tl;dr
A 24 year old, reasonably attractive woman hires a male escort to a dinner party and is universally praised.
I Hired A Male Escort To Attend A Dinner Party… Here’s What Happened
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I was recently perusing facebook when I found this gem. An Indian-American 24 year old writer has an upcoming dinner party to attend. She feels she's being pressured into finding a guy by her culture and family. She admits that she is both "perpetually single" and has a "penchant for dating unavailable men". While trying to find someone for this event, she considers her options; Tinder, picking up someone at a bar, or having a gay friend pretend to be straight. None of these appeal to her, so she decides to hire a male hooker. Sounds reasonable. /s
She sets her sights on Rent A Gent. She's looking for someone at least 6', light or brown hair, and Caucasian; your classic, cookie-cutter alpha. The agency is able to find her someone matching her tastes and Alec is set to be her date.
At the event, Alec is the center of the party. All the girls want him and all the guys want to know him. Her cousin's friend, whom she's had a crush on for a while, is made jealous. She feels very comfortable with her hooker and even starts to get some fealz for him. At the end of the night, he invites her to his apartment, but she declines, stating she wouldn't be able to forgive herself (she's a lady, remember?). As the night ends, Alec mentions that he's not going to charge her for the two extra hours he spent with her and she's left with only a $150 bill.
At the end of the article, she reminisces about the night saying, "I find myself missing the idea of the man more than I miss the actual man". Will she ever hire another hooker? "Never say never."
The comments are universally in praise for this girl's actions. They lament the fact that she didn't end up with this prostitute, as it sounded like true love.
My thoughts
Again, Elite Daily never fails to amaze and awe me. What the actual f*ck? There are numerous RP examples and thoughts in this article and I'll summarize those below, but first, let's just sit back and talk about this.
My first thought was "why does this reasonably attractive woman need to get a escort?" In my book she's a solid HB7. The truth is, she's probably had lots of decent guys ask her out over the years. However, the ones she was interested in weren't "available". Not being able to find an alpha that will stick around, and not willing to debase herself with the presence of a beta, she literally hires an alpha to accompany her to the party. That's right, she'd rather pay for a date than take someone less than her ideal man.
My second thought was about role reversal. What if you or I had wrote his article? What if we hired a hooker to attend a party with us? Would we be praised for this? F*ck no. A guy would be lambasted with insults and accusations of objectifying women. Also, those last two hours would most certainly have NOT been free and the total bill would be more along the lines of $1500 for an equally attractive girl. The hypocrisy is unreal.
Lessons Learned
- A woman would rather pay for an alpha than date a beta
- A woman may feel the pressure from her culture, family, and biological clock, but would still rather go after "unavailable" guys instead of someone close to her own SMV.
- A woman craves the validation from her crushes and peers over a real relationship. A relationship is simply the means to this end.
- A woman loves the idea of a man; not the man himself.
- Women are capable of hamstering away even hiring a hooker and are totally oblivious to the apparent hypocrisy in this.
greencrack 8y ago
If a guy did/does this other women get jealous, even if they know it's a hooker. So they ridicule not high five.
evileddy 8y ago
She got to experience what every man here has experienced in dating... paying for every thing and no sex at the end.
CornyHoosier 8y ago
She definitely fucked that guy. She doesn't wasn't to proclaim her sluttiness to the world.
But seriously ... this shit ain't Pretty Woman. Only psycho men and women develop feeling for a hooker.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
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Yeah, we've only her word for all of this. Because women are 100% honest about all the details of how things go down with guys. Uh huh. Yup, I'm convinced.
This isn't hypocrisy, this is just reality. Men are willing to pay for women, the reverse is not the norm.
I can't take anything any women says seriously any more. That whole "I just like the idea of a man" is just her spouting the usual you-go-girl independent-wimmin-feelz. She really wants a guy, and this is a way to hamster that she doesn't. She's just a victim of the idea of wanting the idea of a guy, and all she has to do is phrase things in the right way...
Aphoc 8y ago
A pretty looking woman could hotglue a spoon to their nose before taking a shit in the middle of a constuction site while making Moose mating calls and still get a round of applause for somebody- especially if she calls it either art, or activism.
Because attention is like an auction for women, and betas just need an excuse.
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I'm so lonely and single XD !!!
