This is a continuation of my FR from a few days ago. Look in my post history if you want to know what I'm talking about here.
Well boys, it's with a heavy heart that I tell you guys that I fucked up. Well I don't know if it was entirely my fault, but the cards were stacked against my hand and I didn't win. I thought I worked perfect game this week. I named my conditions and nailed them. I wanted to get me and my wingman in a bar with her and her friends this week. I texted meticulously and didn't chase. I got what I wanted tonight. I didn't know what I would be walking into. I was imagining the same group of girls that I met at the bar. That would have been easy. I thought we were ready, but holy shit we got blown out of the water.
I started the night by pregaming at my favorite bar. I was dressed in my favorite shirt and a nice pair of jeans. I had on a nice pair of dress shoes. My hair was doing what I wanted it to. My mind was in a good place. I was feeling right.
When I walked in I was greeted by an hb8 that I've been gaming, bubble tits. She has wonderful tits that I want to someday get in my face, hopefully soon. We hugged and I interrupted the group she was in. I thought it would be a good way to get my mind right before the date with the hb10 tonight. But after only a few minutes I found the conversation waning. She was looking at the other people in the group as she spoke. I thought nothing of it. I was looking forward to the date later tonight. My wingman showed up and complimented me on my outfit. We spoke for a bit one on one and he hyped me up. I was feeling right again. I walked past bubble tits and she reached out and hugged me for a REAALLLY fucking long time. Like it was 30 seconds of grabbing each other. It made me remember that she wants me even though the events didn't pan out tonight. I put it out of my mind because I was on a mission. I was on my way to meet up with the cheerleader and her friends with my wingman!
We got to the bar and we beat them there. My wingman and I chatted with the staff and got to know the people there. The cheerleader showed up with her friends. She wasn't really dressed up. She didn't have on makeup and had a headband on. She had a lot of pimples on her lower chin. Honestly she went from a 10 to about a 8. I was awestruck by how much her makeup did for her.
Anyways, back to logistics. It was 5 girls and 2 guys, plus us. The girls were dressed in scrubs, so it was familiar nurse and doctor territory, nothing new. I was standing between the cheerleader and the rest of the group. It was good logistics and I liked the way it was going. We were chatting and all having a good time. She pulled up my IG story from Halloween and showed everyone how much fun my wingman and I had. Things were in my wheelhouse. I was pretty sure I could isolate and escalate from there. But then it happened.
About 10 minutes into the interaction, one of the guys spoke up out of nowhere. "David, your crush is coming". One of the dudes had called some dude that the cheerleader had been crushing on, some fucking doctor. She explained that it was some dude that had a fiance but that she would definitely be a homewrecker for if he gave her the chance. I glanced at my wingman, we both knew this was going to be fucking tough. She then moved from sitting next to me to across the table. I was fighting a losing battle from here on out.
The dude showed up. Honestly he wasn't better looking than me. I considered myself a bit better looking, but he was some med school guy who was about to graduate. I could see her focus go from kind of on me to right on him immediately. My wingman saw it too. The logistics were all fucked up. 3 of the girls left when the guys showed up. I was now sitting at a table of 6 doctor dudes and 3 hot girls, plus my wingman. We decided to sit it out and see what we could do.
The doctor guys were all obsessed with themselves. They started talking about work and before we knew it my wingman and I had isolated the 3 girls from the rest of the group. We had their attention and the dudes were all into themselves. My wing signalled to me that we still had it, so we decided to stay for at least one more drink.
It didn't go well. The cheerleader's body language was all off. There was nothing I could do boys. She wasn't receptive or playful at all. She was shut off. My wingman and I decided to bow out. He had another girl he was going to meet up with that he met back on Halloween night. I had nothing. I went home empty handed tonight. As I left I dropped a text telling her to meet me at another bar that I was heading too. I got no response. Feelsbadman.jpg.
The single life has peaks and valleys. Just a week ago I was at the fucking top. I lost every single girl that I was fucking this week. It's been rough. I'll get back on the horse soon, but it's going to suck.
