Ah yes, welcome to another one of my epiphanies I had, brought to you by an anonymous account I meant to throw away but Reddit won’t let me on TRP from my actual account. :’) Let’s cut to the chase, shall we?
When a woman is with the right man; an alpha she is comfortable with, she feels free to express herself. After all, you have to build this level of trust and sense of safety with a girl for her to be comfortable enough to express her body and her sexuality with you, Captain Protector.
And the same goes for you, mister man. Tit for tat; you are an alpha because you know you are the shit and you are comfortable with yourself and your own skin, and you feel safe enough to do this. (Protip: Lifting is great if you have anxiety.) And thus comfortable with your own sexuality and vulnerability. Hence the quid pro quo.
See where I’m going with this? You and her are just people that are having a fun time, shamelessly enjoying each other’s company, different forms of expressions, bodies and sexuality. Vulnerable together yet stronger feeding off one another, the union is made. A bond no different than horny children having fun together.
My days browsing asktrp, I saw many posters asking if they fucked up or whether their frame is wrong, blah blah blah.
Look man; if you have to ask, then yes, you subconsciously already know that you fucked up. Let my post be here to save you the time of seeking validation. You were backed into a position where you lost that sense of comfort to express your inner child, and are now stuck in a corner of repression and/or anxiety that has killed the spark that only once was there. Acknowledge it, own it, learn from it and move on; I.e fix it.
That said, let me serve you some fresh hot science, brothers. For starters, if you’re being confident and truly expressing a DGAF attitude, you are expressing your inner child, I.e. being authentic, congruent with your personality, true confidence, etc. After breaking down any shit test/ego defense/resistance walls from the girl, if any, then you should reach this core of her personality as well. Behold, the centerpiece of one another’s angels and demons. That may, perhaps be another post. But this core is the Inner Child; it is the true you, the true her, the oblivious innocence of one’s personality that was imprinted from and expressed since one’s innocent youth and will be carried on for the rest of their lives. Many young men and women alike fall to the tragedy of the repression/death of this Inner Child. Be it one’s work life, a crappy LTR, loss of or abuse from family, incompatible safe spaces, (que “tribalism explained) etc. One’s “innocence dies” and many never recover this inner child. That’s not to say it’s hopeless. If you are stuck in a pit of negative emotion, you can redeem it. There are many resources online that you may look into; both on The Red Pill and perhaps even some writings from students of Carl Jung or the man himself. But connecting with one’s own soul is generally a journey that is unique to each individual; I can’t personally tell you how to do this. I digress.
Wanna know why good ole Mother Nature and papa God designed it that way? Think about it. Sex is a natural function of reproduction, therefor produces children. If you feel safe; she feels safe enough to express that inner child, sexuality and all, then behold, the cosmos say you two are compatible to have children. And if it’s safe enough for your soul, then it’s safe enough for kids. That is the natural purpose of the Inner Child, and will be the source of social imprinting of your own biological legacy as well. And so the cycle of human evolution goes on to evolve another generation of children growing into adult children. Rinse and repeat.
So along your journey of self-improvement, between working hard and lifting, make sure you spend time getting in touch with yourself, and have some fun. But not too much fun. Unless you have lotion; keeps the friction burns away.
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bigmacked4 3y ago
Really interesting connections made here. The 'inner child' seems to be related to Jung's notion of the anima. Can anyone extrapolate a bit more on the relationship between the anima and one's frame as fundementally as possible?
throwawaycunt1997 3y ago
Inside every man is a woman, and inside every woman is a man.
I first read that on several Red Pill posts before discovering Jung’s work. It is the essence of your personality traits, which may or may not be considered feminine as they do not conform to traditionally masculine concepts of being tough, and is also where you will find out what your mission is. Because it is within here that you find your passion. Passion = mission = solid frame + good sex = a life worth living. I digress. There’s a whole lot to write on this subject matter that A) I’m too busy to write myself right now and B) has already been written anyway.