Squeezymypenisy 8y ago
Repeat business. He only gave her two hours free in order to get her as a client. Man women are so easy to con. If you are attractive enough they actually think the lies you tell them so they will buy the shit your selling are truth.
icecow 8y ago
Woman hires a male escort to a dinner party and is universally priaised.
Woman gets oral sex from man than kicks him out ...gets praised.
The list goes on and on.
The irony is all of this just validates all the questionable behavior men have in their history.
A man brings an escort to a dinner party? no, no, no.
There message is clear: We women are now the Alphas, men are the betas. 95% of men agree.
Equality: Men have run the show for over 10 millenia. Women will run the show for the next 10 millenia.
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RPenetrate 8y ago
The article is most likely fictitious sponsored content advertising "Rent-a-Gent"
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That is possible. I used to work for clients who'd ask me to write completely fictitious news articles about how x person won big on an online gambling site. It'd have details, link to the company, anecdotes, similar to the shit that's happening here.
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I blame the Indian men for this one. We are way too un-alpha, clingy, whatever to appeal to an Americanized indian girl like this. She probably dated a few of us to 'appease her parents' and decided she didn't want to commit to an Indian dude. But she also can't get serious with non-indian dudes because its pretty taboo in Indian culture. So she is in this no-mans land where she remains single until she can find her Indian knight in shining armor.
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apachemd 8y ago
This. Indian dudes are all beta pussies
[deleted] 8y ago
No no, many Indian mothers raise beta pussies.
Some men break free of their conditioning.
apachemd 8y ago
True. It was here on TRP I saw that someone wrote that "beta" actually means son in hindi. I know hindi but that never occurred to me till I read it there and I LOL'ed
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Wah, you are right
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LeftShark86 8y ago
Maybe, but even if the whole thing is made up, the value is in the reception of the article by others.
Luckyluke23 8y ago
man... when i saw the bill at the end was $150 I spit my coffee all over my keyboard.
you make a good point about guys being charged more. but if a hooker cost $150 to make you look good in front of your friends. every man and his dog would be doing it.
think about it? getting some social proof in front of jenny who you have been thinking about for the past year. $150 would be money well spent to that chode.
plus, I bet you the sex would have been free had she had taken it.
Orig_analUse_rname 8y ago
It'd be pre-selection not social proof.
Luckyluke23 8y ago
oh whops lol. thanks for that
MyLittleAtomBomb 8y ago
They made a romantic comedy with this same premise called The Wedding Date. Watching it from a redpill perspective was absolutely hilarious.
Debra Messing hires basically a super-alpha "hooker" to appease her demanding mother by bringing a man to her sister's wedding. Her alpha-widower ended up also attending and it becomes evident that the hired guy is the new AMOG.
The protagonist ends up sleeping with the hooker, despite claiming she had no desire to, and then pretending she had no recollection of the events the next morning to avoid paying him. Of course the movie ends with her managing to lock down super-alpha "because there was just something special about her bro".
It's worth noting the difference between a typical male hooker and a typical female hooker since we're here.
Female hooker: Gross, trashy, drug-addicted, dumb...etc
Male hooker: Well dressed, in great shape, handsome, sexy, desirable...
Reveals a lot about the gender dynamic
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MyLittleAtomBomb 8y ago
I said typical for a reason.
BradPill 8y ago
24, and her biological clock is "screaming" - to me that screams only one thing: drama...
I also like her 'specs': tall, no accent... Not 'sexist' at all. Or superficial, because it is not about looks, right?
It is the same double standards as with masturbation: a single girl and her vibrator are cheered on, as she is independent, modern, feminine and what not. A single guy watching porn is a loser, an asshole, socially despicable and probably a virgin - and he probably will remain so as no woman will ever want him. Whereas the single girl just got bad luck, was dumped, cheated on and deserves a real man - it never being her personality, looks, attitude...
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You also have to look at her location and her relative SMV in that location. Think about shes an attractive, skinny, 25 year old woman in a city full of men and she has to resort to an escort to bring to a Dinner party. Not a wedding or a some super special occasion... a dinner party.
That means she could get all the dick she wants but not much commitment. Tells you all you should know about the balance of power in the sexual marketplace in NYC.
HoundDogs 8y ago
I'd bet that the culture this girl was raised in had a tendency to produce strongly masculine traits but, living in the the United States where we've been cultivating our men to be blue pill betas from birth, there's not many masculine men in the dating pool that meet the standard of masculinity she's used to.
