TL; DR : Being beta turns you into a mass of slime in the eyes of women.
Here I depart from my usually verbose posts to make a very brief field report about an exchange I had with my plate earlier this week. I think it may help newcomers transition to TRP. Unplugged men may want to pass on this one. Not even sure this posts deserves publication but anyway.
So my plate and I are both part of the same social circle. We wind up talking about a Beta. The "man" is your typical beta, emotional, clingy, needy, thirsty. He is also very "close" to women, he often embraces them tenderly and all. You get the picture. Naturally he got rejected by all the women he asked out.
Here is the interesting part. My plate told me that she found him "disgusting". Let this sink in for a moment. Ponder on that word."Disgusting".
The use of the adjective "disgusting" shows the revulsion she has for him is deep-seated even though she does not even know him personally and is usually a soft-spoken girl.
Then the tone she used sounded pretty much like hatred to my ear. You really could feel fire when she said the word. Going by the TRP tenet : the medium is the message, I would venture out on a limb and say that "disgust" is womanese for "hatred".
So yeah, short and anecdotal but still. The disgust women have towards Betas is what enables them to divorce-rape without remorse and to even kill them ( one of the latest CH entries about a woman who let her BB drown even though she could have helped him, terrifying stuff).
Thought I could share.
PantsonFire1234 9y ago
What allot of newbies who used to be pure blue pill don't realize is that any sniff of beta could trigger a woman in the wrong way. Depending on the value of the girl and her previous dating history she could explode at the slightest signaling of you doing a beta thing.
To make matters more complicated, it is not uncommon for women to also look for beta traits in a positive way (comfort tests). Women who have trouble locking men down actually want you to be more beta. Then in the relationship she might suddenly switch and desire pure alpha traits.
It all boils down to being consistent with your own personality. Women will be unpredictable and illogical regardless of what you do.
To maintain frame protects yourself first and foremost.
tl;dr - Alpha/Beta attraction dynamics aren't as simple as you think
Heathcliff-- 9y ago
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^0.8335
dankvibez 9y ago
See I'm not sure if I agree with this at all. I think women only find them disgusting sexually. There are a lot of guys out there who think "ya well I have friends who are girls, so that's good right?" Like I think a woman is happy to have beta's as orbiter/friends, just as long as they don't make any moves on them. The second they make a move they find it repulsive. It's because they literally didn't view you as a male with a penis until you escalated.
thetotalpackage7 9y ago
"Eww, you're like my brother!"
Dr_Red_97 9y ago
What's the CH entry about the woman who let her BB drown. What is CH exactly, and where can I read this?
igottennispenis 9y ago
I'd bet he's a "great listener", too.
2Bait4Me 9y ago
Can 100% confirm.
Went out with a group last weekend, one weak beta male, all woman openly mocked him, to his face and behind it, he did nothing other than take it and internalize it.
SetConsumes 9y ago
Do you remember any specifics?
2Bait4Me 9y ago
There was more probably more but there lost to the annuals of time now.
GroundhogLiberator 9y ago
Can anyone link to this?
What is CH?
Jax77789 9y ago
Chateau Heartist. The story is related in a post about female body language with Betas. Scroll down a bit.
He is part of the altright though, his political opinions are abhorrent but he is very good for TRP.
GroundhogLiberator 9y ago
Thanks, I found the NYT article.
She's hitting on the cop who arrived to discuss her dead fiancee literally ten days later.
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Women hate Betas because they don't know how to say NO and stand up to themselves. If she calls Beta at 1 AM just because she's bored, he won't say ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY and hang up, but instead he'll talk to her for as long as she wants, even though he has to go to work early in the morning. Women see Betas as ATMs and doormats, nothing more than that.
ecosci 9y ago
These guys are taught to behave this way im sure most of the guys started off as active and agressive little boys but momma wanted to impress society because she doesnt want to let people know she was chasing alpha dick at a young age and had her fun so she tells the boy to treat women nice and sweet but thats from a perspective of a old milf alpha widow christian the boy is never told that mommy wouldnt have liked a boy like you but i craved badboys they gave me tingles so any child is going to believe his own mother until he is divorced raped and treated bad by society trp uncovers his moms lies and now he may start to resent her secretly, we arent born to be betas its a learned behaviour so lets encourage these men and give them knowledge.
