Well I've been doing a lot of inner work lately and I met this women online who has agreed to a date. She is very pretty and looks good in her photos. She probably won't be that good in reality but probably the hottest girl I've ever been on a date with. I know I should adopt abundance and just have fun and see what happens but I feel really nervous I'm used to dating 5s or 6s Max this girl is a 7 or 8. I just have a lot of anxiety like she won't like me or I need to perform I feel under a lot of pressure I feel like she will.meet me in person and be turned off because I'm.not like the usual chads she dates. I feel bad
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No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
It's normal. You'll be fine. Time to put all you learned into action. You got this, bro! I believe in you! (and don't forget to fill us in on the details later)
kv2_0833 2y ago
You'll always get that anxiety unless you're doing it on the daily. I'm a popular athlete for my university and if I don't fuck with a girl for longer than a week, that anxiety comes to even me. No way out but to push through
LurkerChump 2y ago
Nothing to be nervous about, logically. You will either fuck or not. The only reason you feel uncomfortable is because you think your ego depends on how she reacts to you, which it doesn’t.
I’m not a player but I’m never nervous before dates or job interviews because I know they will either like me or not. I can’t force anything, I won’t lose anything. Worst case scenario, I won’t gain but I’ll still go home and chill to some netflix so win-win
whytehorse2021 2y ago
It's understandable to feel anxious about meeting someone new, especially when you put a lot of pressure on yourself. It's important to remember that everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, including this woman you're meeting. Remember to be yourself and don't try to be someone you're not. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not the right person for you anyway. Instead of focusing on how she might perceive you, try to get to know her as a person and enjoy the experience. Being vulnerable and honest can often lead to more meaningful connections.