I had a record of over 400 down votes on a comment which I assume is because somebody linked the thread to The Blue Pill, Two-X, or Ask-Hamsters. So I will repeat my argument and delve a bit deeper for all the non-panty sniffing White Knights who violently accused me of "raping" my wife.
The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose answers and explains the age old question: What do women want?
As it turns out, what women want more than anything is a MAN. A strong, solid, horny, MASCULINE man who knows what he wants and is willing to go for it without hesitation or fear.
Understand a basic biological fact: A LOT of your woman's entire metabolisms is reserved to run her sex organs- Vagina, Uterus, Ovaries. Your woman is MADE (or evolved) to have sex. LOTS of sex. LOTS and LOTS of hard pounding sex. Her body is not made for gentle, delicate loving. She is programmed to want to be rammed hard and deep and filled up with Alpha seed. It is what she CRAVES more than anything.
Now if we put that fact alongside two others we come to an interesting conclusion:
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Most BP Betas are NOT giving their woman hard thrusting, frenetic, deep pounding sex, nor are they flipping her around the bed and fucking her hard in multiple positions. Instead they spend hours performing cunnilingus and making sure she has an orgasm first.
- The new definition of RAPE has been expanded to include basically any type of sex a woman decides later she didn't really want.
Thus, all you BP faggots gently 'making love' to your women are not doing what she REALLY wants! If they want pulsing, hard pounding fun....every time you have sex (which is probably not very bloody often) you are a RAPIST. Chew on that motherfuckers.
Now on to my comment which currently has 407 downvotes in the thread: "We are not going to have sex every day any more":
I have a very similar story in my 20+ year marriage. ON OUR HONEYMOON my wife informed me (after YEARS of sex multiple times a day) that: "I don't have to have sex every day."
Dumbass Bluepill me told her: "Of course not dear."
Fast forward through 2 decades of denials, shit tests, games, withdrawal of affection, and sex twice a month- an ovulation and a pity fuck every month like clockwork.
When I unplugged my wife admitted (rather belatedly I think) the proper response would have been: "Fine, you don't have to have sex with me every day- but I need to have sex with YOU every day" (followed by grabbing her, throwing her on the bed and fucking her silly after kissing her mouth shut).
Shit test passed 20 years late.
TLDR:
Women WILL ALWAYS try to cut back the sex in order to seize control of the relationship.
Don't "ask" for sex; TELL her what you are going to do to her body and then do it.
- ANY woman who refuses her man is CHEATING on him and is NOT a GF or wife; the response should be complete withdrawal of affection and time until the GF or wife returns- or until you make it permanent and get somebody better.
Not surprisingly the White Knights and fems lost their shit. The main objection from the Blue Pill faggots and womyn was the statement:
"Don't ask for sex. Tell her what you are going to do to her body and then do it.
I think many of them are so used to begging for sex that they could not wrap their heads around a MAN actually grabbing his woman and fucking her senseless. Sorry to destroy the Blue Pill/Disney/Twue Wuv fantasy but shooting the messenger is not going to change the truth of the message. I attempted to engage a few of them with the following reply:
Oh for the love of God read the sidebar. Women are responsive. They want you to take control. They want you to be the man and take charge. The number one female fantasy is to be overwhelmed and taken by a strong male who cannot control himself.
You apparently don't disagree with point 1 (women will always try to take control of the relationship using sex) so I will start with 2 and REPEAT: Don't "ask" for sex, TELL her. Asking is Beta. Asking is TOTALLY anti-seductive. Basic PUA 101 is to assume the close. You should TELL a girl you are going to fuck her good- not ask (or beg) her for her favor. If you show some passion and get really, really horny, then chances are you will get your girl really horny and then both of you can be happy for a few minutes.
Rapist? Does EVERY fucking post have to have the obligatory caveat- Oh, by the way, if she says "no" you have to stop? If the girl is not DTF, if she verbally objects or pushes you away or turns away you stop. Well no fucking shit Einstein. Thanks for reminding us.
Others lost their shit because I argued that sexual denial was a violation of the marriage contract just as much as cheating with another person.
And on point 3- when you got married for all of human history until about the last 30 years it was ASSUMED you were not going to be trapped in a no sex marriage. Of course we are SO MUCH more enlightened today. The only thing men can do is withdraw affection and cooperation if they are not getting affection and cooperation and you want to say that is also abusive? Fuck you.
I was in a /r/deadbedrooms marriage for 3/4 of my 20+ Year tenure so I know exactly what I am saying and I stand by every word:
When you get married there are 2 promises exchanged.
1.You both agree to be exclusive sexually ("Forsaking all others")
- you both agree to satisfy the other sexually ("to have and to hold from this day forth").
Moreover you agree to do these things "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, so long as you both shall live."
If you cheat you violate the first provision of the marital agreement.
If you refuse your partner sexually you violate the second.
According to The Sex God Method, you need 4 elements to be a sex god: D-E-V-I
Dominance: Manhandle your woman! Wrestle her to the ground. Throw her against the wall and kiss her while you put your hands down her pants. Pick her up and throw her down on the bed while you rip off her clothes and then fuck her into the matress. Pull her hair and move her head around so you can kiss her lips while thrusting hard (make sure you grab a big handful of hair at the skull cuz it hurts if you grab higher than the base or grab a smaller amount- all in baby). Choke her while you fuck her senseless (be very, very careful! Start with 0 pressure and just a hand on the throat- in fact, start by holding the BACK of her neck and move slowly- I would argue you should never cut off her air but some girls really dig it- google erotic asphyxia for more but from a medical standpoint I just think it is dangerous).
Emotion: Give your woman a roller coaster ride of emotions. Whisper in her ear how much you love her then spank her ass. Tell her how her pussy feels squeezing your dick. Comment how she is such a horny slut for your cock because you can feel her dripping all over it. Have her stare into your eyes the entire time you are fucking her and order her to cum just before you do.
