The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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conquersex 5y ago
From the article -
"He says: “Dude, have you been assaulted or anything like that?”
Alex replies: “No, no assault, nothing, it was just arguing. We’re just so stressed out.”
Sgt Finn asks: “Are you 100 per cent sure Alex?”
Alex replies: “Yes. I’m 100 per cent sure.”
When alone in the police officer’s car, brave Alex opens up about the three years of abuse he suffered as Worth is arrested on suspicion of assault.
Medics who checked him over said he only had 10 days to live and was suffering from hydrocephalus — a build-up of fluid inside the skull — caused by the blunt objects hit to his head."
She abused him for three whole years and got only 7 years in jail. Take a deep breath. Now imagine the sentence if the boyfriend had done even half of the things that were done to him for three whole years.
Spider-Dude1 5y ago
He's afraid she'll leave him and he wouldn't fund anyone else. It's tough to see what a man endures if he's afraid a woman will leave him
dukes1998 5y ago
Read the article. He has two kids with this chick, and is being emotionally and physically abused.
Clearly very few people actually read it and just made the conclusions they wanted to from the headline. Sounds like some other group of people that we criticize a lot here hmmm
ruga2 5y ago
He surely has been deeply blue pilled, but also may have his own issues. Asperger, low self esteem, low IQ, or childhood abuse.
NextBad 5y ago
no child hood abuse, just the abuse that is happening
whatdidshewrite 5y ago
Women lie to protect their abuser too, I don’t know what’s so special about this
NextBad 5y ago
this isn't a attack on women, society doesn't allow funding for male abuse victims, feminist saw to this. This is a war on men, not a attack on women. This is gendered based crime, because a man doesn't have access to shelters, TV or media support. He is always the bad guy.
Eli-Thail 5y ago
I'm pretty sure they're just pointing out that his reaction of making excuses to stay with the abuser is by no means unheard of among victims of abuse.
In the specific context of domestic abuse in a long-term relationship, it's basically the norm, regardless of which direction the abuse is occurring in.
Trevisann 5y ago
If they switched roles I'm pretty sure you would find this very special, cunt.
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eeeehshure 5y ago
Don't overdose on red pill. Women get abused more heavily and more often then men, and it's always been like this.
purduered 5y ago
Bro this happens in the modern world, yet alone in the developing world. There are places in the world where women are still treated as property so this type of stuff wouldn’t even be illegal.
whatdidshewrite 5y ago
Wtf are you talking about.
First of all this is just one guy. So don’t go thinking “men generally get abused by their partners” from this one post.
Secondly, women also get abused by their partners. Some women end up dying because of it. A few years ago there was a sorry of a woman who’s husband poured acid on her, and another where another girl was lit on fire.
“Endurance to bear this kind of abuse” wtf?
Thirdly, why they lied is besides the point. Regardless if it was out of fear or protection, the point is that these people were abused at the hands of people they loved and that’s a really shitty thing to have happen to them.
conquersex 5y ago
You're right, I deleted my comment. Women are more likely to get abused physically I think. But men are abused more often mentally is my opinion and I'll stand by it.
ruga2 5y ago
There is no reason to demean one person's suffering because to other person's suffering.
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Your "justification" comes from your own abusive personality. You are simply apologizing abuse. That's psychopathic.
whatdidshewrite 5y ago
I’m not apologizing anything. Abuse happens on a regular basis - some severe, some not. Just like another high school shooting, what’s new?
ruga2 5y ago
You are diminishing the gravity of "this"
and to support your fallacy, you attempt to tape on women also suffering
We get those fallacies here all the time, from feminists attempting to diminish men's problem by pointing to women victims.
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So, you are apologizing for a woman abuser, by pretending that a man abuser justifies woman abusers.
whatdidshewrite 5y ago
Again I’m not apologizing for anything. Men get abused. Women get abused. People die. Children starve in Africa. The world’s a shit place. I’m over it. Are you?
ruga2 5y ago
You are just attempting damage control. There is no reason to write what you wrote other than for justifying abuse of men.
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You did it out of the custom of abusing men and not being called for it.
whatdidshewrite 5y ago
OP: Men get abused
Me: Women also get abused. Who cares?
You: OmG yOu’Re A mAn AbUsEr
ruga2 5y ago
Now, you are using shaming tactics, which is another form of woman's abuse of men.
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You are a textbook example of the Red Pill.
