Humanity isn’t that special. We may have “bent” nature in terms of utilizing as much as we could to this day, but we are still bound by the laws of nature. Overall, we’re just specialized to do what we do. We ain’t shit.

"Thank you, errors." - Antifragile.

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I will never go back to beta game. I will never concede emotion without LONG TERM alpha deference. Enthusiastic consent is all I will ever embrace. No leaning in, no token hugs. No sad DM's. NO TRANSACTIONAL SEX.

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I've had a taste of what Rollo calls "validational sex" and what the community calls enthusiastic consent. Just recently I have been awoken to just WHAT separated my input in my success, and why it felt so damn good.

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never again brothers. I love you guys and hope 2019 is amazing

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> No wonder so many men go MGTOW- they already know that they will lose this game, so they prefer not to play and pretend like its their choice to opt out of reproduction.

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Most MGTOW men are married, divorce rape, and have lost everything, until you went though that, than it shows you aren't reading, you are spreading feminist lies about men and your world view is what leads to killing,murder and violence.

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Truth is most guys are easily fuckable, once they become masculine but the APA has just declared it a disorder, our issues aren't a lack of self improvement, it's a lack of self love ,

You would select for the biggest, tallest, strongest, healthiest, most masculine males.

So are you saying zero intelligence and creativity to invent new things?

OP I look forward to your next post about the benefits of terminal cancer

SAVED THIS. Definitely an interesting thesis.

Wanted to also point out that nothing bans we could all achieve levels of behavioural development that would make most of the population "fit" (and for fit I mean the same concept you refer to in the post).

Said that, I'm not sure we know how to do that. Even looking at here / other resources, it seems that most humans become a shadow of their potential and get very weird (rather than better) when following this path.

Mental craziness is something that festers in solitude and meaningless anonymous idea exchanges...

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This is a great point but there’s another side to it. Hypergamy doesn’t just look for genetic traits, it looks for status and can be fooled easily. In today’s society, this leads to some bizarre outcomes where women do fuck losers, just cuz they think he’s “cool” that month or year (especially in their most fertile years of college age when they are quite stupid.)

Young women do run on hypergamy hyperdrive, but they can also be incredibly stupid and manipulatable. Can’t rememeber how many times I’ve seen a young woman’s choice of guy and thought to myself “this is why fathers used to select mates for their daughters.” Theyre often too stupid to discern a guy who will be a winner in 5-10 years v a loser in 5-10 years.

So yeah you’ve definitely pointed out the evolutionary bedrock of the situation. But in an advanced culture, there are so many other cross currents of cultural distortion that I don’t think womens’ choices are always reflective of some higher immutable law. In the same prehistoric state that hypergamy evolved in, yes female mate choice would almost by definition reflect nature’s will or whatever. But status is determined in many other ways nowadays to how it was then.

The other problem with your argument is that hypergamy itself is one such force of nature that we had to subdue thru patriarchy and constraints of feral female sexuality in order to advance. Limiting hypergamy enhances overall group fitness and allows your group to outcompete other groups because you are harnessing the horsepower of the betas by giving each his domain over his woman.

So in fact the effect of hypergamy is no longer really propelling the human race. To some degree yes. But not in a totalistic way like in pre history. When left unchained, it will throw us back into dissolution. As it most certainly is at the moment, just like at the end of many empires historically.

The unfortunate truth about hypergamy (and natural selection in general) is that most males don't make the cut.

Thus, beta bux, alpha fux is born.

The betas can still get the girl as she hits the wall, but she’ll never fuck him as passionately and frequently as Chad. Beta Bob won’t know the difference because he’s never had a woman passionately fuck him... matter of fact, he doesn’t know how to fuck properly, and she’s surely not going to tell him... so, one night on a girls night out, she’s ovulating, bumps into Chad, and accidentally falls on his cock. The next day everyone pretends they are good and happy, but Beta Bob is left with a continual feeling that things are just not quite right... but, he can’t put his finger on it. 9 months later, Chad Jr. is born, and the human race forges on... the survival of the fittest.

Monogamy is a central part of civilisation, without it we would be perpetually stuck in the stone age. Monogamy allows gives men an incentive to use their productivity benefit society, that incentive being guaranteed a mate. Most of the degeneration of society can be traced to the destruction of monogamy. Falling birth rates, men dropping out of society, etc. If you rob most men of having a relationship, what incentives are there to actually participate and contribute to society? A man can provide for just himself quite easily. Also you cannot change your genes, so a portion of the population will be always on the bottom no matter what they do to try and change their situation.

When enough men become disenfranchised and hopeless, the only option will be violence. The current order will be demolished and rebuilt into something better, or be overrun by stronger outsiders.

If you want better genetic quality, genetic engineering or light eugenics would be better if you prefer civilisation over stone age barbarism.