Variety: Keep her guessing what position you are going to put her in next. Get her sizzling like a steak on the grill then flip her over and fuck her some more. Cum inside her from different positions. Don't be predictable.
Immersion: RELAX! I like to give my wife a long, sensual backrub, rubbing her body all over and gently touching her intimately for just a second, teasing and building as we go. Immersion means the total absence of thoughts. The only thing in the word is the two of you and your sex organs.
Rape- REAL RAPE- is FAILING to give your woman the kind of sex she wants and craves. Stop raping her by your pathetic attempts and gentle lovemaking you Blue Pill faggots and start FUCKING her. REAL Rape is FAILING to satisfy your woman just so you can continue the Disney/Twue Wuv meme.
So my BP frenemies, you have been given the keys to the kingdom and the secret of the universe. Ignore it at your peril or wait until your woman cheats on you with one of those "Alpha" guys who throws her down on the bed and cave mans her into multiple orgasms.
Edit 1: I did not know the shit storm this post would cause nor that I would attract a brigade of Blue Pill followers but that is what has apparently happened.
For my Blue Pill Brothers and Sisters and everybody from two-X or Ask Hamsters let me be clear. As stated MANY times by me and others downthread and above in the Original Post "real" rape is bad. Is that clear enough? Genuinely forcing yourself sexually on another person who does not consent is "rape." Rape is not good. Rape is bad. Rape is terrible. Rape is awful. No sane person condones Rape. Rape is a soul destroying act of aggression. That said, real Rape is NOT: I went home with him, took off all my clothes, got in bed with him, let him finger me to 2 orgasms and he was aggressive and we had great sex and I came all over the place like Niagara Falls but he didn't call me the next day so Hamster. "Real" Rape is bruises and broken jaws, or the use of threats or force. Real rape is shattered looks destroyed emotions and psychological agony. There is not a fuzzy line, it is a bright and clear line.
If you don't know the difference between aggressive, hard pounding, sweaty, dripping sex with your lover and "Rape" then please go to another thread.
Edit 2: I may not have been clear enough below so let me be clear. Since I unplugged and read Daniel Rose's book, I often have this kind of sex with my wife. I throw her against the wall and aggressively make out with her. I pick her up on my shoulder and carry her upstairs before throwing her on the bed. I rip off her clothes. I hold her by the neck and even choke her. I pull her hair and spank her ass. Other times I spend an hour giving her a slow sensual back rub. I may spend 1/2 hour just on her feet then teasingly up the inside of her legs until she is going crazy and demands that I take her. VARIETY!
HOWEVER: My wife is a ball busting, hard-nosed, strong, extremely intelligent lawyer who makes more money in a month than most people make in a year. There has never, and will never, be a time when I am unclear whether she consents. Sure there are always Last Minute Defense she might playfully throw up but her consent is NEVER in any doubt. Never.
So if you attempt any of these techniques that is the first thing you need- a CLEAR line of communication. You can't just go by her level of arousal (she may not even be aware of it) so this is actually one time- and about the ONLY time- when you need to listen to what she is actually SAYING, not what she does. Sure they joke all the time about don't picking up the bar of soap- except it is not a joke. Be warned. Have a safe word etc (Our 'Safe' word is Mr. Mr. Mxyzptlk backwards three times).
Heriion 10y ago
Dude. How do you avoid a false rape accusation if she regrets it? You know how much risk you're putting yourself into from the hard sex?
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
This is a reasonable concern and there are three firm answers:
First, you avoid a rape allegation by knowing the difference between 'no don't....don't stop' and "NO!"
Second, by having a "safe word."
Third, by doing this only with well converted girls- read married or engaged or at least in a LTR committed relationship.
rudolftherednosed 10y ago
Ha! I actually love this advice. And I'm a woman. Although I would take out the "Mr. Mr. Mxyzptlk" facetious BS and probably the "these faggots" and "those faggots," which are over the top and unnecessary.
Note: No offense, but it's actually strange to see good advice from the red pill community.
uberrific 10y ago
I was banned from /r/sex for telling someone to fuck his wife like a man. People were telling me about marital rape, lol. Like you said, real rape is a bright, clear line.
52576078 10y ago
Christ, I'm still pretty BP, but even I've never asked a woman for sex. I just initiate, and the woman responds. Every single time. PS this is what is so messed up about these consent laws - it breaks the age old dynamic of the man naturally initiating sex, and the woman following. Especially for women who are uncomfortable admitting to their sexual side. Lots of women are happy with that grey area where they can claim they're not sluts, but still have lots of sex.
PM_ME_UR_GIRLFRIEND 10y ago
I showed this to my fiancé and she couldn't breathe for five minutes with how hard she was laughing. Thanks for brightening our day lol
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AngstIchHabe 10y ago
I have never met a woman who doesn't want to be fucked hard, hard, hard!
I have used a vibrator on one in a relationship because I bought it to her to driver her mad, hahaha!
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I didn't think Sex God Method was going to work after I read it. But I said fuck it and next time I hung out with a plate I ripped her panties off, stuffed them in her mouth and choked her while fucking her like the plane was going down. She loved it and keeps coming back for more 6 months and counting.
joaquim56 10y ago
There's a reason Fifty Shades of Grey connected with teenage girls to grandmas alike. Well worth the the read to understand how woman what to be dominated.
PersianDj 10y ago
My problem is I can't do this to a girl I genuinely like , and I won't be able to like the girl after degrading her to this extent.
DoctorWelch 10y ago
Using the word degrading is misleading which leads to you seeing it as a negative thing. You need to stop thinking about it as a humiliating, negative act when you force a girls face into pillows and fuck her so hard she can't walk after.
