If you're an American, you're all too familiar with the type of women I am about to talk about. Fake blonde hair (likely bleached), possibly a fake tan, and in a lot of cases a nasty attitude to go with it. In places like Southern California, college towns, a lot of Bible Belt cities, and even some very "American" type of towns; these types of women are in abundance. Even though blonde hair might be a lot less common than dark hair, you find a lot more blondes than brunettes among white girls in California.
Now I am well traveled and I've noticed, whenever I've been to an area with an abundance of bottle blondes, there have been certain things that stuck out about that area to me.
Everyone is trying to climb a social ladder, appear cool, and try to play the constant status games. Friendships, relationships, and everything are determined based on how cool you can make the other person look. Most of the people are generally fake and I think it reflects bottle blondes quite well too, after all, these are the prototypical women trying to climb a social ladder.
Just like the fake hair, the people in the areas tend to flash their fake wealth by leasing expensive things in order to appear cool to others.
No one cares about what you have to say or how interesting you are, just how you appear to others. I am sure a lot of people here know just how bad it is in Southern California, we do have a lot of TRPers from there.
Almost everyone is trying to one-up each other or play keeping up with the joneses, it is that constantly status game that keeps going on and on. Women constantly branch swinging and no sense of closeness or anything. The people are generally out for their own and every day is a popularity contest.
Much shorter than my other threads but just observed how an abundance of certain kinds of women in the area can tell so much more about that area. Natural blondes are awesome though, I love em, bottle blondes suck!
Daddie0 8y ago
Q: What goes blonde - brunette - blonde - brunette - blonde?
A: A blonde doing cartwheels.
caucasianinasia 8y ago
I live here in Vietnam and there's a lot of new money. The Vietnamese want to show off that money. I call it "keeping up with the Nguyens". It's exactly why Starbucks is doing so well here even though a coffee is up to 10 times the price of a local style coffee. I often frequent the same one in Saigon and sometimes there are no seats left and it's the biggest Starbucks I've ever seen.
Killswitch1234 8y ago
Yeah same here in the west, we call it "keeping up with the Jones'"
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caucasianinasia 8y ago
The "keeping up with the Nguyens" is a play on words of "keeping up with the Jones". FYI around 40% of Vietnamese have the sir name Nguyen. Even more than Jones in the west. :)
DirtieHarry 8y ago
I knew it was a lot... but damn!
Killswitch1234 8y ago
40 percent! Wow that's insane
2comment 8y ago
Blonde hair (and blue eyes) is an example of neoteny and humans are attracted to that because it's an emulation of youthfulness. Human evolution has a tendency towards neotenous features in general, relative hairlessness can be considered another one that spread species-wide.
To be repulsed by those faking it is no different than women making fun of a man wearing a wig -- which they hate because baldness can a traditional biological sign of aging/sickness - even among animals.
Both are activing deceiving/hiding their genes/genetic fitness. (Women do this by default with makeup). Once aware of it, it's natural to secondguess everything else displayed about the person.
The more conservative a culture is, typically through religion, it will be noticeable how much less of this goes on. I.e. in America among the Amish. The stricter Jewist sects. Non-westernized Islam.
Throughout history, you'll see that it was traditionally the metropolitan areas that played this up - from Ancient Rome to the courts in Europe to modern day California centered on LA. More competition, bigger lottery winning (choice of top tier men) to those that stand out compared to a farming community, etc. Of course, technology and population growth has spread it far and wide beyond the traditional city/rural divide.
But that's old news, today it's green/pink/blue, tats and more piercings than a pin cushion. Just another flag among many towards LTR considerations.
grubek 8y ago
Metropolitan areas also have more impersonal relationship due to the amount of new people you can meet, so these kind of tricks can work better.
In small towns, everybody knows everybody, which has its own set of problems, but destroys this type of narcissism real quick.
korben_manzarek 8y ago
If baldness is a sign of aging/sickiness, why do some of us go bald naturally and some don't? If it's so unattractive, wouldn't the trait be selected out?
Marsupian 8y ago
If a trait shows past reproductive age it will have a limited impact on evolution.
Very early baldness can be stay in a population if a parent without the trait can get a child with the trait.
VYPV 8y ago
It's a combination of several factors, including genes passed on from both parents (I'm on my phone so hard to link references). Women have two sets of each gene, whereas men have two sets of all genes with the exception of those found in the sex chromosomes. This means that if a woman has a defective gene, the other copy can compensate (think colorblindness for example), but she can still pass on the defective copy. That's part of the reason why some imperfections are passed on.
SouloftheVoid 8y ago
It's a single autosomal gene that is dominant in males and recessive in females. Meaning females can carry the gene that will cause baldness in their male offspring and no one will know without an extensive DNA test.
RawgerOThornhill 8y ago
I'm bald, but I like being bald and I'm confident about it: if a women doesn't like bald men that's cool and that's her choice, there are many women that do. So confidence overcomes baldness IMO.