This problem is going to get a lot worse before it gets better, especially considering that the current young generation is far more BP beta than anything I ever saw coming up.
The way I see it going is that, without RP, men are going to get into MGTOW (whether they know what that is or not) and recede into the ever expanding pleasure of technological sex outlets (i.e. sex dolls, virtual reality, and porn). This will result in more male obesity (more sitting), fewer total males in the dating pool, and fewer women able to find mates.
Good ol, feminist backfire.
notrustled 8y ago
FTFY
This is when a guy is perceived as being sexual instead of boyfriend material. This is what you want - dread at maximum. Keep 'em on their toes all day.
This has to be one of the best descriptions of women's feelings, ever. Temporary, blaming it on everything else, etc.
At this point, I wouldn't even be surprised if it was written by a man aware of RP concepts.
Polaris382 8y ago
"Penchant for dating unavailable men"...so is that a more PC way of saying she likes to fuck guys already in relationships and/or married...is a homewrecker?
8n0n 8y ago
"Penchant for dating unavailable men"
My interpretation is that she is talking about men that spin plates; down for bedroom activities (hamster: we're dating) but unavailable for anything else (relationships/commitment; be it with her specifically or anyone).
cashmoney_x 8y ago
What she meant to say is "I can't beat out my competition for the guys I want."
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We have to take her at her word that she did not sleep with this guy. Given what she says about her previous "dating" history, I find it hard to believe that she did not.
Side note: when did it become okay to just openly write about these types of situations in our society?
exit_sandman 8y ago
This is "Elite" Daily. I still hope it's a satire site.
LeftShark86 8y ago
How dare you try and slut-shame here you sexist pig! She's an independent woman and can do whatever she wants with her body and her life. You not only have to be ok with it, you must encourage it!! /s
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Since the notion of dignity as something of value went down the pan.
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NaughtyFred 8y ago
Definitive proof men are better at anything than women, up to and including being women
ColdEiric 8y ago
I don't mind this.
LeftShark86 8y ago
I agree; I don't care what she does either. The real thing that got to me was the praise from the comments. Do what you want, but I'm not going to give princess a thumbs up.
ColdEiric 8y ago
People who hate each other, and people who want to be seen as better than other people, they do not tell the stupid to stop being stupid. They praise and show thumbs up when they see the stupidity in enemies.
Men who play sport against each other, they want to keep playing together, so they teach each other how to not do mistakes. Only close, masculine men and close, feminine women will tell you about your mistakes, how you could better your ways.
But if you're trying to win a war against other people, then mistakes over at the other side, huge public mistakes, that's your best dreams come true. And since she is so far dependent on the system, nobody is going to take a chance with her. Nobody is going to try to give her the red pill. Not even those who love her and wish her the best.
You might be one of them who are healthy enough to not feel like 'you're winning, when they guy next to you loses'. You're not one of the 'destructive', who can only win when the other person loses.
wtg2989 8y ago
Yeah, except she'll still be in the dating world fucking with the emotions of men who actually want a monogamous relationship with her while she has tunnel vision focused on the "impressive 6'5" surfers. This male hooker changes nothing
ColdEiric 8y ago
This male hooker keeps her away from us who do not like her, and he empties her wallet and moves that money to those who can use the money for purposes better than OMIGAWD, look at those SHOES!
chief_slap_ahoe 8y ago
I think its funny she had to pay a guy to go to a party with her.
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This has got to be a lie. "I'm so hot and sexy he enjoyed spending time with me and didn't want any money!" Escorts are escorts because they need money. This guy wouldn't throw away hundreds of dollars just to be polite.
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darkrood 8y ago
When it comes to escort, there are people who also throw gifts like regular bf/gf. Hence the guy might be just trying to build rapport and have a long term good natured business deal.
Planting seeds in her mind.
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Plus she would refer him to her gf's when they are tired of diddling kids and dogs, and need a new thrill.
Tom_The_Human 8y ago
I love how she tries to make herself seem like a strong, independent woman who don't need no man, but gets off on her crush's (why would a strong, independent woman get schoolgirl-esque crushes) supposed jealousy.
Also, her repeated use of variations of "I am single" make me think that she isn't as unapologetic about it as she projects. In fact, I'll offer 1/1 odds that she gets an arranged marriage when she's ~30.
