass my deathbed test. They tend to spend a good portion of their life doing the things people never say they wish they did more of on their deathbeds...i.e. studying alot, not socializing with friends late on a Friday night, going to the gym on a Saturday at 5am, etc.
abdada 8y ago
I socialize with my friends at 5am almost every day of the week. And we have a blast doing it. I also go on a lot of dates at 5am -- if you send a woman off to work at 8am after 2 hours of aggressive Frisbee disc throwing in a field, she's going to tingle for you all day (endorphin and serotonin boost).
Most of the 'exciting' shit people do at night are 100% consumerist behavior programmed, designed and engineered to be addictive highs. I can't imagine celebrating doing tasks that some smart psychologists designs to make me feel special about doing them.
Plus, I don't care if a woman studies or avoids social bar scenes or exercises at 5am as long as she's got the energy and desire to take care of my needs when I need them to. And party girls are only good for sex -- my needs are more complex than just sex. Sex isn't even on the radar since it's so easy to get.
Try getting a bar slut to iron your bedsheets.
aguy01 8y ago
You know, I've been seeing you post here for awhile now and I gotta say you consistently bring a unique perspective to things. Thanks for sharing.
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I agree with you, man.
I don't know where that dude is getting this "deathbed" mentality from. If anything they would be saying they wished they worked out more or studied more because doing so would have actually opened more doors for them socially and physically. People who lament shit they could have done are people that are wasted their fucking time. Seneca says it best in his essay On The Shortness of Life: (paraphrased) People spend their life giving up their time like it isn't valuable then wonder where all the time went when it's time to go.
It has more to do with the person's priorities and mindset than something extraneous.
If I get up a 0500 and finish my workout then I know have around 15 hours to do what I need to do whether it be work, school, hobbies, friends, women, or w/e. People are obsessed with the night life, like you said, and getting that paid for high rather then forging their own lifestyle to shit that would benefit them and those around them. Getting in bed at 0100, sleeping till 1000 or 1100, and then waking up with a hang over isn't enviable.
zombig 8y ago
That's a good strategy. I also reccomend this to my friends: go to the gym on a friday/saturday evening. That's like shooting a fish in a barrel. Do I need to mention churches?
abdada 8y ago
One of my businesses for 20 years is church-oriented, it actually started out in a church basement I rented. Church women tend to be more scandalous in the bedroom but less scandalous in public, in my opinion.
zombig 8y ago
You're absolutely right, that is a small catch. I discovered that there are two kinds of girls there: virgin-till-marriage kind and the i-regret-my-past/born-again-virgin ones. At least where I live (eastern Europe). There is virtually no competition there though, all the guys are just... feminine. A fertile hunting ground if you're marriage oriented.
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abdada 8y ago
My "first dates" almost always occupy the same method: meet a woman during the day and lead her to cancel her plans for the next 1/2 hour to have coffee with me right then and there.
It's basically an interview to see if she's worth meeting again. My "next" positions are pretty simple, but I do get women to qualify themselves to me pretty easily, and if I see or hear any signs of disqualifiers I'll be honest and let them know up front that I won't be calling them.
RedPillDad 8y ago
As it should be. She's applying for the job of being your main squeeze... Do you challenge her and encourage her to "chase" the prize?
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Glassland 8y ago
Seriously. I never got this behavior, even when I was the most beta fuck ever. Why would I give a good looking female something just because she looks good and tries to use it on me? It's so easy to see through and I gain absolutely nothing from giving her something, because she sure as hell won't suck the D for it or something like that. Fucking ridiculous and pathetic behavior from males doing that.
HS-Thompson 8y ago
Cool story. I was thinking about doing something similar today but then I realized I was a successful entrepreneur rather than a coffee shop employee.
waitfor_ittt 8y ago
Aren't you special mister! This sub is about self-improvement, not a pissing contest. I was thinking about responding with what I'm doing now for work but I don't brag over the internet.
DaisyLayz 8y ago
But...but....didn't you just do that with your post?
HS-Thompson 8y ago
So presumably you submitted this post via fax machine or something?
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waitfor_ittt 8y ago
I'd hate to work at your business. You're right, I could've given the Prozac induced response, "Sorry, we don't have discounts this month for exposed swindlers." I did that shop a favor, there are young kids who work there who would feel really uncomfortable at a bitch like that taking advantage of them. If she ever comes back, she'll pay full price and fucking like it. Where do I send an application?
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darkstar505 8y ago
No woman should ever receive discount because they have a vagina, not just post-wall "bitches".
E: Woops should have read the title.
coffee_and_lumber 8y ago
I had a female friend who used to say (sarcastically at least) "a vagina is a discount card in so many places."
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TrimHer 8y ago
Check your Sumatran privilege, shit Lord!
redwormcharlie 8y ago
No discounts for any piece of ass EVER.
