It's crazy to me how this piece is, consistently, one of my my viewed essays- for sure the one that people find the most through search terms on Google. While masculinity will never truly go out of style, because natural game inherently points in its direction, femininity has truly become a LOST ART.
So much that I only scratch the surface of what it means to be feminine here. The feminine woman gives off warmth and presence to all men, regardless of her interest or their value. This comes naturally to her. This much was clear to me when I wrote the piece.
The Female Ego has replaced the feminine. When femininity was the rule, rather than the exception, women didn't compete with men- women didn't want to compete with men. Now women want to tear down and castrate all men around her, for the sake of her own vanity, and fuck the ones who are left standing.
And stupid beta men are far too willing to get their balls cut off for the sake of her feelings!
If there is any greater testament to the death of femininity- and the dire need for more genuine femininity in the world- look no further than the rise of YouTube ASMR- virtual femininity like pornography is virtual sex.
BBP
The most efficient way of understanding the truth about Female Nature is doing a quick reversal of the kind of Feminist theory that has become mainstream thought over the last half-century.
Women do, in-fact, need men; womanhood is defined through manhood.
If we understand the form of Masculinity as a man’s “efficiency in acquiring power, his comfort in holding power, and his ability to maintain power,” we can understand the Form of Femininity as a woman’s comfort in submitting to power.
An accurate gauge for determining the depth of a woman’s Femininity is by observing how she treats a valueless man. A woman will quite predictably treat an alpha male with a certain baseline respect; a beta-male, always happily willing to be used for spare parts, will be exploited like any other resource, but the place of an otherwise valueless in a woman’s life can be fairly curious.
A woman will respond to the valueless in one-of-four ways:
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She is disgusted by him and avoids him all together. In this scenario, she is highly irritated when she must, by-chance, be forced to deal with a worthless man; his crime, of course, is merely existing.
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She attempts to exploit his weaknesses and treat him as an easy target to thought-police and opinion bully. Should he not comply, see (1).
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She feigns niceties and treats the man with condescension. While this is less offensive than (1) or (2), it isn’t saying a whole lot about the woman’s Femininity.
- or, She treats him with the same uniform kindness that she’d meet anyone with.
The Feminine woman has a healthy relationship with men; she doesn’t have the urge to exploit the valuable qualities of men while treating the worthless as sub-human. The Feminine woman meets the world with a calm submission, and this is manifested in her genuine desire to nurture.
In teaching women to grasp at power like wild beasts, Feminism has done the disservice of endowing women with a Female Ego which runs opposed to the calming presence of Femininity.
Again we can play the game where we reverse Feminist doctrine and find the truth.
According to modern Feminism, men have fragile and destructive egos; a man’s ego results from the tendency to protect his Masculinity at all costs. This tendency is equal parts pathetic, immature, and ignorant; if a man “only understood” that it was “far more respectable” to surrender his masculine power, his persona of superiority, and his competitive nature, this “evolved man” would, in turn, garner far more respect for such a submission.
And playing on a man’s natural tendency toward kindness and his desire to develop a positive male identity by-way of embodying the Good Man archetype, the modern male will go-along with the encouraged surrender of ego…
Until he realizes that the respect he was promised for his compliance with post-modernist social theory is non-existent; his compliance, if anything, has caused a respect deficit and despite his effort in attempting to embody the Good Man, he is actually shown disrespect.
A man clings to ego, and develops an identity through masculinity, out of necessity- through understanding that his success and value is dependent on it. It isn’t that a man wants to win all the time to feel good; it’s that a man needs to win all the time to be socially relevant.
The female ego is purely about the good feelings associated with winning; a woman does not need to rely on success or respect to retain her value as a human, therefore her feelings of superiority are purely to satisfy her own egotistical self-image.
The modern woman wants a man to let her win the game, and then tell her that she won for real. The latter must never come into question, or be subject to doubt; she must honestly believe that she bested the man.
This would work out okay if the woman understood the kindness involved with a man letting her feel as though she outplayed him, but considering her need to believe the win was authentic, her win only causes her to lose respect for the man.
After all, what kind of man loses to a woman?
A man who strives to be a Good Man will be taught from an early age to never put a woman in her place, or deny her the ability to voice her opinion– the quality of her opinion being irrelevant; whether she’s clearly wrong doesn’t matter. A Good Man is taught that a woman inherently deserves to have her voice heard.