She wants it and that's how she gets off. Yes, it's an assertion of dominance and control, but that's what she wants and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, its the biologically reality that she is going to want it that way. You're not making her less of a person or a woman, you are in fact fulfilling and epitomizing her very existence as a woman through giving her exactly what she wants and needs.
robot-b 10y ago
what you're forgetting is that some want to be treated like that. one of my plates hates boring sex and will grab my hands mid BJ and put them on the back of her head and push down
she absolutely loves it and is the one always calling me. If she enjoys it, what's the issue?
Addictedtoiron 10y ago
I fight against this all the time. This morning with some hesitation I texted my girl that I was going to tie her up, fuck her mouth and cum on her face. She replied with a erotic-novel-like text expressing how much she was looking forward to it.
Do I like that? No, I like to finish in a missionary and cuddle until fall asleep. Fuck that. Fuck that bitch and make her your slut. You wont regret.
jamieoneal82 10y ago
Sometimes I feel like there's a sort of AFBB dynamic for men too. Like maybe men want a "beta" (soft, caring, gentle) woman who would be good at raising kids, and an "alpha" (dirty, raunchy, sexy) woman to fuck. Kind of explains why through out history men were known to have mistresses while still loving their wife.
When I first started applying TRP/SGM in my marriage, she loved it, but sometimes she would say she was worried about our new sex life because she was afraid I would "lose respect for her", and one time she even said "you know babe, men don't usually marry the bad girls".
Edit: i know alpha and beta don't really work that way with women, just running with the analogy.
PersianDj 10y ago
Depends on what u want out of a relationship.
If its an LTR ,once in a while just to spice things up is OK.
But having violent sex all the time just to remain 'alpha' is toxic and as unhealthy as vanilla sex .
Gentle lovemaking , cuddling is even more necessary than primal animal sex to keep the spark alive.
Everynow and then you need to vent out all sexual energy and surely in that case rough sex is the answer. But it shouldn't be the focal point of ur relationship.
If you have sex daily,maybe reserve 2 days a week for the kinky stuff.Sex first and foremost should always be an act of lovemaking and desire,not intense hatefucking.
Addictedtoiron 10y ago
I agree with you and in my opinion, above all, men should (learn how to) trust his primal instincts.
NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
It seems to me that women actually really enjoy being degraded sexually. The more degenerate, the better. Easing her in, of course.
I wonder what in their evolutionary psychology causes that sort of arousal from being degraded?
CDRCRDS 10y ago
rape survival.
all mamals rape.
rudolftherednosed 10y ago
Shut up. It's only by people we like and trust.
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
There is a difference between being "dominated" and "degraded." A woman being dominated by a man is not necessarily being degraded.
Almost all women love being physically dominated by a larger male during sex. A much smaller number of women love being degraded.
However, it depends on how you define "degrading." if you consider treating your woman like your prized possession, or your beloved pet or slave girl to be "degrading" then I agree under that definition almost all women DO like being "degraded." Love it, in fact. If you scratch them behind the ears like a kitten they will snuggle up to you.
Guessing because whatever behavior your describing attracted more men or possibly bonded her more tightly to another man (and vice-versa) so the babies of girls who did that were more likely to survive.
NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
The domination part definitely makes sense. It reminds me of the story of Julius Caesar and Cleopatra. I'm sure good ol' Cleo, being who she was, was used to getting all sorts of male interest. It wasn't until Julius came along that a man was able to make off with not just her undying loyalty, but he got a kid out of her and he made off with the whole of Egypt being added to the empire. LOL he was even able to parade her around as his personal whore in front of his wife and the entirety of Rome.
Talk about Alpha!
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SkorchZang 10y ago
There's a word for that here. AWALT.
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
Show us the passage where anybody said "ignore their protests and force yourself on them." This is a fabricated and delusional claim.
I concede that a horrified rape terror reaction is possible and therefore, a preference for cave man sex is NAWALT or more properly a AAWALT- Almost All Women Are Like That.
Now she may not be like that for YOU, but just saying.
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
There is enough truth in this that I think this warning should be heeded. Some of this is like giving machine guns to toddlers and Daniel Rose spends time talking about this problem.
What I did with my wife was sketchy but that was made it quite hot. In my particular case it was safe insofar as I have been married for more than 20 years. My wife could have (and certainly would have) made her PREFERENCE (compared to her 'preference') bloody well known at any time.
You are claiming that ANY sex except completely on the woman's terms is 'rape' and I call bullshit.
You are also apparently not aware that women actually have free will. For example, a woman can move her body, she can twist or pull away, she can use her hand to block herself and firmly say "No!" I don't want that right now." Having sex doggy style actually takes some mutual cooperation between the parties. She doesn't actually have to stay on her knees because even if one hand is holding your hip it is easy to roll over or just stand up. The woman is not just a sock puppet- she is a living, breathing, thinking organism with free will.
It is people like you who devalue women by viewing them as helpless victims apparently incapable of expressing their views forcefully. You think women are totally unable to even move their body so that unwanted penetration does not occur without the use of force of threat of force. This is either merely misguided or an attempt to justify the old "I came buckets with the guy but he didn't call me next day so, rape."
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sailorJery 10y ago
It could have something to do with rape being a part of what women experienced before society was around.
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Honesty0504 10y ago
You just made things make so much more sense for me. Thank you
NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
I guess that's how the whore thing really works. It got scary at one point. She just kept on wanting more and even more degenerate things done to her. I was afraid she wanted to fuck my dog. The insane thing is her loyalty to me was almost cult-like. It was... 'worship'.
throvvvvavvvvay 10y ago
And that's my cue that I've had enough internet today.
mweiss118 10y ago
Not many guys these days can give girls an experience like that, so when they find one who can they tend to latch on for dear life.
NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
The funny thing is they always say they want to be made love to, all sensitive and delicate, all romantic. I have never known one to say otherwise.
mweiss118 10y ago
That's why you go by what they do, not by what they say. Women give guys horrible advice with regards to how to woo them all the time. Just look at all of the frustrated betas who follow their terrible advice to put them on a pedestal and be open emotionally and whatnot.
SkorchZang 10y ago
Ever read those fairy tales with princesses locked up in a castle by the evil wizard? That's all of them, the castle's called "all senstive and romantic". Meanwhile the princess wants out, needs you to come rescue her so she can tell you what she really wants: pull my hair, spank my ass, make me fuck your hound while you watch me cum over and over, sir valiant knight!
NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
Ever read Beowulf? That guy was fucking alpha. He killed Grendel with his bare hands, got the king's wife, got Grendel's mom, and killed the dragon.
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NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
I'm pretty sure you are correct that that is what she was supposed to poetically represent.
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It goes against everything that we've been told or would expect but girls love being ravaged
teeelo 10y ago
Excellent question.
In regards to 'mutual sexual fantasies', Bill Maher had this to say:
"There is NO such thing as a mutual sexual fantasy; yours bore us, ours offend you!"
Mightaswellmakeone 10y ago
I know the speech and I think Maher is way off base on this one, perhaps intentionally to appeal to the audience. I want to fuck women aggressively. Women want to be fucked aggressively. That seems pretty mutual to me.
Of the women that I've been with, the ones that behaved the best, are the ones that I've been able to aggressively sex. The ones that I haven't, usually don't want to come back.
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NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
A lot of women actually have "rape" fantasies about being ravaged... and ravaged by random stranger alphas.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201001/womens-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean
http://www.care2.com/causes/rape-ranked-as-third-most-popular-sexual-fantasy-for-women.html
We_Are_Legion 10y ago
And be sure, the actual incidence of this shit is higher. Depending on whether or not having a rape fantasy is a socially acceptable thing to admit to or not. Why?
Because women lie on surveys all the time, at a rate upto twice that of men, to reflect more socially acceptable answers, even when there are literally no conceivable consequences for being honest. So much so, researchers say such surveys are nearly always inaccurate. Almost as if... they're convincing themselves of something.
RedPillDad 10y ago
Conducting job interviews, I once used a questionnaire to evaluate personality traits. With a choice of either/or, women would consistently choose the answer that seemed fractionally better in terms of social acceptability. Just altering an adjective would alter the social positioning of the answer, and they would flip sides in a heartbeat.
tastysquid 10y ago
Girls have admitted to me that they have rape fantasies. Heartiste cites studies on it. It makes evolutionary sense. Sometimes when I get carried away in the moment I'll call a girl a "fucking whore" while I'm being rough with them. Only once got a negative reaction and my cock went right back in her ass a few minutes later. I don't pull the "rape" schtick every time but sometimes the girl's pheremones tell your pheremones that that's the way she wants it.
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NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
Now here is an interesting question: is cuckoldry meant to simulate this? In other words, while at face value it seems the woman is humiliating her man by getting gang-banged in front of him, but who is really being humiliated? It seems like the woman. She's behaving like trash at the whim of her man. And this also presents the man with being the "last one in wins" spermacide scenario.
thisjibberjabber 10y ago
Not sure about that, but swinging is reported to stimulate long term partners' interest in sex with each other.
The extra hotness for each other is presumably because the male wants to not be left out of the sperm competition, and the female because she wants to keep her provider despite having had an extra pair coupling.
That's a separate question from whether it's a good long-term strategy for staying in an LTR. Redpill conventional wisdom seems to be it's not.
colovick 10y ago
It's good as long as you remain the best alpha and the best provider to her, which is seldom the case
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colovick 10y ago
We can actively and properly breed with many of the great apes. Just because we made shiny sticks doesn't make us different. We just fool ourselves into thinking we are.
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miles37 10y ago
Source for humans breeding with non-human apes? If we can breed with them that makes us the same species afaik.
Edit: For clarification, I meant breed and produce viable offspring.
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Lions and tigers can interbreed and they aren't the same species. They are from the same genus though, just like we are from the same genus as chimps and bonobos (we're classified as a different and unique genus, but that's just human arrogance).
For interbreeding to be possible 2 species have to be from the same family, preferably from the same genus too. Knowing this, interbreeding between humans and other great apes is most certainly possible, heck we could technically breed with some of the lesser apes, but that is highly unlikely.
There are 2 problems with this though:
The chances of a sperm fertilizing an egg from a different species are really low and even if they managed to make it happen the chances that the embryo would make it to birth are even lower. Even then the chances that a human/ape hybrid would be born without any physical deformities are even lower than an embryo surviving.
Here's a study claiming human sperm binds to eggs from other Hominoidea (this means lesser apes are included)
Our ancestors may have interbred with chimps
colovick 10y ago
We are more genetically similar to most apes than other cross breeding species are to each other. Donkeys and horses can mate to make mules, tigers and lions can mate to make ligers. The concept of a species doesn't exist in nature, it's just a thing humans came up with to force structure on a non-structured environment. The money question, however, is why do we not study this cross breeding? And the answer is that it scares people on a very basic level. We don't want to cross breed a species of super strong intelligent life or any other such oddity.
never_nude_funke 10y ago
That book is $149 on amazon. Is there any other cheaper ones anywhere? PDF?
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
It took some searching but I found a .pdf of it for free at various book exchange places. This was almost a year ago so it may have changed.
chewis 10y ago
I honestly died laughing reading this because of how true it is. In my tail-wagging white knight days, I was seeing a "unicorn" and we ended up not having sex because I was so "affectionate and loving" and ended up being moany and groany that she ended up seeing someone else in the middle of our fling. I remember her telling me she liked being choked, pounded, thrown around you name it.