NextBad 5y ago
I see your point but you must remember this sub is 95% hatred against men, they are brainwashed into thinking pointing out abuse must be gender neutral
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ruga2 5y ago
Yes, it is. Is one of the most important issues for the mens rights movement.
NextBad 5y ago
No one said AWALT nor is this a attack on women, society doesn't allow funding for male abuse victims, feminist saw to this. This is a war on men, not a attack on women. This is gendered based crime, because a man doesn't have access to shelters, TV or media support. He is always the bad guy.
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trp_nofap_rewire2018 5y ago
That’s absurd, wtf. This dude need to get slapped in the face and become a real man ASAP, hopefully this terrible experience taught him a few bits about real women nature. If he was the abuser we all know what would happen ...
Edit - not in a violent manner for God’s sake, a gentle slapping from a red pilled friend or something would do wonders
heronmarkedblade1984 5y ago
Honestly it sounds like hes been slapped in the face enough. I think hes got some issues that even a dose of RP isn't going to be curing.
trp_nofap_rewire2018 5y ago
I’ll rephrase that: slapped in the face by a fellow friend/man, not in a violent manner.
DarkSyde3000 5y ago
He probably doesn't have any. Who else with self-esteem and friends would've allowed themselves to be beat to shit for three years? Not surprising she only got 7 years for attempted murder though. Women always get lighter sentences, always. That being the case though, this kid probably didn't have any male father figures of any kind growing up. I don't know any men personally who would've tolerated this after the first incident.
conquersex 5y ago
The article does say that she isolated him from his friends and family by controlling his phone and social media accounts.
DarkSyde3000 5y ago
Yes well again, he allowed it so that's part of it. If I wasn't hearing from friends and family for a while I'd literally just call them. She chose someone she knew she could easily manipulate and who had vulnerabilities. This was pretty orchestrated.
AllahHatesFags 5y ago
It's really sickening how cucked a guy can get. I don't tolerate bitches getting violent with me like that; every time a woman has struck me she has ended up in a submission hold and you better believe they submitted. If a thot came at me with a knife, the gloves are fucking off and she's probably losing teeth, IDGAF about the cops, courts, white knights, whatever. The guy in the article was never her "boyfriend", he was an abused pet.
NextBad 5y ago
Society teaches men to do this
AllahHatesFags 5y ago
It's not just society, it's the declining testosterone and psuedoestrogens men are constantly being exposed to. A man with high T isn't going to take anywhere near that kind of abuse without punching her in the face, throwing her out, or just leaving.
EkMard 5y ago
Elaborate on the hormones we are exposed to.
AllahHatesFags 5y ago
Phytoestrogens from soy and BPA are two good examples.
Eli-Thail 5y ago
Phytoestrogens are present in a hell of a lot more than soy, friend.
Oats, hops, barley, beans, lentils, wheat, rice, apples, carrots, coffee, it's in virtually every plant there is, the only question is whether we eat the relevant portions of said plant or not.
Not to mention the fact that we've already ruled out the possibility of any impact on either free or bioavailable testosterone levels.
ruga2 5y ago
I had seen husbands slowly morphing from alphas into pathetic abused men.
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It's the slow boiling frog. The abuse advances slowly. The more the husband tolerate, the more he's abused.
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I know a dude whose wife broke his teeth with something like an ashtray. Then she was disgusted at his tootles mouth, and divorced.
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Many woman feel absolutely enraged by the prospect of being with a husband so weak that they can abuse him. They abuse the man, feel repulsed to be tied to that man, and it feedbacks his rage.
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largepaycheckaddict 5y ago
Only in the western world can this problem possibly exist. Makes you wonder how “misogynistic” our society really is-as claimed by some people.
NextBad 5y ago
Are society is 0% misogynistic , women have no double standards that aren't in their favor,
rus9384 5y ago
Only in western world it could appear in news.
ruga2 5y ago
It has nothing to do with "western world". It is simply human nature. A percentage of the population is always psychopathic, both men and women.
NextBad 5y ago
The western world has laws that prevent male domestic violence issues from receiving government funding , thanks to feminism , this is a war
largepaycheckaddict 5y ago
In some parts of the world a woman acting out of line like this would be thrown off a roof.
If a woman acted like this a few centuries ago in the european world she’d probably be disowned by her family or burned in the town square.
