"Men have somehow picked up this bad habit from women."

Women with tattoos and piercings is the same principle.

"Women who know you might be seeing others, are less likely to play games. If they like you, women are AFRAID to take chances of losing you. They know if they say "I'm busy" too many times you will call someone else."

This is spot on, and all the rest. But this one is crucial. It seems like women love being your bitch; they love not having the security of passion, it makes the man seem so high in value. I've experienced it. When I was casually seeing my ex in the first months, she'd do anything for me- she knew we weren't a couple so she didn't want to mess up at all. The second when she realized that I caught feelings (and betaness), her true bitch started to come out. In hindsight, I didn't maintain frame control and became more of a woman in the way I was dealing with our relationship. When I was less invested in her, the relationship seemed so much more natural. I was the alpha, she was my bitch that was ready to fuck whenever I hit her up, she came over.

I have to admit though, from my experience, some women let go if they realize that they will never be your one and only. Emotional investment is needed to keep women interested. That's for sure. I think I've read about that in the Sex God Method. The author mentions how in the DEVI model Emotional connections are crucial for women or they leave sooner or later (even if you can make her cum multiple times in one session and stuff like that).

Here is the PDF file I created. You can download it from the link but it is only going to be up for 7 days from this post (free no sign up service). Please take the PDF and spread it around everywhere.

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There is so much gold in these posts! I particularly direct your attention to Part 4: Action.

Please don't stop after reading the initial post! It sparks a debate that is even more informative. As explained by Pook, Anti-Dump was different from most PUAs, in that he didn't examine WHY a woman a woman did something. He only cared about her actions. How did she respond? How did she behave? He was beyond attracting girls. His "machine" was a tool to weed out girls who were not interested in him.

I feel TRP has done a fairly decent job of explaining the WHY. We have unraveled the mysteries and defined the general tenets of female motivation: hypergamy, shit testing, solipism, crab-in-a-bucket, etc. Once you learn these lessons, you start to see them everywhere.

But Pook, 10 years in the past, points out that understanding isn't critical. You can succeed even in ignorance. In fact, most men do. He creates a hypothetical group of successful men, has them stand in line, and asks for their advice. They are a very diverse group, so each gives wildly different answers. Yet somehow, despite their sometimes conflicting answers, these men are all successful with women. Pook explains what they have in common:

Why does this bodybuilder and wimpy artist get the girl? What is the same about them?

They both created their own world. The women find the artist interesting and imaginative. The women also find the bodybuilder strong and forceful. They like both.

If you are still struggling with attracting women I want you to really think on that concept:

They created their own world.

Burn it into your mind. It is critical. This is the big first step, where you leave theory and begin application.

I don't think most successful guys KNOW why they are successful. Generally, they don't care. [...] All these men here have two things in common. First, they created their own world. [...] The second thing they have in common is some type of manliness. It doesn't have to be to an extreme degree, but [...] generally, girls are attracted to MEN. It is VERY manly to create your own world and live within it.

We ridicule "Just be yourself!" as terrible advice. Some of us heard this cliche so often during our years of failure that it feels like a slap to the face. But this advice is usually given without malice. These hollow words are coming from loving friends and caring family. They want to help, but they don't know how. Here is a better translation: Show her the world you have created.

If you agree with that statement, but "Just be yourself!" still isn't working for you, TRP will explain your failure quite bluntly: You haven't created a world women want.

These posts from Anti-Dump were for the guys who had passed beyond that stage. This isn't 101 material. He was an older poster, giving next-level advice. He was speaking to men who had already improved their worlds. Men who had defined their goals and were pursuing their ambitions. Men who were starting to achieve success.

If you're in that camp, women are interested in visiting your world. Like tourists on a street full of shops, they pop their head in the door, and do a quick scan to see if anything exciting stands out. If they see something cool, they may come in for a closer look. Assuming your world is exciting, your shop will soon have a lot of traffic. Anti-Dump's "machine" is a system for weeding out the window-shoppers and time-wasters. Your goal now is to identify and target the genuine customers. The girls who are truly interested in you.

Only you can decide what you are selling. It might be sex, a relationship, marriage, or something completely outside the mainstream. But regardless, you first have to narrow down the pool to only the shoppers who are actually there to make a purchase.

TL;DR: If you have reached the point where you're getting plenty of numbers and dates, but the majority turn out to be pointless wastes of time, then these are the articles you need to read!

(Apologies for the dozen edits...)

Or a guy that will LISTEN (not talk) when disaster strikes their life.

My ex wife would ramble on about all the problems she had at work and the minute I added useful advice she'd freak out on me and get defensive because I was judging her. This make so much sense now. They really don't want advice. They don't want to fix the problem. They just want to "feel" secure and supported.

Edit: this whole post kind of blew my mind. Thanks OP.

I posted this pdf on SoSuave back in April. It's still available and isn't going anywhere anytime soon.

Enjoy:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B212QFR0NhCkeF9Pek1qVzZ1OWs/edit?usp=sharing

PS: Anti-Dump's Machine was written by Pook, a legendary poster at SoSuave who himself compiled and commented on the posts of another member, Anti-Dump, into the "Machine".

That's some fucking game right there.

Could not for the life of me make it into a PDF, but I combined the threads into single images and put them in an imgur album with all posts from Pook inverted for visibility.

Imgur album of PNG screenshots

Edit: Click the * gear icon in the top right corner for full screen resolution.

Women are all guilty of NON-interest until they PROVE it to you by showing CONSISTANTLY good behavior.

That one is a good mindset to have. You don't want to have women poisoning your existence around.

Dude, thank you for this post. Its these types of posts that we need more of on this sub, not MRA posts, BP posts, or endless AWALT examples. We have a lot of people who are either in the 'anger' phase or are just discovering TRP. Posts like this one help those guys find purpose with women outside of plating them or completely ignoring them. +1 indeed.

I'll read it after I'm done with no more mr.nice guy. Many things mentioned here are things I already do though, and have been doing even long before discovering the RP.

I was interested at first, then things just didn't click with me. Maybe I am looking at this with 'pick-up' eyes rather than 'quality LTR' eyes.

Anti dump has been a classic for as long as i can remember - great stuff

What I find interesting is that he specifically says he does not initiate sex and tries to wait as long as possible. This is the opposite of the core TRP adage of always be escalating.