Well, I monk-moded (I'm not super-toned yet) for a while and her out-of-town best friend came to town and we met at a party. This was my first chance at being Alpha. Confidently escalated things, took the lead. We went back to my apartment and I threw her up against the wall and starting kissing the shit out of her, pressed her ass up against me and literally carried her to the bedroom, ripped off clothes, and fucked the shit out of her while biting her neck and pulling her hair.
Neither of them will leave me alone now.
NietzscheanStoic 10y ago
Honestly this shit works. One of my favorite conquests was a cute blonde Southern Belle. She was all proper. She thought sex was supposed to be about making love. And then I turned her into a sexual deviant by being a pig. Hair pulling, clothing ripping, etc. and at one point even jamming a remote control in her snatch. I even spit in her face once. She loved that shit.
TREAT YOUR WOMAN LIKE A WHORE = SHE'LL BE BACK FOR MORE
MasonJarTeaDrinker 10y ago
She'll be back for more, when you fuck her deep to the core.
teeelo 10y ago
TREAT YOUR WOMAN LIKE A WHORE; TRUST ME SHE'LL BE BACK FOR MORE
...has a nicer ring to it.
CapitalG 10y ago
Treat 'em like dirt and they stick like mud.
Paweler 10y ago
yeah, this can turn her on nomasayin
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magus678 10y ago
Why the hate on eating pussy? I rather love it and I have heard multiple times from different girls it's something they love about me.
I mean, I wouldn't do it all the time, and certainly not to the detriment of frenzy sex, but I don't see why it can't have a place in the repertoire.
pauly_pantsx 10y ago
Don't listen to OP's response here. He doesn't know what he's talking about. He thinks everything in life falls into some dichotomy. Just maintain frame and you'll be fine.
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
No hate- just understand that eating pussy, fingering her, using a vibrator or whatever is Beta. Beta is fine! 1/4 of The Sex God Method is VARIETY. Mix it up but don't forget the main point is to get your girl turned on for YOU because that is what you want. Not because you are her slave serving her whims- unless you want to role play that fantasy for some variety.
ben0wn4g3 10y ago
I eat a girl out because I fucking enjoy it. I don't do it to please them. I enjoy them riding my face. I enjoy tasting them. I enjoy feeling them convulse in pleasure.
truchisoft 10y ago
I enjoy fingering girls, specially arouse them until she ask me to please stop because cumming so much starts to hurt, then y ram while she is still so sensitive.
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tmpjb 10y ago
Sex God Method is shit written by an incel. If you want advice on sex check the /r/sex wiki (not the top posts). Women each have a certain amount of how much they want to be dominate and be dominated that you have to figure out with good communication.
RXRob 10y ago
You briefly mention how this goes against the Disney Prince Charming fantasy.
Actually, this is perfectly in line with that fantasy. When he sweeps her off her feet, walks out of the room and shuts the door behind them do you think he then gently puts her down or her feet or throws down and roughly fucks her?
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
I always thought he laid her gently on the bed, kissed her feet and then fell asleep with her in his arms.
kingjerksupreme 10y ago
"Cum inside her from different positions" No, thats how babies are made...
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
Barrier contraception deprives your woman of valuable testosterone and a whole mixture of good stuff in that baby batter.
trphardmode 10y ago
Hormonal contraception fucks your woman up more imo
Hormonal contraceptive use and mate retention behavior in women and their male partners
"We find that women using hormonal contraceptives report more frequent use of mate retention tactics, specifically behaviors directed toward their partners (i.e., intersexual manipulations)"
"Women who use hormonal contraceptives report more intense affective responses to partner infidelity and greater overall sexual jealousy than women not using hormonal contraceptives."
"Guillermo et al. (2010) found that women using hormonal contraceptives expressed significantly greater interest in engaging in short-term sexual relationships across all phases of the menstrual cycle compared to naturally cycling women, and Little et al. (2002) found that oral contraceptive use was associated with a greater number of reported sexual partners. Hormonal contraceptive users also report reduced sexual functioning (Wallwiener et al., 2010) and higher rates of depression (Kulkarni, 2007) than normally cycling women."
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Not to mention that sometimes, just sometimes, a man wants his seed to take hold. Why waste all those good genes?
TheToeSnail 10y ago
Because then you're paying child support for the rest of your fucking life. Fuck that, I'd rather wear a condom than give that bitch one dollar of my hard earned money.
sailorJery 10y ago
if you want children it's part of the package that you have to pay for them.
TheToeSnail 10y ago
Who the fuck wants children? Do you want cancer too? How about a nice stomach ulcer? Ooh or a pulmonary embolism! Isn't life a blessing??
sailorJery 10y ago
Lots of people. Just because you don't doesn't mean it's the only way one can live their life and find happiness.
redpillMafia 10y ago
“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
― Oscar Wilde
TheToeSnail 10y ago
Yeah, I watch House of Cards too.
fuckwithpurpose 10y ago
Thanks for the refresher. Met a girl last night, all I can picture is her spraying cum all over me, and that is what I will be picturing when I call her this afternoon >:]...
DEVI is a useful thing to remember. I came up with a mindset a few days ago that's been pretty useful: "I don't have to appreciate her tits while I'm fucking her, plenty of time for that after." I want plates who are fun to spend a couple hours with in bed once every couple weeks, so it should polarize me for the right type of women.
bicepsblastingstud 10y ago
This was fucking hilarious. Good stuff.
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52576078 10y ago
This is something about modern Feminism that saddens me - that it's actually denying women the chance to experience the kind of happiness you've just described your girlfriend having.
fuckwithpurpose 10y ago
I discovered this when I tried a stimulant a couple times... pretty much the perfect storm for sex god at the time. Full immersion, fair level of emotional connection, plenty of variety throughout the weeks, and the added dominance I don't naturally exert. Coming home from parties late a few nights a month jacked up added that vitamin D to the EVI. I won't be doing that again, but adding dominance to my encounters since then has been well received.