People who behave this way (man or woman) are a social contagion.. Men who allow themselves to be treated like this lack basic self respect and are also cowards who have no self control over their lustful instincts. They’re basically slave minded.
This stuff used to be pretty basic when patriarchy was still enforced. Now we have a bunch of Blue pilled manboys who will tolerate this BS for a whiff of a psychopathic wretch’s fish stench pussy.
Women are like dogs. If you act scared they’ll jump all over and bite you. If you act in command and authoritatively (without resorting to physical abuse and name calling/ad hominems) they obey.
ruga2 5y ago
It doesn't stop them. Recently a woman was executed on the Arab Emirates for murdering the daughter of his husband.
They were called witches and were burned, but they still existed.
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Our blue pilled world favors and promotes, woman's abuse of men, but is not the cause of it.
The cause is biological, instinctive, and cannot be erased from female nature. It needs to be accepted and deal with.
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Women are more like tigers than dogs. They will maul you if you don't know their nature, and act careless. You can pet a tiger, but never trust on their tameness.
rus9384 5y ago
The dude suggests that in non-western world women are never aggressive. Or that all guys there are alphas, while there are a lot of incels either. Alpha-incels.
ruga2 5y ago
There are no alpha incels. By definition, and alpha is the man who reproduces with most woman, by being desired by woman.
An alpha is nothing else. Is not a leader, is not a champion, is not a strong, muscular dude. Is not a rich. Is not a Nobel prize.
A man that does not reproduce is not an alpha.
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On one side, the frequency of psychopathy is unavoidable, because each time an ovule is fertilized, a random combination happens, and there is always a biological probability of generating a psychopath. That's independent of culture.
On the other side, all cultures have histories of abusive woman. No matter how "patriarchal" the society is. They may be propagated as humorous folk tales, but they are always present.
Also, the more patriarchal a society is, the more percentage of beta males it haves, because free woman mate with alphas, and controlled woman cannot chose their mates.
Woman forced to mate against their will, multiply beta males.
rus9384 5y ago
Yeah, feminism (ye, Good Ol' feminism, not the modern one) changed that by sexual revolutions and now I don't see the reason to blame feminism in making more betas. The marriage itself produced more betas and that was the norm... well, since around 2400 BCE. There are no more betas now than there were a century ago. Look at all that gentleman stuff and so on.
That is quite weird, given these claims blaming feminism for making more betas are made by some successful (not in beta meaning) RP men like Tomassi, not incels. I agree radical feminism is BS. And the modern one is 99% like that, except in third world countries.
Regarding alphas... well, alphas are simply those whose genetic footprints will be more prominent in the future than of their contemporaries.
Does not make sense now because in a few generations humans will simply upload their minds into digital devices. And sexual reproduction is gone.
ruga2 5y ago
My arguments do not refute that feminism is betaizing males.
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But it goes much deeper than that.
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Feminism is a filter which will reduce the reproduction of betas, which are the more manipulable percentage of the population. Feminism is making it easier for alphas, which are not prone to be manipulated, and do not care for social norms, or laws.
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Yes, marriage multiplied betas, because it forces a woman to have sex with a man which was somewhat selected at random. The woman cannot "fix" her mistakes.
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Now, on ancient times, there was little monogamy. It was common for a man to have multiple woman and slaves. The bible is full of it.
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Most men died in wars, or were not able to get a wife. Other men had to be incels, and it was common for brothers to share a wife. It still happens on muslim countries.
rus9384 5y ago
That is the reason why blaming every kind of feminism in producing more betas is just like hitting yourself in the balls.
Maybe feminism makes more betas. Or maybe those men already are betas and feminism just utilizes that. Betas existed all the time. And it's hard to turn natural alphas to betas and natural betas to alphas. Red pill converts them to MGTOW, not alphas.
In those ancient times about slaves it's still about very high tier betas. Having slaves means having money. If you look at the history before 2400 BCE, however, you'll see the cult of sex. That was the time when alphas still could have more offsprings.
I thought Quran prohibits polyandry and extramarital sex. On the other hand, who cares if there are not enough witnesses.
ruga2 5y ago
Feminism betaizes existing males, but makes it easier for alphas. Alphas are not vulnerable to betaization.
That's why women give shit tests, to check if the male is betaizable.
Women are attracted to alphas, only because being alpha is genetically inheritable. Otherwise, alphas and betas would be equally attractive.
The point of mating with an alpha is to make alpha children.
