Prelude Why are women so paradoxical? They’re wonderful, delusional beings that both feel impossible to be with and without. They can be too much of a bother to deal with, yet most of us here would die for them. Dating itself is a walking contradiction. I’ll be sweet to her, I’ll be her shoulder to cry on, I will take her on wonderful elaborate dates specialized to everything she told me the first time we met and yet she only wants to be with me when I treat her like Chad or Tyron.

To the girl who works at Starbucks I wrote you this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTL1yA2XJYI

And yet you are this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TSKizLRFbTo

There is so much confusion with what my hearts want to believe and what reality is. When a man takes the red pill, I’m told they go through the five stages of grief Anger, Denial, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance

Why do most men, myself including never travel to the final stage. On a fundamental level I understand that the red pill provides me clarity and truth on female nature, but then why can’t the pill go down. The sidebar is there in plain English, the top posts are simple and to the point yet there seems to be an inability to accept each stage. It seems that I am stuck in stages 1 – 4 and don’t seem to move on to 5.

And I am not alone in this.

Red pill content amasses billions of views across social media with creator upon creator repeating the schtick in just slightly different words each time. Neil Strauss, Patrice O Neal, Jordan Peterson, Kevin Samuels, Andrew Tate, PsycHacks.

It feels like there is a new star every month repeating this same shit with just slight different variations to make it more palatable to the same audience. You don’t learn addition a hundred times, do you? You learn it once and move on.

Why are we here circle jerking between Stages 1 & 4 never embracing Stage 5.

Feel like I've already said this a Ka billion eighty times. How many times can I say the same thing different ways that rhyme? - Eminem

Why haven’t none of us left that mindset. If you’re here reading this shit it means you never learned your lesson too. You’re stuck. Lol I’m stuck too.

Here are the results from a survey I conducted on Reddit two months ago - https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10stsfi/tell_me_your_stories_of_heartache/.

They’re all stuck too, with some cases of obsession with Stages 1 – 4 so extreme that I am convinced that Stage 1 – 4 ruminations should be psychiatrically labeled an addition.

So, if I am still stuck in stages 1 – 4. And you’re still stuck in stages 1 – 4 and we’re all stuck in stages 1 – 4 and yet deep down we understand that stage 5 is where the answer lies (you wouldn’t be reading this if you didn’t and asktrp wouldn’t exist if didn’t) then it means there is something wrong with our approach.

You can learn anything – Khan Academy: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JC82Il2cjqA]

But you won’t learn shit, if you’re teacher is a retard – Fake Alpha: [https://youtu.be/O9ORtAzUJC4?t=9]

If the approach is wrong, you’re just heading nowhere. So why are we stuck at Stages 1 – 4?

MY SOLUTION You don’t want to accept stage 5, because deep down there is no real incentive for you to do so.

There is a psychological concept known as cognitive dissonance. https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-cognitive-dissonance-2795012

When what you think a situation should be and what a situation actually is like conflicts with each other it causes mental anguish.

Take the following scenario. You have been raised by blue pill conditioning and believe in a world where women love you for who you deep down are as a person. That women are purely honest with their emotions so when she says things like she’s never felt this way with someone the way she does with you and that she loves and will accept your vulnerability to her – she means it.

Steven Universe – Love Like You [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2F8HvKqnp5s] Wouldn’t that be nice. I love you.

When men take the red pill, and apply it to real life, very quickly you get very exposed to various emotions/stages when you find out what women are really like.

Take the following video. Which stage do you think the guy is in? - [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1ctND6E7J8]

Two lenses. Stages 1 – 4 would be bitter because she lied.

But Stage 5 would say look at this man, he looks happy as fuck. He is getting his needs satisfied. He saw all the signs and accepted her for her true nature. Stage 5 seems to be the ideal place to be, in stage 5, you don’t get tricked. And if she actually has no idea what she’s doing you have the mental capacity to train her. So why am I still stuck at 4?

IT IS ALL ABOUT INCENTIVES. You as a man have a vested psychological interest in believing that women are pure innocent creatures. Because it makes you feel even more like a man when you come to her aid,

Mario - Let Me Love You - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H64QG4UsrGI

You cannot deny how powerful this white knight incentive is. It is built into your blood.

Men have fought wars for just for a random girl to look at you like this. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/U6QzHbNZfvw

Men love to believe that women are this helpless lost damsel in distress, an innocent pure soul that needs rescuing, a saint, that is lost and you are just there to help her out. It is primal bro, you just can’t help it.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pussywhipped

Look at the story of the Christian mother of Jesus, the virgin Mary, men are so convinced that women are pure and innocent that they’d build the whole of civilization on the concept of Immaculate conception than accept that she got creampied by a stranger then Joseph had to raise Chad or Tyron’s son before he got some common sense and ghosted her.

GTA IV’s DLC – The Beautiful and the Damned is to me the best depiction of this pathetic obsession we men have with rescuing “pure and innocent” women, even at our own destruction. This short clip I’ve time stamped brings out the essence of the point I’m trying to make.

https://youtu.be/YQVVMmiKTQE?t=186

You’re funny, Johnny. You care about everyone else when they’re fine. And you end up tying yourself in a knot. - Ashley Butler

This is why you can’t move on to acceptance to stage 5

You’ve got to find a way to incentivize accepting female nature.