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17b29a 10y ago
reminds me of Derren Brown's stuff
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djvita 10y ago
nice! taking this to try it out. makes sense too
Addictedtoiron 10y ago
I don't care what you say, I'll try the first part with girls I don't even know. Thanks.
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
The stuff from The Sex God Method is most definitely NOT for girls you don't even know. It is for long time girlfriends and lovers. I think he even recommends that you don't try any of this until you have had sex a half dozen times. Stepping into her space is just creepy before you have established some rapport and attraction.
Addictedtoiron 10y ago
I believe this method, as a whole, corroborates to convince us, men, what women want. After that it is a matter of progressive escalation. How fast it goes depends a lot on evaluating her openness and adjusting your actions accordingly.
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Addictedtoiron 10y ago
Very good point... Common sense still applies. I think of a bar or nightclub where you use this to standout and cause a strong first impression while being prepared to de-escalate quickly to avoid bad consequences.
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Addictedtoiron 10y ago
Sorry to hear that bro. I get compared to Johnny Depp so much that I started using that in my advantage, asking for his haircut and taking some inspiration from the way he dresses.
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SoftHarem 10y ago
We aren't here to validate your vagina. Seek attention elsewhere.
catipillar 10y ago
My vagina's cool, thanks. I don't need your validation. Though my comment certainly does serve to validate the validity of the post!
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
Get the Sex God Method for your BF already! It will change your life, and his.
TheToeSnail 10y ago
Alright, you are definitely profiting from this "method". Not sure if it's a book or what, but you need to stop being a fucking shill. The concepts are sound, but there's no fucking reason you need to be making money off of it.
SkorchZang 10y ago
That book's pretty damn old (e-product from the early 90ies I believe), and might not even be for sale nowadays. The pdf's of it are floating around, and that's mainly why it's legendary on TRP.
TheSKSpecial 10y ago
Pretty much anybody that's been on TRP for more than a couple months will recommend that book and a handful of others.
Patriarchal_Bondage 10y ago
You think Bluepillprofessor is Daniel Rose? Unlikely, just because he strongly supports the ebook.
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
Shit I wish! I hope to write another book that tops off MMSL with The Sex God Method, Dread, and some Neuro-Linguistic Programming but that will not get done for a couple years, at least.
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SoftHarem 10y ago
Would your husband want you speaking like this to tens of thousands of male strangers on the internet? Save it for the rest of Reddit.
crossroads95 10y ago
Very good in depth post, i am currently reading sex god method and it all makes sense to me.
But guys, my dick is 5.4 inches by 4.75. I find that the last time i tried doggy i couldn't get it in, and thats led me be afraid of trying it again.
Also i don't feel my size is enough to make her scream.
Do any of you guys have a dick size similar to mine? If so, do you manage awesome sex?
SkorchZang 10y ago
Who gives a fuck. Women don't get all screamy because of dick sizes, they get that way because of emotional overload. Caused by her digesting and fully experiencing just what kind of man she's with.
Done right, you could have no dick at all, and still fuck her brains out and make her scream. I am assuming you still have use of at least one digit, or something.
The feeling of being somehow inadequate is a much bigger problem than the actual size card you've been dealt by mother nature, bro. The women's ability to sense any little insecurity is just astounding. Think about it. How infuriating would it be to go through life feeling shitty about this, only to find out at some point that right next door to you there's some mutant dickhead mentally retarded kid who's got a 1" mini jack prick, yet he gets all the honeys dripping and laughs about it cause he's too dim to know any better & worry about it?
crossroads95 10y ago
i find it hard to imagine that because i've never really been charming in a way to make them feel like that.
I've got a prospective plate coming over next week. I'll just go for it
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
While not ideal and truth said you will be unable to satisfy a few girls who demand the deep pounding, the larger truth is you only disqualify a few. Take heart. I would say it is statistically no worse than being about 5'8" in height. Also, the doggy thing can be tricky depending on your respective thigh lengths. It had nothing to do with your dick size. You have to move her into position, finger her from behind, and move her hips till you get a good target. That is unless, ahem, there were some large fleshy folds in the way..
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agumonkey 10y ago
Reminds me of a girl, whose safe confident I became, telling me about 50 shades of grey and slightly rough stuff and how her man wasn't into that.
I also thought about their first years together where he would be quite abusive verbally (hothead). I hated the guy for being such an ass with a girl like her (hello white knight), but she wouldn't argue the slightest.
Nowadays he's much more calm, I find him easier to deal with, and now she jokes about getting a flat for herself and her daughters.
Tiny hints almost convincing me that TRP/OP have some truth. People are weird, life is weird.
Locastor 10y ago
You were downvoted because they hate hearing the truth about themselves.
Reminder to everyone, these are the kind of Pill relationships that BP top posters are in and loving:
http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/1018985
thesixthone 10y ago
Reading that was like listening to a bunch of Emma Watsons
Rumble_in_the_Jungle 10y ago
Hah. In the most typical TRP relationship but she's still strong and independent and unique.
curiousthis 10y ago
Look at what I say and ignore the fact that I'm doing exactly the opposite.
BP training skills are strong in that one. Remember folks, women need an endless supply of BPillers to be their emotional tampons.
DoctorWelch 10y ago
War is Peace. Freedom is Slavery. Ignorance is Strength.
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ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST 10y ago
Never listen to women or beta men.
dreckmal 10y ago
The doublethink is strong with these dumbasses.
RojoEscarlata 10y ago
That might be one of the most hamstered text I've ever seen.
She is pretty much accepting that a traditional approach is working well for her, and her "alpha" husband, but in the same paragraph she claims that this has only worked for her buy will not work for everyone else.
Which makes me wonder, how they cannot see the hypocrisy on her words.
myrptaway 10y ago
Fuck it.. Automod deleted my comment. Go through her comments and she admits to having a rape fantasy and doesn't know why haha
Edit: and she likes to be face fucked and has a lot of other weird fetishes.