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But we all descend from millions of years of successful alphas. None of our ancestors died virgin. So we have a good chance of carrying alpha genetics, despite centuries of beta breeding by forced monogamy.
Blue pill social conditioning may make you act as a beta. The red pill may help you gt rid of social conditioning, and gives you the best chance of tapping on your alpha-ness. But it guarantees nothing.
Except that sharing a wife is not considered extramarital sex.
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The Quran is full of traps. For example, homosexuality is banned, but with the specific words "love". Homosexual love is banned, but is not a sin if there is no love involved. Also, rape is banned, but only women can be raped.
That's why homosexual rape of a boy slave is legal under the Quran, as long as the victim is not "loved", so male children are routinely homosexuality raped on muslim countries. Google it.
EkMard 5y ago
I am aware that these practices occur. I know a lot about Islam, and I have never come across justifications for pederastry. It is practiced in a few places, for example Pashtun populations, but is considered forbidden by the vast majority of Muslim people.
Again, I have never heard of this. This may be a thing in particular places. Most Muslims would be unaware that such a practice occurs at all.
chazthundergut 5y ago
I hate that TRP has joined in the fetishization of victimhood.
Men: society doesn't like you. Culture is not your friend. Take responsibility for your life and your happiness
FereallyRed 5y ago
Agreed. What kind of a waste of space "man" is this?
I hope she cut his nuts off (but they probably never descended) because this faggot should not reproduce.
Trevisann 5y ago
Finally some sane voice here. She did that because he ALLOWED HER. Abuse always escalate, first from verbal to physical assault.
Weak beta male, hope he turns into a tranny after this traumatic experience, haha
NextBad 5y ago
This is exactly why these articles are needed. It's 0% his fault. It's not your responsibility , you need help, you aren't some macho Unbreakable man,
chazthundergut 5y ago
If a man's own happiness isnt his responsibility, then who the fuck else could be responsible for it?
Certainly not females. They barely know what is satisfying to them, much less how to make a man happy.
Certainly not culture. Culture does not want happy, independent, free-thinking men. Culture wants wage-slaves and mindless automatons.
Take responsibility for your own life. If you are waiting around for women or society to look out for you, you are a naive idiot.
frooschnate 5y ago
M8 it’s on him for not having the balls to take care of himself at the very least.
Just leave.
zhadyx 5y ago
This is just a severe case of Stockholm syndrome, and it isn’t gender specific. AWALT/ TRP is not applied to this.
It’s sad to see how the victim develops a false emotional attachment to the abuser.
ruga2 5y ago
TRP applies to this, because woman's abuse are not black or white. It is a spectrum. There are all degrees of abuse.
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So is the opposite. feminists use extreme cases of male violence to attack the entire male gender, when in reality most males are gentle, and there is an entire spectrum of abusers.
Eli-Thail 5y ago
The same goes for absolutely all abuse. There are literally no exceptions.
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frooschnate 5y ago
You think this relationship went from first date and kisses to hammer to the head in a day?
Be real. He shoulda gotten out of there and manage this bitch way before all this happened. He didn’t. Cause he’s weak.
ruga2 5y ago
Head trauma caused by who? A passing kangaroo?
WaspOnAWall 5y ago
Reading this article makes me wonder, how many bluepilled soyboys will end up abused this way? I'm not saying that's the case here, but I think it could become much more common when so many guys consider any type of violence against women to be taboo, and when women are encouraged all the time to "speak up" and be "strong". I grew up with 2 sisters, and let me tell you, I'm a really calm guy, but I make no difference in terms of gender when I have to hit someone. An eye for an eye.
Though to be honest, women are so weak that you don't need to go very far, just grabbing her wrist hard and staring her down when she tries to slap you will give her a reality check.
TunaFishes123 5y ago
Disgusting, it takes a special kind of monster to do something like this.
There's no blame on the victim here, he probably didn't even realize how she was manipulating him, that's what's so fucked about abusers, the worst ones know how to manipulate and control, and they keep people in the worst situations against their best interests.
I'm glad that man's free from this and I hope he's healing from what he was put through.
Bottled_Void 5y ago
I'm not really sure this is an example of blue pill. This is someone being the victim of extreme abuse. AWALT doesn't apply here.
I just hope that if I knew someone this was happening to, I'd pick up on it and get them the help they needed.