I think you're missing the greater truth here, rule zero if you will: Which is that human being are so fantastically stupid that most of them still act like sex is for reproduction.

I'm grateful that we live in a society where food is so readily available the there's an obesity epidemic. Entertainment is so readily available most men spend their spare time on the couch. Porn is so readily available most men don't care to or develop the skills to date real women. It makes life so easy for the rest of us. Use Hypergamy to your advantage and profit.

This is a great post, if the topic interests you i recommend The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins.

In the same way you dont take it personally when it rains you shouldn't take it personally if your physical charecteristics arent the ideal mate selection. Theyre both occur naturally.

Displaying advantageous characteristics in other areas is the solution. The Problem is it takes hard work. If you sit around, dont chase any major goals and carry a chip on your shoulder about the hand you were dealt then being unsuccessful should come as no suprise.

The Red Pill is the search for truth in reality, boilogical science offers the answers. The advantage to hypergamy once explained is able to quantify a phenominon that once haunted those who it persecuted, giving the something to work against other than the women who display it.

all of this is cool but here's the deal as i see it.

at some point, the women who choose to have kids, when they see they can't get the top 20% of men, will settle for "chad light" or beta billy.

in Western society, men are saying "take pussy off the pedestal," not realizing that women have already done it for us. broads are fucking like crazy right now... just because... wherever, whenever. they are doing proud slut walks. thank you feminism & birth control. and to those of you who are racist, that's your issue not theirs so don't get butthurt when/if you find out tyrone and/or jamaal TOOK what was FREELY GIVEN to them to enjoy.

when it comes to hypergamy, it's in a woman's firmware; that's just how they are. when given the choice of happy or content, they will choose happy... bc being content means game over to them; they always seek the next biggest & best thing from men, to money, etc. that's why you always hear them say, "he's a nice guy but i feel like I'm settling."

lots of guys are mad about this all bc now they KNOW why women act the way they do... and realize the true nature of women is raw and feral.

lies, deception, manipulation, blame-shifting, more lies, cheating, cheating that "wasn't really sex," cheating that "didn't count," lies... projection... lack of personal responsibility and accountability, lies, having a LOT more cock history than you think, etc. oh and lies too.

it's just who they are... get in the game or stop complaining. that "sweet little angel" is who YOU made her to be in your mind. instead let her actions show you who she really is... and proceed with your life's goals and desires as your #1 focus.

.... bc their hypergamous nature will never stop-not until they're dead.

Hypergamy, i.e. the brutal selection of mating partners made by females, has made humans evolve from chimps.

Yes and No.

Hypergamy has benefits and is FUNCTIONAL when EVERYTHING ELSE IS ALSO UNCHECKED AND ALLOWED TO BE RULED BY NATURAL LAW.

But it doesn't work that way.

How it works today is women can do whatever they want and men are still held to social conventions of "restraint" enforced by laws, the mass media/entertainment and Big Daddy State. In modern terms, women are using hypergamy like a bunch of greedy assholes.

For example, in modern society, we can't just go around killing each other. However in our natural violent state, if someone walked into your cave and tried to steal your food or mate with your cavewoman, he was going to die. In many cases, in human history, when the woman cucked the man and had someone elses kid, she died and the child died. Or they were ostracized and outcast which was a more polite death sentence ( No, I am NOT advocating any violence against anyone else or any specific woman or child , this is an objective point in a discussion of how humans naturally operate)

Whisper likes to close out his posts by saying if they could, the endorsed core would steal all our women and take our lunches. While I understand he's not being literal ( or is he...), he's making an objective point. Everyone has a motive, everyone has their own self interest in mind, question everything. But let's say Whisper decided to bang some wife of some dude here. If he wants sex, he's benefiting from hypergamy. If she wants sex from him, and she think instinctively his seed is superior for a child to survive, she benefits from hypergamy. But if Whisper doesn't get his throat cut by the husband, then society does not benefit.

Checks and balances. In order for hypergamy to function, it can't just function totally unchecked like it does now. Now someone like Whisper might calculate the odds. The one in a million chance of getting killed is less than the benefit of banging some dude's wife.

We are designed to fuck. We are designed to shit out babies. We are also designed to kill. We are great at killing things.

It's not just superior genetic material in terms of civilized baseline attraction attributes. It's also the superior genetic material of killers/those who could fight and survive.

For hypergamy to have it's full benefit, someone like Whisper would need to die for banging some dudes wife. She might end up pregnant with his kid. But in a functional system, with real checks and balances, her husband would line up Whisper's existing kids and one by one, cut their throats in front of him. Mentally break him. See how much he begged for which child. Then violated Whisper's wife, his sister, his mother, his adult daughters. Then kneecapped Whisper, gouged his eyes out, then skinned him. Then put his head on a pike in the town square as an example.