A theme song for you. https://youtu.be/ZwzuINSuqqA
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BlaiseDB 8y ago
Unless you can take her in the back so she can blow you and lick your asshole, why give her a discount?
AtDawnTheySleep 8y ago
Even then she wouldn't deserve a discount.
GeneralDogsbody 8y ago
Jack up the prices for additional services rendered.
fakeAk 8y ago
Damn, I imagined some big alfa dude with shaved head doing this in coldest possible way. Genuinely laughed when I saw what you said, didn't expect the "less is more" style.
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crazydave1979 8y ago
I get free coffee from a certain barista so I can't judge her for trying
plentyoffishes 8y ago
Well, it's a kinda funny story and props for not doing what 90% of guys would do but early 30s isn't "post wall".
coffee_and_lumber 8y ago
It sure is in some of these shit towns just 30 minutes or so from major cities. Where I live, everyone I know looks younger than they are, and even the worst of them are still pretty active and watch what they eat. We live in one of the hottest areas of a large city. Get just a little bit outside the city into the 'burbs or beyond and there's some rough looking...everyone, not just women. Peopleofwalmart.com material. Even the lower SMV people I know are still keeping it going as best they can through diet and exercise. Meanwhile, their counterparts in the less cultured areas are fucking themselves up by getting married super early, eating food from the middle area of the grocery store, smoking (in this day and age?) and just looking haggard as fuck.
waitfor_ittt 8y ago
True, more like wall-approaching.
himan235 8y ago
I wouldnt know about your area although were I am its sad to see most people loosing their health from diets of high sugar, drinking sugary drinks, onto desert, then piling on the alcohol. Its really sad, then lieing to yourself thats its not a problem. Only out of school a few years now I see my classmates and I'm in shock how fast you go when you stop taking care of yourself. The wall of todays youth slams into them, damn, not even 23 and they're on a downward slide. Then most of them start loading up their faces with junk metal piercings and tattoos and then you cant help but stare at the trainwreck
coffee_and_lumber 8y ago
I opted out of my ten year high school reunion, saw pictures of my classmates looking like 40-somethings and realized I made the right decision. Very sad.
trp_hamlet 8y ago
Some commenters are missing out on the point of the wall. The wall isn't necessarily a term that only describes a woman who is experiencing a drop in SMV due to their youthfulness fading. It's also relevant at 30 because women begin to have fertility concerns around this time, and so society encourages women to have found a beta bux by 30 because of these two factors. The.majority of women keenly feel this social pressure on their 30th birthday. Like most TRP terms, your mileage will vary by individual, but it's not gonna vary by 5 years or more.
plentyoffishes 8y ago
I've known 3 women that have had babies at ages 40-42 in the past year. I know they beat the odds, but the age they have to start worrying about not being able to have kids is more like 35 biologically.
trp_hamlet 8y ago
35 is the sharpest decline, but fertility begins fading at 30.
plentyoffishes 8y ago
Could be but it's very uncommon for women in their early 30s to have fertility issues while it is common in late 30s.
Triple_DP 8y ago
All women age differently, but early 30s is almost universally post wall. For some women, that happens in their early to mid 20s.
It wouldn't really be a deal, but so many women rely exclusively on their looks to get by. Their identity is married to their physical appearance and not their character as an individual. They are coddled by society, unlike men, and so aren't forced to become interesting people.
TheQuickAndTheRed 8y ago
My first girlfriend was a hottie in Highschool; she was like THE Goth girl all the nerdy guys drooled over. Hit her wall at 22. Yup. The wall is dependent on many factors.
plentyoffishes 8y ago
Agree with most of that but in my experience, post wall is typically late 30s. I could be jaded being that I spend most of my time in coastal southern California, where a high number of women stay in top shape into their 40s even.
plentyoffishes 8y ago
I love it when I get downvoted for just reporting some experience. Likely people who live in BFE and are confined to dating the under 30 crowd only.
the_red_scimitar 8y ago
I date in that same pool, and indeed, there are incredibly hot women even in their advanced 40s. I doubt many people from other areas will believe this, which is actually just fine.
darkrood 8y ago
I live in CA and I agree with you. However, I don't think majority of the 40s are what you described. There are always hot 40s , but they are rarely the norm.
plentyoffishes 8y ago
Haha, thanks for backing me up! In this area, there are LOADS of smoking hot women in their late 30s. I'm not saying it's the perfect age group, but...women generally do not fall apart after 30 year (most aren't thinking of marriage until 29 or 30 anyway).
the_red_scimitar 8y ago
OTOH, and especially in the beach communities, they are often divorced and with kids. Can be good material for a plate, but not for anything serious.
You would not BELIEVE the 49 year old I dated. I swear she was a 9/10 at least. A perfect runner's body that an 18 year old would be jealous of. That first time her dress literally slipped to the ground, and she had nothing on underneath...