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Even your mom cares about her rep more than her son. She can't tell you the truth because it sounds bad.
dankvibez 9y ago
Yes, I also think that young boys with higher IQ's are more prone to having these values implemented in them and sticking with them. The thing is, your mother really didn't do any wrong. She was brought up in a world probably where bad boy worship wasn't a thing yet.
But since we continue to move towards a matriarch R-selected society, having your kid grow up to be anything less than a complete narcissist will end poorly for them.
NeoreactionSafe 9y ago
A woman wants a man to look up to.
The beta not only makes it impossible for any girl to look up to him, but he believes things that mean he does not appreciate the woman's true desire which is that Access to a man above.
It disgusts her because he believes the Blue Pill.
In effect it's her hating the Blue Pill itself.
Both men and women ought to hate the Blue Pill.
Turn off your tv, stop going to Facebook, avoid all the brainwashing going on... the Blue Pill is everywhere.
The Blue Pill is poison and will make women hate you... get it out of your life.
SullenBarLurker 9y ago
God damn do I hate facebook. I don't own a phone, TV or laptop so my ageing tower is my only connection to the outside world, when at home.
The problem for me is the nightclubs and venues I work at only post the work rotas on their staff group pages. Tried getting printouts but they are often amended daily making them useless almost as soon as I get them.
Makes for interesting problems with setting up dates too. Forces me to think and act in ways that would make blue pill me sweat bullets of shit.
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Women don't hate blue pill guys, they just don't want to fuck them.
Blue-pill men are good for women because when she gets off the carousel, they will be there waiting with open arms. It is a bad role to be in but many men think that being beta is the RIGHT choice. They are wrong but they BELIEVE deep in their bones that they are correct.
They believe that their strategy worked. They were a nice guy and the girl came around and decided that he was the RIGHT man. In truth he was just the right man to be taken advantage of.
NeoreactionSafe 9y ago
They don't hate the benefits the Beta Bucks might bring them but they do hate him as it relates to manhood.
Women love that which is above them... the masculine.
Women use and exploit those below them... maybe "disdain" is the better word:
It's saying you aren't worthy of her affections... because you aren't above her.
Women love that which they grant dignity.
If she does not recognize your dignity then she doesn't love you.
In other words if she makes minor slights that is evidence she sees you as beta.
If in her words she praises you and demonstrates pride in you then you are masculine to her.
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Disdain is a much better word choice and perfectly describes how women view betas.
(((One Clap)))
5kevin 9y ago
I feel like neither redpill or bluepill is right or wrong but rather that bluepill is false and an illusion that makes men believe they should praise women and play the game in their "ballpark" (read: frame). Neither is right or wrong. TRPers are happy and bluepillers are happy because they are oblivious.....well sort of happy.
SetConsumes 9y ago
Do you feel afraid to choose a stance and stick with it too?
Red pill is based on reality that's the entire point. Blue pill is based on idealism that reality cannot be bent to.
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Correct, there is no right way. There are people on both sides who is right is a matter of perspective
SetConsumes 9y ago
That implies that no philosophy is more true than another, this is a stupid belief.
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Women view betas the way men view really slutty women.
They've both squandered their natural gifts.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
I would say drastically more men would be turned on by the sluttiest of sluts compared to women turned on by a beta.
LordThunderbolt 9y ago
Nah, at least you we still respect sluts outside of their sexual value
WeedDaddy 9y ago
As cruel as it sounds, betas don't have natural gifts. Or at least anything others value.
rumovoice 9y ago
Not exactly. Remember how women value personality/status (survival value) and men value looks (replication value)? So if you want analogy for a man with low value it's not a woman with bad personality, it's a woman with bad looks.