I bet my left nut she is a fatty
Edit 2: yup I found her nudes she is fat and gross as fuck.
Looks like she is an alcoholic wtf
someoneofimportance 10y ago
Posted 4 months ago but holy shit hahahah you're post history scouring is on point!
TheBoldakSaints 10y ago
All this talk about rape and I'm just sitting here murderin'.
brownishRed 10y ago
The same book also has a quote that I am paraphrasing
If she wants you to have sex with her then she'll want you to want her back.
Similarly getting attention from a guy who she likes is a turn on but attention from a guy who she doesn't like is creepy
52576078 10y ago
Can confirm, the "lose control" thing is a huge turn-on for many women I have known.
Agent1407 10y ago
I spent 29 years of my life doing "gentle lovemaking" and trying to please women. Then I read like 1/4 of the sex god method and decided to try.
I am fucking a girl for two months and she still can't figure out why she gets so whet when we fuck.
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
The very first time I tried one of these techniques was while I was getting ready to fuck my wife from behind. She was on her knees in front of me bent over and said: "You better get some lube, I am not ready."
Instead of jumping up to look for the KY I slapped her ass hard and responded in a deep, raspy voice: "We don't need lube babe, this is going all the way in." As I went to stick it in her I could not believe how her pussy suddenly exploded in a flood! Now we need to have a towel on hand when we have sex or she is likely to drip right through the sheets. Thanks Sex God Method!
urmomsacct 10y ago
Haha, I LOLd at this one! Best comment ever.
workntwerk 10y ago
You seem desperate to defend your downvoted post and it makes you come off like a little bitch.
"I made super gud point about fucking but bluepill pussies and faggots waaaaaah"
It's the same shit as when a guy edits his post on any other subreddit going "le downvotes?!?"
Just make your point and move on. If it's a good point that got buried, make it somewhere else. Just leave your rag at home when you make the new post.
armenia4ever 10y ago
The 3 girls I've slept with were all into rough sex. There is something there.
Siiimo 10y ago
If real rape is not having sex with someone, what would you like to call forcing someone to have sex with you?
Chavagnatze 10y ago
So it's a spectrum. On either end, its rape. In the middle, it's gold.
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
I would also call that rape. What would you call it?
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fueledbysatan 10y ago
This is the DUMBEST fucking thing i've ever read in the 4 years of being on Reddit.
SickSadWorId 10y ago
Yeah if she says "Let's stop I don't feel comfortable with this" you don't go "well I should continue and just get a lot rougher, that way she'll like it and be more into it" The fuck are you thinking spouting this shit?
brownishRed 10y ago
The same book also has a quote that I am paraphrasing
If she wants you to have sex with her then she'll want you to want her back.
Similarly getting attention from a guy who she likes is a turn on but attention from a guy who she doesn't like is creepy
Ronald_Reagan_Reddit 10y ago
Your post about the sex good method and "rape" was removed. Any mirror?
Azrael_Manatheren 10y ago
Honestly this is true(only part I disagreed with is oral sex. I fucking love to give my girl cunnilingus), but men want the same shit as well with a different emphasis.
Tell me you dont love it if you wake up with your woman riding on your cock. She didnt ask, you going to ask her to stop? Fuck no. She ties you up and has her way with you.
Sure you should pay her back the favor. And asking for sex is such a turn off I wonder how people have relationships if they have to ask for it.
robot-b 10y ago
Yeh i can't imagine how this comes about.
Or you could end up with this. I also like how he sleeps on his side with his back to her, this is a tactic I use all the time
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limbooo 10y ago
This is how it is. Those BPillers are really the delusional ones about how things work in the real world.
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
This may very well be true of many gay men, especially 'bottoms' but I am just guessing. I would say this belonged in /r/alttrp if you were not trying to make some point that all of us missed because we know that men and women ARE ACTUALLY DIFFERENT. Sorry to disappoint you equalitarian Marxists but it is true.
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spicy_fries 10y ago
That's because only a small percentage of the society is sexually deranged.
And if you are saying that "most men have some gay tendencies and want to try it out" ...
That right there is why homo culture needs to be curtailed, not encouraged and pushed into the mainstream. You actually believe you have the moral high ground to project your sexual deviancy onto "most men." You are under the delusion that everyone is like you to some degree. That it's something that can be explored.
So which is it then? Are you born gay and it cannot be changed? Or are we all a little gay and we need to explore. But if you suggest that homos explore heterosexuality everyone flips their shit, "OMFG!!! Conversion therapy!"
Why are you chasing after straight guys? Are you as repulsed by homos as I am?
I can assure you that "most men" don't want a dick in their ass. They don't want to get up close and personal with another man's hairy butthole.
You have the freedom to be a foul human being and I have the freedom to be thoroughly disgusted with you.
But don't try to tell me that I am like you. You are on your own.
Thirteen_Days 10y ago
I would bet money that you would bend over in front of me and scream for more before we were done. You obviously are beta as fuck.
spicy_fries 10y ago
Well, if you didn't hate me then you'd have to go back to hating yourself.
The next time you are staring at your cum-covered face in the mirror just whisper:
"This is normal." "This is normal." "This is normal."
It's the only thing that will keep your delusional world from imploding.
Adroxiom 10y ago
God, I love this thread. I was just gonna come in here and ask about sex; BOOM! Answered my questions.
RedPillSafe 10y ago
Immersion and Variety are very important and most ignored.
Don't do the same boring routine over and over. Change the timing, the position, basically you want to keep her perpetually following and not being totally sure where you are going.
You must be "in it" and naturally flowing. Even if you get the variety part right it can still seem robotic if aren't yourself into it.
