If this isn't a classic Blue Pill example, I don't know what is.
So Emma and her five friends head out "to celebrate her last few days of 'freedom' as a single woman." While out and about, she ends up making out with a random guy multiple times. Video and pictures start circulating on social media (the special snowflake even gets her own hashtag #LadyCoralina), and it ends up getting back to her fiance. He immediately calls off the wedding, as he should have.
Fast forward a few weeks:
Her boyfriend confirmed the decision to local media, saying that the couple just want to put the incident behind them and get on with their wedding and married life together.
Holy. Shit. This guy, along with his family and friends, sees all of the evidence and STILL wants to wife her up. I don't know what she said or did upon returning home, but she's got this guy cucked. Pretty sure we all know how this one will end up.
Takeaways
- NEVER reward bad behavior, it'll only enforce the idea that she can get away with more in the future
- Set boundaries and don't let them be crossed
- If you see red flags, ESPECIALLY IN THE FORM OF PICTURES AND VIDEO, abandon ship
- Don't wife up a slut
This_is_a_Test1 7y ago
After repeatedly hearing stories like this, I think I just want to knock up a random girl and pay child support.
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This is why you vet, vet, vet and vet some more until she either A) leaves because she can't take it or B) stays because she's decided you're worth it. That said, marriage should still be off the table these days since lifelong commitment is impossible predict pretty much ever.
newName543456 7y ago
And this is where it gets downright frustrating, how incapable of logical thinking some individuals are.
You acknowledge loss of freedom caused by marriage. You acknowledge you actually want to be free. THEN WHY IN THE FUCK ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED?
Is BP brainwashing really that strong, that people can't even connect two fucking dots?
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Blue pill denialism // Definition: Denying empirical evidence that supports breakdown of relationships in order to escape reality and maintain pussy worshipping.
aherne18 7y ago
She's pretty and looks quite pure. This is a good reminder for those waiting for Ms. Unicorn;)
newmeforever 7y ago
She looks like a straight 4/10 to me.
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That's atleast a 5.5/6 imo... She's not gorgeous but she has some cutiness going, little as it is.
0-10 is not the scale of nothing to very cute, is the "very ugly" to "super gorgeous" one. So if she's not hideous she should atleast get a 5, imo.
edit: but you can prove me wrong by snapping a pic in a couple years, i guess.
newmeforever 7y ago
I'm in Southern CA so my rating scale is skewed.
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Stag and hen parties are just about fucking around (usually a hooker in the guys case) before two plebs settle for each other.
It's common at hen parties that they fuck random guys.
British pleb life is truly miserable and disgusting.
Working some shit job, living in shitty housing, settling for someone both parties barely accept and getting drunk at the pub every day so you forget about your miserable life and randomly starting fights to let out your frustration.
makeitproductive 7y ago
Here's the sad part, even it was just a mistake as all these cucks believe he's still fucked if he takes her back.
He has 2 choices either:
1) He dumps her, proves he has some semblance of self-respect. She will know she fucked up.
2) She takes her back, so even if she liked the guy she now sees he has no self-worth, and that the boundaries don't really exist. He's fucked, and she's fucked.
So she made the decision for him, there is nothing he can do now. It's over either way, most of these guys don't realize that.
No one, let alone a woman, can respect a man who doesn't respect himself. And there is no "love"/attraction without respect.
pjleo85 7y ago
I'd bet my next paycheck that they didn't only make out.
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On vacation in Mexico, drunk and obviously loose enough morally to make out with a stranger in public at your bachelorette? No chance they didn't fuck.
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And if it wasn't that guy for some reason, it was DEFINITELY someone else.
Kenny_Twenty 7y ago
You don't know what you're talking about. You're even approaching the idea from an incorrect perspective. You're projecting male traits onto it.
Men generally will try to push any positive reception as far as possible, with the end goal being sex. This is because women are more selective than men, so we need to take advantage of opportunity more aggressively.
Women don't need to. They can get it wherever they want. Is it likely that she cheats before and after? Yes. But women are free to have super casual dalliances, ranging to various extremity.
And with women possessing inherently Machiavellian characteristics, it's unlikely she'd sacrifice her status for something as low a value as sex.
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gjs628 7y ago
I would bet my house that she ended up fucking the guy she kissed and probably 6 other chads and "it doesn't count because it was before marriage".
[deleted] 7y ago
Quite often on TRP I will see racial, ethnic and political flame wars. But one thing is certain, the Beta is the reason we are all here.
He has created the world in its current form and he is fully to blame.
MigueDG 7y ago
No crei que llegarÃa a ver esto aquÃ!
When I saw all this Lady Coralina bullshit on facebook, RedPill instantly came to my mind. Some stupid feminist bitch linked an article on the incident from a feminist blog and when I read it I didn't even knew if I should laugh or cry because god damn it how can someone be so fucking crazy?
Basically this feminist "writer" circle jerks around the idea that women are not responsible for their acts because there is always something or someone else that should be held responsible; she writes in a sarcastic and ironic tone "a woman does not have a sexual slip because of alcohol, she is a slut" critizicing how people called this Coralina girl a slut.
Anyway... it's in spanish but if you guys want to read it here it is. It is pretty fucking stupid though.
http://m.nuevamujer.com/mujeres/actualidad/todos/la-verdadera-historia-de-lady-coralina-como-nace-una-puta/2016-09-22/200313.html
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mpjr1 7y ago
Jaja también me sorprendà al ver esta publicación relacionada a #LadyCoralina aquÃ.
SouloftheVoid 7y ago
He will be raising another man's kids within a year or two.
Your_Coke_Dealer 7y ago
And prepping the bull within 5
menial_optimist 7y ago
And prepping the spare bedroom of his house he pays for for the bull to move in within 6
Ricardo2991 7y ago
One of the "friends" is her mom. Runs in the family.
offthebeatmeoff 7y ago
Stuff like this bothers me mainly because it isn't even just bluepill. It's just a total lack of common sense and respect. This guy lacks the common sense to just say "wow this behavior is present now, it will probably only get worse or it'll be a trend", and he lacks the self respect to cut ties with a woman who clearly lacks any respect for him. The video and pictures only add another level of social humiliation that would put any guy over the edge. The worst part is, that dumping her wouldn't even have any negative social repercussions on him. Most guys would agree with him and even most women would, obviously not the gf or her closest "friends" but still. He lacks common sense, self respect, and even basic judgement. He deserves her
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Exactly. Even before TRP and when I was more "blue", I knew that if if a girl cheated on me, whether just a kiss or full on sex, that you have to break up with her. The relationship is over and trust can never be rebuilt. Zero tolerance for cheating.
norAsian 7y ago
This this this, zero tolerance
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offthebeatmeoff 7y ago
Ever since this election started, I started following Scott Adams and I began his persuasion reading list so let me give my hypothesis based on that. This guy decided to call it off with this girl completely after that and listened to his instincts/male friends or what have you. She came crawling back and hit his emotional buttons. This is what separates the men from the pussies, but he decided to give her a chance by rationalizing away her behavior or listening to what he wanted to hear from her. By making the decision to get back with her despite the evidence against her and the fact that she hasn't changed, his mind experiences some serious cognitive dissonance that leads him to actually being happier with her now than he was before. It's basically a sales technique where you pull out the rug. You make promises to lure the individual in and get them to make the decision. Now you pull out those promises you made, but they're committed to the decision and they rationalize it to themselves that they really genuinely like whatever piece of shit they're getting.