So in our case if you want to know how women feel about beta man think about how you feel about fat and ugly girls. It's almost the same feeling: disgusting.
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Betas are easy with their commitment like sluts are easy with their sex. They both give away their primary value to the opposite sex too quickly and so debase it.
jetsetter883 9y ago
Interesting point, but do not all of us want to spray our seed all over most slutty girls? Some are pretty f*cking hot as dumb as they are
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We all do, but we don't have to respect them.
I can at least respect a woman that makes her man jump through hoops to get the puss. She knows the power she has and she takes advantage. Can't fault them for that. But a woman who gives it away willy nilly? No respect.
Mountin-man46 9y ago
Tbh neither is worth my respect
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Girl number 1 in the example above is nature incarnate. She's a wolf in sheeps clothes, and she will exploit and use the weak and the desperate because she can. She does so without emotion, without feeling and without judgement. Is nature inherently evil? Nature is simply nature. It is what it is. To deny it is to deny a part of ourselves we've tucked away from society. But it is there.
I can respect someone who utilizes their gifts and primordial instincts to see out the best life for themselves to the best of their abilities. I may not like it when a woman uses a man (or when anyone exploits anyone for the matter), but I can respect it. It isn't the woman's job not to use us, it is our job to prevent ourselves from being victimized.
PranksterLad 9y ago
as someone who was formerly a beta, its very obvious that my ex ended up hating me, when I looked in her eyes when she would slap me, hit me, bite me, it was with pure intent of repulsion from her side towards me. Only after a year as well.
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Pffffchhchhchhhcch ahaahahaha
[deleted] 9y ago
Dude...those were all shit tests
Be glad you're getting shit tested it means you are seen as having potential, the harder the shit test the higher your potential
I had one girl just start punching me in the shoulder in front of some other guys so I had to play carefully. Facing her, intense eye contat: "If you punch me again Imma spank your ass I swear" To the other guys with a cocky smile: "You bet she try me?"
She hesitated and punched me so I just chased started chasing her away and caught up to her behind the bar and the rest is history
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Still a shit test
everything is a shit test
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Temperfuelmma 9y ago
Not physical and mentally abusive relationship
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PranksterLad 9y ago
I disagree man, this girl treated me awfully. You're one of those guys who sees everything as a shit test, when the girl looses respect, it's done. There's no shit test. There's a post in here somewhere you should read about the difference of shit tests and respect
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people won't respect you unless you pass their shit tests. It's important to recognize EVERY shit test you're faced with so you can pass them and devote more energy than you might want to passing them. Sure it sucks to have to pass a dumb shit test but if you don't it's your fault for making the other party lose respect for you
SetConsumes 9y ago
Well, failing shit tests over and over leads to losing respect.
But I bet if you stopped her hitting all of a sudden she'd be very excited and intrigued.
My SO tries to hit me every week or so. I always mess with her back and make sure she yields first. It's been a decade dude and the tests don't let up. They have fun testing men, it's just what they do.
PranksterLad 9y ago
We broke up, its been three months, there no way she is excited aboutme.
SetConsumes 9y ago
I gotcha, I meant while still in the relationship. Live and learn.
mykonos_rm 9y ago
A girl attempting to emasculate you in front of other men is due to lack of respect rather then positive shit testing
PranksterLad 9y ago
When you read that post I wrote above, I know she lost total respect. But is the problem with her that she did all these things or me
mykonos_rm 9y ago
It's with you and dude that's OK. It's a called a learning experience- find the chink in your armor and strengthen it so you don't get derailed the next time around. Make you the priority, not her.
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[deleted] 9y ago
Oh? wow ur so smart
So how would you gain the respect back? Hmmm maybe it's something like when you meet a new person who doesn't respect you so you have grind shittests until they do? Hmmmm whodathunk it
FYI read the fucking sidebar before you fucking comment
mykonos_rm 9y ago
Chill dude- I strike a nerve? I'm good on the sidebar. Feel free to get a little life experience though.