Andgelyo 5y ago
What did we learn here boys? Status is everything. The medical school doctor had you beat. Being alpha is contextual. In that context, he was her chad.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
You are correct sir. It can be overcome with some effort, but why fight it? Raise your status.
DadOnDabs 5y ago
You and your wing should have taken the 3 friends to the dance floor or anywhere else in the bar. The girl would have not wanted to stay with those 6 dudes then.
derrtderr 5y ago
Tough break. Nice write up.
My take: when she switched her seating position, the play would be to disengage from her and start chatting up her friends. If she didn’t re-engage and her friends weren’t anything special, then you should have left right when the doctor showed up. Turning his arrival into your departure. And no texting after you leave. Hit her up a week or two later if she doesn’t first.
It reads like your investment level started to creep up.
thrwwy425 5y ago
This right here. We can all feel when trying to score with someone feels like tires spinning in the mud. At that point, no amount of gas is going to get you any farther, and every move you make only serves to erode your self-respect. Just back off, walk away, don't let your disappointment show.
Learning to let disinterest/rejection slide off you will both make you super appealing to women, and even more helpfully: dull the sting of rejection. You'll go from "FML" to "ah well" in no time.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
It probably did creep up. I disengaged and started talking about gaming other girls with my wingman. We discussed his plans for the evening and went over what he should do. After we finished our drinks we dipped out. I didnt even tell the girl bye individually. I addressed the entire group when saying bye. I still felt defeated though, I was riding pretty high when I pulled her number.
supersede 5y ago
hey don't be too down on yourself overall you did well. investment creep is super difficult on the 9s and 10s you gotta fight it with all your might.
derrtderr 5y ago
Don’t sweat it. She’s just a girl.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I'm not super disappointed because without makeup she wasnt a 10. But what I'm most sad about is that I'm going to have to face the group message with my boys in the morning with the bad news. We were hyping this one up pretty good.
derrtderr 5y ago
That’s over investment. You’re not doing yourself any favors by being excited over one girl or one phone number.
She’s just a ten. She’s just a Victoria’s Secret model. She’s just a Playboy Playmate. She’s just Taylor Swift.
She’s just another girl.
Walkebe 5y ago
A ten would be Helen of Troy. Comes around every few thousands of years.
derrtderr 5y ago
...and triggers the fall of an empire. You’re on the money.
c4toyourdoornobeef 5y ago
Woah calm down there good points overall but I didn’t realise Taylor swift is a hb10
derrtderr 5y ago
Yeah I don’t know who you guys drool over anymore. I was going to write Salma Hayak.
c4toyourdoornobeef 5y ago
I don't drool over anyone tbh. Its quite annoying as my brain forces me to find faults in everyone appearance and I end up finding someone attractive for a short period of time and then it just dissipates
idgaf- 5y ago
They are all kind of bland without make up on, plus they all age poorly. Except J Lo, somehow.
redditdef 5y ago
Cheerleader this... Cheerleader that. Bro WTF? You put this girl so high up on a pedestal and did not anticipate that she was going to drop some shit from high up. Well it landed right on your head.
Your first post mocking Billy beta was condescending and unnecessary. You are incredibly full of yourself that you never even considered how beta you acted before and during meeting this "cheerleader."
If makeup made her look like an HB8 instead of an 10, why bother and be depressed over her? Would she not be the same as the "bubble tit" girl?
Now, you want consolment from us? Really?
Piece of advice: You now know how it feels to come in second place. Next time you interact with a beta, show some compassion. We were all once beta's! And also for God's sake man the fuck up and stop with the sob story.
witch_pimp 5y ago
I kind of agree with this guy. You set yourself for disappointment. There's being red-pilled, there's being alpha, and then there's being overconfident.
Confidence and excitement are two very different things and I think you let one drive the other without taking any time to strategize your game.
Sucks, but could've been avoided.
SpiritStatic 5y ago
That, and the fact that labelling anybody as an HB10 puts them at god-tier in your eyes. Whether consciously or subconsciously.