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aa223 8y ago
Soon she will get oneitis and then she will not be able to hold frame. Typical beta female.
On a slighty more serious note, I love how she flat out refuses to claim she hired a prostitute to pose as her boyfriend. I am sure the annals of society is feeling the revolution she started by simply hiring a prostitute to be her boyfriend. The advantage we as men have is by following some easy to say but hardish to do steps we don't need to pay for pussy for validation while she needed to pay for dick to get her validation.
Toxicbutt 8y ago
NAW would hire an escort like this particular chick did because their desperate. Most would be content with a beta who worships the ground they walk on. Need a photo. One mans 7 is another mans 2. The double standard is totally there and will always be there man.
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always-be-closing 8y ago
Considering she used her real name and a photograph of her face in published autobiographical piece, whatever cuck marries her has it coming.
edit look at her posting history holy fuck loooooooool
TheRedThrowAwayPill 8y ago
She ABSOLUTELY went upstairs with him
She's "respectfully" not letting people know she partook in prostitution
[deleted] 8y ago
Or alternatively she is lying about the invite. There are only 2 reason to mention it.
Social Proof for not being a slut
Social Proof for being a higher value than the escort allowing her to justify her ability to decline the invite gracefully.
IMO she lied either way or this wouldn't even be mentioned. While there is an outside chance these event happened as written I'm highly skeptical.
Luckyluke23 8y ago
like she would suck beta cock man. come on.
[deleted] 8y ago
Of course it felt natural. Everything women do is a lie. There is no reality to be found.
Joseph_the_Carpenter 8y ago
No, not really. No matter how good the sex is I will never shake the thought that I might be getting only her second-best.
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waldo888 8y ago
the part where she did go home and fuck the gigolo wouldn't work for her as people would find out, and woman never admits that shit. Considering prostitution is the oldest profession, even retards know how to get a box of crayons for a blowjob, its amazing that a women thinking it could actually be as simple as switching the genders around provokes the word genius.
Obio1 8y ago
I love how she says, she doesn't need to do this. And she could actually get a guy like this, but she's too tired.
So we are left to assume that in her past she's dated plenty of Chads before. But now, at this point in her life, apparently she's just too busy, tired and frustrated with society to make the effort...
.. And then.. Oops! ... she accidentally admits this little gem:
Wait what? "Never felt before"??
So let me get this straight: She could find a guy like that to bring to a dinner party if she weren't so tired... except it's never actually happened before???
Ok, her entire story just rolled over and died.
This is classic hamstering. Here's the reality that's plainly visible: She's fucked plenty of Chads. But for "some odd reason" she can't find one to go to her dinner party. As always, it's a case of a girl overestimating her SMV based on one night stands. Amazing how many women elevate their own personal SMV to match the guys who fuck them and never call back... Then they convince themselves that it's just because they're so busy... and the world is so crazy...
thewrightstuff88 8y ago
Think of it this way, she hired an alpha do something an alpha wouldn't necessarily do, be seen as being "locked down," even in a minimal capacity. Any guy with some self respect wouldn't do her a "favor" and be seen as her arm candy and be shown off because then it admits he doesn't mind being used by her, which then lowers his SMV.
I am sure she could get a similar SMV guy to sleep with in an instant, however to do something like this requires a man's investment into a higher form of interaction with her. Maybe not a relationship, but definitely more than a FWB status.
balhere 8y ago
A mormon that drinks. Brilliant.
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And an escort. I'm fucking tired of people saying "oh he's a Mormon," like putting them on a fucking pedestal for their goodness in not drinking and waiting until marriage when this shit is going on.
redambience 8y ago
He's a Strong, Independent Mormon.
freethinker34 8y ago
Tall, White, Handsome, and Confident is the winning ticket in todays world with women. If you are deficient in any of these areas its an uphill battle with women, otherwise its like pussy falls into your lap. 80 20 rule.
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And yet women hate prostitution for men. You know why? It would force them to be better than the hookers. Women can't just starfish fuck their way through a relationship anymore after prostitution is legalized, no no. They must actually work on the relationship and be worth keeping. This is why it's not alright for us to get prostitutes. Yet on the flipside bitches are nothing but praise over a woman using a male prostitute.