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It's funny because the guy is actually decent looking and if he wasn't a freaking cuck, could dump her and find some good or decent looking chick to hook up with. Unfortunately, he is a cuck willing to marry a chick who made out with someone else and the best part is, it's on video for everyone to see.
Even before TRP, I wouldn't stay in a relationship with a woman who made out with some dude during it.
RPmatrix 7y ago
whatever happened to that tv show 'Cheaters'?
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Wilreadit 7y ago
The best way would have been to fuck her a couple of times and then blow off the wedding.
juliusstreicher 7y ago
One thing to note is that all of his coworkers and casual male acquaintances will be thinking "I can hit that, and bitch boy won't do a thing about it." Some McDonalds clerk can recognize them and know that the guy is a duck. He may even comment about it, and hit on the wife. What can the husband do at that time???
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Let's be real about this. In no time, his girlfriend is gonna be fucking dudes in front of him and is probably get pegged by her. He's a pussy.
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empatheticapathetic 7y ago
His initial instinct was correct. He'll get back there when the moment is right and he is cheated on again. This is just his journey.
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
Dead Bedroom in 4...3....2....1
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Fuck marriage, how can anyone sign a business contract with zero gains with a partner that literally broke the contract before signing it. Absolute retardation. I say let the gays marry each other.
JohnnySkidmarx 7y ago
The guy probably enjoys losing at sports as well. What a loser.
Usecod 7y ago
She will cheat in the next 6 months.Bet on it.
LexaBinsr 7y ago
Hijacking your comment..
https://twitter.com/LadyCoralina
Is this her fucking Twitter? OP, please tell me it isn't. She keeps posting fucking nudes and porn shit after all this. /u/Mackland?
in_monk_mode 7y ago
After a couple years of marriage she can take half of his money too.
max_peenor 7y ago
She has already been told she can get away with it.
TheLife_ 7y ago
This. Take it from a guy who routinely fucks wife pussy like he bought it wholesale. The hamster has spun this tale and they believe its an open relationship. If she's cheated and he excuses it, she's got his signature on the contract and his balls as collateral.
That said, its still funny to watch them hide their wedding rings like that's being respectful.
Lvl10Bard 7y ago
I'll see your six and raise you three.
prodigy2throw 7y ago
She's cheating on him right now.
therealpkg 7y ago
My stack says it's already happened.
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Well it did... at the bachewhorette party.
RPmatrix 7y ago
definitely, But we're betting on guys #'s 3-8 post wedding
(her wedding day "thringles" (thrill tingles, like she gets from being on the back of your bike) will have her fuckin the chauffeur or someone handy)
RPmatrix 7y ago
I'll see your nine and fold ... I bet 6 weeks
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yomo86 7y ago
I don't mind having a hen party. But this situation is the most BP reaction I have ever witnessed. The call-off of the wedding is even socially accepted - bride-to-be is unfaithful shortly before the wedding. Fuck this world I even lost respect for most of the guys out there.
chances_are_ur_a_fag 7y ago
that's just what was caught on camera. all them pretty hoes going on a whoreliday together? right. cock bonanza went down and she's lucky the only things that leaked was the kiss.
powerwinch 7y ago
Stuff like this makes me want to stop reading trp, I would have been better off not having knowledge of these events
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Don't for your sake. Before shit like this would turn me off the truth but the bitter truth is better than the sweetest ignorance. Knowledge is power when you can use stuff like this to your advantage. Basically a real life presentation of these hoes ain't loyal.
voomer53 7y ago
His dilemma is AWALT..he's got to decide to drink or not to drink the marital Kool-Aid... then he'll have to decide if the cheating slut he's got now would eventually be better or worse than whatever cheating slut he could come up with later.
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massivewang 7y ago
His problem is he probably succumbed to the pressure of his family/friends. His first response was right, but I'm assuming he didn't have anyone affirming his decision. In fact I bet everyone was telling him the opposite. So he succumbed to believing the lie.
His sense of self probably wasn't very strong to begin with either.
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RPmatrix 7y ago
well put bro, bears repeating
massivewang 7y ago
People pleasing. Doing shit you don't want to do to make other people happy. It's a fucking miserable way to live. It's how I lived my life up until 27. I miraculously swallowed the pill and started to move forward. It's some empowering life changing shit when you realize you can say no and choose to do whatever the fuck you want.
No Mr Nice Guy changed my life, best book I ever read.
supremelummox 7y ago
I'm where you were. I've read the book. I'm trying. Not working..
massivewang 7y ago
Takes time buddy, years. One step at a time.
I remember I went on a trip for work shortly after reading the book. I arrived in Brazil and at the client site around 1pm. The client asked me if I wanted to eat at the cafeteria, I did because I was starving. Nice guy me was saying "no he already ate you should start working and suck it up". But remembering what I read, I said yes. So we went to the cafeteria and chatted a bit while he watched me eat. I got to work on a full stomach and not be pissy about missing out on lunch.
I celebrated that moment, because that's how fucking remedial my emotional intelligence/boundaries/sense of self was. I was such a people pleaser, I actually took a step to do something practical for myself, and it wasn't an issue. Part of being a people pleaser is that you make decisions out of fear. You don't pursue what you want because you're afraid of how people are going to act. The biggest take away from that book was I needed to make decisions that were in my own best interest regardless of how people reacted. Most of the time, people don't give a shit and are cool to let you do your thing. But even when they're not, I realized that they can go fuck themselves because I don't need anything from them, and they are not sincere anyway most of the time.
Work on the little things, and celebrate the little steps. You'll fuck up here and there, but soon enough you'll start growing and building on your previous victories.
menial_optimist 7y ago
Great progress, I'm in a similar situation.
bigk12345 7y ago
I am in the same boat as you.
Starting to say no/ yes to little things that you want is key.
This builds confidence. It takes time.
Just a simple fucking concept, yet took years to realize this.
You will also notice how some people will not like the new you. And that is totally fine.
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massivewang 7y ago
Yeah, part of the book talks about how people pleasers constantly make decisions out of fear of fucking up or making people mad. The reality is that most of the time:
kanyewost 7y ago
christ up to 27??? holy fuk how do you not notice this like 10 years earlier
massivewang 7y ago
It's a combination of several things. The first is upbringing, which affects how you develop emotionally/psychologically. I never learned as a child/teen that I what I wanted or what I needed mattered. Never had the guidance I needed as a youth that empowered me to take ownership of my life. Dad was emotionally absent trying to provide and keep it together, mom was a satanic evil crazy whore bitch narcissist who ruined our family and made our lives hell.
The second is that I became an overly zealous evangelical christian in my late teens. And that only served to make my people pleasing issues worse because a lot of Christian theology/philosophy revolves around denying yourself and serving others. You also bring in a supreme divine omniscient being as the ultimate authority who is in complete and utter control of the world. So you buy into a sense of spiritual passivity, thinking that if you serve God well, he'll take care of you. Of course, it's bullshit. Nobody can take care of you but you, unfortunately it took me a long time to realize that.