Even though it's just a meme, there is that chart that goes around this sub every once in awhile that basically says that HB10's are merely an HB9 that appeals to a particular taste that you have — making them "Extra special" in your eyes.
That bodes poorly when you're trying to keep an abundance mentality and remain aloof.
I think that OP is learning from his mistakes here, but I'd caution against getting too excited when a girl is this or that: cheerleader, model, actress, or "Instagram model" (which is always a riot).
When you sort them under that label, they assume a different archetype in your mind, and now she is not just "a girl who is a cheerleader" but she takes on a shape that could be described as "every hot cheerleader you have ever met that wouldn't give you the time of day before."
This puts them in an impossibly high position of superiority, no matter how great of a game you're running, how successful you see yourself as, or how well you're presenting yourself.
Something to consider.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Nah. Either you win or you get better. If someone in the field is in my way I'm going to get rid of them. Sexual strategy is amoral. Any strategy that works is the correct strategy. Go read more of the side bar. Are they saying be nice to the beats? It's not like I'm running around pushing them off curbs into traffic or something. I'm just hording all of the girls I can handle.
I dont think my behavior changed towards the chick, but there may have been subtle body language cues. I'm usually very mindful of my body language though, so I doubt it gave me away. I've pulled 10's before and I felt the same way while landing them. It wasnt until after I got them that the pedestal came out.
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Andromeda-1 5y ago
I'm reading your replies to everyone and you're saying what you think people here would want to see but it's painfully obvious that it's just a front. You can't handle being alone and that's exactly what you need. Embrace it.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I'm always alone. I prefer it. I want my harem of girls though. I'm not looking for an ltr.
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svogliate 5y ago
Where's your outcome independence?
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
It's tough when its coupled with losing all of my plates this week. It's been a rough few days.
svogliate 5y ago
Best advice I ever got: "Take some pictures, for the lean times."
DocZTheRockstar 5y ago
She was on a date with you but quickly lost attention when a doctor shows up? Lol, those girls have a low attention span. I would have been laughing on the inside. The idgaf attitude works wonders.
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Looks like isolated dates work better. Just 2 people talking.
atticusfinch1973 5y ago
There are some good lessons here:
Don’t overinvest time or energy into one girl on any night. You should have gone back to the HB8 at the first bar.
Women are never as hot in real life as they are on social media or dressed up. I’ve had several encounters where I even get the girls clothes off and find something gross. Don’t expect perfection.
Don’t try to be a part of a social group you’re not equal with. Sitting at a table as outsiders with a group of doctors, engineers or lawyers - if you’re not one - is just a waste of time.
Still, good job even getting the shot.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Yeah I walked into a trap. I used to work a higher paying career on par with them but I took a much lower paying job a couple years ago because i had some tough life circumstances and the stress got to me. I've since dealt with it, but I find myself not wanting to leave this job because of the social perks and the fun that I have doing it. I love what I do now, even if it isnt as prestigious as my previous career.
I did end up going back to the original bar and hb8 was leaving as I showed up. Some beta dude (he was about 5'7 and 140 lbs) had offered her a concert ticket and she was going with him. From what I saw from her body language she wasnt going to fuck him, I think he was one of her orbiters. She did grab and hold me again for a long time, and we almost kissed when she kissed my cheek. Cant get laid every night though! I'll get bubble tits soon though. I've got to see those things out of the bra. I'm betting that they will look amazing.
redvelvet_oreo 5y ago
honestly dude. Once yo knew it was game over you should have bounced and just started talking to other women. Go back to bubble tits or just chat up some one new. She could have possibly gotten jealous of you given another girls attention or she could have just been super gaga over the doctor. Who give s a fuck right. Outcome independence is key here. It sounds like you been over investing in this chick. I didnt read your last post but it sounds like you been planning this for way to long anyway.