While it’s true that a woman is attracted to a strong Alpha male putting her in her place and not letting her win- be it in competition or debate- everyone else on the radar of the Female Ego must be tyrannized by her fragile emotional state and inability to deal with failure or criticism.
Femininity is submission; the surrender of ego. Although Feminine women are typically girly, and usually attractive, these qualities follow Femininity but are not causal of Femininity.
As Feminists have worked diligently to eradicate all traces of Feminine tendency in women, replaced by the more masculine Female Ego, the idea of being sexualized has replaced the delicate essence of Femininity.
Redefining the term Feminine does not lead to long term success for women, nor does it provide men with the driving force of Feminine energy; it leads to a hedonistic culture of promiscuous sex unfocused on the larger issue of maintaining a strong civilization.
The Feminist will look at the Feminine woman’s calm surrender as a display of weakness; she will swear that the Feminine woman not continuously grasping at power will leave her open to being taken advantage of by men; that the Feminine woman’s submission inherently implies a lack of standards– that this submission must mean that the Feminine woman is settling for a lesser man than she deserves.
This is not the case. The Feminine woman’s display of submission is merely a lack of Female Ego to protect. The Feminine woman is so genuinely confident in herself that she doesn’t need to win petty arguments with men to prove her worth- this is true female confidence.
Femininity has been so ravaged by Feminists that it has become incredibly rare and valuable; valuable because all people benefit from Feminine essence, not just men.
Since the Feminine is so rare to encounter in the real world, hyper-Feminine women have taken to YouTube to make videos featuring nothing more than Feminine Energy, that you are intended to watch privately, with headphones, in order to soak in this essence- esoteric in the Western World.
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sezamus 5y ago
Once, I met an old lady, who told me, that she calls her husband to change the lightbulb, not because she can't do it, but because she wants him to feel needed, proud and admired. She told me, she likes seeing him happy to "be the man in the house".
I have never met anyone like her everafter...
ChadowyFigure 5y ago
I agree with most of what you say here, but your conception of ASMR is way off. As someone who experiences the sensation very strongly, I can tell you that ASMR has nothing to do with femininity, gender, or sex.
I can get ASMR from pretty ladies, or from ugly men like Bob Ross and my barber; a woman giving cosmetic demonstrations, or an old man lecturing about mathematics; the rustle of a woman's clothes and the sound of a brush running through her hair, or a dude crumpling up wax paper and having a fizzy drink. It is a relaxing feeling provoked by all manner of stimuli, and has fuck all to do with women.
I do not understand the internet's obsession with trying to somehow lash it to sexuality. ASMR is like a back rub or a pair of shoes - it can be sexual or feminine under the right circumstances, sure, but it doesn't have to be. Sexuality and femininity are not inherent to ASMR.
TRParchivist 5y ago
Youtube monetization, and clicks+views+likes+"omg ur a goddess" comments for validation. It is absolutely no wonder why more female ASMR artists emerge daily. Same goes with the recent post about Try-On videos, or the "Clothing Haul" craze, or similar validation/attention-seeking channels.
My career is based around sound design. I don't necessarily target "tingles" but the fact that ASMR exists, and the majority of people experience it with the right stimuli, guarantees my job security. As long as nerds get tingles for Lightsaber sounds, or Wolverine's Snikt! sounds, or the most basic of footsteps of boots on wood and tile, or the crunching of snow, or the splintering of wood after an explosion, or the rumbling of deep explosions, or (any other reason why SFX exist) means I will always have a job, even if I have to do foley for fake masturbation videos.
Humans react to sound. Moreso than visuals, if I theorize from experience. Sound sells visuals. We have ears for a reason.
ASMR is a human response to the basics of our senses. BUT, it is also easily co-opted by opportunistic women looking to make a buck via Thirsty, Lonely men. It's no surprise that women resort to the most basic (and only) of their weapons, and make it sexual. It's the easiest way to monetize their vagina without actually showing it.
ChadowyFigure 5y ago
I agree, this is essentially the point I was making in the post: ASMR is just another niche internet market being dominated by pretty lady videos. What I am commenting on is the idea that this fact somehow means ASMR is itself a sexual or femininity driven sensation, which is an assumption I see made over and over again by people who do not experience it.