Rafsimon 8y ago
He's talking from an evolutionary perspective
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karpator 8y ago
Yeah man, i've had the same problem, started to go bald pretty early, and covered it up with a hat for a few years, after a while i just said "fuck it" and walked around without, got so many compliments about it, i don't even feel bad about it anymore. Just be sure to shave it all off, or trim it really short, nobody likes someone who tries to cling on to his last strands of hair.
RawgerOThornhill 8y ago
Confidence beats bald appearance issue every time at any age :-) Actually some chicks dig bald guys. Think Yul Brynner or Lex Luthor from Superman ;-)
thedaynos 8y ago
i started balding around 21 years. Lift. some girls really like bald guys and these girls will start by touching your head as a cold opener, and then move to the triceps. even before you say a word. opens the door for you touching whatever part on her looks nice. then introduce yourself lol
ministypill 8y ago
You will find a lot of these women ended up working in Driver License office, Social Security Office, U.S. Post Office.
By coincidence I found out the way bottle blondes work match the CIA guide to sabotage.
Link here:https://www.cia.gov/news-information/featured-story-archive/2012-featured-story-archive/CleanedUOSSSimpleSabotage_sm.pdf
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DirtieHarry 8y ago
I second this, I'm interested, but not THAT interested.
zilla0100 8y ago
How do you mean about the bottle blondes and sabotage?
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man0man 8y ago
So you met a fake blonde with a leased BMW? What is the insight here?
Drogba006 8y ago
Spot on lol. These girls make me mad and horny at the same time
Fnaut3187 8y ago
I have observed this in Germany as well (Indian living here). There are too many girls trying to pull the blonde look off. Some of them even try to forcefully mention about their "blonde" hair in some conversations.
One girl I know not only fakes her hair color, but also her accent. When a German girls fakes American accent, it's absolutely terrible. She explicitly mentions that she would like to marry an American. From what I have noticed she's just sleeping with a lot of American guys hoping that one of them would marry her. lol!
Another girl I know is from Eastern Europe. She always mentions how she is "Aristocrat White" with her "Blonde" hair. Thanks to trp, I have learnt to avoid these types.
Pewdielockz 8y ago
I guess you are living more in the north? I'm in the middle of Germany, and I nearly never see complete blonde girls. Unfortunately, because I like blondes :D
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Fnaut3187 8y ago
That's not true for Germany. Cannot comment on other countries! Also, I live in south Germany. Many girls here have brown or dark blonde hair. I rarely see a genuine blonde girl.
gtypoDD22 8y ago
Not so many by adulthood... even Hitler was brown haired.
StumpinToVictory 8y ago
Any luck with the blondes in Germany as an indian dude?
Fnaut3187 8y ago
Fake blondes - None
Real blonde - 1. That was before trp! lol
StumpinToVictory 8y ago
Is it because you never chase fake blondes ?
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Raftile 8y ago
Dude, I live in San Diego. This is spot on!
StumpinToVictory 8y ago
I thought San Diego was the sane part of the state.
forcevacum 8y ago
Interesting reading - http://business.time.com/2011/09/14/what-lipstick-tells-us-about-the-economy/
dudet23 8y ago
Itt: Indians badmouthing blondes to feel less intimidated
Its just a look. Dying your hair lighter represents nothing about a girls values or demeanor. Its super common for light brown girls or dirty blonde girls to add some more color to get up a shade or two in "blondeness". If Its done badly it signals an ignorant girl. If Its done well it signals a classy girl. It takes time effort bad money to maintain a brighter natural look. It takes nothing to dumb a bottle of bleach on it and get a shit unnatural color.
Even even the bleached look can look good on the right hair.
All of this looks more natural than nonwhite girls trying to lighten their hair.
Only places in earth with more than tiny amounts of true platinum blondes are Scandinavia and parts of north europe (where said Scandinavian ancestors colonized )
Fnaut3187 8y ago
Hey look. Herr Hitler is back! And he is White Knighting fake Blondes! Chill "Saukerl". Have a cold "Bier".
dudet23 8y ago
How is talking about the class of someone and how it's related to hair white knighting?
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StumpinToVictory 8y ago
Ya, Scandinavian girls love going interracial.
FunAndFreedom 8y ago
Steady diet of anti-white media will do that
vengefully_yours 8y ago
That is primarily the reason I avoid those places, because they stupid affects everything. If you're willing to pay stupid money for something it ratchets the price up on it for everyone. That is why idiots will spend $200k on a 50 year old muscle car, they think it's worth it, an investment. To some extent it is, because people will pay stupid money for it. Same with houses. Costs all of 50k to build, sells for 350k. Idiocy.
While I can take advantage of that particular stupid, the artificially high price of bitchy cunts is not worth the effort. I can build a car and make stupid money from it, but a girl is throwing money in a bonfire that doesn't heat you. When they think they are a 200k value and in reality they're about 0 at best, they are not worth any time, energy, and sure as fuck not money. I'll not be supporting her, not paying for her, all she does for me is give me a warm moist hole in which to jack off.