So it's all around fucked up. There were two big breaking points that caused me to have an epiphany. The first was that I started to pursue dating. Up until my late twenties I figured I didn't have much to offer women, so I'd "work on myself". Since I was the "nice christian man" that supposedly every woman in church wanted, I figured that when I was ready to date, I'd have success. Needless to say I got fucking no where. I was on all the online dating services, I was asking out women in church and social circles, fucking got no where. I literally typed "Christian dating sucks" into google and ended up on the Man'osphere (rollo, heartiste, etc) which eventually lead me here.
At the same time I woke up one day and realized I fucking hated my life and was miserable. I figured that if God wasn't real, I was suffering for nothing, and basically ended up walking away from all of it. That is when I started to take owernship for my life and work on the progress.
I was fucking pissed for a solid two years. I spent 10-20 hours a week doing "Christian" things thinking I was growing and developing as a man. Things that appeared to be "useful" but in the end were meaningless. I was basically everyone's bitch and lived to serve/help everyone but myself. I was fucking heart broken/angry/remorseful/regretful/etc. over the lost time. I could've got an MBA, could've gotten straight jacked in the gym, etc.
Anyway five years in and my life is fucking way better than ever thought. I've still got issues, but I am working on them. I'm no Chad who pulls at will, but I've fucked my fair share of hot bubble butt Brazilian chicks and will continue to do so. My job has been the silver lining, it's enabled me to provide for myself and set myself up for the future financially. At the same time it gave me this unexpected life changing opportunity to live and work in Brazil.
The anger has subsided, I am feeling more like a person/man each day, and I look forward to what the future holds. Every now and then I feel like a total fucking failure who will never succeed, but that's just the reality of emotions. Gotta fight through it and stay on course. Some days you feel great, some days you don't.
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empatheticapathetic 7y ago
Cheers for typing that. The end part resonated with me. Good luck bro.
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
Yes it is bullshit and it is also NOT what the Bible teaches. I recommend reading it yourself without the Churchians telling you what to think. I understand the Bible much better with Red Pill goggles. The Bible is full of Patriarchs and powerful men, wicked and scheming women, instructions to take care of your family and oh yes: The Lord helps those who help themselves. "The Way" has truly lost its way but the words are still there in print.
Almost all the stuff about service and sacrifice are Paulinism and the words of Jesus which are much better understood if you realize they were spoken to a rough and tough crowd of patriarchs, and that those instructions were never meant to be applied to the weak manginas of today.
massivewang 7y ago
The main thing for me is that it just doesn't matter, I don't care.
If I have to do it all on my own, then what do I need God for? He's not going to help me become a better man. He's not going to help me:
I have no use for scriptures, prayer, or any other spiritual practice at this point in my life. I'd rather spend the time lifting, with my friend, or doing something pragmatic that will actually help me.
The Lord doesn't help me help myself, I help myself and that's the end of it. Since I've walked away from all of it I've never been better. I'm more of a man than I ever was. I'm in better physical, emotional, psychological and financial shape in spite of Christianity, not because of it.
I'm not hating, I think people are free to believe and props to them if they find meaning and purpose. But I don't care, doesn't mean a thing to me. It didn't help me in the past, hasn't helped me get to where I am now, it certainly won't help me in the future.
RatsSewer 7y ago
Is he doing ok in the marriage? What reason did they have for them to say that?
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goldnhorde 7y ago
w-w-w-why???
This guy is ridiculous. The one thing we HAVE to do as guys. and I mean we HAVE to do it. But we have to break these chicks from this "sex and the city"/"tyler perry movie"/"Bridgette Jones"/"Pretty Woman" tunnel vision problem where they decide they want to live in a movie.
It makes women fall in love with "the idea" of things and not explore the reality and consequences of actions. they think everything will work out, they think someone will rush to catch them when they fall, they think that when something goes wrong, it was the guy and mr right is just over the next hill.
I hate this leap that women take and this guy just supported it. he gave her the happy ending to her wacky rom-com. so yeah, she'll do it again .... this time as more of a drama .... her married life so boring ... she runs into a stranger .... we've all seen "unfaithful" ... that will be this bitch. and I bet she even says lines from the movie.
NO!!!! Stop this cycle. when this happens to you .... split. if she comes crawling back, let her give you whatever you want and she is wiling to give. then AFTER ... say "that was great .... but I deserve to be treated at least as well as I treat you" and walk the hell out.
NEXT!!!
Zahoo 7y ago
I mean this is what happens though. They is usually someone willing to white knight who thinks they need to "take care" of a girl whenever she gets herself into trouble.
The movie Gone Girl did a good job of portraying this when the main female lead is in trouble and goes to the home of the guy who had a crush on her to seek refuge.
RPmatrix 7y ago
Spot on bro
AWALT ... that's why those types of movies have always been a success, becoz they teach young girls to " they think someone will rush to catch them when they fall, they think that when something goes wrong, it was the guy and mr right is just over the next hill."
which is just what the people who made them want!
sigh .....
"soap operas" didn't happen 'by accident' (in the 1940's!)
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Seoul_Brother 7y ago
This.
Ex cheated on me and we were still living together. I wanted to keep the apartment as she was the one that cheated and she didn't want to live in the apartment anymore. As she looked for a new place to move, I woke up, read TRP religiously and played along with her weird fantasy of still seeing each other after she moved out and just nodded my head or said "we'll see." Still had sex, she asked me to be rougher with her in bed, but also asked to "make love." I saw a girl on the side (through Tinder) while this was happening and slept with her a a couple times, came home late.
Eventually she moved out and moved all her shit and after about two weeks I told her I didn't want to see her face again. Afterwards she promptly started seeing the guy she cheated on me with and even hamstered a crazy story about how I was abusive when I didn't lay a hand on her. Good luck to that guy lol. It'll only be a matter of time until she shows her crazy and this dude gets cucked.
Don't doubt that during this time she was probably still seeing the dude she cheated on me with simultaneously, but I was off sleeping with other girls and going on dates after work (Game theory: I would have been a fool to not be sleeping with other chicks during this time). Meanwhile ex finds out I did this to her and she bawls and cries and tells me I was being an awful person lol. The hamster is real as fuck.
Yashugan00 7y ago
Her telling people that you were abusive is just pre emptive, make people not judge her like a slut for what she did
Seoul_Brother 7y ago
Which I knew. Lol too bad her going public with that article just made everyone know for sure that she was a cheater.
redolas 7y ago
I mostly agree with you. I just want to add this: You can't change women. 2000 years of "civilization" is nothing compared to millions of years of evolution. Just accept them as they are and never marry. It doesn't matter what each of us do, their nature will not change. Even if the whole world turned muslim and covered women in burkas, they would still find ways to cheat.
ikbork 7y ago
But the consequences if that happens make all the difference on the viability of marriage. In a muslim world this wouldn't mean been divorce raped, financial fall out, lose custody of the children and have to deal with the cheater to sort out the mess. It would mean that you could just move on with your life and your property knowing that her love and social life is doomed, if she not end up killed.
redolas 7y ago
We can go a lot of levels around "what if". It was just an example to show how little power we have in changing a woman.
