These are mostly band aid solutions. You should rather focus on understanding WHY you pedestalize a woman, and if you dig deep enough you'll always find the issue is your SCARCITY MENTALITY. Your irrational fear that if you don't get that woman, you'll be alone forever. Realise the absurdity of it, talk to other girls, obtain ABUNDANCE MENTALITY and you will never pedestalise any pussy ever again

3 is probably the best one. Got me to lol.

22 Realize the phrase "sweet pussy" is not to be taken literally

22. Visualize a giant messy meaty labia, then imagine a bun around it. Then visualize the overweight Arby's fast food worker making it a big roast beef sandwich. Now go have a sandwich.

All this still focuses on her (or girls in general)

the easiest and best way to take pussy off the pedestal? realize that there are way better and more fun things you could be doing. i have a pretty hot girl texting me constantly for the past 2 weeks to come and fuck the shit out of her, id rather work and then spend the offtime doing more fun shit.

a girl or girls add literally nothing to my life, theyre like that mint chocolate olive garden gives you at the end of your meal. something small and nice to have at the end of the day. do i need the mint? no. do i care if they dont bring it? no, its the last thing on my mind. and the best part is the lower you value all they can offer you (sex), the harder they try to sell it to you

sex is great, but only when i want it. when i want it ill have it. the rest of the time, ill do things that most people can't. everyone has sex

Imagine her taking a giant shit.

For me that was the best of all the 21. Gonna try it out in the future for sure.

These are some lines that I tell myself.

I kind of gathered the first 2 from listening to Patrice O'Neal.

1. She is a loser. They are all losers. You're just looking for your loser(s)

Whether it's cause she's boring, a single mom, unstable job, no job, no hobbies, no friends. If she didn't have a vagina what would she have to offer?

1. You are better than her.

You can take the man aspect - You are probably taller. You should be stronger. You should be wittier.

1. You are something. Be confident in yourself. (this one assumes she's interested)

If she's talking to you she's interested. Ask her out. If she agrees to go on a date she's interested. Go for a kiss. If she kisses you back she's interested. Go on more dates, take her back to your place, etc. The minute she acts disgusted by a small act of escalation is when you need to make the decision to next. No number? Cancelled date? No response? Move on.

1. All girls plays games. They just don't realize it. Start playing.

Recent example for me. Dating app that shows First and Last name. I have a fake/fantasy occupation on the app. She asks what I really do and I tell her a general job title. She ends up guessing where I work. I pretend that she's good at guessing, but I know the game. She asked a question she already knew the answer too. It is highly likely that she googled and found me.

I like this list and it will be useful to me, I'll also add.

Imagine her scratching her ass crack, then sniffing her fingers

Imagine all the nasty degrading shit she's done for alphas while riding the cc.

The easiest way to get pussy off the pedestal is to have access to lots of it whenever you want.

Pussy is like money. You only worry about it when you don't have enough of it, and the more you have on hand the more you can go out and get.

Which is why spinning plates is important if you're single and want to deal with women.

13 is always a solid for me. Paying for a hooker instead of paying for a date anyway.

See women as prey. Become the predator. Know that they are merely a prop for your own greater sexuality.

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1. Imagine that she’s a child.

Works every time

Just adding my own. Idk this is what helps me break pst AA all the time without fail.

We are all atoms in a consequence-less world. Nothing has meaning the way we attribute it to have meaning. She is nothing more than a temporary consciousness created by molecules and atoms.

some guys are very into number 1

1. Imagine her taking a giant shit.

I'm into scat bro... thanks to your advice now I have Oneitis...

1. Imagine that she’s a child.

Ever since I swallowed the pill I see every single women as a child, if you pay close attention even your grandma will act like your 5 year old sister.

1. Bask in the idea that while you will likely age like fine wine, she has a good chance of aging like milk. She’ll never look like she did at 18.

unless asian (; My 18yr old gf's mom is like 40-50 and is almost identical to my gf

The ones about approach ate really spot on. If your approach is perfect you can get even lesbians.

The two best things I've ever heard on this were:

1. From "The 7 habits of highly effective seducers" (Which is a really good book with some Red Pill truths, unfortunately it was written by a couple of very blue pill guys and filled with some VERY beta/blue pill ideas) "Every 'No' is just one more girl until you get to that 'Yes'. It also goes into getting validation from your life, not women, dressing well, etc. (Too bad it talks all the time about seducing women and "making them feel romantic feelings to get them into bed." If it wasn't for the talk of romance/being creative etc it'd be a really good book.
2. u/NightwingTRP posted a great 4 part series on women. his info was LITERALLY what got me to pull the pussy off the pedestal for the first time in my life. "She's worth just as little as the next slut." I can look at an 8,9 even a 10 and think "She's worth just as little as the next slut." and down she goes. I remember she's just a person. Nothing special.

Number 17 I heard for years after that one song lol. Ironically while I was blue me and my brother would joke about it but never actually heard the message. Sadly he's still blue :(

Overall most points are good. I don't know about 16, damn near every woman I talk to keeps spouting how women don't get paid enough and need to be equals while at the same time trying to get off the hook for their responsibilities. Is this just parroting or minor cases of feminism?

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Here are my neediness/oneitis busters, largely inspired by black dragons blog.

1) always have a backup. 2) don't let your mind fixate on one girl. Each time you think of one, run through the rest of your plates and prospects
3) make your life better than pussy. Cool job, great hobbies, fun male friends.
4) approach new girls often. The more often the better
5) sleep with many girls.

17. You have 99 problems, but a bitch ain’t one.

This is good, but it doesn't fit with the other points. The other points seem to be going for a man with no women who is trying to get women.

This means, "a bitch isn't a problem because I've got an abundance to choose from". Alternatively, "I've got 99 problems but [finding/dealing with] a bitch ain't one" which is totally against the other points.

I see plenty of people misunderstand the point and think it means, "I'm a single dude I ain't gotta worry about women I'm a strong independent man who don't need no girl" etc. This misunderstanding just perpetuates the anger phase.

Number one is spot on. That's why I call these girls baby girls.. They are literally babies to me. That being said, I have to approach in a cool and casual manner to not scare the kid away.

Some of these, like shit, organs (and to add my own-- two women in a cat fight) are useful mental tools to get a woman out of the pussy pedestal zone if you catch yourself pulling a beta.