This is NOT advocating violence against anyone or their family. This is an objective discussion that we are built instinctively to fuck, breed AND KILL EACH OTHER.

Cavewomen always used hypergamy . AWALT right? But motherfuckers got stabbed with sharp bone points and their heads bashed in with rocks. It wasn't rampant and open and there needed to be STRATEGY on her end to make it work. The strategy meant the cunning and strategic use of hypergamy survived and those women and her kids survived. Having dumbass women having dumbass kids because society curbed all rules and basic expectations isn't furthering the human race.

UNCHECKED hypergamy does shit for our modern society.

Marriage, the still best pathway to raise a child under the current social structure, is total shit. Men have no power or authority in their marriages ( Married Red Pillers can feel free to stop the mantras right about here) Unchecked hypergamy sets up a system where children are not typically placed in a situation to learn the skills to survive and thrive and thus continue the survival long term of the human race. Many men who would make good fathers and pass on good genes are opting out ( many disgusted by the fact that they can't ensure the kid is theirs and do they want to buy the cow who gave the milk for free to 200 guys on Tinder first. Do you want that mouth to kiss your babies? The one that was wrapped around 200 random cocks before yours?)

This is the ego drive that often fuels the biggest mistake that Married Red Pillers make - the idea that "This is the super secret strategy on HOW TO WIN EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME!" It's called "Enjoy The Decline" for a reason. It's a decline. There is no win. There is no happy side to hypergamy. Unchecked hypergamy has no benefits. Easy sex with a low value roastie typical Tindered up Stacy slut, wow, such a benefit. A high quality man impregnating a ton of young high quality healthy women, where EVERYONE is forced to use smarts, cunning, strategy and always working against a constant game of survival/threat management, is a benefit to society and the survival of the human race.

Dropping a load on the face of a zero character emotionally bankrupt emotional terrorist wearing five pounds of makeup on her face and hiding a bunch of nasty wiggle in those yoga pants does not make you a motherfucking hero.

As long as someone like Whisper can bang someone's wife and not get his throat cut for it, something is wrong. Very wrong. It's unnatural.

Hypergamy shouldnt be seen as good or bad or beneficial or destructive.

It just is. Deal with it. It's the terrain.

Plan battles based on actual terrain and weather and opponents

Not some fairy tale

Lesser men than you and I have the physique, money, and bitches that most of us here want.

Get it by being in the real

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6585595/Thousands-dads-left-shock-DIY-paternity-tests-soar.html

In this article they talk about fathers in UK doing paternity tests and it’s mentioned that 20% of the persons doing it will discover that they are not the real fathers. But the percentage is high because they were already suspicious.

But for hypergamy being fully optimal for the specie, 80% should be impregnated by 20% of the men. They use their nature for selfish gains, not for the humanity.

I do not mind hypergamy. My problem is when the Government gets involved in relationship.

Well to be fair. Hypergamy is only ok if most men are lazy shits and we can overtake them.

Imagine if Red Pill spreads too much and everyone starts trying to work hard. Then biological differences would magnify.

• high IQ would over take in degrees
• tallest would be overshadowing the short
• those who build muscle fastest and juice become the most buff
• those who have brains more adept at charisma would out smooth talk the competition
• those with Rich ass parents could leverage circles the rest don't even know exist to get opportunities in monopolies

So let's not pretend like hypergamy just means you gotta get off your ass. It is doable for us, but only because most men are pathetic. It wants the best and if everyone tried, WE WOULD LOSE. Let's be honest. We are all on Red Pill since we are not naturally alphas and dominant. We had to be taught something others don't need and if they worked their ass off, they would win.

There is only so much space at the top before the bar moves up, it's not statistically possible for everyone to be the best lol.

But it's good motivation nevertheless to improve your lot in life

As much as TRP can blend with MGTOW and assert we should never get married, marriage has been part of curbing the outrageous index of hypergamy that could be occurring right now. We have planes, phones, trains, dms and the internet providing women a means of selecting and positioning themselves for the alpha male. Without certain civilizational implementations, with today’s logistics women would be draining cum from the top 1% alone. But, marriage has made it a societal expectation that we know who the father is and it’s not good for someone to be the father of several children to different women. You see this happen in certain communities but the societal expense through family law, the need for two incomes and the negative rep of single moms makes women play the carousel they’d ride to the point of fertilization without birth control, then actually have children with a beta. So when push comes to shove you could argue women are pushing out a lot of beta gene kids because of beta bucks. If the kind of hypergamy that is natural to our species resurfaced and the nuclear family completely dissolved, we’d all be evolved primates out there ripping each other apart for pussy again (those were the days). See studies of how countries that allow polygamy are directly more violent thanks to the development of more incel Elliot Rodgers types. So while marriage and the blue pill aren’t natural they’ve saved us from nature.