But everything is pretty lady videos, for reasons we are well aware of - so why do people make this assumption?
Where are you getting those numbers? My experience has been that it is somewhat rare. I described it to people for years before it went mainstream and no one knew what the hell I was talking about.
buriedmyselfwithin 5y ago
It's because people who don't experience ASMR simply don't believe or understand that it is a real, physical sensation and not just 'feeling relaxed'.
EdmondDaunts 5y ago
I get ASMR too. It is not sexual. In fact any sexual feeling destroys it. One thing I have noticed too is that massages, though relaxing physically, don’t produce the same tingling. Haircuts yes. It is also a gift that keeps giving. I have learned so much random shit by listening to technical lectures on YouTube that it has improved my overall skill set.
ChadowyFigure 5y ago
Well, I can get it from massages, and sexual feelings do not destroy it for me. When I used to masturbate I would often include ASMR, although I would look for ASMRy porn rather than porny ASMR.
These days I only use it to go to sleep, and enjoy it when it happens randomly.
WarriorMonkMode 5y ago
What's interesting to me is that first women denounce the hierarchy between men and women- "the patriarchy"- and then proceed to climb and gain positions of power in that very same "patriarchy."
They make a big show about "not submitting to a man" and yet they collectively submit to a tyrannical power greater than themselves- feminism to Marxism, and then Marxism to globalism.
In the long term, there is no substitute to a man in their life. They are the selectors, filters if you will, of the human gene pool and yet their behavior is leading to colony collapse.
In any case, the world must both adapt to the fact that the moral structures in place meant to regulate sexual activity has collapsed and that beta men must now compete not only with other men, but with women themselves in the work place. Women earning as much (or more in some cases) than men invariably shrinks their dating pool.
As we stand at the edge of breaking 8 billion worldwide population, we may suffer from a "mouse Utopia" where people are effectively becoming sterile leading to an unprecidented population decline that we might just barely survive.
Once labor is effectively automated, the beta male will become an threatened species. Once virtual reality is mainstream, beta men will effectively become extinct.
Great for the Earth and the individual, terrible for the collective and humanity.
That's just my theory anyway.
Dash_of_islam 5y ago
Plus most people use employment to give their lives structure and purpose.
Unemployment causes a lot of boredom. People aren't that unique with interesting hobbies. If everything got automated we would be bored out of our minds and drug use would go through the roof.
Most people are Basic as Fuck
Idle hands are the devil's workshop
riot2100 5y ago
Young girls are now born into this mindset that develops in their mind at such a young age. Young Stacy will never know that she could possibly behave another way, because all the other girls are constantly staring at their phones and gossiping with each other. Ads on her phone constantly bombard her with messages of “female empowerment” (the businesses doing this think it’s a way to increase their supply of green paper, btw). I’m not going to tell a woman how she should behave, but nobody recognizes why these messages are displayed anymore. They see it and follow it without thought, because it’s “morally correct”.
This is now the default of how new girls will behave. This societal message is simply manipulation of their minds to make them easier believers and consumers. If you recognize this manipulation, you are a misogynistic bigot. If any of you rp’ers here are raising daughters right now, make sure they can see through these lies before jumping on the hype train.
Edit: this isn’t me berating business as a concept, but it’s important to see why some of these companies like Gilette are making horrible ads.
redpill77 5y ago
Women strive for ego gratification because they have no one to lead them. There will never be enough men to lead the women, so to solve the modern crisis of womanhood, perhaps a cult is necessary; many small ones or perhaps a resurgence of religion. That seems to be the only way that the few strong men can provide the comfort necessary for each woman to be feminine and submissive. It's pretty much how people are functioning already, it's just that no one is being conscious enough of whether their cult is helpful to them. So many are ignorant amoral power mongers (feminism) or are straight up deceptive abusers (consumerism).
It's worth pointing out that humans aren't designed to be gratified. Women are feminine for strong men, we can't expect them to be so for weaker men who have not even earned their personhood.
You either have to win or change the game to gain certain gratifications. There are surely earnest feminists who perceive that not everyone can win, and want to change the game for everyone's good. Perhaps that is a noble pursuit, but we see how inevitable it is that it falls constantly into corruption and a focus on power.
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tempolaca 5y ago
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