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Rollo-Tomassi

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Essay here: http://www.wsusignpost.com/2014/08/28/8-bit-conversations-is-she-the-right-gamer-girl-for-you/

Gamer Girl-World

It’s really entertaining to see these guys try to outdo each other when a girl enters that nerd space with even the resemblance of an interest in something nerd related. That glimmer of interest is like throwing a starving man a cracker in the desert most times, and the more conventionally beautiful and sexy she is the greater the effort, or the greater the default despair is for them.

I’ve covered male idealism in a generic sense before, however that idealism (the unhealthy kind) when put in the context of a noble nerd’s fantasy girl – who shares his passions, is considerate of his borderline autism and appreciates his non-patriarchal deference to her – she either becomes something he obsesses over (severe ONEits) or she represents the despair that only an unreachable dream can stir in a man.

That said, semi-attractive gamer girls do exist (nothing more than an HB 7.5 by my reckoning), but most fall into the demographic of ostracized weird girl or semi-goth, fuscia-haired outcast who never clicked with the in-group girls in high school.

Nerd culture represents an environment where a girl’s otherness makes them a prized commodity. Girls who find nerd/gamer culture either on their own or via their ‘cool nerd’ (see Emo-Goth) boyfriend soon discover a social subset whose males pedestalize to an even greater degree than the prissy in-group bitch girls who ostracized them enjoy from men. In fact that pedestalization, that identification, that default deference and autonomous sublimation to the feminine is integral to the nerd culture. So when you combine a gamer girl’s nerd-niche SMP dominance with the overblown pedestalizing most nerds will elevate them to, it recreates gamer girls in the contextual likeness of the in-group girls they despised and never got along with.

Most top shelf gamer girls tend to hook up with the elite, usually Emo, guys in the subculture. The exact same intersexual dynamics remain, but the context changes. All of the fundamental aspects of Hypergamy and social ego inflation remain, but now within a domain dependent environment they can finally exercise their sexual strategies in ways they never could in the social set they’ve been cut away from.

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Dustin_Bromain 9y ago

In addition, women have turned Comic-con conventions into a fucking nightmare. It used to be that comic con was populated only by your nerdy basement dwellers and casual comic book enthusiasts. Now with "nerd culture" becoming more mainstream, comic con has become swarmed with attention-seeking women wearing the skimpiest outfits commercially available. It's like Halloween all over again for these women; they absolutely love dressing up for the beta validation that gets dumped on them. And to make matters worse, they've got betas running around with camera crews interviewing the hottest ones and making them feellllllll speciallllll. Ugh. Can't stand it.

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Rollo-Tomassi 9y ago

http://therationalmale.com/2014/06/03/male-space/

Overseers in the Locker Room

The second purpose in the goal of female inclusion into male space is really a policing of the thought dynamics and attitudes of the men in that space. When women are allowed access to the locker room the dynamic of the locker room changes. The locker room can take many different shapes: the workplace environment, the sports team, the group of all-male coders, the primarily male scientific community, the ‘boys club’, the group of gamer nerds at the local game store, even strip clubs and the sanctuary you think your ‘man cave’ is – the context is one of women inserting themselves into male space in order to enforce the dictates of feminine social primacy.

When the influence of feminine-primacy is introduced into social settings made up mainly by men and male-interests, the dynamics and purpose of that group changes. The purpose becomes less about the endeavor itself and more about adherence to the feminine-inclusionary aspect of that endeavor. It starts to become less about being the best or most passionate at what they do, and more about being acceptable to the influence of the Feminine Imperative while attempting maintaining the former level of interest in the endeavor.

Men unaccustomed to having women in their midst generally react in two ways; According to their proper feminized conditioning, they embrace the opportunity to impress these ‘trailblazing’ women (hoping to be found worthy of intimacy) with their enthusiastic acceptance of, and identification with, their feminine overseer(s), or they become easy foils of an “out moded” way of thinking that the new ‘in-group’ happily labels them with.

Once the feminine-primary in-group dynamic is established a ‘feminine correct’ social frame follows. This feminine correction restructures the priorities of goals, and validates any accomplishments, in terms of how they reflect upon the feminine as a whole. Thus any in-group success is perceived as a feminine success in male space, while in-group failures or simple mediocrity is either dismissed entirely or blamed on out-group men’s failure to comply with, or the rejection of, the Feminine Imperative’s ‘correcting’ influence on the in-group.

Ducksfornipples2 9y ago

how does one capitalize on cons and pick up hot cosplay girls?

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neoj8888 9y ago

I can't stand nerd culture period. It's like taking high school jock culture, multiplying it to create swarms, and then muting all aggression while amping the passive aggression. They all think they're brilliant because that's what being a nerd is associated with, but most of them are the stupidest fucks you'll ever hear speak. More like dork culture.

foldpak111 9y ago

They'll use a couple big words without doing the hours upon hours of research to become brilliant.

bsutansalt 9y ago

It used to be that comic con was populated only by your nerdy basement dwellers and casual comic book enthusiasts. Now with "nerd culture" becoming more mainstream, comic con has become swarmed with attention-seeking women wearing the skimpiest outfits commercially available.

This is an outstanding example of how men pioneer, and once something becomes "safe" or accpeted, THEN the women flood the market. Meanwhile when those very same nerds were doing the pioneering part they were ridiculed and shamed as losers. Their irony knows no bounds.

Relevant:

https://archive.is/DAbfz

/r/TheRedPill/comments/17gxl6/the_soft_shutdown_and_how_it_relates_to_gaming/

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SwagYoloJesus 9y ago

those very same nerds were doing the pioneering part they were ridiculed and shamed as losers.

Maybe because they were losers all along, and still are? What's all this calling nerdy-ass gatherings of waifu-hugging gentlesirs pioneering? What the fuck is wrong with you? Virgin neckbeard conventions pioneered shit.

They most definitely did not make enthusiastic convention-attending more socially accepted than before, it's just that now women recognize that obviously a meetup of thirsty-ass betas is the place to garner attention. They simply want to reap all the attention and validation as easily as possible.

1: Thirsty loser fucks popularized convention-going.
2: Women get an unbelievable amount of attention from thirsty loser fucks.
3: Makes sense to go and associate with them once a year to pump up dat ego.

Don't read more into this than what it is, which is women looking for the most low-effort way to validation. The notion of "men pioneer, women follow" is very valid in most walks of life, but damn, was this a horrible example.

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