Mr. "I've never posted on TRP"

HAHA go fuck yourself.

I love sluts. Or rather, I love what they are so willing to give me. They give easy, cheap and good sex away. But I don't put them on a pedestal. I despise them and what they symbolize. But that does not stop me from using them.

Don't use TRP to justify blue pill behavior.

I think this should be the main point of this post because a lot of times I find myself using TRP or simply the understanding of female nature to try and justify or rationalize my blue behavior or lack of ambition.

This generally leads men to feel pessimistic about relations with women.

All of this is very good to say out loud. But let no one forget that the game is rigged in their favor. Things will suck for periods of time and this has nothing to do with you- it's society at large. Everyone will fall and get back up again.

By internalizing what you just wrote the wrong way an RP man might achieve the opposite. Instead of taking himself out of the game he will put himself in the game expecting consistent results. Eventually the RP man gets discouraged by failures equally the same as before.

Internalizing RP means being game (and self) aware and staying confident holding this knowledge without external validation. It means staying true to your ideals and goals even if five plates flake and your girlfriend cheats with Chad. Because you now through and through- that you will be fine.

Now women will live their entire lives running on stress and emotions. Going up and down like a jojo while amounting to nothing. Don't be a yoyo- I know it's hard.

Instead, we talked and cleared a few things up, so now he's doing very well.

Mate, I could use on of your pep talks.

They think to themselves: "I'm worth X and she might theoretically get more than that, so I'll close the gap by throwing some time or resources in." He's screwing himself by thinking that she's more rational than she actually is and he's fucking with her heuristic. When he spends those resources, he's not sweetening the deal like he thinks he is. He's making her second guess him. She's not thinking that he's now worth "X plus time and resources". She's wondering what he's compensating for and his effort actually lowers his value.

This is the biggest takeaway from this post.

Overthinking game is rarely ever approached in the submissions around here.

they are and think they just aren't good enough for women. They psych themselves out of the game when they don't have to.

BRAVO!!

We had the fella, tough as nails, hard core warrior, but he was a little afraid of heights. No big deal they train all that shit out of you over time, so whatever you fear ceases to exist.

Now we are sitting on this airfield getting ready to work, and he is constantly repeating "I can't do this" because he doesn't wanna go in at night, it's a low altitude thing, fuck I dunno. The dude actually talked himself right off the mission and out of the unit because of it.

He COULD HAVE been somebody, and made a hell of a life being an warrior, but he got weak and let his fear run him down.

Kid's don't be that guy, so what if some broad is out of your league or you can't score some tail, big fucking deal, so what. I spent months in the jungles all over the south doing way cool shit, and I didn't get no ass while I was knee deep in crocodile country. No dame is gonna take that from me, so don't EVER let the lack of female attention hold you back or set the terms of engagement.

I nominate "cheeseburger slut" as a common term going forward.

They see the 20% as the "top" guys and so if they're not having sex, they see it as indicative of how good of a man they are and think they just aren't good enough for women.

This is a big part of my dislike for most PUA shit. The focus of the man's life becomes women and sleeping with them. The crash and burn comes when he finds that "special one" and can't figure out why she rejects him; all of a sudden, he's not good enough for women.

Judging your worth as a man by how women perceive you is disastrous and, even worse--it gives power to the fems and society.

Women who are sluts suffer whatever the psychological equivalent of money illusion is. For those who want a quick definition, money illusion is where you get a raise of 2% but inflation is at a higher level, say 4%. You feel richer, but you're actually poorer.

By broadcasting her sluttiness, she gets attention and sex at will, selecting the more attractive of men in her circle. This makes her feel more attractive. However her sluttiness means no self respecting man or high value man will ever consider her relationship worthy and she's actually significantly less attractive. Such is the problem of operating on feels first.

I needed this so much. Thank you.

Recently I skyped with a guy at a top university who's six feet, rich, very muscular, and I'd say charismatic, but who wasn't in that 20% until we'd spoken for weeks.

That essentially describes me. I just haven't played the game right. Made good progress in the recent months, but not where I want or could be yet. A Red Blue Piller is where I'm at. I am a very rational thinker which doesn't help given the nature of women. I need to get to full Red Piller mode.