Frich3 5y ago
excellent advice.. but I may also add that someone who isn't "interested" isnt going to suddenly want to fuck OP just because he goes and puts his attention into someone else. if anything she's going to use it as motive for her reason WHY she didnt want to fuck with him in the first place, when it comes up in conversation between OP and cheerleader. I've said it time and time again but if a chick wants to fuck you she will find a way to fuck you. if she was interested in OP she wouldnt have allowed this other guy whos about to be married so easily take her attention off of her date for the night, when all he did was approach the group. let it be a lesson and dont contact her. if she wants, she will contact you and that is when you hold the all the cards.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
We did cut out losses as soon as I saw that it couldn't be salvaged. We finished out drinks and left. I got back to the other bar just a bit too late to get bubble tits. She was leaving to go to a show with some beta orbiter that bought her a ticket just as I was coming back in. It's still on with me and her though.
mallardcove Endorsed Contributor 5y ago
Holy Shit you are as far from red pilled as possible. Just another blue piller in denial coming here looking for generic relationship advice. There are other sub reddits for that. I see zero evidence at all you are actually red pilled.
Take this girl off the high pedestal you have her on. And it's too late to avoid oneitis now as you have a serious case of it. Have fun dealing with the withdrawals they usually pass after a month or two.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Lmao what? What about this post tells you I have oneitis? I had one target for the night. It didn't pan out how I wanted. I'm on to the next few right now. Where was I ever looking for advice on what to do? Did you even read the post?
I've been laid by more girls than you and probably 10 of your best player friends combined.
I think you read this with the wrong tone. I started with the "heavy heart" bit as more of a comedy thing. I'm not actually beat up about it, but it has been a shitty week losing all of my plates. (See my post about it if you want to read about that)
MrCongeniality1 5y ago
I've said this before, it sounds like you are over-investing your time and attention in PUA game, but I will back you up here - I think you have a fun and dramatic way of writing (that I enjoy) and some people are reading too much into it.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I do have a pua background, I've been into it since 2005. But I do lift and am in great shape. I like to use all the weapons I can.
MrCongeniality1 5y ago
I get it, it's a fun hobby if you are good at it. But your experience with this doctor is a lesson that PUA game is inferior to other forms of SMV. Plates will break fast if there is not enough tangible value after the pick-up. Men kind of have a wall too. As men age, we are expected to have more accomplishments to our name. Just be mindful of how much time you are investing and don't hit 40 with nothing to show for it besides a high n-count, you might find yourself having walked over a cliff.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
You're right. Luckily I have a ton of accomplishments to me already. I've traveled the world and have a ton of great stories from random adventures. I did leave behind a high paying career and I'm never going back. I'll find a new way.
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smirk_addict 5y ago
I know you feel bad because you really wanted to bang this girl, but this is pretty typical behavior. Especially some vapid cheerleader. Also, her being underdressed was a power play. By you investing your attention into someone who didn’t put much effort into their appearance, you are immediately in their frame. She just never took you that seriously. It happens man.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
You're right. I was instantly put off a bit, but I still flirted a little. I tried to game her friends but it just wasnt in the cards. I didnt have the room.
geo_gan 5y ago
No girl that was trying to impress some guy would go out without two ton of concealer at least to cover her spots. Then trowel on the makeup on top of it. The fact she didn’t care says she was not in the slightest bit interested in impressing you.
MCATL2244 5y ago
What is your age? I’m 30 and wondering if it’s too late
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I'm mid 30's and honestly I'm crushing more than my 20's.
