You have full control over where, when, and how long to set up a date for (or string of mini-dates). Let's assume a city with all the usual options you'd expect to find.
End goal is obvious, you just want to maximize success. What does your tier list look like?
Example:
A: Coffee/Tea
B: Museum, Park, Ice Cream
C: Bar, Sit-Down Dinner
...
F: Movie Theatre
dongking 1y ago
None of them.
One cocktail at two different bars.
Go for a walk around the area.
Invite to my house.
nicknack 1y ago
Hey, that’s my exact formula. Going to two different places subconsciously feels like two dates, so she’s not sleeping with you on the first date. I’m a tall guy though, so keeping it moving certainly helps things along as they see how small and weak they really are.
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
What would you recommend in college when I don’t drink?
dongking 1y ago
Go for a walk, then invite back to your place.
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
How long do you usually walk around/build up tension/escalate,etc before inviting her back?
I don’t know if a walk will be sufficient time fir her to want it.
dongking 1y ago
Like 30min - 1h. Enough to build trust, connection and some tingles.
Important to not make a big deal out of going to your place. Assume the sale. I normally say something like: "Let's go back to my house, I'm gonna show you that blahblah" (something you've talked about before).
Act like you've done it 10.000 times before so it's natural and relaxed. Be confident and keep the ping pong in the convo after and you'll be fine.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
If you want to smash, you have to pick environments on the date that lead to smashing
You want high energy atmospheres that lend to socially acceptable sexual escalation
Not coffee dates
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
This is the intro level advice. What really leads to sex is behaviours, not locations. You dont need to be in some greasy bar so you can finally do sexual kino on the sly. You simply need to get her in the right mood for escalation, and the location doesn't control the narrative, it only implies it.
Omni-Lab 1y ago
I'll do kino in a coffee bar, who cars what other people think?
Only problem I have with sit-down locations is ensuring the seating arrangement is such that you are next to her and not across a table. No idea how to filter out locations based on this though.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Back in the day, I would just drive them up to a hill overlooking the city at night, put on some music, and smash. Now I just find them on the street and take them home and smash.