This is the same as the sleeping around argument women hamster to their advantage without any logic nor fact. A woman fucks around with 10 guys she cannot be slut-shamed because she's an 'independent woman'. A guy sleeps around with 10 women he's called a pig by both women and their male white knight counterparts. It's a double standard. It sucks. Pendulum will swing back towards fairness at some point but I do not expect this in my lifetime.
LeftShark86 8y ago
I recently had a conversation with one of my good friends about this very topic. I said that when the price of a good (sex) is known by everyone, people make much better decisions. If I know I can get an hour of great sex with a HB8-9 for $X, that's the absolute highest price I'd pay for it; whether that's in money, time, emotion, etc, or a combination.
Valentinus9171 8y ago
Feminism is the cause of women becoming sexual objects. Consider this: In the 50s a woman developed certain skills that have her utility as a wife to a man. She could cook, know her way around a sewing machine, knew the science of raising children and looked forward to the biologically assigned task, she knew the art of pleasant conversation ect. All these made her useful. What can women do now? Their only utility is being put on the CC because they have no skills that make them useful as a wife. If you have a clock and someone takes the mechanisms out of the clock, why would they're be complaints when the clock is used as a paperweight and not respected? The clock can no longer tell time, it can only sit on a corner and be an adornment.
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rosarywan 8y ago
Most non-hookers DO tend to look better than hookers, though. Add to that less risk of STDs and they have an advantage over them regardless of legality.
The pussy cartel has lots of methods to extort commitment, unfortunately.
Ronin11A 8y ago
Until she sleeps with the Alpha the feminist was secretly crushing on. Then she's a complete slut.
bigmfkr 8y ago
Have an upvote, you misogynistic shitlord.
ColdEiric 8y ago
Whores are also honest. Prostitution forces other women to be honest.
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That would rip the space-time continuum, don't say such things fam.
tyrryt 8y ago
And it sets a price on their assets, a price much lower than they like to charge.
ColdEiric 8y ago
And these whores get the economy moving, when they spur men to produce real shit, in a way feminists never will.
APookIsAPook 8y ago
Women slut shame even more than men for the same reason.
ColdEiric 8y ago
Women slutshame because status reasons and where the girl-group's level of standard should be at. Think reasons of politics and social status. Upperclass girls do X, because they're not middle-class. Middle-class girls don't do Y, because they're not lower class. And so on.
It's no different from coffee or chocolate or diamonds. They need to have something valuable in exchange for sex, and you already have learnt what you need to 'pay for it', what 'kind of customer you need to be' to if you're supposed to be able to 'buy it'. Or you aren't getting any.
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Not disagreeing, going to further break this down:
Women slut shame out of jealousy and laziness. If a woman is giving it away too easy it will de-value all women and force them to actually make for good partners.
Prostitution is slightly different, women are mad at it because it is a shortcut to a logical conclusion: The way women act now in the dating scene it's actually preferential to pay one for sex and never see her again instead of attempting an LTR with the vast majority of them. Women do not want to face the fact that they are shitty and causing the vast majority of our current societal problems right now. Proof is there, they just don't want to be stuck with the blame (read: responsibility) for this current situation.
rosarywan 8y ago
Excellent point-- it's not the same reason that men slut shame (to stop hypergamy). Very important distinction to make.
FLFTW16 8y ago
Whatever "pressure" she claims to feel from her culture, it clearly isn't enough. Without going to deeply into it: there are guilt cultures and there are shame cultures. Indian culture is based around shame.
When women receive nothing but praise and validation and "grrl power!" propaganda, shaming just stops working on them. They stop trying to be their best selves, and their femininity drops as they pursue literally anything other than the role nature has destined them for.
The parents wanted their kids to experience American decadence but have 3rd world morals and values. Basically they wanted to have their cake and eat it, too. That never works.
On a long enough timeline these people will be replaced. By 'these people' I am referring to groups that fail at social control. Indians that lose their shame and give in to decadence (in the same way that Europeans who have shrugged off their guilt culture) will be out bred by groups that maintain their respective social control technologies.
The most competitive groups have delineated gender roles and aim for strong families and a high birthrate. Negative birthrate groups and even stable birthrate groups will simply be pushed to the margins or absorbed by groups that maintain and utilize social technologies that enable them to expand and occupy more territory.
You are witnessing evolution at the human scale.
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She wants to have a pretend boyfriend, but it's important that he's not in a relationship with a friend.