Dressing all women in burkas would be a huge mistake from men's perspective. Just have a look at the arab world. Trust me, you wouldn't want that life.
Edit: I do agree that divorce rape, financial fall out and losing custody of children is wrong. But putting women in burkas won't help with any of that. Changing the legal system to give rights to men is not the same as changing the legal system to take all rights away from women. Think about that. Rights are not a zero-sum game. Most rights are not exclusive: parents can agree to both take care of their children even if they're divorced. You don't have to send the mother to prison so that the father can visit the children every weekend. You just have to give him the right and support him against the mother. If she's difficult, ok, prison for a few days, but she shouldn't live in prison just because she may not allow her ex to visit.
ikbork 7y ago
By that answer i didn't mean to condone with muslim culture. But it's undeniable that from the point of view of men towards marriage they are much more advantageous, and about the functionality of marriage itself too. Matrimony laws in the West aren't just bad ethically, are a dysfunctional mess too.
redolas 7y ago
You are doubly fucked in the US by the legal system, but that doesn't mean marriage is a good thing in other parts. Marriages in the East are dysfunctional too. You can add the marriages in the South and North to that same dysfunctional bunch. They are dysfunctional everywhere. The function of marriage is to keep society tamed. It has nothing to do with individual happiness or care.
ikbork 7y ago
By functionality i mean in a societal aspect, nor a individual one. And the function of the marriage is arrange people in the basic structure of the society, families, that will hold and reproduce its members and culture. And in that sense muslim marriages works very well, they birth rates says it all. And by the way, i don't buy the "ma feels" western culture aspect, in fact i despise it! To make the main reason of your life to be in a specific emotional state (happiness) leads you to be a egocentric fool for pursuing illusions that you force upon yourself to be your real goals by the need that you creates to pursue them as the way to a more resembled form of it. Ends up that you set up the meaning of your life to be accomplishing your more pleasant or comforting fantasies while undervaluing your moral values and real life in adaption to they, which changes every time that something life-altering happens. Pursuing this fluid and ethereal dream that fades every time you reach it or getting frustrated when not is the main reason that westerns are so emotionally fragile, easily breaking down into depression and in constant denial of it fearing not have any true reason or something worth to keep living while distracting themselves with superficial bullshit.
redolas 7y ago
Birthrates are not the direct result of marriages. The highest birthrates don't come from married people but mostly from poor, irresponsible and sexually uneducated people. China, India, Africa, Brazil. I bet it is valid even in the US. And, it is. Why is this happening? Society does that. It's a worldwide problem, it's not restricted to muslims.
And high birthrates are not even a good thing. Why would that be a good thing? Even more overcrowded cities, even more nature destroyed. Even more stupid people trying to marry and build houses and have marble kitchen countertops and other empty pleasures, because a life is not worth living if you don't have that. Seeking pleasure is not happiness.
Why do you value society as higher and more important than the individual happiness or well-being? Nature doesn't care about any of it. It doesn't care about society, about individuality or anything else. I just value my own happiness because I like the feeling of happiness. I don't like the feeling of working for society's benefit. A society that favors women while they are destroying their own and my happiness. A society that thinks birthrates and the economy are oh so important that we are actively destroying our chances to survive on this planet.
So yeah, call me egocentric, I don't mind. At least it's my decision and I'm not doing it for some imagined benefit of society. Which society in turn does not give one little shit about me, and my suffering won't make it happier at all. But, my happiness could make a difference. My happiness will make me happy and the people I meet during my day. In turn, they will be happy and they'll make more people happy. In the end, you have a happy society. It's made of individuals, you know? A group's happiness depends on the happiness of each individual. You can't have a happy group with all grumpy people, it just doesn't work like that.
But please, don't call me superficial. I have thought about these things, a lot. And this is what I came up with. If you manage to change my mind, I see that as a good thing, because then I've learnt something new. But be prepared with some facts and proper reasoning to attempt that.
What are the real goals we are supposed to pursue? What moral values? They are all rooted in our religion, and I don't believe in any religion. I'll just stop now, because I could go on forever. All the best to you. I do respect your opinion, but it's not mine and it doesn't seem like it will be anywhere in the near future.
ikbork 7y ago
I'll start it by answering your questions. What goals and morals a person must have it's up to each one of them to answer because these come from their own experiences and judgment, not my wishes and speculations.
How about society, marriage and birthrates, i tried to think of the point-of-view of the politicians and rulers of society, who are suppose to care about these matters and not to try to fuck us all individually and socially. I wanted to point out the absurdity of marriage laws in those both levels.
In my misanthropist days i used to think almost exactly like you, but i changed after a existential crisis after my oneitis. Now i know that all of this is bullshit and that way of thinking was one of the main causes of my emotional fall out, because i knew that my relationship issue wasn't that bad enough to do the harm that did (just a expected rejection of my crush). First the malthusianism: I learned that Earth is big enough to sustain more than double of our population, considering the current technology (well, ten years ago, so...). But even if it wasn't nature herself ( especially human nature, if u know what i mean...) would make us fit, so we don't have to worry about that.
I consider logical that society must be more important than the individual if that specific individual belongs to that society. And by belonging i don't mean in a property sense, but in a feeling of being part of it. The piece is lesser than the whole sort of thing. And in this corrupted led western society i can see that you don't hold this feeling, neither do i.
But i still disagree with the extremely high regard for emotional self-validation that is so typical of our times. Not that i consider looking for happiness a bad thing by itself, but it shouldn't be hold as a value because happiness can't be defined, only felt. And you can not build your character and your life-goals on something that you can not comprehend. People who already know themselves and found out what fundamentally makes them happy wouldn't see meaning in this beyond what it refers to their own. And for those who don't, they will be confused and feel pressured to accept anything to fix in that role to not let the others or themselves down, looking bad and without self-worth and perspective. That's why our propaganda is so effective promoting vain consumerism, and fake happiness is such a plague in social media.
redolas 7y ago
Yep, make up your own morals, good call. There have to be some rules so we don't start killing each other, but other than that, it should be individual decision. Putting society before the individual is like putting the cart before the horse.
Malthusianism was a new word for me. In my view, there is no need to restrict child rearing. Just stop encouraging it. Like, stop giving women money for their kids and stop enslaving men to their women using kids as an excuse. Stop all other perks and social pressure. Promote respect for children and teach them the right way to live.
Thinking of it, there should be a movement for children's rights. There is none. I'm not talking just about stopping abuse. I'm talking about the right to be a kid, the right to have access to information, to have a way to leave their parents if they don't like them. If you look at it, a child is legally dependent of their family for the first 18 years. Yes, the family protects but also mistreats and/or overindulges the child in several ways before he can even attempt to fend for himself. Don't give the money to the parents, make sure the child gets it. There is going to be a tremendous backlash towards the person who attempts this, but this is what should be done.
Most problems of today's world have been created in the past and we just refuse to let go. We implant these mistakes into our children even before they are able to think for themselves.
Consumerism is a good way to make people busy and forget about our corrupt leaders. It makes our leaders corrupt and keeps the masters in charge.
