I'm currently in LTR for year and 2 months. We won't be seeing each other beacuse my firefighter training starts next week. I will be out of city for 6 months.
She is currently quality girl, when she's at my house she cooks, cleans, she gives anal, doesn't gossip and shittalks, and is emotionally invested at me.
I know for sure that 6 months without attention is equivalent to guy not having sex 5 years. No matter how much I trust her now, awalt. Accepting the fate, or giving it a try?
masculinetransform 3y ago
Don't break up. When you're out of the city, fuck other girls. When you come back you'll excude alpha energy. She'll feel it and focus back on you, or you both end it and you spin plates. Abundance mindset.
Edit: Never be thinking about what she does. Only be thinking about what you are doing. Keep frame .
sluggler 3y ago
If you think she deserves the benefit of the doubt ( most of them don't) then try it out but I would have my bags packed. Also get some back up for when things go south
keithksaltz 3y ago
6 months is a long time so I would end things with her before she cheats or she ends them with me. I find that LDR never works out.
Gryyn_Dogg 3y ago
You could try giving it a try but at the same time I think you should keep an open mind for better options. If she's worth it and you keep her well in line you could try it but it will be very difficult considering your occupation and the current situation. Don't limit yourself and don't give her reasons to blame you for wasting her time because you didn't give her attention as she could use it against you if she decides to cheat and cause unnecessary drama. Also, the fact that you are away could be a test for her so keep an eye on that.
If things go south, don't worry, there's plenty of women out there and you shouldn't limit yourself.
Wish you the best of luck, mate!
aimstyler 3y ago
I agree with you, reality is harsh, but saying "Let's break up right now beacuse you will fuck other dudes or sth" sounds like loser mentality. Even if that happens eventually, but still.
Thank you brother
Gryyn_Dogg 3y ago
Yes of course, you don't have to be mean to her, you're a quality man yourself after all. As I said, if she's worthy of your commitment, go ahead and try LDR. 6 months is not that long but after all, a lot of things can happen during that period of time so both of you have to put in some effort. You partner is innocent until proven guilty, don't have a defeatist attitude like "she's going to cheat anyway" because it will bring you down. You said she's a quality girl and if she really is one she will stay true to you during those 6 months and support you. I've seen plenty of cases where being in a LDR for 6 months didn't affect the relationships so it is definitely possible. I hope this helps you.
Take care, brother!