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machinegecko

Posted 4y ago in Red Pill Theory - Permalink - Locked - 130 Views

I noticed a key point here is to let her become emotionally invested before you do. And after visiting this page I realised I have no reason to be somewhat emotionally invested in this girl I've known for a few weeks. We have good conversation, we fuck, and we have fun. So be it. I was locked in the idea of a potential longterm relationship because shes my type and I like her.

Now, after reading many of the best tips from a few top posts, one that I don't have even partial completion on is abundance. I have a few friends who are girls, but no one else I can reliably fuck. I was wondering how you guys open yourselves up to more possible females.

I'm introverted, and kind of picky. Girls easily annoy/bore me. Ill be turning 21 here soon and I was thinking once I move out of my parents (probably gonna room with a couple buddies of mine) and can legally go to bars/clubs or whatever, I'll meet a lot of new girls that interest me. I dont worry about it too much, just enough to ask for some personal experience of some older guys who could maybe guide me in the right direction. I have goals and whatnot, im generally pretty confident in whatever it is im feeling or doing, and I'm attractive and in decent shape. I'm thinking if I become independant, put more focus on what I want out of MY life ill be good, free from thinking too much about this one girl who probably really doesnt matter anyway.

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baseball8z 4y ago

Your last sentence nails it. Just be you and do your thing. You don't need someone else to be happy, however you do enjoy their company. Just don't be needy. Stay confident and trust that things will gravitate towards you, and if they don't, nbd it wasn't meant to be, there are tons of other options out there for you. Don't force it or be needy. Be you and put out your energy, confidence is probably the most attractive thing to girls. Don't overdo it and be an asshole tho lol

Howdoiusesync 4y ago

I'll try my best here.

Okay so, first off you have a FWB cool, congrats.

Secondly, with whatever knowledge you have and I guess you know her well enough since you stated "we have good conversation" what do you expect she wants? When answering this don't think what comes out of her mouth but based on her behavior.

For example the last FwB I had she started to take my mother out for dinner when I was away and stuff like that.

Basically communicating she's a LTR material.

You want to know how to have abundance, I would say just act like you have insurance pussy where ever you go.

She will not take it personally but seriously don't talk about other women to her, unless she's into girls.

You carry on with your shit but if she gets complicated or threatening to the fish hole she owns don't worry about it.

She'll come around, unless you are trying to establish an LTR with this girl. That's a different story.

Most likely she's fucking other dudes ya don't know about.

Don't do the whole "pretend relationship" stuff.

You will:

A.) Give her mixed signals.

B.) You'll even fuck with your own head.

If your Mr. Dick Giving Me Squirts then just keep doing you. Act as if you are single and you only know the skin of the girl not what's inside the hoe's head.

And eventually because it will come, the whole "What do you want?" just ignore and keep doing you.

This is if you don't have a rotation make her perceive you have one and you can also establish one as well.

Let her chase you buddy. Just know what you want from her and your life and no complications or covert contracts and you should be good for now.