Hey gang !

For about 12 months between 2011 and 2012 I was part of the Vancouver Polyamory community. I have commented on my experiences in other threads, but after I saw the hilarious "open relationship" thread this morning I prompted me to get around to the FR write up a few of you have requested.

So grab a beer and get comfy and I shall explain what I experienced, as best I can.

For various reasons I was looking to get some information and context on open relationships so I though it would be a good idea to join the local poly groups here in Vancouver.

I attended monthly meetings on and off for about 1 year as well as getting to know a bunch of the members of the community. It was a very eye opening experience and re affirms everything I have been reading here in Red Pill.

So, starting very broadly the poly community is broken up into two very distinct age groups, under 30's and over 40's. There is a substantial group of older poly people, but really they don't factor into this report. I'll just summarize them in that they are mostly fat, old, married/divorcees and there is a lot overlap with the swinger community there. They guys were nice enough to talk to but the women were swamp donkeys and well past the wall.

For this field report, I am going to focus on the younger crowd.

Even before I joined this group I was an avid "people watcher". People in groups fascinate me and it's always interesting to see how the group dynamics work. They way it worked in the poly groups was straight out of a fucking red pill text book.

You had;

Women (mostly Straight, some bi, a few lesbians)

Men (Mostly straight, a couple of Bi guys, but strangely NO gay guys)

They would have their meetings and have a group chat about various issues that were of concern to the community or relationship discussions about communication, etc etc etc... then it would break up into the social side of it.

This was always the interesting part, because every meeting you would have 4 / 5 new people and a few new couples. The couples were always guy / girl where they are exploring the idea of and open relationship. The guys were always kind of chubby beta looking guys.

There were a number of alphas in the group and when we broke up into the social side of the meetings they would always be swarmed with women. These guys were always

Tall (around 6ft)
Good looking
Cocky alpha types

It was always hilarious to see that the newbie women would flock to them on the meetings and start flirting with them. These guys always had a constant harem of new pussy as well as the usual women who were constant in the community.

The women were awful. They were the sluttiest sluts, and the worst examples of female hyperagmy. They would ride the cock carousel on extra fast and have a new cock every night. A lot of them identified as "pan sexual" which is really just a nice way of saying "I'll fuck anything" Some of them were borderline nymphomaniacs.

They were also the most horrible exploiters of men. There were a few of them who cottoned on to the fact that I was good with computers and tried to lead me on. I gave them a couple of chances but when it became very clear they wanted me for my IT skills, and nothing else I deleted their numbers. They'd flake constantly and really only contact me when they wanted something done.

I never took my wife to these meetings because she wasn't really into meeting large groups of people who were pretty much obsessed with sex and cock hopping. For my wife, sex is almost an alien language to her on a count of her being asexual. She is also an introvert so a room full of strangers making small talk is her idea of hell. To her credit, she gave it the best try she could.

She did join me at one dinner event at a local pub, and she pretty much hated the whole night because of one asshole. There is a lot of cross over between the Poly and BDSM community as well, and we were at an poly event where one of the BDSM guys was loudly voicing his idea for a semi consensual fire play scenario involving a rag with gasoline and fooling the sub into thinking she was doused with it.

Multiple people told him to STFU but he wasn't listening because he was;

A sadist, so he was getting off on making people feel unconfortable
He was DRIPPING with chicks.

Seriously Almost every woman there made an excuse to move and sit with him, and you had many of the girls dripping in their panties at this dark triad alpha. I later found out this guy was a fucking COP with the VPD.

My wife got sick of his shit, and so did I, so we left early that night.

I attended a couple of house parties in that community over that period and while they were fun they were really just "all you could fuck" buffets for the alpha's and the women. The one memory that stands out for me is one party where you had some new guy come with his GF and it was clear that she was trying to steer him to an "Open relationship" by laying to him that he was going to get fucked as much as she was. (lol)

Well she fucked about 5 guys that night, and he sat on the couch trying to strike up conversations with cute women and getting completely ignored. Instead he got pounced by the swamp donkeys, and you could see his visible revulsion to them, and the idea that his GF was getting nailed by guys way hotter than him.

The next community meet, she was back but he wasn't

So yeah, that was my experience with the poly community. I learned many valuable lessons, chief of which was that I really wasn't going to have any luck there, and really I didn't want put my dick near any of those women anyway.

So guys, if you're GF ever suggests having an "open relationship" and you aren't a top tier alpha.... next the bitch, because all it will get you is pain and misery.