So I've been trawling this subreddit for a while now and recently got involved with a girl I've known for a while. So I decided to try some of this shit out.
To cut a very long story kinda short...this girl I've known for a while (ex's friend) - we arrange to see each other at her place, after she suggested it, great. On the day she texted me and gives me an excuse about having to see a doctor about her arm (it wasn't a serious injury) in the middle of a pandemic, fine. Rather strange given the current circumstances but certainly excusable, this time.
So we arrange to see each other a couple of days later, only this time her excuse is inexcusable. She's snap chatted me in the garden drinking with her family, and instead of texting me something along the lines of 'sorry in the garden with my family tonight' she says 'too hot to leave her bed'. Normally I would accept this bullshit. Instead, I remember TRP philosophy and tell her that 'we should just forget the whole thing, I appreciate it when people respect my time'.
And you know what happened? This bitch came back twice as hard, met her the day later and fucked.
DGAF - this acronym for 'don't give a fuck' really sums up this entire philosophy to be honest. At every stage just remember, they are not special, they are not the only one, they are expendable. Once she releases that you consider her expendible, she will attempt to increase her value towards you. And you know while we're at it, do not become texting buddies with these girls, especially the young ones who are addicted to social media. You know, I've seen the inboxes of women I've slept with - because they show me for fun. They are full of betas trying to spark affection from texting. Be the oddity, be the stranger, be a mystery - and stop using social media other than direct texting applications.
Sudden-Effect 5y ago
Some girls really just wanna put you to the test man, always remember pussy is a secondary objective your own quality of life is the primary
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aGodofmyownmaking 5y ago
Theres not really a pandemic for anyone but the old and infirm. No reason to hide away like a little bitch.
RedIsBestColour2 5y ago
Even more reason to fuck as many bitches before you die.
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UltimateCrypto 5y ago
No work??? This is the beginning of the biggest transfer of wealth the world has ever seen. Open your eyes and get your shit together.
theredsperg 5y ago
LOL did i touch a nerve? people on the internet are so sensitive. it's funny how easy it was to smash your frame. man up bro
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theredsperg 5y ago
Nah, you're the dude who thinks the only thing in a lockdown is continue the human race lol
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Moonlight_Forest 5y ago
cuz it’s literally all u motherfuckers talk about. you all are just pussies that get butt hurt over anything a women says even if it’s justified. it’s insanity. You all believe that women are shallow and only go for men because of their looks, status and money. Some women do and men do the same with women. None of these are proven facts just feelings but have the nerve to call us “emotional.” We aren’t the ones who make an entire subreddit to degrade the opposite gender. Also there is a lot more to do than sex and working out during a pandemic but go off ig.
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Moonlight_Forest 5y ago
i’m not apart of black pill if it’s snowing up on my page it’s because i was looking at it like i’m doing with redpill.
Moonlight_Forest 5y ago
I looked at one post and agreed with small portion of what was said i didn’t know everything about what blackpill stood for.
theredsperg 5y ago
In all fairness, men and women are just as bad as each other constantly victim blaming.
though trp does emphasize trying to be high and mighty but at the end of the day, just dudes trying to understand women to get laid more
ReimsHistoriae 5y ago
Can confirm. Once I stopped taking crap from my ex she started respecting me and wanting to bang more. With one girl I wanted to bang I left whenever she was late or ignored her after she flaked on me. Later, she told me "I find it hot that you leave if I'm late, other guys don't do that".
Longgbottom 5y ago
Do you just straight up leave or call & give like 5 minutes grace before ya leave? Just trying to figure when is it alright to leave without intimation & when is it plain rude.
ReimsHistoriae 5y ago
In a previous relationship my former gf arrived between 20 to 45 minutes late. Afterwards I accepted a maximum of 15-20 minutes (considering traffic or if they used public transport), and if the person was recurrent in her lateness I would reduce the tolerance up to 0. So you can excuse when she arrives late if it is a one time offense and if she regularly arrives on time, but when it is all the time you might stick to the hour you agreed upon.
Initially I would call them to see what was holding them up, if it was the second or third time late I would straight up leave without notice. If she was unapologetic I left right away.
SoggyBeefNoodle 5y ago
Nice play man. Remember a woman is supposed to compliment your life, not be the epicenter of it.
throwaway_bluefly 5y ago
Have you considered that showing boundaries is not the same as seeing someone as 'expendable' and it is true that all people, men and women, respect people who show respect to themselves. So you weren't just not giving a fuck, you were just showing a good level of self respect and that's how it appeared to her.
daveed1297 5y ago
Not too bad although I hope you understand that you're leaning towards hypocritical when you say that they're "not the only one" but turned around and fucked a girl that didn't show respect for your time and blew you off twice.
Obviously you're not dating so it's not a big deal but setting the tone early that your time is valuable - through action not just words - is crucial if they become a regular plate.
LotBuilder 5y ago
You can’t be that sensitive. You set boundaries and enforce them and if they come limping back you gain nothing by being a whiney about it. You spanked her, she responded, respect restored. You don’t put your dog up for adoption because he isn’t perfectly trained at the very beginning, you train them. Same with girls.
daveed1297 5y ago
I don't exactly disagree with the concepts you just laid out except he never spanked her? He said some words and acted the complete opposite.
LotBuilder 5y ago
Younger girls never deal with a take away so for her it probably felt like it.
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E_Anonymous 5y ago
I think you played it just fine. First one is fairly reasonable and people have things that come up. Two in a row and you checked her, which is what she really wanted. And it worked.
daveed1297 5y ago
If you had two other sides that you have reliable access to why spend time talking or fucking a girl that doesn't put you as a priority?
Was she an absolute 10? Couldn't you have had the same experience fucking your other plates?
My guess is that either you don't have enough options that you didn't want to pass on this one or you get an ego trip from fucking new girls. If that's true then that's the problem you need to address.
I might be making assumptions or I might be spot on.
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If your homeless,
Luckily I can afford to skip a meal.
you still lack an abundance mindset.
"not giving a fuck" and "getting women". TRP is more then that.
still, a lay is a lay. Congrats mate.
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cake is quite delicious. watch out for obesity though. Don't forget to lift once in awhile.
daveed1297 5y ago
Yeah, didn't really address the things I brought up. If you had 3 other plates with food on them why eat this food?
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daveed1297 5y ago
Ok bus I think your reading comprehension is poor or your purposefully not answering. Either way congrats on the pussy
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