I barely remember now. Many years ago I used to live with my gf and our newlyborn daughter. Whenever we had a fight if I had fault I would end admitting it. If I was right, I would use logic, then she would remind me of every damn mistake I had ever made no matter if she forgave it or if it had anything to do with the problem at hand. Sometimes I would end up crying in frustration, wondering how the fuck I ended up in that situation.

It got so bad I developed premature ejaculation whenever we had sex. Even my body was telling me something was wrong. I was dealing with PTSD from a deployment in Iraq, being a father for the first time, having my own home for the first time, living with someone for the first time at 21 and all at once in one year. Took me almost 2 years to admit to myself that I had serious problems with depression.

Long story short: I'm not going back to that shit. Tell her what you expect, never argue, fails twice she is gone. No explanation.

Yup same here - I am in the middle of one right now because of this. Get out. Do not get married to this broad.

I think she is not able to see that she is wrong and has pride over her choices. I told her this. She said no, she is ok with people telling her she is wrong. Guess just not during fights? Told her that she needs to stop invalidating my emotions, took me a long time to pass the message over. I will tell her again on some conversation issues I noticed lately.

Some remain mindfucks. Like we went on holiday. She screen shot me the time and date of tickets we should take. Okay. I then booked it. I chose an earlier timing ticket out so we can spend more time there. Then i told her the tickets i booked. She goes wtf why you book afternoon time return tickets (instead of night time tickets) I said, you screenshot it to me. She apologizes. When i later told her hey our last day gonna be packed I'll try to see if possible to adjust some activities she goea on a long speech of why I did not see her mistake. What. The. Serious. Fuck. That why i can book earlier morning tickets out but fail to realise her mistake that she told me to book afternoon tickets. Haven't been so mindfucked in a long time.

I'm going to second this with an actual example of what not to do:

I had an ex that sent me a scathing, insulting text about how I was a piece of shit for not picking up weed for her broke ass one time while I was at work. I showed er the text later and she told me she didn't even remember sending it. For some stupid reason I assumed the poor girl must have some kind of mental issue and decided to cotinue as if nothing happened.

These kimd of occurences continued on and on until I was in complete self-doubt in every aspect of my life. I felt worthless and useless and my confidence was shot.

That same girl pretended to try jump off a bridge towards the end of the relationship during a heated (and completely pointless) argument where she ran oit of the house batefoot. After pulling her off she continied to scream and yell and almost had some white knight get in a fight with me. She eventually broke up with me when she went to rehab while staying with her parents in California.

This shit doesn't get better. Leave while you can. If she's dumb enough to truly be innocent, which she isn't, then she's not worth your time anyway.

But you'll do what you want. Here's hoping you don't get burned.