Intro/TLDR: I take notes on everything, so here are my notes and takeaways from listening to The Black Phillip show (still highly recommend listening to it because it's hilarious listening to Patrice rant):

Episode 1 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPq7CyHqQ2I

All it takes is righteous confidence.

Immediately become philosophical about anger. Ask yourself, "why am I angry?"

Women think two ways: 1. you take care of me, etc. 2. you're a bitch. Women want your manhood when they want it.

Men have an obligation to raise their women correctly like parents with their children.

Women don't know how to tap into a man's desire.

Don't live by the ABC's of life.

Don't be so attached to something that you can't walk out on it in 30 seconds.

Women don't want what they can have.

All loser women have to barter with is their pussy. Women feel bad if they don't get something out of what they have (pussy).

Men's bodies aren't as important to them as they are to women.

Every date is the women fucking your time and money.

Introduce fucking as soon as possible on the date. Give the woman the option to leave or stay, but man must let them know what they're buying.

Your manhood is constantly under siege. You can't be mad at woman for this because that's the creature they are.

Pussy is the wheels on the car. Every car has wheels. Let women know that you want to fuck them. Fucking is like drinking water.

Pussy is not as important as everyone makes it.

Women have no skills to get what they want. Women are hoping to get what they want. Men have to audition.

What gives women the balls to sit around and wait for Mr. Right?

If a man meets a woman, how is knowing a person more or longer making it better to fuck?

Instead of using 1 to 10 scale, use 1 to 30. Then, divide it into groups of 10 (ugly 0-10, average 11-20, fine 21-30).

To approach a woman in the street, the man has to have the right amount of arrogance and confidence.

Episode 2 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ec7u9TGiS9k

Men are hunting pussy.

When men can get pussy whenever and however, they cheat. Pussy loses its luster.

Women are hunting manhood.

It is best when women are a little bit insecure because at any moment the man can leave.

If women get you, don't play the game.

The amount of time it takes a woman to pussy a man up is how long the woman sticks around to enjoy it (ex. five years to pussy the man up, five years to enjoy it).

Don't get put in a position where your woman doesn't think you're cool. If the woman doesn't, this trickles down and spreads to everyone around you.

Women will do anything not to look like a hoe.

Women are trying to gain power moves on men when they try to pay. How can they look at you like you're a man if they won't let you do man activities?

Do not let a woman negotiate your manhood.

If women say they don't know you well enough, this is an anti-slut defense. How does knowing you longer change your dick?

Episode 3 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOSx92NrPd0

Women don't know how to argue because they haven't had to use those skills. They leverage their pussy, and they've gotten by on it.

Don't love her so much you don't treat her like a whore.

Never give with the expectation that you're getting something back (outcome independence).

Women's bodies are not under men's control. You have to treat women's bodies like they're a complete whore.

Rules for threesomes: let go of your ego. The woman brings the third and initiates the action. Do not sleep with the third alone after the threes is over.

Sometimes, you have to introduce what the woman can't do.

Men are sharks in the water when it comes to pussy. Find a woman who accepts the animal we are.

Episode 4 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AdBB2eb2ZM

Women's power is in your fear of whatever they're going to do.

Just because you're in an LTR, it doesn't mean you've cashed in on happiness.

Pimping your girl never stops. You can't stop being a guy.

Women are out to abuse you because they want a tough man they can follow. You have to qualify yourself as the masculine entity.

Guys are special for women right away. That is not the case for men.

We're auditioning for the pussy.

Honesty doesn't exist in the relationship. Routine does. Honesty is the routine.

Women are unhappy when they're the general because the derive happiness from moment to moment experiences. Men get the fulfillment on a superficial level which trickles down to the woman.

Women live in the world of, "you shouldn't." Men live in, "you should."

"But you can have casual conversations and take what's important from me?"

You're better than any pussy out there.

Women use us for our time.

Don't be worried about exploring the things you like.

You can't be tired or give up. They aren't testing you maliciously. It's natural.

"You've taken enough of my time to show me if you've got good ass." Completely dismiss or throw down the gauntlet.

Song: "Just Be Good to Me" by SOS Band. Listen to the song lyrics. This idea will keep every women happy.

Women have to love the men before men love women. He's showing you his best because he's auditioning.

Episode 5 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_k3pBETuS0

Women want men that will lead them where they need to go.

If the women doesn't want to play your game (happiness), the winning move is not to play.

Be direct, honest, and upfront about your intentions.

Men want to get pussy and not give up time. Women are the opposite.

Always remember: your happiness is paramount. #1!