MCATL2244 5y ago
My point was more I want to start a family and kids. And worried if wait too long. men age very well into 30s/40s I’ve always thought
midgetpooooo 5y ago
I mean you're just describing 1 out of the hundreds of times a girl doesn't work out. I wouldn't hamster over this lol just learn something and move on. There's not much more TRP principles that need to be applied to this than that.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I wont take it too hard, it's just coupled with losing a ton of plates this week, so it's tough. I'm pretty much back down to 0 plates right now. I have a few numbers that I'm going to work this week, but I have no active pussy for the first time in forever and I'm kind of freaking out about it.
midgetpooooo 5y ago
It comes and it goes, it's not a big deal. Do something else
TheGhandster 5y ago
Just another girl, its no big deal. You need to get over the scarcity thing.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Who said anything about scarcity? I'm just frustrated that I have to game all my leads from scratch without having the security blanket of abundance that I usually have. I usually have 3 to 4 girls that I'm fucking at once, and my behavior and game come naturally when I have that. I find that I cant text women too much when I dont have time to. I also treat them properly. Now I'm going to have to be more mindful of what I'm doing because It wont be as easy to show preselection. This is the first time in over a year that I haven't had at least one plate.
IvyExcess 5y ago
I've been here too. All my girls dumped me on the same day last year. it was like they planned it. I went about 2 weeks without hitting any of them up, and they all eventually came back. Sometimes it's the universes way of saying "knock out that paperwork, mow the yard, finish those projects, and give your brain a rest. My ego is big, but sometimes it's good to deflate and check for tears, like a hot air balloon, before reinflating and voyaging again.
KaraethonCycle 5y ago
Good stuff bro. These things happen. I think you did well (I wouldn't have dropped that last text though - it's not worth it if the vibe isn't on).
Given the fact she's a cheerleader etc, it's gonna be harder to get another round, but I would suggest trying - nothing lost by trying.
DHV yourself on social media if you have it with her (I don't use social media at all) and maybe drop a non-committal text in a couple of weeks giving value to her (emotional value I mean - something funny or a cool story) - NOT asking her out. If she responds and engages well with you, you can suggest a meetup - either another group thing or fuck it and push for a one on one (either same day ideally or max next day - otherwise she WILL flake).
Another thought for next time - if you've lost her attention and focus anyway, you may as well try a couple of other things to get it back - either social proof (ideally flirting with her own friends) or if not that, then some other hot girls at the bar. Or just say provocative shit and different kinds of stories -funny, sad, whatever - basically the idea being to get her focus back on you.
But overall I think you did really well - if she really had a strong "thing* for the other guy, it's difficult to overcome that on the spot (especially without looking try hard).
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Yeah I was wondering if I should try to amog the guy, but he showed up acting super nice and was among a group of good friends. There wasnt a way to do it without triggering the rest of the group.
IntensePancakes 5y ago
Lmao you should never try to “amog” another guy. Especially one that seems to have higher SMV than you. No easier way to look like an insecure loser.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Amog'ing is a great tactic to use when employed properly. My experience showed me that it wasnt the right call in that particular situation.
MrCongeniality1 5y ago
You don't AMOG a group of guys by being an asshole, you show interest, gain respect and start commanding attention with your awesome stories, not all that differently from gaming a woman.
I haven't seen it talked about in this sub, but male respect is a turn on for women - more so than pre-selection - might even be their biggest turn on. You thought you had a chance because the guys were into themselves and ignoring the girls, but the girls were creaming over all these guys patting each other on the back as a display of social value.
Had you become part of that group and run some guy-game, that social prowess would have raised your SMV loads. But in comparison, you and your one buddy looked like a small and less-powerful social structure. You could have also worked the bar and made the bar your big social circle, but the strongest outcome would have been getting her crush to say, "woa, what a cool guy, I want to hang out with him again."
Anyway, when she showed up having put no effort into her appearance, that should have been your cue to work the room equally and not make her the focus of your attention.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Solid advice here. Thank you for your input, I will do this next time I'm in this situation.
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NomBok 5y ago
People who wear scrubs to bars... I'd give em shit for that, that's disgusting. On lunch break during a work day or something, that's one thing, but wearing them after work is literally just for flexing.
Andgelyo 5y ago
This. I work as an occupational therapist, and would never wear them outside of work (apart from changing into my gym clothes at the locker room). Plus, they seem pretentious, as if they're trying to prove something (look at me guys, I'm in health care!).