We live in a cut throat world. What ever there is an incentive to do will be done. If there is money to be made in onlyfans – only fans thrives, if there is money to be off of covid – covid thrives (https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/trial-sans-error-how-pharma-funded-research-cherry-picks-positive-results/) ; if there is significant enough of incentives for you to move to stage 5 you will.

But how in the fuck are you going to incentivize yourself to uncondition your self from decades of blue pill conditioning. From looking at a woman like this and letting go of the savior complex - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8vrfM0hRCg.

The typical approach of just spin more plates is difficult because it faces the chicken and egg problem. How can you convince a man to get plates, when he doesn’t have the skills to get the plates because he won’t accept the red pill.

My solution Natural Selection Accept that women really are nature’s gift to man, that they are perfect pure innocent angels and you will take the red pill. WTF am I taking about??? Plain and simple. "Yield and overcome, empty and become full, bend and become straight." Sun Tzu Jui jitsu https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qB5Wz0U61Zo Accept this proposition. That women are nature’s gift to men. And you will swallow the red pill. As a man you live in a dangerous world. If you travel to the wrong street in America you will get shot, while your shooter celebrates https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-41488081 Born in the wrong part of the world you will get sterilized, while your torturers celebrate https://apnews.com/269b3de1af34e17c1941a514f78d764c Too poor you will be taken advantage off while the world celebrates https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I0EsOFDA6uM Not rich enough, your largest employer will take advantage https://www.peoplesworld.org/article/workers-cite-awful-conditions-inside-amazons-monstrous-staten-island-fulfillment-center/

How can you a stupid primate know how to differentiate all this fucking signals. How can you tell the difference between honest and deceit, deal with irrational characters, recognize the signs of dangers and find away to deal with multiple setbacks while going for your goals.

I wonder, if nature put in an artificial tool that helped you as a man learn all the skills you need to competently succeed in the world.

The “everything she does is cute” game tactic is defined more precisely as an inner game refinement. When you start thinking of women as adorable brats who know not what they do, you start treating them in ways consistent with your beliefs. With enough reprogramming in the right direction (i.e. kicking the supports out from under her pedestal), soon the words coming out of your mouth will be effortless verbal expressions of what you actually feel. And therein lies the secret to being a natural — naturals truly believe the charmingly jerkoff things they say to women.” – Chateau Heartiste

When you accept that logic. That women are a test for you to pass in order to learn all the skills you need to be a fucking man. Then acceptance becomes easier. There is no need for cognitive dissonance, to struggle with. You can know reconcile your need to treat them as innocent lost creatures with the profound Stage 5 truth of their true nature.

A woman’s delusion is no longer the obstacle but the way.

“What would have become of Hercules, do you think, if there had been no lion, hydra, stag or boar – and no savage criminals to rid the world of? What would he have done in the absence of such challenges? Obviously he would have just rolled over in bed and gone back to sleep. So by snoring his life away in luxury and comfort he never would have developed into the mighty Hercules.” Epictetus

A goofy bitch becomes the path to your enlightenment. Even better the goofy bitch become nature’s way for improving the male sex.

Nature is a cruel mother fucker

Humans need to get better to adapt to the world around them. Men can and will survive in the bare minimum of existence if you let them. Think of the analogy of the guy disappearing off to the woods, or the gamer guy who as long as the bills are paid and he can game will never leave the house. So, the way nature accounts for this is to add the “Female factor.”

A woman is the opposite to the man, in that they need the bare maximum of existence to survive. Child rearing requires massive resources, both material and in terms of familial support. So, a woman cannot afford to accept anything less than she needs.

Combine those two figures and nature has found a way to generate the best men. The men who can continue to provide the bare maximum in an increasing harsh environment are defacto the best men.

Infact it is not just nature that benefits from this, society as a whole benefit from this.

Picture this, an overbearing government notices that it has way to many undesirable in its population. How would it get rid of them? Eugenic isn’t going to cut it in this social media driven day and age as you don’t want a Paris like dumpster fire by the peasant, a more subtle tool will need to be deployed. Something very simple yet super naturally effective.

Gas women up. The more delusional, the choosier, the less suitors chosen, the more men to die alone.

There are no accidents. In an increasingly Globohomo world, knowing how to copy files to a flash drive isn’t going to cut it. But then what will society do to get to rid of all these excess undesirables.

So jump to Stage 5 because life is a literal test Final Notes

1. For every 1 left over woman, there are probably 20 that will die alone. This is nature’s way of choosing that only the men worth surviving survive. And contrary to what WATGM might believe, all these women are going to have a happy ending. Because all it will take is them to decide one day to change their mind and a thousand cocks will still await them. https://pagesix.com/2023/04/01/blac-chyna-reveals-celibacy-plans-after-physical-transformation/ Whereas men do not have that option. You will die fucking alone and we will celebrate it.
2. MGTOW is dumb. MGTOW is admitting that you were unable to understand female nature and adapt to it. If you do have kids, raising them in a single parent household will fuck them up. If you choose not to have kids what happens to all that estate you’ve generated, with no heirs you’re just making a donation to the state, so it can continue to subsidize women. So, you’ve both failed in adapting and your goals meant nothing. Take the red pill because nature wants you to. She is perfect, because she is fulfilling her role nature gave to her. As a man you must fight for your right to exist. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlYDWFhtlL8 Ultimately all of success is repetition. Don’t think about just keep doing that discipline every day.