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[-] legendofpasta 9 Points 7 years ago

One of my ex's, a high school and university crush, told me she was going to marry me too. I was such a nice guy. I had good grades. One might say I 'loved' her.

But FIRST she wanted to date the tattoo artist, the drug dealer, the abusive guys and have her fun. She got knocked up a few years ago, and is a single mom now. According to her the father is 'a terrible father' who isn't fit to be around the child, and my ex can't find anyone who is interested in dating her.

I believe this is a facetious letter, written by a man who took the red pill and wants to help others wake up to what is actually happening around us.

I am an accountant now, make good money - childless. I actually would have married that girl, which is the kicker. She almost had a perfect little life, and so did I... but hypergamy being what it is, she didn't want to wait for me to get a degree to earn money, she wanted the tattoo artist's money NOW.

Unfortunately, now that I have money and no struggle, I don't really have any respect for the women who want to hop on board and enjoy prosperity without ever seeing how much work it took to get here. I hit it and quit it with zeal. :( I have become that which I despised.

final thought I love how the red pill has diagnosed and named the problems here, but what should we do about it?!

RELEVANT EDIT

There is an article about this... LOOK:

Proactive cheating is the single Mommy dilema. This form of ‘cheating’ relies on the woman breeding with a Good Genes male, bearing his children and then abandoning him, or having him abandon her, (again through invented social conventions) in order to find a Good Dad male to provide for her and the children of her Good Genes partner to ensure their security.

I want to stress again that (most) women do not have some consciously constructed and recognized master plan to enact this cycle and deliberately trap men into it. Rather, the motivations for this behavior and the accompanying social rationales invented to justify it are an unconscious process. For the most part, women are unaware of this dynamic, but are nonetheless subject to it’s influence. For a female of any species to facilitate a methodology for breeding with the best genetic partner she’s able to attract AND to ensure her own and her offspring’s survival with the best provisioning partner; this is an evolutionary jackpot.

[-] Ortizjoel21 3 Points 7 years ago

But men are waking up now.

[-] [deleted] 1 Point 7 years ago

I hope.

[-] iggybdawg 8 Points 7 years ago

When I was in highschool, one of my little sister's friends was very vocal that she wanted to marry me.... after highschool and college, simply because I was nice to my sister and her friends.

One day, I told my sister "I don't think she's serious at all", but my sister was like "no, she's totally serious!" so I had to explain that if she already knew she wanted to marry me in 10 years, she should already be trying to have sex with me and rejecting sexual advances of any other man to lay her claim and guard her territory.

Man, that made me so worked up, I even said about the same thing on that post.

[-] [deleted] 8 Points 7 years ago

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[-] iggybdawg 3 Points 7 years ago

Here I am 16 years later. That girl is still single. I have a wife and two kids. At my sister's wedding about 3 years ago, I saw this girl and said hi. She couldn't even look me straight in the eye.

I too am surprised when it appears that women can't see that what they want in a husband (comfort, commitment, resource providing) can be had from a man capable of hot sex. I think it's because they are using emotions rather than rational thought to select sex partners, or even more basic - taking the face value of a man in public and projecting it to extrapolate how he acts in private.

Highschool and College was very frustrating for me. Simply because I generally acted beta in social situations (shy and nice), but knew my sex drive was powerful and couldn't for the life of me figure out why girls wouldn't even give me a try, hurrying up to their LJBF rejection. One of my first sex partners told all her girlfriends that I was sexually monstrous, really insatiable.

[-] iggybdawg 2 Points 7 years ago

And thinking more about it, I think growing up going to church, and growing up during the heyday of feminism was a large driver of my public beta behavior - I was taught from an early age that normal male sexuality is shameful and dangerous, so in public I would hide indications of how I wanted to behave in private.

[-] pickup_sticks 1 Point 7 years ago

Everyone uses emotions to select sex partners, not just women. Attraction is not a choice.

[-] iggybdawg 1 Point 7 years ago

Sure. I get that attraction is not a choice, but as a man with a high libido, my body screams at me to fuck any girl that's halfway decent and is friendly to me. I'm attracted to so many girls, that mate selection becomes somewhat easier for me. Since my emotions have given the rational side of me so many options to choose from.

[-] [deleted] 4 Points 7 years ago

Required reading for all men with any self-respect.

[-] [deleted] 1 Point 7 years ago

That was honestly one of the most obnoxious, condescending thing I have EVER read. Seriously.