RiskyRewarder 5y ago
I'd ask them to sit at another table. I don't want feces and blood in my drink.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Only the girls were wearing the scrubs. I would have amoged the dudes for wearing them if they showed up like that.
bakamoney 5y ago
Medical staff works odd hours tbh
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It takes 2 minutes to change and it's fucking disgusting not to
RonieGarret 5y ago
What if she tried to use you as dread?
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
She didnt know the guy was coming. One of the other guys invited him out. She wasnt flirting with me at all when the guy showed up. I doubt he thought we were even close to being together because of how badly the logists went.
Downtowndex72 5y ago
There’s 100,000 other cheerleaders. You’re getting better every day
Nov51605 5y ago
excellent take on how hypergamy does not care. She's got her eyes on the money. All she sees are dollar signs - build up a marriage nest egg with the doctor - get it to that point where marriage is long enough for a fat divorce settlement - and booom
leolanik14 5y ago
This, many folks here been in that situation.... it’s the biggest shittest ever, it’s all about your frame and other things plays a part here.
DareyFathom 5y ago
Eh fuck it. You'll get more. I get a couple dozen numbers from Halloween weekend and the only two that I hooked up with this week were the two I hooked up with last weekend. Being a RP man you know that inevitably the game is stacked against you from the onset and it's always an uphill battle.
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Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Yeah I know I'll be back to fucking hot ones soon. It's just kind of tough because on top of all this my favorite plate broke. I will have to work extra hard this week to hold my frame.
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Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Bubble tits was at the pregame bar. The date was at another venue. I had my eyes on the prize.
innominating 5y ago
You had her on a pedestal because she is a cheerleader. Acknowledge you could have been more outcome independent and maybe it would have helped maybe it wouldn’t have.
Dude, she probably had a yeast infection and she has no personality anyway.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
You're right. I'll learn from it and move on.
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hard-to-swallow 5y ago
You're taking a lot of shit in this thread, much of it undeserved IMO. I do agree with the bullet points:
Imagine a scenario in which you're spitting game and making other hot girls laugh while she's sitting there glancing in your direction, listening to the dudes circle jerk each other about recent colonoscopies. What do you think that would do to her hamster?
Lastly, losing plates affecting you tells me you just didn't have enough plates. I can't remember a time when a plate breaking made me go "FML" instead of "Ah, finally a little reduction in maintenance. That was fun, though."
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I had the problem of having way too many plates and that's why they all crashed at once. I couldn't keep up with the maintenance and I lost them.
hard-to-swallow 5y ago
Doesn't make sense to me. If you had too many, they wouldn't all crash at once unless you intentionally dropped them all.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I wish that were so. They just all happened to bail at the same time.
KeffirLime 5y ago
It was never going to work out with her sitting so snug on that underserved pedestal all evening.
If you're looking to pull a girl avoid these silly group meet ups. They can work if you're the alpha of the group and get all her other friends giddy too, but more often than not become a logistical mess.
Rather go out alone where you have her full attention.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Agreed, but it's a good writeup so not gonna hammer on the oneitis thing too much.
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Right? It comes off like college student dynamics where you gotta have your squad to feel comfortable.
My suggestion would be only approach women when alone, that are either alone or with 1 friend. Hang out with them somewhere where you won't have direct competition interfering.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Most hot girls will be in a group. It's very rare to find really hot girls out by themselves. Ideally I would pick off the lone weak wildebeast from the herd, but most of the time they arent available.
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Go to places where they might be alone: Book stores, cafes, college campuses, clothing outlets, shoe stores
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Day game is easier, yes. But that doesn't mean just give up on night game. My game is tight. The answer isnt to just give up and go to easier targets. I just have to do better next time.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Read the last field report that I did about the cheerleader and you will understand. I didnt have enough time with her to build up the connection needed to secure a 1 on 1 date. I was supposed to be able to do that tonight but it got fucked up.
KeffirLime 5y ago
If she doesn't want to go an a 1 on 1 date it's because she's not interested, no matter how brief the interaction.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
You're not wrong. For some reason I figured that it would be easier to set up this group thing. I dont usually do shit like that but here I am writing up a failed fr instead if railing her guts.