All the things that hypergamy selects for are good for your development as a man. Lift heavy weights to make yourself stronger. Read books to make yourself smarter. Create a strong frame and be more dominant. Stop avoiding conflict and stand up for yourself. Take charge of your life and take the lead. Build a network of men you respect. Climb the social hierarchy. Kill it in your career and make lots of money. Take women off of the pedestal and stop taking them so goddamn seriously. Act like you've got some fucking balls. All the things that help you get pussy are the things that make you a better man. And I mean "better" in the practical sense, not the modern abstract "better" where you think you're a great man because you've never cheated on a test or been in a fistfight.

The confusing part, as this relates to hypergamy, is that none of this actually changes your genes. Your genes are what they are. Obviously it's effective as a strategy, but maybe the part of your genes that's being expressed is your ability to bring yourself to adapt to what is demanded by the circumstances.

Otherwise, the same genes would be just as desirable regardless of whether someone with good genes put in all the work or none of it.

Just to be clear, today most men do reproduce and most beta do it too.

The one that do not reproduce are the omega that never managed to convince a girl to get a child with them (even if that for their provider role only) and pure alpha guys unable to commit.

Most beta will at least manage to be divorse raped and to get a child that will force them to lend money to the mother for 18 years.

TRP mens here tend to advocate to not make children and to not commit to a woman because it isn't worth it. Theses mens do not reproduce and their DNA is lost for ever. Only if there were former beta do they had their chance to reproduce actually.

And this perfectly make sense. Today a beta provider is what we need: somebody that will care for the children. There no need to kill dangerous wildlife anymore, more to be kind and commited.

Where a certain subset of men get upset at isn’t about the unfairness of it all (and yes, it is unfair), but with the hypocrisy and double standards: men are expected to rise above their genetic conditioning and make modern and enlightened choices, but women are given a free pass to continue acting like cavewomen.

Essentially, your article is a massive and blatant pussy pass.

If us men are expected to rise above our evolutionarily-designed programming, why can’t we expect women to be forced to do the same?

What’s good for the gander should be every bit as good for the goose.

20% of men can't protect and provide for 80% of women.

And as far as betas are concerned, no pussy = no resources.

Woman are the grind stones that men use to sharpen their blade.

It's up to you as a man to find a woman whole you can utilize to grind you into a lethal weapon. If you're not careful, you'll just become a useful tool at best or be grinded down into junk at worst.

Women we're designed to break down and filter out weak men from the gene pool. It's up to you if you shatter into something resembling a weapon or if you shatter into a million pieces.

Its funny half the time this sub goes back to le tribal society example.

a) America is like 300y lmao

b) For like most of the history women rarely ever had any fucking choice who they fucked.

c) Population only exploded recently which means most communities were pretty fucking small. And take modern communication forms away; they probably knew like 10 legit guys their age to choose from. ( Again they rarely ever had the fucking choice to choose - think unicorn levels )

d) Hypergamy is a self defense tool for women. So if they loose option a they ride option b's dick. Thats it. Dont bring humanity's survival into it. Its a plain tactic they evolved for their own survival.

Thing is, they fuck Chad during their peak but don’t get impregnated by them. They choose a beta because he is more stable or because they are in the epiphany phase and the Chads don’t want them anymore.

TLDR- Hypergamy has helped our species to survive through a long evolution in a brutal environment. Embrace it

It is also obsolete - note how most "quality" women don't reproduce anymore. Our species' evolution hasn't been about survival for thousands of years now. The sexual selection algos are obsolete, and both Chads and hoes have been bred out of gene pool ever since civilization was created. Western hoes are but a blink in the species timeline. Evolutionary imperative is to reproduce, not to kill, and accordingly only stupid women with strong maternal instincts, fearful and respectful of men, will exist in the future.

This is true on an individual level, but on a civilizational level hypergamy is destructive. Our civilizations are built on the back of a monogamous culture, which implicitly guarantees a mate for every hard working man. Once men wake up to the fact that this is no longer the case, they will let the system fall, which we can already see the beginnings of. Perhaps that is for the best in the long term, but IDK.

Hypergamy is only ok as a man if you reverse it without getting jailed up.

which means - give em the d , the illusion of power over your wealth and then leave them when the better offer is on the table. let's see how long women can take it.

You miss a few things in your equations. AFBB because Chad has options: why would he stick to one woman when he can have 100, since they all want him? Therefore chances of survival reduce for single mothers, while for Beta Joe, it’s harder to reproduce without offering full time commitment. That why you observe girls in their teens being attracted by ripped tall guys while in their late 20s they start looking for a stable provider. They claim they mature, but their sexual strategy simply evolves.