Regardless, a lot of what I’ve discovered in his studies seems to plug in very well with Red Pill concepts and, coincidentally, toaist stoicism.
blurting-honesty 3y ago
I like your message, but I have a question that clases with this view: You mentioned we are intended to be our inner children, yet our mind chains us (I’m assuming from societal pressure, views, stigmas etc) but what about instincts and emotions that hold us back, like anxiety, fear, and all that fun stuff? (1)
Wouldn’t it make better sense for reproducirla purposes of this didn’t exist? (2)
throwawaycunt1997 3y ago
Anxiety and fear are reasonable instincts to possibly life threatening situations. You overcome this by:
1) Knowing your limits and capabilities. It helps to healthy/fit if the danger is reasonable. And,
2) Staying grounded and rational - aka stoic - when the emotion arises to determine if its valid or irrational fear.
3) Lastly, confrontation. Once you overcome your fears, the adrenaline high loses its effectiveness and you feel more grounded by reaffirmation of the actual, true results.
After a series of conquering confrontations, your frame will be built out of steel from cold, hard experience.
blurting-honesty 3y ago
Yeah I get what you’re saying but you can’t achieve none of this until you experience shit. I learned this last night, but the point I was trying to make is that you can’t learn to be comfortable with the unknown until you experience it and it no longer is the unknown, but majority of people won’t. I suppose rp is to “help” us overcome that initial fear by becoming comfortable within our own skin to take the leap. Does that sound right?
I’m new to applying trp but it that’s what I understand from my view.
throwawaycunt1997 3y ago
You absolutely are not going to gain confidence without experience. You are 100% on the mark with this.
As a matter of fact, that’s part of the whole message. You can’t find yourself until you find out what it is you like doing. No amount of just sitting around and meditating, playing vidya and jacking off is going suddenly make you into a man. You have to explore shit, and work hard to build a personality and a body worth having one.
Jacked5parrow 3y ago
I dig it, good view on matter. Especially the “if you have to ask if you lost frame then you probably did”
Keith_Valentine 3y ago
Take this cringe pseudo psychology and cram it up your ass.
Feels so good to express myself and have fun.
throwawaycunt1997 3y ago
You do you, boo. You keep enjoying your lonely nights dying in dark souls and ok’ing Karens on Twitter and I’ll keep enjoying my lesbian latina threesomes. I fucking love my life; can you say the same?
Keith_Valentine 3y ago
You called me boo and brag about lesbian latina threesomes. Pretty suspect. Why so upset 'king', that was just my inner child expressing itself.
throwawaycunt1997 3y ago
You didn’t have to point out that you were a child; it’s quite clear to everyone that you already are one.
You remind me of one poser I used to know. Brother of an ex of mine; dude spouted red pill anger phase typa shit, showing me “red pill” pepe memes all while playing Minecraft all night and desperately texting tomboys/single mothers with zero results. Meanwhile, there was me in another room; dipping right into his sister before running off to my other girlfriend’s place. I’d ask your name, but it has become quite clear to me that one of the biggest problems today is that you are not alone; there are millions of young, immature boys just like you who are lost and confused, imprinted by trauma and suppressing yourself to a life of sheltered loneliness, fed by memories of pain, thinking you either have to compensate with a false sense of masculinity or just giving up entirely. You don’t have to be this way. Trust me, I used to jack off all night and play video games, still obsessing over past abuses I had been exposed to, all while ignoring that nagging voice in the back of my mind telling me to do something with my life too. The difference is, I got fed up and finally listened to what it was trying to say. Armed with internalized red pilling and wisdom from the universe inside and out, I headed out into a world hell bent on self isolating, and now people are starting to talk about my name. What a life.
Anyway. Put the fucking vidya/twitter down and go outside and find shit to do. Any sane father would reasonably beat you for being so undriven and lazy.
Keith_Valentine 3y ago
Interesting. Ive already accomplished more than i ever expected and am doing well. Really when you think about it, you are trying to lecture me but with two short posts ive got you desperately trying to prove something to me. Not very alpha. If you thought i was such a joke you would be as dismissive towards me as im being to you, 'king'.
throwawaycunt1997 3y ago
Nah, this is an open forum and I’m making an example of another clearly disgruntled incel clone for the rest of the world to see.
Or as the bearers of the vagina say, “it’s not you, it’s me.”
Your accomplishments are paper accomplishments; my accomplishments are the experiences I had and the relationships I’ve made along the way. Your choice whether you decide to look into the light or continue to shrowd yourself in darkness.