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the fact that you throw away relationships just because the other person doesn't have respect for you anymore shows that you're just a little bluepilled kid. Just keep grinding those shit tests, son
mykonos_rm 9y ago
Yeah you're really jumping the shark on this one brah.
No guy worth his shit is gonna ridicule himself to a 24/7 shit test extravaganza. It's called opportunity cost, and if your a man with options your not gonna waste time chasing noisy bitches trying to one-up you at the bar. But hey, if that scores you the alpha dog mantle with your friends cool, what I'm just saying is that any girl putting me down or hitting me in public gets the back turned on them. Why? Cuz I have the option of not putting up with it- and if that resonates then the girl wouldn't even pull that shit in the first place.
[deleted] 9y ago
you're really overestimating people right here. you think people are able to just will themselves to love/respect you. No, the burden of respect is on you.
Except that some people you can't throw away. Family, wife, children...all have the capacity to lose respect for you, it's your responsibility to get it back.
[deleted] 9y ago
Oh wow, what a great epiphany. I could never imagine anything like this. Thanks for letting us all know mate.
I'm disgusted already.
Do you think it's only women who are disgusted with weak and clingy men?
Here let me help you.
Imagine a fat, no, obese, feminist "girl" with an ugly face and terrible hair. Let me help you more. Imagine it's trigglypuff.
Now imagine this creature trying to hang around guys, trying to smile around them and act all "sweet" and "feminine". Try to imagine it for just ten seconds. Imagine her trying to lightly stroke your arm while looking into your eyes. She's obviously fantasizing about having you in bed with her.
How do you feel? Warm and fuzzy? or ...?
Now think about it. What exactly is wrong with that creature? She is a human too, you know. She needs love and affection; same as you. So think about it. Why are you disgusted by her?
Because she nothing to offer.
She's just here to take.
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calibrateThought 9y ago
He is drawing the parallel between the lack of attraction...just as an obese woman lacks the physical attraction attributes we require as men, the "beta" in this story lacks the behavioral attraction attributes women require.
"Beta" men can provide money, security, houses, and cars...Obese women can cook, clean, act feminine and submissive...those things don't make up for lack of attraction. Basic sidebar 101: attraction can't be negotiated.
[deleted] 9y ago
Even men are disgusted when other men act needy and clingy. It should be immediately obvious that women would just as disgusted if not more. (Probably way more).
No, they cannot provide any of that.
Security? How can a weak creature provide you with security? Just look at how pathetic he is acting now, and there's no physical threat at all!
House? Cars? With no security, these things might as well not exist. Someone could steal his car or wreck his house and he could do nothing about it.
TRPApprentice 9y ago
Damn right! Women want a strong, almost patriarchal figure to look up to for guidance. Most women, even feminists, know that their little baby brains and weak bodies are inadequate which is why they find strong, intelligent men so alluring. Never portray yourself as weaker or softer than you are if you're looking to fuck a bitch.
scissor_me_timbers00 9y ago
You said "almost patriarchal figure" which is I think more correct than you know. Psychologically, she will either perceive herself as having to be your "mommy" (instant turnoff), or you as her "daddy". It may sound fucked up and incestuous but it's not, it's just the distinct difference between boy/man in human social groups.
This is why you hear women say things like "seeing my man do the dishes or seeing my man vacuum is the biggest turn on". Because oftentimes a wife will begin to feel like her husband cannot take care of himself and that if it weren't for her, he would be a slob, etc.
This may be irrational, but seeing as how beta so many husbands are these days it may have substance behind it. Men in past eras understood the pride of taking care of yourself as a man, so women were happy to always be cooking/cleaning for a guy who could already do all this, but needed to be out in the world doing more important stuff.
WeedDaddy 9y ago
The men of the past were not into "self-improved". But if a woman nagged at them, she'd get slapped. Women also didn't have women's magazines and websites fomenting discontent by telling them what a man should be like.