I talk to a lot of guys here who screw themselves: They see the 20% as the "top" guys and so if they're not having sex, they see it as indicative of how good of a man they are and think they just aren't good enough for women.

Most of the guys I talk to aren't losers, they just think they are because they've given women the authority to decide their value and it really holds them back. What you need to do is assess yourself independently of what women think and then act strategically on that.

Excellent post. I've been saying this shit for months: being "alpha" just means being in control of your own life and valuing yourself based on your own standards.

If you measure your self worth by how many women you sleep with (or even how many conventionally sexually attractive traits you possess) you're still playing by the rules of the feminine imperative.

Great topic, some points clicked but I did not get overall essence of the Red Blue Piller.

they just think they are because they've given women the authority to decide their value and it really holds them back.

So they are evaluating their self-worth externally and not internally, am i right? They are defining themselves, because they get no sex and value themselves by validation from women.

Can you go deeper here? You did at the end and also said you talked to him and "cleared things" up. I grasp your concept a little bit, but i really want to understand the underlying principle, because i may fall also in the category.

Maybe it is just me, but I can't help laughing inside whenever someone puts the word 'empowered' in a sentence about women. It must be all the times I see women talking about being 'empowered' when it is perfectly clear that they are not, they are just shitty people demanding special treatment. Because somebody (like Daddy Government) can't 'empower' you, you either have power or you don't. If you have been 'empowered' it means someone who actually has power is standing behind you pulling the strings, making sure the little girl doesn't fail.

The instant a woman uses the word 'empowered' it is the same as if they said 'patriarchy' or 'rape culture' or 'womyn'. It says she is bottom of the barrel dregs, not worth another moment of my time.

Good post; saved.

Come on guys, the majority of problems that you're talking about mainly fit white women. Their stock is over inflated especially the younger ones. They don't cook, they don't clean, they're fickle. As soon as the smallest problem comes up they bail on you. They're not about you, they're about themselves. Just look around and see how other women treat their men. Go date an Asian or a Hispanic and feel the difference. You're the Top Dog, you're the one that's the catch.

But Cis, my gal ain't like that, really she ain't...

Seriously, good post and thank you.

Now I'd like a cheeseburger slut to go please.

From what I see, the cheeseburger life isn't even much of a party. They fuck one or two guys per year and feel bad about it.

This is where you lost me. This whole post is the sour grapes fallacy, and it also indicates to me that you don't have an accurate knowledge of how the average slut actually lives her life.

You are foolish and you haven't properly processed the anger phase if you truly think that the average slut won't have excitement, free stuff, and a never ending string of adequate suitors thrown at her all throughout her 20's only to change her ways and settle down at 30-35 with a chump.

You're trying to attach your moral values to the natural world. To me, trp is about looking at the world how it truly is without the biased morals that certain parts of society implore you to feel.

I reject the notion that sluts should hate their slutty life as much as I reject the notion that a man's success with women should determine his contentedness with life.

What you're trying to say is that you shouldn't compare your reality to others' reality. Your reality is defined by your subjective assessment of it. Everyone has the same access to happiness if they accept themselves, which is an important part of becoming a confident man. However, insinuating that young men should delude themselves into thinking that women just don't have it that great doesn't do the rational nature of this place justice. From our viewpoint, women do have it that great. They can have the things that we want for ourselves served to them on a platter. The truth in your post is that they don't actually want those things. In the end, they don't get what they truly want just like the man who determines his self worth through his success with women doesn't get what he truly wants. They don't get it because they didn't earn it, both strategies are attempts to get what one truly wants without having to put in the legwork for it.

A woman's most powerful underlying drive is to create the best possible family, a man's most powerful underlying drive is to have a meaningful life. A slut betrays her natural progression by not exercising greater judgment in choosing a mate, and a misguided man betrays his by assuming that success with women equals a meaningful life. The difference is that modern birth control makes a woman's poor life choices mostly consequence free, while every man still faces the full brunt of his foolishness when taking accurate stock of his life.

ah, the ol 'do it for her'. Almost as bad as 'that'll show her' crowd

Your last paragraph doesn't make sense to me. Wouldn't that render every attempt to rise your SMV useless? The justification of raising ones SMV doesn't even matter from my point of view. People often tell me that I should enjoy life more and not train/work so hard. They think that I'm trying to compensate something even though I'm doing it entirely for myself.