NextBad 5y ago
No one said AWALT nor is this a attack on women, society doesn't allow funding for male abuse victims, feminist saw to this. This is a war on men, not a attack on women. This is gendered based crime, because a man doesn't have access to shelters, TV or media support. He is always the bad guy.
conquersex 5y ago
Well men are mentally abused by women very often too, and often don't react because they have been conditioned by society to get used to women's 'phases' and 'mood swings'.
Bottled_Void 5y ago
No, they don't react because they're worried they'll be thrown in jail and prevented from entering their own home. Probably have a criminal record and a restraining order.
Who is to say, maybe he stayed because he was worried she'd hurt the kid.
I think you're trying to push an angle that isn't there. Some crazy bitch got her jollies by smacking around her boyfriend. It's not something you can apply to normal everyday living.
Don't hang around psychopaths and murderers.
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ruga2 5y ago
I see women's abuse of men all the time. Not to this extreme, but it is normal for a woman to start conflicts out of nothing, and even starting physical violence.
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It is normal than a woman denouncing a relative's attack, has herself been the first one to attack.
Bottled_Void 5y ago
I don't dispute that. But RP knowledge isn't what this guy needed.
Anyone that's getting beaten up by their partner needs to leave them and file a police report.
Maybe you can blame this on oneitis, but I think it's a lot more than that.
ruga2 5y ago
We agree, but AWALT applies. Not all woman are crazy at this level, but most are at some level, and they have no limits if the man puts no boundaries.
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A woman facing a weak partner gets angry and generally leave/divorce/cheats. But a woman socially conditioned to stay on the relationship gets more and more angry with time. Tie that to the fact that most woman don't believe that men have right to be vulnerable, and they don't see anything wrong with mistreating men.
Eli-Thail 5y ago
Then AWALT doesn't apply. Are you sure you understand what those letters stand for?
ruga2 5y ago
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Can you read?
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SalporinRP 5y ago
Fuck man some idiots on here will probably talk about how the guy was weak or a cuck but no person on earth deserves that treatment. The photos are horrific.
I hope he gets the help he needs and I hope that cunt rots in prison.
conquersex 5y ago
She got 7 years of jail time for inflicting 3 years of solid physical abuse. She didn't get what she deserves (at least not yet).
SalporinRP 5y ago
fuck that's depressing. If a guy did that he'd be getting 15 minimum.
Eli-Thail 5y ago
Controlling or coercive behavior in an intimate relationship has a maximum sentencing length of only 5 years, and seeing as how she plead guilty to wounding with intent and causing grievous bodily harm, I'm willing to bet that a plea arrangement was needed to convict her on the less recent injuries.
wendysNO1wcheese 5y ago
This reminds me of this kid in college. I was in a summer class with only a few people in it. The teacher was cool as shit. Only a few years older than me. Me and him would go out on smoke breaks halfway through the class. The one other kid in my class was sort of weird. He talked a lot, but was also nervous. Like he was never socialized properly. Anyways, after a few weeks the three of us were out smoking and talking. The kid starts talking about his girlfriend. About how mean she was. I didn't think too much of it. Then he said how he had to go the hospital last year for broken ribs because she pushed him down some steps. My teacher looked over at me and we both just made the "what the fuck" face. I just listened to this kid go on and on about all the shit she did to him. Stabbed him, punched him, etc...He had scars to prove it. I was like, "Dude, what the fuck are you doing? Call the fucking police on her and get the fuck away." He just nonchalantly said, "Yea, I probably should. I've thought about it." Just weird as shit. I think about that once in a while. Don't know what happened to him. He was an EMT on his way to being a paramedic. Hope he got the fuck away from her. Seems like he was the type of guy that would put a ring on that though. Just sad.
Harry_Teak 5y ago
He's a lucky man. Lucky this didn't happen in the US at least. He'd have been the one doing time after the circus was over and she'd be on the talk show circuit.
GEN_GOTHMOG 5y ago
I'm sorry but how little must you think of yourself to let a physically smaller and less able person do this to you?
CountVP 5y ago
Clearly a basket case of stockholm syndrome. Most men woudln’t put up with this. You are using one example and claiming to be representative of the mayority
Trevisann 5y ago
As a guy born in the Third world, I cannot conceive that kind of thing. HOW this dude let that happen to him?
“Whenever we’ve had an argument in the car, I’ll just grab my hairbrush that’s on the side and I’ll just sort of hit him wherever I can.”
Man if she RAISED HER VOICE to me, she would be dead on the spot.
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