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It's exactly those girls that are most disgusted by weak men.
The more feminine a girl is, the more masculine a man she would want.
This doesn't mean she wants an asshole. She still wants a kind person, but she wants someone who acts in kindness from a position of strength, not weakness.
unicorn-carousel 9y ago
My instinct is still to wince and look away when I catch a girl's gaze; unlearning it, because they like what they see now. The more I let myself catch their gaze, the more smiles and twinkles I get
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unicorn-carousel 9y ago
Thanks. Sounds intense, have been using similar methods at on transit at times.
My train line is 30-45 minutes so it's hard to time an opening. They have to be what I'm looking for and likely to be looking for me. We talk the whole ride, or talk for a bit and then zone out and maybe back in, doing our own things. I sometimes use errands on the way home to camp a few seats. I don't go to them much, but if they IoI me and I can open naturally I jump on it.
Standing, many get very very close. It's crowded, but girls don't make contact if they think you're gross, I think. Repeated bumps, arm brushes when turning pages, looking at you. I have the feeling some get off if I fail to open them and board the next bus/train, they come every few minutes.
I've had text/phone calls with girls but never a meet. Have gotten weird excuses and they've ghosted.
Have not done tripe eye contact, rarely get double. I break pretty often, but I think I am invisible to many due to size (short but built, some love some ignore) and BB target so kinda on guard and less present. When I am present I can naturally hold it better, forgot that for a while... hard to maintain when tired/drunk, my reasons to stay in and not drink much.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
Whats the triple convo? A smile from them?
Eye contact then look away
Return of eye contact
Thewelshpill 9y ago
i do this to women, if they hold gaze for a few seconds i'll wink at them. they fucking love it.
unicorn-carousel 9y ago
Thanks, hadn't thought to do it to a stranger but with a grin it's well received when I playfully do it to people I'm already talking with.
kez88 9y ago
Betas are disgusting to men as well. I have a friend whos fairly beta, and the shit he says or the way he just bends over backwards because a woman asks him to is literally disgusting. From an evolutionary standpoint Men hate betas because we view them as unreliable in case shit ever goes down and we need to be able to rely on them to fight or defend the village etc etc. Woman hate betas for the same reason, because they cant protect them
mikazee 9y ago
You do realize that from an evolutionary standpoint, betas would have been bred out long ago if there wasn't value in that strategy. Evolution tends to happen over a long course of time and human history is really short compared to how long evolution takes. Beta males would have to either not be selected against or be selected for.
Betas do provide a use, they stay to raise children. While some men hunt, the betas help the women raise children and would have slept with them often enough that beta behaviours got bred into our species. We aren't like most species, we spent time in tribes and in those tribes men had different roles. The beta had their role too.
We call a man a white knight when he is willing to defend a woman even when it's unnecessary and some of these men are strong too. It's the mentality that makes them beta, not the inability to protect a woman. In fact they are too protective of women, that's the problem. Some of these guys are very strong and good at protecting. The reason you hate them is probably because of 1) seeing yourself in his actions, the parts of you that you resent, 2) their tendency to protect a woman from a good time with you because he refuses to let her have fun with you.
Once again, some of these guys can protect women and are still beta.
kez88 9y ago
Not that it really matters, but you can hate someone/something and it still be a necessary part of evolution. Betas are necessary, not everyone can be alpha, just stating why men/women won't typically like betas in general, and its just one reason, there will be multiple.
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Mountin-man46 9y ago
I wish we could still battle to defend the village. I would fuck shit up
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If a male can't even stand up to a woman how does he hope to ever stand up to other men?
kez88 9y ago
Pretty much sums up exactly what goes through a womans head when she realises he's a pussy and does what she says
WeedDaddy 9y ago
In general, standing up to people higher in the social hierarchy bears punitive consequences.
Nowadays many men are lower in social hierarchies than women (as alphas side with women against betas), so women can safely lash out at them.
