Not nearly as interesting of a story, but made me think. I work nightshifts at a hotel, as FO administrator.
Some lady came from the hotel bar to the front desk, she looked to be in her fifties.
From her alcohol reeking breath, she asked to get a room for her and her husband (who was still at the bar or somewhere else, IDK). I offered her a good price, since it was almost midnight, the hotel was nearly empty and she just needed the room till morning. She was very happy and thankful about my offer and started to fill my ears up about random shit, as if I was an old friend while I was proceeding with the check-in process.
At one point, she mentioned that she has been married to her husband for 30+ years, they knew each other from the first grade, it's his birthday and she took the room as a spontaneous surprise for him. Jokingly, I said:
"Wow, 30+ years huh? You must be sick and tired of each other by now"
She retorted in a half-joking way - "Oh yeah, but I'm 50 already so no one else would want to fuck me anyway",
her drunk smile was still there after she said that, but it was noticeably faded out. Also keep in mind - I'm paraphrasing, since I'm not from the US and speak a different language, but the meaning is the same.
Before TRP, I would just assume she was being funny, but there is always some truth in every single joke. She would branch swing if she could, but she can't jump as high in her age, so she is forever stuck on this one branch. Was she actually searching for sympathy by telling me this, slightly out of place comment? Seems like the perfect blue-pill tradcon story - one man one woman, together from early to ripe old age, yet she sounded very regretful about the whole thing.
"Here are the keys to your room, enjoy your stay"
After a couple of minutes, saw the couple stumble into, both drunk, and disappear into the elevator.
arakouzo 3y ago
You're mistaking a middle-aged woman acting normal with some kind of secret Red Pill truth.
A woman who is 50 today went to college from 1988-1992. This was after the free-love 70s and getting into the AIDS scare and the abstinence only sex-ed generation. When casual sex became a wide open and acceptable thing in 2001, she was already in her 30s and married.
She missed out on the fun times due to coming of age in between them, and is insecure about that, so she's acting like she knows what it's all about to hide her insecurity.
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custoscustodis 3y ago
She was fishing for validation from you, maybe a little more. If you had said (in a subtle indirect way, of course) something like, "Oh you still look great! Your husband is insane!" she might have deposited her drunk husband in the room and came back down and gave you a bj.
I've seen and done a lot in my 44 years. When drunk women start complaining about their husbands to you, they are sending you a signal that you might have a shot if you pursue it. When you are young (20s) and they are 40+, you are almost a lock if you play your cards right.
Now, good for you for not falling for it and giving her the validation. But a guy with his game tight would have taken advantage of that little opening she gave you and had converted it into some type of sexual encounter. If not that night, then at a later date.
MilkMoney111 3y ago
Lol she’s fifty tho. No thanks
custoscustodis 3y ago
Ha ah feel you. I did a couple of 50 year olds last year. It wasn’t exciting.
_do_not_read_this_ 3y ago
"I'll be at xyz bar Thursday around 8, you should meet me there and tell me your secret to a long marriage" with a grin and a wink.
The pre-assumes she's bangable, of course.
custoscustodis 3y ago
This one is perfect.
If I were horny enough, I would have said, "Hey you look great. I'd go for you if you weren't married!"
_do_not_read_this_ 3y ago
Nope.
Compliments, i.e., positive attention, is your currency to spend with a woman. It's what they want from men.
Using your example, you just handed her a $20 and potentially got nothing for it. That's what chumps do.
Get something, then pay for it.
Yep. Not my format, pretty much a basic TRP format for "asking" a woman out.
You're already doing something cool. If she wants to be cool too, she can join you. If not, you're already doing something cool and it's no skin off your nose if she doesn't show up.
And in this instance, "tell me your secret to a long marriage" is a twofer - one, you're subtly asking her to do something illicit - tell you a "secret." But two, you're giving her plausible deniability to get over potential ASD, "Husband, I just went there to tell him how great our marriage is, and I fell on his peen!"
Nihilisticmdphdstdnt 3y ago
You're gonna set up a date with a 50 year old drunk bitch that isn't going to remember you when she wakes up the next morning? Are you fucking stupid?
_do_not_read_this_ 3y ago
I'm guessing you don't get a lot of second dates, with that anger problem.
It's not "setting up a date" - you never, ever "date" a woman. You do really cool things with your life, and invite women to come with when you want a woman to come with to do something cool with you.
That's why it's "I'll be at xyz bar Thursday around 8 p.m." and not "gee would you like to maybe I dunno, maybe if you're not busy, you know, maybe meet me sometime for something" like you usually do - because you're doing something cool with your life already, you don't need her to validate that you're living a cool life.
Asking a woman on a "date" gives her the power to say "no" to something you've expressly told her you want from her, that is, for her to come meet you otherwise your evening will suck, which is relationship suicide.
Keep reading before you comment, your ignorance is showing. Also maybe don't comment until after you turn 20, maybe a little maturity will help.
Nihilisticmdphdstdnt 3y ago
I don't need a lot of new dates because I'd rather fuck a new girl than 50 year old hags like you.
Going to a bar is not a cool life everyone does that shit. You're a beta fucking loser who needs strategy to fuck 50 year old hags. There is no strategy for someone with an smv as low as theirs, unless yours is as low as that. The strategy is dick in mouth or gtfo.
Instead of being on here go bench your bodyweight and never give advice ever again.
_do_not_read_this_ 3y ago
Okay kid. I'll be sure to take your advice.
Nihilisticmdphdstdnt 3y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUS_hO6ptZg
hennieezu6yn4xgma0 3y ago
This shit is enough to make you sick. The person you think you're closest too is scheming in their minds like that, always thinking 'what if'. It's obvious that no one can be trusted.
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