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htown42 7y ago
Bitch that women think life is a movie
Say that everything in their real life will be just like movie Unfaithful
I mean this guy is def dopey but so are you
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she will cheat on him again. what a cuck
omega_dawg93 7y ago
damn.
my fraternity brother is a male stripper & performs at bachelorette parties all the time.
in short, MOST of the women there taste his cock...with the bride or bride's maid given the honor of finishing him. seriously.
most guys have no idea how nasty women get at these parties.
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
They finish him off and then refuse to blow their husband after the honeymoon. I get it! I can name that song in 2 notes!
KyfhoMyoba 7y ago
Male stripper AMA: "Every single bride to be touched and handled his junk. All but two blew him and he fucked all but four."
Soarinc 7y ago
To the lurkers who may self-describe as gullible, how is this possible? Women at bachelorette parties are no better informed about the expectations than are guys on this forum.
How is it possible that bride's maid after bride's maid after bride's maid at multiple unrelated bachelorette parties somehow know the "rule" they are supposed to finish the guy off (or even the bride?)
Serious question -- if you said 20% of bachelorette parties were like that, at least my theory-crafting mind can create a plausible theory. However, you said MOST (unless I'm misinterpreting) of the women at all bachelorette taste the stripper's cock and usually the bride or bride's maid performing full oral on him?
Your post sounds 100% legit on my truth radar; so please interpret this as an honest question -- I'm genuinely curious!
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This pisses me off more than it should.
omega_dawg93 7y ago
I can't tell you how to feel but it shouldn't piss you off at all. their behavior is totally natural & expected (by me).
when you get the "brainwashing" rinsed clean from your mind, you will understand that women are TOTALLY capable of giving in to their "let's just fuck" natural instinct.
I have 3 older sisters. I listened to their justifications to cheat on their bf's & hubbies b4 they even did it. they even helped each other cover their tracks. and then I would listen to them say, "oh, we had sex but it didn't count bc my heart wasn't in it."
what the fuck is, "didn't count" when cum is running down your legs? female logic.
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I've seen a bunch of these vids on porn sites and you can so easily read the body language of every woman in the room... They're so hungry for cock. Kinda assumed these things didn't actually happen and they're just paid to be there though.
Nudity_Is_Freedom 7y ago
Cmon now. Those are studio porn videos. You were right in that last sentence.
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ziasaur 7y ago
agreed but also don't a lot of guys do this shit at their bachelor parties too
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I've been to several bachelor parties and the worst I've ever seen is a lapdance from a stripper.
omega_dawg93 7y ago
hell yeah we do...and it's expected.
and if you think it's ok for women to get down like men do...
then you should be very comfy knowing & accepting that your new wife had strange dick at her party.
flashback to my 1st gf and how she shattered my heart: my uncle said, "there are two ways to move on. first you can drown yourself in new pussy till you forget her, or you can close your eyes and imagine her WILLINGLY AND ENTHUSIASTICALLY accepting a new dick in her mouth & vagina.
now, the dude isn't taking anything...SHE'S GIVING IT TO HIM. when you can accept that image & accept the fact that it was HER CHOICE to have him, you will begin the healing process."
of course, I did both. my ego died that day...and I fully understood that women are just as capable as we are to just fuck. their lame excuses for doing so & the "hamster" action afterwards makes it easier to "next" a 9 or 10 like she was a 2 or 3.
own your behavior.
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Why the fuck does your brother strip
omega_dawg93 7y ago
lol.
SComm 7y ago
You don't even have to be a male stripper. I hang out at a club that always has bachelorette parties and I have gotten many a bathroom blowjob from a bride to be. They don't even see it as cheating.
omega_dawg93 7y ago
out of pure curiosity... with the potential for extreme comedy, I'd LOVE LOVE LOVE to hear a woman rationalize how this is NOT cheating. lol.
that's "steroid & crack" fueled hamster action.
rigbed 7y ago
They straight up say a blowjob isn't cheating, and even worse, it's not cheating if it's a bigger dick
Temperfuelmma 7y ago
Well, dicks are basically just a human body part, right? Like our hand or our finger, so sucking a dick is basically like sucking a finger and no sensible person would consider sucking a finger cheating. After all it is the act of penetrating that should be considered cheating, that is what causes women to be pregnant, right? How can you consider something cheating as long as you don't get pregnant?
There. That's the best I could do.
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Chippendork 7y ago
I was a stripper for about 6 years starting from the bottom to the top. This only happened when I was starting out as a party stripper in poor neighborhoods. Sounds fun until a dude shows up with a gun yelling in Spanish.
As a side note, don't think being 'alpha' will save you. These girls will cuckold the most alpha guy they can. If her boyfriend is a gang leader, she'll definitely suck your dick and let you bang her raw. If her boyfriend is a grad student, she wants to move in with you.
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Sounds hilarious and terrifying
Soarinc 7y ago
Wait, that bridesmaid (or bride) can catch an STD like that and open up a shit-storm for the new married couple right?
Chippendork 7y ago
Dude, this type of girl is fucking insane. I'm pretty sure they do this shit just to cause drama.
So, obvious question: did I ever? Yes, once and I fucking paid for it. Aside from fearing for my life for months, I caught the drip and despite it being 'easily curable', my balls still ache constantly almost 15 years later. Could have been a lot fucking worse. I spent the remainder of my 'career' not fucking anybody. Not worth it. Not one bit. The girls don't give a fuck about you, and you are way too easy for some pissed-off dude to track down.
Soarinc 7y ago
Hey! This is the first time I've ever heard this -- I never knew some STD's cause long term ache & pain even after the initial symptoms are treated. Thanks for sharing this I never knew.
Overkillengine 7y ago
It is a form of Ego defense that is regrettably persistent even in this community. It is tempting to regard 'alpha' as a binary finish line one can cross and be done with the race.
The worst of lies are the ones that a person tells to themselves. The race never ends.
mitzibishi 7y ago
If you are an alpha with a great body she will fuck some shmo with a beer gut. If you are a millionaire she will fuck a tramp. If you are the perfect husband in every way and she couldn't be happier she will fuck a total douche bag. If you are total douche bag she will friend zone some poor sap at work to be a shoulder to cry on but never give him any of that pussy he yearns for.
throwaway11224456 7y ago
Yup, caught my ltr cheating on me with a scrawny carless cokehead yesterday. (I know this because I read his fb messages, the stupid bitch left all her accounts signed in on my laptop.) I'm a fit pro mma fighter with his shit decently together.
The look on his face when I unlocked the door and walked in (I'm a security officer and carry a firearm.) was priceless. I threw her house key at him and told her she was trash and that she's been dumped then left.
Being proactive with your life is something you do to find satisfaction with yourself, having confidence and skills is the real prize. Pussy comes a lot easier when you're doing good for yourself.
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In other words, don't be boring and some mad ho will fuck you even if you don't do any other game.
hb8only 7y ago
nope. you will be really fun and she will sleep with some wird boring guy
[deleted] 7y ago
This ^. Was married for 15 years, together for 20 all together. By just about every measure you have heard mentioned here, I was about as good a man as I could be. She wound up screwing up (I will never share that story publicly), and ultimately her issue was not that I was "not enough" it was that I was "too much".