Some betas are the prisoners of their indoctrination and high anxiety, others of group dynamics.
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I love having female bosses.
Mufassardytodie 9y ago
I was raised by women and grew up a big ol' fag. Couldn't stand up to men or women, I knew it, so I went to a Military college, 90% men, I can tell you after 4 years of that, by the time I left no one in that fucking shit hole was fucking with me, but I still have huge problems with women.
SetConsumes 9y ago
Plasticity, our brains like to revert to their old state in old situations.
Practice, and, you probably respect women too much or see them as your equal.
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Many leaders of industry and leaders of men in general are great at their jobs and running businesses. They have no problem standing up to men but some of these same men are still terrible with women.
History is full of examples of men who were great leaders and conquerors but who still were bad with women. The two traits can be independent of one another.
Cleopatra took down Julius Caesar
Josephine controlled Napoleon
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Kez, I once thought the exact same way. I have several friends who are alpha in many areas off life while remaining a beta in others. I have met several betas who could physically beat up 99% of men in the world but trembled when it came to women, A 120 pound babe scared them more than Brock Lesnar. Betas are not the enemy. There have always been betas in this world, the only thing that has changed is that women no longer need Betas. Most men hate on betas because they are a living example of who they used to be, and they hate them for representing the powerlessness they once felt themselves. Betas are the way they are because they have been conditioned by society to think that left is right, and up is down. They never stopped and thought that their ideas were wrong because they follow the "Just World Fallacy" and believe society certainly wouldn't lie to them. "Society is looking out for me", this is where society has failed them. It has tricked them into giving up their masculinity and installed viruses in their minds. Betas are an effect of the problem, they are not the cause.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
Wow thats a huge line I havent heard put in one sentence. "the only thing that has changed is that women no longer need Betas."
I never thought about it back then but there was obviously a time when you didnt have condoms. Im talking hundreds to thousands of years ago. The alpha was very very tempting and im sure some women caved in, but the risk of fucking the alpha was too high. He most likely wont supply and provide for the women in those cavemen days/early society days.
That being said, are condoms and birth control the simple invention that completely turned society upside down?
Obviously media encouraged girls into becoming massive whores via twerking, music idols, modern culture, etc. But without condoms or birth control, they wouldnt be so open to fucking just any alpha. Theres a lot to risk now for them, the thrill and all. But back then? Im sure it was that times 100.
brasileiro555 9y ago
DNA test is the biggest game changer
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It is a big reason, contraceptives allowed women to give in to there urges and be more sexual promiscuous. It gave them freedom to explore other sexual options and cheat without exposing themselves to the main risk of sex, a baby.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
Yea, what im saying is that even if everything was the same, as in environments that encourage sex: bars, clubs, college parties, etc - and all music the same - and EVERYTHING the same in 2016, except for contraceptives (like as if it was 'out of our reach' like the cure to cancer - a fantasy we would hope to achieve in our lifetime), things would be so different.
I would argue that bars and scenes like that wouldnt be so mainstream. There would be no Tinder, etc.
How did prostitution happen back in those days? Am I tripping or did they have a form of contraception back then?
Edit: Nvm, just saw that back then people used linen or animal bladder/intestines to fuck with. Obviously it wasnt as effective as the modern day condom, but still. If there was no such thing as contraceptives, the world would be sooooo much different.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
Anyways beyond the contraception rant...
How did a huge inflation of beta epidemic directly affect society? It obviously threw off the natural balance of life with ratios of couples reproducing. Do you think it is indirectly linked to the high demand of sluts nowadays? Or the absurd amount of broken homes?
Are they the reason for a backwards society? Did they encourage the spawn of political correctness/SJW/feminists? etc
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It turned the odds against men. It and the push of feminism led to the creation of sluts. This in turn led to broken homes because sluts don't make good mothers or wives.
The left gaining control of the media led to political correctness/SJW/feminists. If a person watches a lot of popular media, they are brainwashed to skew towards the left because the left controls the media.