I'd add that women have a role to play here too. Positive resistance means they physically interact with you. Ideally the woman follows your lead, but they are just a slight step behind so it feels like resistance. No one likes a girl that justs sits there, but the opposite of literally "catching" everything you are "throwing" is unsettling and a turnoff too. It's best when her timing is just slightly behind yours. (I've used a dance metaphor that is similiar)
Women do like some mental games with their emotions too.
Personally I think the shock value of the "extreme" stuff, the hair pulling and all, is a nice addition to your toolset, but don't go overboard. That's like salt and pepper on your meal, some is good, but too much ruins the food. Also, that stuff tends to require escalation so at some point you have to get into weirder and weirder things. That (to me) is like people doing bisexual or homosexual or tranny like weird stuff, it's not required so I'd say steer clear of it. I know, I'm being a prude.
Remember that for women you are breaking her defenses. The goal is to obliterate her innermost secret place and when you get there she will love you passionately. A woman seeks to be "found" as she runs away.
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Kaelteth 10y ago
No, he isn't.
He is literally condoning fucking your woman good and hard. He is advocating that you don't be a fucking pussy and sit there begging to get laid.
There is NOTHING and I mean NOTHING in his post that even remotely suggests fucking a woman against her will. It is entirely the correct way to be a fucking man in a relationship.
If you see this as condoning rape, then bluntly you're still plugged in. You haven't learnt a fucking thing yet grasshopper.
curiousthis 10y ago
No he's not. If you can't see the difference between:
lets have sex please, please please
and
we're having sex now
You need to go back and read the post again. I also find it amusing that you automatically assume that if the woman says no that OP will continue and not stop. Says a lot more about you than it does about OP.
mrmgscott 10y ago
Did you really not understand the whole fucking point of the post?
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Kardlonoc 10y ago
If you use submissive language, you won't even get on dates with most women. Using "should" instead of "could" for example. Locked in states of indecisive choices she and you have to make. Its not even masculine or feminine, its immature that you ask like a child when you want to do something. Women and girls don't like that. They deal with subtly bullshit with all their women on women interactions in their life. For a straight woman a man making choices and being straight forward is both annoying and a refreshing pace. Them wanting to be desired and sexed, not passed off as a matter of fact or always asking for permission like a kid would because thats "nice" and "polite". Woman might like that for a moment but they quickly get bored with that because a man who always asks is easy and they can have at any time. You run into "bluepill" men women like to control because they offer something else like money, emotional support, or mostly one way bedrooms. Eventually for them, its becomes a matter of eating cake and having it too because the relationship is like that.
Telling a woman something, or telling anyone something, is still giving them a choice...but its in a directed matter with the real possbility of reprcussions... in this instance it would be just denying sex. If you just ask someone you give them the power to make a choice, which is fine most of the time, but the way humans are they don't always want choice. Choice is bad, im going to get into it but watch this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VO6XEQIsCoM
limiting peoples choices is a good thing. There is a certain freedom to it. Its not perfect but knowing only one way to go, is better than deciding over a hundred choices.
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BluepillProfessor 10y ago
Deficient reading skills or Blind Blue Pill? You decide.
PersianDj 10y ago
So if she says stop ,you stop?
Because she wont be able to physically push you away on account of u being much bigger than her.
And you can 'ask' you know.Be charming about it.
Pushing her to a wall and cornering her every time you feel horny is fucking bullish.She may like it once in a while but not always.
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Seriously, anyone with a room temperature IQ or above can tell when a woman is pushing you away versus PUSHING YOU AWAY. It does not matter how much bigger you are, you can tell when she means it and when she doesn't. On those rare occasions that it is hard to tell, back off while teasing her about it; she'll either take the bait and become the aggressor momentarily, or she will be relieved and happy that you defused a potentially emotional situation with humour. (If she does not react that way, next that chick so fast it makes her head spin.)
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
The problem is what happens afterwards when they get into a fight because: Hamster.
PersianDj 10y ago
Have u ever had a 6'5 jacked gay dude corner you?
You'll be mortified and shitless scared to do anything about it and by the time you realise,it would be too late . Physically being imposed by someone is really emasculating.Your mind stops working and u just go with the flow.
There are cases where women have orgasmed when they were being raped.Doesn't make it acceptable.
If something as simple as consent turns her off, she isn't physically attracted to u in the first place.
Free_skier 10y ago
It's a talk I often had with girls because I seriously prefer to be nice. But the conclusion is always the same. Asking for a kiss or whatever can be cute, comfortable or nice but not charming/exciting. Apart if it is a crush/model and in this case whatever he says would be charming.
Real question. How can you be charming about it? I am seriously interested to know a serious alternative which will excite women as much as when I play it "alpha".
PersianDj 10y ago
You made your point.
Work on ur looks and body.
If a ripped gorgeous guy asks for a kiss , she'd be delighted. All this game bullshit is unnecessary if she gets wet just by smelling you.
BluepillProfessor 10y ago
This is absolutely correct:
VARIETY
And yah, if the girl says no it is kinda sorta the law that you have to stop. Can't we just assume that? Jeez.
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You have nailed that point home a few times and I'm glad. It is fucking insulting that it is not assumed, and I think it may be the product of the genderist propaganda campaign. I consider it very insulting when someone does not assume we mean to avoid actual rape. Hell, I consider it hate speech to suggest that men need to be taught not to rape.
Of course, they don't actually mean "men need to be taught not to force a women to have sex when she is clearly indicating that she does not want to or is unconscious." They mean "men need to be taught not to even attempt to break down LMR, not to misrepresent themselves in any way in order to get laid, not to do anything a girl dislikes that might make her regret the sex, not to dare to imagine being the equal of a woman, not to think that having sex with a woman does not create an obligation to her that extends beyond the act itself, not to be unattractive."
Men need to be taught not to defy female gender supremacy in the sexual arena. That's what "men need to be taught not to rape" really means.