When you are athletic, smart,and earn good money - she may just get tire of that and start pining for some hairy smelly musician dude for ...reasons.
Wilreadit 7y ago
It is just the human craving for variation. Like we do not eat the same food right, even if it is the most balanced food with all nutrients and manna.
Same with women.
Moral: AWALT, do not ever wife her.
KarmaForTrump 7y ago
This and the comments before it is a reality that I've experienced but never heard on trp... I should have realized this.
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True that. Lessons learned.
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Schrodingersdawg 7y ago
How do you get into it? Got any example pics of how their physique looks?
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knightSwolaire 7y ago
What's their gym routine? I wouldn't mind stripping but I'd need more shredded body
Chippendork 7y ago
A better answer:
My first show ever, I showed up ripped as hell and my costume was awesome and I could do all kinds of gymnastics shit like flips and handstands. I was a pretty good dancer at the clubs, but really my solo routine sucked, and I bombed like hell.
That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I really felt like I hit a new low as a failed male stripper. I worked on my routine for a whole year before going back to it.
Moral of the story:
Gym bodies don't mean shit unless you can dance like Channing Tatum for an hour straight, keeping it fresh with a different routine every 5 minutes. I've seen guys of all body types do really well if they can entertain. You can't just be ripped and pretty, although both help. You need to seem superhuman.
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tehftw 7y ago
Most likely the same as every other man. Free weights, heavy lifting etc.
RunnerFour 7y ago
Stripper bodies are made in the kitchen.
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Whomp whomp whomp and most dudes here think getting an aesthetic body will come from just lifting. Gear is a game changer
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for reference, post some pics
Chippendork 7y ago
I'd like to, but our industry has a history of bad things happening to people that talk about it: http://articles.latimes.com/1994-07-30/local/me-21593_1_racketeering-charge
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And the guy deleted his account. Damn dude why does shit happen if you talk about it?
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kinmeyy 7y ago
Wells am sure we get as nasty as fuck in our bachelor's party...
omega_dawg93 7y ago
of course we do, but it's hard for some guys to think of their future wives, gf's, aunts, etc at a "girl" party catching nut from male strippers.
the "sugar & spice & everything nice" thing is ingrained in their brains & they can't visualize their woman getting down & dirty.
thewrightstuff88 7y ago
It also has to do with how men and women perceive mating. Men don't have to be "emotionally" invested in the sense that the stripper is "better" than his wife to be. Look at how women are perceived on military bases, 3s become 9s after long enough. We have the urge and get it over with after orgasm.
Women on the other hand are so fucked in the head that they can have consensual sex, and think that AFTER the task was said and done, they can consider it "rape" because they had buyers remorse or even one negative thought about the experience turned her off to it. To have sex, women must be "emotionally" invested, in the sense that she perceives the male she wants to fuck, as better than you. In this case, it's the stripper, a guy who is ripped with a 6 pack.
There's plenty of strip clubs where female strippers can range anywhere from 2/10s to 9.9/10s (in looks) but male strippers are almost always ripped.
A woman must "feel" that you are better than her. If she doesn't, then she knows that she can get away with a whole lot.
There's a saying, "Everything is about sex, but sex, is about power."
omega_dawg93 7y ago
understood.
but the way I see it, women are human = animals just like us.
and when they are in their "pack mentality" mindset, i.e., girl's night out or bachelorette party, they relax their restrictions and react on physical instinct = "let's all be sluts." it's the physical representation of the group think mindset. no judgment allowed bc we are all being bad.
men are typically afraid of this PURELY PHYSICAL female "creature," and women are often ashamed or have buyer's remorse from this aspect of their nature.
blueiron0 7y ago
These girls do shit with the random stripper that their beta boy will spend years begging her to do in bed, but the girl will think he isnt worth that effort. She settled for him. Why should i have to put in extra effort to please him? He should be happy just to be able to have me in bed. Meanwhile, dirty dan was all up in that ass.
kanyewost 7y ago
Thats THE thing that cracks me up the most
and should make any MAN take the Red Pill LOL
Kenny_Twenty 7y ago
Used to fuck this girl. She had a fiancé. She was a dirty bitch and I could tell she wanted to eat my ass. One day I let her. It came up in text convo after the fact. Her fiancé discovered the text messages. After he forgave her, he conveyed his envy. Requested that she do to him what she did to me.
Too bad he never found out that she liked me to choke her, pull her hair, slap her, and spit in her mouth, too. He could've had that fun as well. She mentioned in a FB message recently (that became her new security measure after iMessage became compromised lol) that they just bought a house together. Well, he bought it, of course. She still wants me to come over and dominate her but I grew bored of her.
Honestly, I'm lucky that I have a really hard time connecting with women on a emotional level. Also, I don't really experience a sense of companionship from them. These things are virtues for me, as trying to internalize these them from a purely objective standpoint sounds like it would be extremely difficult.
EDIT - I reread this post and it makes me seem unrealistically... I don't know, stoic? I get emotional sometimes. I get jealous, my feelings get hurt, I have issues with ego. And despite what I said about not connecting well with women, there are exceptions. I've had my feelings hurt plenty of times. And in large part, that is how I've made the "progress" I've made. Being burned can make you callous if you process it that way.
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I also don't sense any companionship from them. My relationships never last long because of this. Do you think we are psychopaths or something?
Kenny_Twenty 7y ago
Fuck no. Psychopaths are generally not introspective. Nor would they even understand the idea of companionship - other than as some kind of abstraction. Furthermore, it would be no issue whatsoever. They would just fake whatever emotion necessary to get what they want out of the relationship.
They just literally don't think in those terms. They don't feel companionship from anyone because they literally don't have the capacity for it. Imagine an emotion that doesn't exist for humans, you cannot miss that. It's almost less than nothing to you. That is what companionship is for psychopaths.
omega_dawg93 7y ago
damn. dude was clueless abt what that broad wanted...or worse, who she really was when he was not in her presence.
Kenny_Twenty 7y ago
I'm not sure. I think it's the male version of hamstering. He doesn't want to accept reality.
And listen, I'm tall and kinda good looking, but I'm far from a chad. I'm also far from an alpha or an advanced TRP exponent. And I've fucked many taken women.
So to me, imagining what a real panty-dropper can do is jarring. In fact, I don't have to imagine. The most successful pussy hound I've ever met, I have no clue how he does it. He isn't especiwlly good looking or muscular. He doesn't have some kinda strategy (as far as I know), he's just a bartender. And women come in, sit at the bar, and fucking fall for him. Over and over. Literally more nights than not. You could take the most muscular, TRP internalized person on this board and let him take one of his plates into the bar. She'll be writing her phone number on the back of her credit card slip right behind Chad's back.
It's absolutely mind blowing. Whoever you are, there is someone out there who can take your girl from you. This is a reality that must be accepted.
EDIT - I want to make it clear that I'm nowhere near his level. Nowhere near. I only do ok.
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dvrzero 7y ago
abundance mentality. Thousands of women a year sit at his bar and it's lost its luster to him.