People watch the news and think that these are wide spread beliefs while in truth no where near as many people as one would like to think holds these beliefs to be true. It is just perceived to be wide spread beliefs.
And lastly because many people don't think for themselves society is altered when people simply take up the beliefs they think are common and popular. The beliefs they get from the media.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
True. The media is a cycle which pumps it even more. It just produces more beta males and feminists, increasing the imbalance by the hour. I feel like we should make a post about this, but im not sure on how to word it since its really broad.
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I will make a post covering it and post it in the next couple days.
calibrateThought 9y ago
This is a good reminder - alpha and beta with respect to this sub refer to traits pertaining to sexual selection and strategy. Even in my youth and my most beta days with women I would still get angry and be quick to escalate to physical violence in my conflicts with other men.
I cringe when I think of those interactions...not because violence is inherently wrong but I believe men should be in control of all their emotions including anger...if you lose control you can easily be controlled and manipulated not just by women but by potential enemies and adversaries.
circlhat 9y ago
They do the first step is saying "Friendzone and girls don't like nice guys"
Society has road blocks to stop them, they are victims, to act as if its their fault is pretty arrogant
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Clearly I am saying they didn't know any better because society lied to them
kez88 9y ago
That is also true, but there have always been betas for as long as there have been humans, and females and males would have always been disgusted by them. I would argue if you have friends who are 'alpha' in areas of life then they aren't really alpha, and instead are just competent in certain areas of life, but are beta overall.
RedPillFreedom 9y ago
I love to confirm this everyday.
When I'm with a girl, I'll point to a guy. Be like, what if he came over like i just did. What would be your reaction? He's not that bad, right? They get closer to me lol. They are absolutely repulsed by "them". The best is when I suggest that they sleep with them. Imagine his cock. They go that kid has no dick. They don't even see them as a viable solution to hornyness if you were the last guy on earth.
Truly accepting this is what allowed me too quit beta behaviors. I quit anime, TV, video games, movies, most music, social media.
Trust me, dropping all that shit helped a lot in removing the internalized blue pill behavior.
Edit: In the beginning, it really helped me identify with being that "guy". She wouldn't go near him or fuck him like she just said. But, allows me to escalate with ease because she's so disgusted by the beta cuck. In the end, you're just gaming some slut. So, have fun with it.
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[deleted] 9y ago
In all honesty, TV, movies and music are good tools in better understanding yourself or the human condition. I'll frequently take quotes from those sources and write them down if they're particularly moving or eloquent and maybe even work them into my vocabulary or writing.
If I had a dollar for everytime I took a twilight zone quote and used it in one of my English class essays I'd be rich as fuck.
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[deleted] 9y ago
Wow sounds like you have a really fun life dude...
dankvibez 9y ago
ALPHA AS FUCK BRAH. He's not beta at all, hes just changing his entire persona to be accommodating to women.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
Anime is very, very beta.
Did I mention anime is beta?
dankvibez 9y ago
Never watched anime, but thanks for confirming my thoughts.
rubenbrasil 9y ago
Me neither but that shits cornier than world of warcraft, and that says alot. Its also asian-oriented which is very beta by default.
Look, I bet an asian beta downvoted me.
quintoniot 9y ago
I get it we're men its in our nature to reproduce but bruh is tail worth that much
dankvibez 9y ago
At a certain point, I believe if you need to try that hard to get laid, you should honestly end your life. You are only destined to give birth to men that will have to try as hard as you. They will spend every waking moment trying to get laid, while tons of other men will spend their lives watching TV and playing video games and still manage to pull more tail.
I have to say, I lose a lot of respect for bros who have to quit all vidya just to pull a few slampieces. It's like just play a bit less and go to the gym in that time instead. It won't kill you.
Although, maybe some people need a period of time where they just go cold turkey on everything.
SetConsumes 9y ago
How society will warp the kids brain is very important.
Pussy is not worth dying over.
People that play a lot of video games tend to waste a lot of time.