KeffirLime 5y ago
Isolate, escalate.
Never isolate, escalate, then put back to group dynamics where you have to isolate and escalate all over again.
Once she's isolated, that's your move, if it's brief get her number and take her out. If there's time escalate and close.
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wendysNO1wcheese 5y ago
Ah well. It happens.
If I were in your position at the first sign of things starting to go downhill I'd have gotten up and found bubble tits, talked for a second, taken her right over to where cheerleader could see and pounded a shot with bubs. Whisper some bullshit in her ear and then head back over to sit down like nothing happened.
Another thing I've done is purposefully talked to the "bigger" friend of the girl I wanted. Joke around, tell her to sit down with me, talk. Worked like a charm. Hotter friend came over and I ignored her for a little and then just switched to her. Did it way too blatantly though one time. It makes me laugh now, but at the time I felt kind of bad because I could see the look on the first girl's face. She knew what was up. I gave her a little more attention so she'd think she was who I was interested in still and to make sure she didn't fuck anything up for me (cock block). She didn't. What a sweetheart. Took hot girl over to an empty booth, just me and her, and was at her apartment (I was out of town) 20 minutes later.
Last thing you can always do is just start fooling on the girl. You and your boy. Give no fucks at all. Your goal should be to have as much fun as possible anyway, don't color by numbers it. Get em' all riled up. Making them feel some kind of extreme can work sometimes.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Good advice, but good old bubs was at the first bar I went to. I dont think I could have salvaged the situation.
wendysNO1wcheese 5y ago
Oh ok. Shit. You'll get em next time.
Drummerboy860 5y ago
You’re chasing women for happiness. This will never work.
You were never interested in being a part of these cheerleader’s lives; you only wanted to fuck them. They realize this.
Instead of adding notches to your n-count, consider finding an actual quality woman to invest in for lifelong commitment.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Nah. Unicorns dont exist. Pump, plate, and dump.
Froggyspirits 5y ago
This would have been a great comment... only if you'd left out the last sentence. That sentence ruined it.
Drummerboy860 5y ago
Allow me to drop a harsh redpill about theredpill - this sub is populated by men who did not luck out in the looks department. Men who are ugly/average have to resort to all sorts of techniques to get laid when they want to. Physically attractive men have access to women naturally, and don’t have to visit an internet message board every day to hone their skills to make up for their lack of a handsome face.
thrwwy425 5y ago
Yeah, n-count and quality women aren't mutually exclusive, and betas love to act like they are.
"Oh, I don't want to be like you, all you know how to do is bop 'em and drop 'em"
Nah, I just do that until someone worth more comes along. Looking for a committed partner while not fucking anyone one the side is a recipe for settling for less, oneitis, and desperate nice-guying.
In fact, most women find promiscuous men attractive. My most recent LTR told me that it's hot that I seem like the kind of guy who always has girls who want to date him. It makes your woman feel like she's won you, which feels good for her. It's also a good reminder that she could easily lose you if she started to drop the ball.
Plus you get to bang lots of girls. Wins all around!
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Exactly! I tell almost all of my plates about other girls I'm fucking. I let them find Bobby pins and hair ties. I have a half-full box of tampons under my sink. There is a hairbrush with different colors of hair in it. I have spare toothbrushes in the package readily available. I even offered one girl another girls underwear that I had laying around after she got period blood on hers! She asked me "did you just offer me some other bitch's underwear?" I was like "yeah" and she just replied "that's kinda hot". Pre selection is the shit. Girls love that I'm fucking other bitches.
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Drummerboy860 5y ago
You’re having sex with whores, though, and you know it. Low quality women who you would never trust with anything and likely don’t want to be around as soon as you bust a nut.
That life is gonna get old, bro.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
And one of these whores could possibly be your "good girl" and you would never even know it. There are no unicorns. AWALT.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
And one of these whores could possibly be your "good girl" and you would never even know it. There are no unicorns. AWALT.