So they want to impress, i guess. This isn't a completely parallel analogy, but i hate meatloaf; everyone i tell this to says i need to try their meatloaf, it'll totally change my mind. Kinda the same thing.
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I have read plenty of stories and what you said has been confirmed by the numerous stories. The funny thing is the stripper doesn't even ask for it. The women literally just go for it. If I was to ever want to get married, which I don't, I would run for the hills if she wants a bachelorette party with strippers.
103342 7y ago
I'm not really a fan of Stephan Molyneux, but liste to him having Conversation with a male stripper.
GreatWhiteCuck 7y ago
That is an excellent interview
koolkat182 7y ago
That's a great piece of advice.
BluepillProfessor 7y ago
Or her little boy. Don't be a bitch or a little boy.
meburpme 7y ago
Just watched the video and I don't think he was a great mediator... At times he was all over the place, and he could have made it less about himself and more about the male dancer. The host could have asked better questions and try to understand the dancer, and consequently help him understand himself.
He was totally right that this dude in his 30s should've been financially stable by now and I liked that he encouraged him to save. Perhaps he could have encouraged him to go back to school and get a degree that'll help him be financially stable
Overall very enlightening video
103342 7y ago
This is what I don't like about molyneux also. Sometimes he just rants for too long about irrelevant and/or talks too much about stuff that are already understood.
But some of his talks are pretty good. I just don't really like the guy.
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I've seen this video before. It's really eye opening to how much women cheat right before weddings.
RancidTurnip 7y ago
You should see how many women cheat after weddings, it will blow your mind.
RIPelliott 7y ago
When I think about the fact that of my close group of seven, three of our Moms were caught cheating on our Dads. Zero the other way around. And these were the three that were caught - imagine who gets away with it.
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I read that it's enough that it is considered when doing genealogy studies. So they cheat enough that a nontrivial percentage of children are bastards.
RancidTurnip 7y ago
Three out of seven sounds pretty likely. In an anonymous poll by Yougov, 19% of women admitted to cheating on their spouse, and 7% declined to answer. Key word being admitted. Of those 19%, 36% admitted to multiple affairs.
Who knows what the numbers would be if women as a whole were even remotely honest with themselves and other people. ("Teehee, it doesn't count if you're on vacation!") Some feminist based sources claim the number is as high as 40%, but they also say 60% of men cheat which is just silly.
RedDeadCred 7y ago
60% of men can't get a girl.
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yomo86 7y ago
60 % of males would also cheat. But biology does not hard wire girls into "just having sex" they want alpha seed and commitment - so the opportunities just don't come up that easily.
RancidTurnip 7y ago
True, I just have a hard time believing that 60% of men in relationships can find women to cheat with when taking into consideration that women view 80% of men as below average.
I guess there's something to be said for alcohol and no standards.
yomo86 7y ago
It is (relativly) easy. Depending you do not aim for the 7 or 8 your wife is the living proof of being pre-selected and having access to pussy.
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zulhadm 7y ago
We definitely don't do that ????
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blackormonkey 7y ago
I mean yeah the soon to be wife is a slut, big time. But fuck man, how much of a fucking doormat loser pussy do you have to be to to still want to marry that bitch?
graffix13 7y ago
Exactly. This guy isn't even beta...he's more like an omega. Totally pathetic.
RPmatrix 7y ago
Omega's rarely get wives ... not enough women come to their bedroom/mum's basement
This guy's sadly Blue Pill AF ... apt title
Temperfuelmma 7y ago
Anybody else notice she's doing a fake smile the picture with her fiance?
Lsegundo 7y ago
I don't normally go for "you fucked it up for the rest of us men" This guy did. All the women seeing this story are going to think they can go get fucked on their bachelorette and get away with it too. Good thing us Reds are never getting married
What happens in the video is bad enough. We all know she got fucked at the end of the night except for the dopey blooper groom.
Kidy88 7y ago
Both are lame but I get why he still wants to marry her (that blue pill mentality) but why girls in this situation still want to get married????
Maybe they lie to themselves like: it's not gonna happen again, I love him, he is the love of my life, I am not a cheater and bla, bla, bla but in the end they know is not true!! It's going to happen again.
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Girls in this situation want to marry to lock in resources. This pathetic beta is probably gonna get divorce raped, when she's "bored" and wants to seek out "excitement"
MuhTriggersGuise 7y ago
Plus the vast majority of women want a wedding, especially when they're young enough to look good in a dress. It isn't just getting married, it's the wedding day. They love getting to spend a small fortune to play princess for a day. The icing on the cake is they get half their new husbands shit and a stipend for life.
Invalidity 7y ago
Because it's convenient, and he probably proposed to her.
You're asking why she doesn't behave rationally... are you forgetting that she is female? Now, not ALL women will behave like this, but most will. The only time those women won't behave like this is when they have a lot to lose (potentially high value partner or few to no options remaining).
rigbed 7y ago
The "you proposed to me" argument is toxic. Especially if the woman "agrees" by breaking into tears and hugging him(never kissing her beta bux) but never verbally consenting to marriage.
Invalidity 7y ago
It's his responsibility to watch out for his own livelihood. She may be a decent human being or a horrible monster, but it is his job to make sure that he doesn't end up with the latter.
Even if she is a horrible person, it's stupid for him to believe that all people should be decent human beings. Such a belief does nothing to protect him from becoming a victim.
The same applies to women who are victimized when they go out: those women are responsible for THEIR safety. Whoever victimizes them is at fault, but if they don't take the necessary precautions, they are exposing themselves to more danger than if they were cautious.
AcidMal 7y ago
Are you dense? What kind of stupid fucking question is that? Do you read anything on TRP?
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Redasshole 7y ago
Dont wife up anyone.
Also, shitty post: no analize whatsoever, only drama. You dont know what she said to make him act like this? Fucking learn before posting.
prodigy2throw 7y ago
Lol the woman who cheated is a more red pill man than the guy could dream of. Gets caught cheating, suggests calling off the wedding, runs dread on the guy who forgives her.
Epic. Men, don't forget that TRP can work on you just as well as it works on these hoes
rossiFan 7y ago
I hope he has a prenup... if there's a such thing in Mexico.
Funny thing is that she's pretty cute, but she's kissing a fat fucker in a circle of fat fuckers.
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jason1009 7y ago
this guy officially deserves what is coming to him. ten years from now when he loses half his shit, half his retirement, is paying alimony/child support, and is living in a one bedroom apartment while she lives it up with his money while getting pounded by chads, he deserves it. every ounce of it. you could not have given him a brighter neon sign warning to not marry this girl.
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Yep. I feel bad for the guys who didn't know what their wives were doing behind their back and then found out AFTER marriage. This guy is literally given the biggest red flag, telling him to stop and break up before marriage and he's still gonna do it. What a bitch.
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Faymozilla 7y ago
I'm disappointed with men nowadays where have all the good guys gone to? Seriously what's with all these beta cucks? I'm tired of seeing it.
[deleted] 7y ago
Lucky for the boyfriend that he will be protected from her infidelity and divorce rape by the strong vows of marriage.
Don't wife up any bitch ever
Putins_Masseuse 7y ago
This is beyond red pill blue pill. The man is a fucking moron.
