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Listen to your balls, not your brain, and you'll go against the grain.

Spot that slag with the nice thigh gap in the produce section, still in her spin shorts?

Your mind decides a semi-awkward approach, maybe a hastily creepy segue towards "oh you got that; mine's bigger (mumble) and then retreat.

"Nice legs; what time do they open?" ask your balls. If you're doing all the redpill basics and she sees your swole frame and smirk, your balls have gotten you a laugh and smile and a plate.

Your balls know what they want; your brain understands this but also accounts for your wellbeing and opts for the less dangerous approach/line. Let your balls do the talking once in a while.

I agree, society does not give a shit about me or you

Forget the blue pill and start living life how you want regardless of what they say. Be an unabashed cocky motherfucker.

Unapologetic arrogance isn't the only way to live life. You can still be humble and considerate - even reasonably altruistic if you wish to do so.

A man defines himself, and going against conformity for the sake of going against conformity is ultimately against self-definition. Do what you want to do. If that's chasing 24/7, then there's no issue with that.

Some people will lose themselves and not find that fulfulling, though. There are some people that enjoy seeing happiness around them more than you are enjoying yourself in a threesome.

Life is subjective, so live accordingly.

This had been told many times in the forum, to give no fucks about society. But, re-learning is good. Good post

what women love confidence. many "nice guys" view that as being rude or mean.

When I realized this I felt my mission was more important. Because of that I really only cared to stop to talk to people unless they talked to me which was rare. Nobody was drawn to my like insects to light.

treat women like children

where's the guide on how to do this tho

I bet almost no one on this sub is anywhere near any kids at all, so we don't understand how to do this

A standing ovation from the red pill community. My hat off to you mate! I love your perspective.

Your post is rife with a nihilism that is entirely counterproductive to your actual message.

And when I say society doesn't give a shit about you, I mean that. I'm sure I can find outliers, the top like, 5 percent of men society actually cares about (the incredibly wealthy, famous types, etc.) But the average man working 9-5, or going to community college classes, or what have you, society wouldn't miss you if you died. You'd be forgotten about in a week by non-loved ones.

Really? On what level? Do you mean the totality of whatever populus you belong to? At the level of your state? Your town? Your community? Your social circle? Surely the efforts of a single individual might not make a dent as far as moving the zeitgeist of an entire nation, but that's just where you've arbitrarily decided to scale your assessment. The "average man" has as much ability to affect society as he allows himself; he accomplishes that through his thoughts, his words, his beliefs, and his actions. My hands-down favorite post from The Rational Male brilliantly illustrates what the "average man" does to derive meaning in a world that can seem meaningless on a surface level. If human existence at the level of the individual seems insignificant to you, then you really need to evaluate the perspective from which you make that judgment. If nothing we do matters then all that matters is what we do.

So stop giving a shit about society.

What I derive from your message is that the true man should not concern himself with the opinions of others. Or another way to phrase it, nobody's opinion of you should be worth more than, or take precedence over your opinion of yourself. But I don't see any good that can come from simply casting aside your responsibility to your society. And that's exactly what it is: your responsibility to your society. Even if it's true that society cares not for the individual, the answer isn't what you offer. I don't see how you can affect real change in your life if there isn't some cause, societal or otherwise, you deem worthy of your time and effort.

In terms of intersexual dynamics, women find duty and purpose in men attractive. Whether it's the Alpha who takes it upon himself to dedicate his efforts toward a cause he finds more important than the affections of any one woman, or the Beta who feels duty-bound to serve the needs of whoever he's pedestalized, women gravitate to that sense of duty in men (for better or worse). This is why your post confuses me. It doesn't seem to me that the right way is giving zero fucks, but instead being highly selective about the fucks that you give. Why not inspire others to take up a purpose that might make them, and by proxy, the society they live in, better? Better for the generation that follows so that the boys who grow into men won't fall prey to this sort of nihilism.

I think what you've tried to communicate is that we (as men) shouldn't base our self-worth on the dictates of a society that can be so impersonal (depending on perspective). We should live as free as possible, but take on the responsibility of forging our own path that brings us closer to greatness. When we develop our potential as individuals, sex, love, attention, and affection from women are a mere byproduct of success in that process. But to not give a shit is the easy answer, the coward's way of addressing the harshness of life. While it may be far more arduous to stand for something, the benefits you reap are vast and ever-satisfying.

That's what I think anyway.

I give no fucks about society and never have. No women like me. Article is total bullshit.

This is too anti-tribe for my tastes.

I wholly agree on your post. However I question myself the following: How does this merge or relate to:

Law 38 Think as you like but behave like others.

"If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness."

And:

Law #5 So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life.

"Reputation is the cornerstone of power. Through reputation alone you can intimidate and win; once it slips, however, you are vulnerable, and will be attacked on all sides. Make your reputation unassailable. Always be alert to potential attacks and thwart them before they happen. Meanwhile, learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their own reputations. Then stand aside and let public opinion hang them."

These are obviously in deep controversy with your post. It's good to be the outsider and think differently, but whats the benefit of really showing it except for displaying it to women as a getting laid strategy. In corporate work environments I would not recommend this attitude. Be a wolf when it comes to women, but a sheep when it comes to work...

I dont like saying women live in a "dull existance" .. they get to have sex literally hundreds of times per year from 16 years old (High school) - 30 when they hit the wall. Life is on easy mode for them, jobs, attention, etc. Yeah, they even fuck some alphas on the way, maybe more than we like to think (but they cant cuff him).

Their life becomes dull post-wall. In their prime, they are having a blast partying and twerking, with guaranteed cock and validation all over. Beta orbiters buy her prime meals, take her on vacations to exotic places, and will buy her a new iphone if she really wants to.

Other then that theyre emotional and all about feels, which is a shitty way to live. Once she hits her mid 40's its really game over for her.

So stop giving a shit about society. Go against the grain.

Society really doesn't give a fuck about men as long as they provide value or are not an obstacle for people providing value.

Go against the grain and you risk society paying attention to you and not in a good way.

Great post hit the nail on the head now if we can get all the betas and suckers to buy in we can get this shitty society back in order by leading normal healthy lives without the bluepill lies being feed to us since birth but lawyers and politicians want stay rich and cover up fuck ups for women let it be known that they love selfish bastards secretly it seems to keep them wet and interested naturually because she loves to please and serve her man.

I almost after with you, just that I dont think it's wise that you should harsh and mean for no real reason. That's just a choice. That's how I also see life, hence why I'm a shut in 24/7.

That's the part of TRP i fail ; i plan EVERY move , mine or others. My reflexes and instincts make me do that. For example ; a group of 4 , 2 male and 2 female. As I'm talking , i watch my wingman , people near me , the entry and exit doors , people near the light switches or circuits etc. etc. I eat unattractively fast , walk fast. I plan my routes when entering a place i know so i can be quicker. This "list" will go way more but you got my point. I actually love my habits. I'm adapted to survive in a way. But I'm actually aware that society doesn't give a fuck about me , that's the "Truth" Red pill grants you.

you are advocating for radical acceptance and having fun. Can't say I disagree :-)

How's 10nth grade? Hav you discovered Ayn Rand yet? You'll be real annoying, rather than just sort of, when you do.