Hi everyone, I've always been a shy kid and just turned 16 about a week ago. Now I've been following TRP for about 6 months but, have never flirted with a girl until today. Shoutout to my cousin who is trying to teach me how to get game and for being the best wingman out there. We were at the mall and he saw this 15 year old girl. He started talking to her for me but, I was way to nervous to say anything. He made himself look like an ass for me. We got our food and left to a table. Right as we were about to leave, my cousin sees the girls by the bathroom and basically drags me to them. He went to the bathroom and left me there to talk to them. We talked for a good 5 minutes and the conversation was going great. I didn't get the snap or anything because I didn't know how to put it in the conversation and was still nervous but, I felt great. She was definitely into me, mainly when I complemented her eyes. I've had so much self-esteem issues but talking to her and her friend made me release all of it. I feel like a whole new person, like a huge weight has been lifted. While I technically failed in not getting her contact, but I feel amazing for actually flirting with them.
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For all you people out there who think they are making process, you aren't. I thought I was doing everything I could these past 6 months but, today made me realize that I'm still new to all of this. You need to go out there and talk because you are not getting experience and improving yourself just by reading. Go out there and talk, trust me the first time is hard but you will feel great. Shoutout to all of you, I feel amazing right now. Good luck!
JackNapier368 5y ago
Anxiety will not fade with knowledge. You just learn to control it
Thunderbird93 5y ago
Just remember there are billions of women out here. Once you create abundance for yourself you will soar. Also,start giving thought to what you want to study in college,acquire human capital and try steer yourself into a lucrative profession bro
Zoltiel 5y ago
Just think, one day you'll stick your penis inside and a baby will come out
ethbytes 5y ago
Don't believe her when she tells you she is on whatever contraception... Rubberize yourself... ;)
YesToControversy 5y ago
Hopefully not.
Use condoms.
Adeus_Ayrton 5y ago
Thank your ma and pa for creating you ? No ?
astrodruid 5y ago
Great advice. TRP theory is good to know, but basically useless unless you actually put it to the test.
KaraethonCycle 5y ago
Great FR. And great that you're starting to learn about this stuff so young.
The most important thing here is that you took action instead of sitting on your ass. As long as you keep taking action you'll move forward and you'd be surprised how much forward you can move if you take consistent action in the right direction.
When you're in college smashing cheerleaders and having threesomes , remember to update us here :) (and I'm perfectly serious by the way - you're capable of it if you keep moving in this direction)
TeamLitten 5y ago
I could have definitely gotten her snap and fucked her down the road but I was too nervous. You’re right though, if I keep taking action I’ll be a master in no time.
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SimilarHamster 5y ago
I agree effort is a big part of the game because an average man that swings at 50 fastballs will hit more than a pro that swings at 10. But take that with a grain of salt. I tried to talk to a hb10 at my college got no IOI or openess. Decided I was too ugly, turns out she was married with a kid. I can't believe im at the age where I should check for a ring.
Alpha27145 5y ago
My man, I’m going to resonate with you really quick, I started reading TRP about 6 months ago (turned 16 in june) and a lot has changed since then. I wasn’t a total social retard thanks to nofap but since learning TRP I kissed a girl for the first time and I’m hanging out with a girl later in the week who definitely has the hots for me because of the masculinity I’ve learned. Keep swallowing the red pills
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Zoltiel 5y ago
HB stands for Hot Babe, lol
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[deleted] 5y ago
Man what I'd give to be reading this forum when I was your age.
red_philosopher 5y ago
This is a success for you. Every step in the right direction is success. Don't let your hamster overtake you.
B3ER 5y ago
Can you explain the "hamster" to me?
Fdbog 5y ago
It's just neurotic behavior. Don't live in your own head and let your thoughts and emotions consume you.
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ay013523 5y ago
Good shit man. Im 15 and im glad were both having some progress
AriesAsF 5y ago
But remember, a woman's opinion does not validate you. The only thing that validates you, as a man, is accomplishment. Female adoration follows as a side-effect of success, it cannot be the primary goal.
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So awesome to be into it so young. Keep getting out there and slay it.
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