Sometimes, stay in it to learn things the hard way. Men learn and grow from mistakes.

Episode 6 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBLmkvZORJw

A man's period is when he wants side pussy, but he can't get it because he is being faithful.

"How come you don't do x anymore?" That's negotiating. Don't negotiate with terrorists.

You can't pimp your woman when love's involved. You have to be consistently inconsistent.

Take a deep breath and be cold-blooded. Keep them uncomfortable.

Women will second-guess you when they're comfortable, and you can't get rid of them.

You have to check them. Take a deep breath and think, "did she really just do that?"

"I don't mind not fucking, but I do mind can't fucking. You get to fuck my time, conversation, and gas."

Use an analogy to reverse what they feel about their pussy to how you feel about your time and the situation.

Episode 7 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMUomexQswc

Don't let them ask you a question when they have an agenda. Example: "Are you hot?" when the window is down. The pretense of this question is they're cold and won't say anything about it. Instead, they'll use manipulation.

Rape fantasy is them trying to be a wh without being a wh.

Their happiness is day to day. Men trickle their happiness down to the women.

Get rid of your ego.

If women angry at other people, it means they have excess passion they're giving away.

Episode 8 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P53lAsbeH3w

When they're getting fat or unattractive, let them come to the realization. When they ask you, your reply is, "well, how do you feel about yourself?" They'll figure it out.

Assure the woman that you will cheat.

Don't get on the woman about losing weight. Don't tell them. Don't fuck her. Do everything a guy who's not attracted to her would do.

She needs to maintain what she started with.

Straight honesty is when you're ready to take the L (leave).

Never let women beat you mentally.

Approach with the intention of "this is how I do this" (ex. welcoming with a hug or kiss on the cheek).

"Tries to test me." 2:00:00

Women have to think you're better. They have to think you're the shit.

Episode 9 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3O0_tqkYwk4

Men hate women because they have to build skills that are valuable. Pussy is only valuable when it's being used to the person who's using it.

Men own the women's jealousy. Men give it to women because they don't own men.

Don't live in labels.

Don't be in a relationship just to be in one.

Episode 10 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jaCAYgXMHE

1:42:00 Tuna analogy.

Women are not better than their pussy. It's all they're offering.

The suffering women endure from being a woman doesn't make them special or better.

Different pussy makes men feel different ways.

Episode 11 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaTLBL14ABc

Men do not like women with confidence.

Women rile men up to get them to break frame. When the man breaks his frame, the woman will victimize herself.

Women are scratching lottery tickets to find love. Men are going out there and doing the work to get it. Women don't know how to go out there to get what they want.

Anger and frustration is better than indifference.

Why are we always trying to figure out what women need? Women don't think about what men need. They sit there marginalize and talk shit.

Women think the world should be given to them.

Episode 12 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaWaQFtXSAw

Women hate being in charge.

Men must take responsibility for how their women act.

Men are lovable because we know how to be lovable. Women don't know how to be lovable or likable.

Men give their charm, which is more valuable in the long run than pussy.

Women will naturally start to hold things over you (ex. paying for dinner).

There is no such thing as different but equal.

Men pay because it trickles down from man.

Imagine the mindset people go into a competition with. You go in with the intention to win and dominate your opponent. Men should apply this mindset to their women.

The best man is the best person.

Women are always trying to sell things we don't want to buy - their betterment. Women will start naming things they do (ex. I cook, clean, etc.), but men aren't buying those things.

Get women to want to listen to you.

"Can I ask you a question?" A form of passive aggression.

To play a game, you have to be willing to lose.

When you're being an asshole, explain what she's doing, what you're doing, and why you're doing it (Edit: this is when you are in an LTR and/or the woman is worth training).

Women do not understand context in an argument.

What you are is different from who you are. Don't let who they are interfere with your thoughts because what they are is still the same.

Women try to be loved, not liked. What if the man is being lovable and the woman is only being likable?

Women hate being in charge. They don't want to win; they want a winner. When women are the boss, they think they have to be mean. Women don't want to run things. Women want men to run things because they want to say, "damn, that's my man." Women think in terms of "us." Men think in terms of "me."

There are no guidelines for women to run things because our constructs for positions of power are built around men.

Men shouldn't need validation. It has to come from within. If you need someone to make you happy, when they're gone, you will feel nothing and be sad.

Sex is the lowest part of the relationship for women.

Men's love is taking care of women. It's different than woman's love.

Women want to fuck one man a lot. Men want to fuck a lot of women once.

Do not be outcome dependent. Don't take shit women say personally.

Calcify your ego like Thai boxers do their shins. Be rejected ten thousand times.