Samwir87 7y ago
hm, surprised she didn't straight out fucked the guy. #spermwars
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I wouldn't get too angry, I mean look at the guy, he's a stud, hopefully he 'fucked up' too
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menial_optimist 7y ago
She looks exactly like my younger friends older sister. Puts on an aura of "innocent pure woman" but I can't shake the feeling when ever shes around that its all a facade. She's getting married soon to a cuck who happens to be an engineer. Can't wait for their falling out.
truekejsi 7y ago
My friend's brother celebrated his "last days of freedom before marriage" in some brothel in Latvia (he lives in Germany). Fucked 5+ girls there over the weekend.
Is this the same story, but his wife will probably never know, so...is it ok then?
jewishsupremacist88 7y ago
more like alot of shekels were spent on this event and thats why
Totsean 7y ago
Dumped girls for lesser things, he is an idiot for sticking around. YOU HAVE THE WHOLE FREAKING WORLD TO FIND GIRLS MAN. I moved out of my Country to another Country and now I am swimming in pussy. Seriously.
CoNoCh0 7y ago
Sounds like he's got a free get out of jail card now to me.
RedDeadlift 7y ago
Socially, maybe. But not legally, which is what really counts.
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But why voluntarily go to jail in the first place?
CoNoCh0 7y ago
Call it purgatory for that man
cdgar 7y ago
haha man the girl is from my city. Where do you get that they will marry?
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The mere fact that she even thought she had a leg to stand on in her own defense speaks multitudes about her, along with the fact that she still wanted the wedding to proceed despite her clear-cut case of infidelity.
They will try to defend even the indefensible, and they will always have a wide berth of women backing them up. The game is "push the envelope". How much can we get away with, if we have enough people screaming over it?
theneoroot 7y ago
This is the blue pill best case scenario, not only did he discover his soon to be wife is a whore, he can now use her reputation as a whore to manipulate her into doing whatever he wants, the threat of divorce that will shred any sympathy her social circle might have towards his wife will put the fear of god into her, so she'll be stuck with this chump who she can't get horny to for life, all the while he's blackmailing her into good behaviour, blaming the problems of a relationship that he could have put a stop to and is doomed to fail on her. He knows his wife is a whore. He is also marrying her, I don't believe he doesn't know what to expect.
Any single fault he has and is brought up by her will be argued away with a "I still married someone like you" by him, and she won't be able to argue back. She'll deal with his shit for a couple years and then either take the fall or simply get him angry enough that he hits her and she can assume the role of the victim. The latter is more likely since someone that decides to do what he is going to is not someone that can deal with how people view him either. His fame as a cuck will make his bitterness and toxicity rise above what he can lash out in a passive-aggressive manner. He also won't know what is wrong, the decision he made will have shaped his life so much so that he wouldn't even be able to imagine what would happen had he dumped her and had a little bit of skepticism from thereon.
When he decided to marry the bitch people will not continue to see him as "the nice guy that had his heart broken by a slut", but as "the idiot who can't tell up from down, mentally challenged and as gullible as a 4 year old". There will be no solace and people won't try to cheer him, his toxicity will just make the few people who might try steer clear of the radioactive waste of self-pity he'll become.
That is still the best case scenario for a blue pill guy. Sure, he'll suffer, spiral down to the bottom and be miserable for a long time after, but he'll have a few years of hate fucking this whore that isn't even enjoying it and actually have more power in his relationship than any other blue pill guy will know since the possibility of him leaving her is actually a real threat to her.
RPmatrix 7y ago
are you a scriptwriter bro?
zoot-suit 7y ago
He puts up with her shit because she is a hot piece of ass and maybe rich.
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drqxx 7y ago
My heart aches for this poor stupid man.
RealMcGonzo 7y ago
Where are the groom's friends? His father? Hasn't RP made enough inroads that somebody could have clued this guy up?
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vagbutters 7y ago
Some overweight/scrawny BP's are beyond help-- it takes the harsh teachings of reality to wake some of them up, and even that may not be enough for the especially cucked. This is what a system of blue-pill brain washing does to a man. Makes him effeminate, weak, and easy to manipulate.
TheRedStoic 7y ago
He doesn't want to wife her he just wants a wife.
If he wanted to wife her he either wouldn't have cared, or would've realized this isn't the girl he wanted to wife.
He's complacent to the dream, and because of his lack of abundance can't see the pit he's wallowing in.
I guarantee his sphincter clenched, he felt sick, and his first thoughts "how could this bitch do this" were immediately reinforced by "but there isn't anyone else".
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GOATmar 7y ago
cuck. he probably loves it - smells like a hoax for quick fame.
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What if they're all sluts and you still want to settle down eventually?
Become a hermit? A monk? A priest?
palaceposy6706 7y ago
Bro, don't get married. Just don't. The social and legal climate of today makes it an unwinnable game for a man. The safeguards that were in place to somewhat make it work have been struck down.
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I know what you're saying is rational... but honestly I don't know if the loneliness is worse or the heartbreak. I've had both, I honestly can't tell.
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chances_are_ur_a_fag 7y ago
not getting married =/= loneliness. really?
RushingPrecision 7y ago
I see how this is no different than what most of us do at our Bachelor parties...cept not being stupid enough to get it recorded n passed around. That's the point of these parties...one last hurrah
JimCanuck 7y ago
No idea why you are down voted.
Batchelor and Bachelorette parties are for that one last "score", for both men and women.
Only difference is socially, including on here, when women do it, she's a slut, when a man does it, he was "drunk".
Vasallo7G 7y ago
I will block TRP for October CAN NOT HANDLE THE TRUTH
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rocacu 7y ago
I hope he discovers TRP before is too late...
empatheticapathetic 7y ago
This thread depressed me more than TRP stuff usually does. I would have been so proud of him if he walked away but by actually deciding to walk and then changing his mind, he has totally fucked himself. Maybe because I have a huge scarcity mindset as well and wonder if that would ever be me and that you can never win.
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Since this isn't a publication from the Sun maybe now people will understand shit isn't what it seems. AWALT is a simple concept for a reason.
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RPmatrix 7y ago
bahahahaa ha! when will people start thinking for themselves, I wonder?
The guy what he knew was the right thing to do with "PrincessCoralina" BUT "expectant grandma's and grandpa's" (and other vested interests) talked this (and many other) guy out of it!
grow some Balls and live your life .... Not the Life "other's Tell you 'you should"
mother''s are great, but fuck me if most aren't still solopsistic women! The amount of people i meet living "the 'normal' Life I'm supposed to" (sheeple) who will "do what's expected of them (by who?) sadden me and always end up with many regrets
But the Black Sheep gets .... well, you know ... to be part of some of The Most Unique wool in the world
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This was in Mexico?! A generation ago, the bride to be would have been offed and the guy who kissed her would have had his tongue cut out.
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Kite23 7y ago
It's a lot more conservative
[deleted] 7y ago
yeah no
its basically a third world country with mexicans and factories instead of blacks and jungles
[deleted] 7y ago
What a faggot. I bet even his dad is ashamed of him...or maybe he is actually gay and is just getting married for show.
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_Trigglypuff_ 7y ago
All I see in this is that hitting on married women is going to be far more rewarding in future.