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A field report from my first date since finding TRP. It was with a girl (HB9) who moved to my school for the final two years. We never really hung out at school and didn’t speak at all until our final day at school. We reconnected recently and set up this date.
I took a lot of advice from a post on here about a week ago about how to close on a first date.
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I met my date at her flat. She invited me in and we sat and chatted on the sofa for about an hour. During this time I was trying to hold frame and bring her into my frame. I didn’t focus too much on this as I also wanted to enjoy myself, since to me, TRP should be about enjoyment, not just wanting to bang every girl.
I began to initiate kino by brushing my hand against her leg and shifting my position so that our legs would touch, briefly to begin with then for long spells. She reciprocated the kino and would touch my arm when she laughed and hit my leg when I ribbed her.
I thought it was going well.
She ordered a taxi and we went to grab a bite to eat. We were seated opposite each other on a communal table so kino was pretty hard to do here. I instead tried so of the techniques I had learnt, whenever she talked about something boring I was more active in looking around the restaurant but became attentive again when her topics of conversation were of interest to me. I took some time to go silent and watched her squirm whilst trying to fill the silence. This part of the date was more about the conversational and body language aspects of TRP teachings.
We then moved on to the mini golf. Whilst we were waiting for our tee times we had some drinks and were sat close to each other. Here I ramped up my kino a bit more. I had my hand on her leg, I was picking at the material of her jeans and she seemed to be enjoying it.
I beat her at mini golf and this kind of surprised her, “most guys let the girl win on the first date” she told me.
“Most guys don’t go on dates with such bad mini golfers” I replied.
After leaving mini golf we headed to a bar. Had a couple of drinks there and played some games. I escalated the kino again and this time she was touching my leg as well.
We then got a taxi back to her place. Whilst waiting for the taxi, I moved in for the kiss, she met me for it and I pulled away first. I figured, this is going amazingly well, TRP might just be magic. When we got back to her place we went to the living room and sat on the sofa. I kissed her a little more and pulled away, continued talking like nothing had happened. Then kissed again, with a bit more touching. Pulled away again. She had this weird look on her face every time I pulled away, like she couldn’t quite figure out why I had pulled away, but because I just started talking like nothing had happened I sort of didn’t give her the time to dwell on to it too much. After a bit more of this back forth, I picked her up and carried her to the bedroom. She did ask me, “Where are you taking me?” I just replied with “You’ll see”.
The rest, as they say, is history.
CONCLUSION
This was my first date since trying to internalise TRP teachings. I have to say, I have come on a lot more than I thought I would have. A lot of things I did on this date came naturally to me and that, I suppose, is what is meant by internalising. It’s all well and good knowing what you should do, it’s another thing entirely to just do it naturally.
My takeaways from this, TRP really works. Lift, work on your goal, and internalise the damn sidebar. It’s amazing what you can accomplish.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Love the kino, push/pull stuff. It's amazing what a difference that can do. Most guys just go for it, as soon as they think they're 'in', which she's normally used to and has ASD/LMR lined up. The push/pull just confuses her, gets her thinking 'is he, or is he not going to try and fuck me? I'm not used to this'. Then, when you're ready, boom, pick up and carry.
It shows the power of push/pull in the entire dynamic. She's suddenly on her toes.
BlindingTwilight 5y ago
Kino is king. Every red pill guy needs to know this. Kino is the best thing to do on a date. Let’s you know right from the start how to proceed. Master kino and you master dating.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
Selecting the appropriate seating is also important. I hate sitting at the bar because you have to keep looking to the side to talk and because it's obvious when you're trying to escalate. Sitting across is even worse because there's zero opportunity to touch her. The best is sitting on either side of the corner of a table so that you are at right angles.
Easy to escalate touching, can look at each other when you talk, and less awkward than sitting directly across and having to lock eyes the whole night
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Truedemocracy4 5y ago
This. Kino and escalation is everything
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MrGreySD 5y ago
There are no HB9s in the UK
NYCSPARKLE 5y ago
Naw man, this super model was just really into hour-long sofa conversations and mini golf.
askmrcia 5y ago
I was wondering about that. Why even mention the HB number in the first place? It added nothing to the story and I bet she wasn't that good looking anyways.
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vivid_mind 5y ago
Maybe not in the UK as a whole but in London there is plenty, especially foreign girls :)
ziphias 5y ago
London begs to differ. Seen that Tusk guys channel?
0ToTheLeft 5y ago
i can get an erection just from hearing a women speaking in british accent lol. Just the accent adds +2 to sex appeal
EntropyForeverx 5y ago
Nothing but trolls there mate
BurnoutRS 5y ago
You talking before or after you see them smile?
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tarantado_ 5y ago
There are plenty of HB9s here in the UK. You're just not looking in the right places, my friend.
MikeTyson91 5y ago
Yes, but they're HB3 in other countries.
_Last_Man_Standing_ 5y ago
Q: Why did the British men conquered the world?
A: Have you seen British women?
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nomogoodnames 5y ago
I'll put 500 on OP being a halfway decent looking guy and this truckstop hooker with good complexion just felt mystically compelled towards his dick with a completely absent mind for his alpha antics.
NYCSPARKLE 5y ago
What’s worthless is spending hours and $ on a (dinner) date where it sounds like OP was just constantly worrying about his next “alpha move” only to completely pedestal that pussy.
superyute 5y ago
whats your strategy SPARKLE?
NYCSPARKLE 5y ago
Continue living my life, man
superyute 5y ago
i was actually hoping you'd shed some light on your dating process in particular, logistics and all
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elgodo7 5y ago
London has some of the best girls in the world. Yeah most British girls are not that hot but in London it's so multiracial and you get so many stunners.
tunsku 5y ago
Haha, if thats what you like.
elgodo7 5y ago
I mean it's a multi racial society you get every race here and some are mixed race too, but there is defo some of the nicest girls in London but can't say same about rest of England or UK.
c4toyourdoornobeef 5y ago
lmao don’t bother with some of these guys. I’m a londoner too and a lot of these guys on here are racist. Not saying everyone who replied is but i reckon some are definitely are
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Menchstick 5y ago
Seems plausible enough, she simply was a HB7
FatmanO 5y ago
Probably a realistic HB5
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TheRedPike 5y ago
^ ^ This ^ ^
KeffirLime 5y ago
Instead of debating whether it's real or not, something we could never ascertain anyway, perhaps try and contribute something of value to the text presented.
donkeydodo 5y ago
It must hurt to be shut down by a couple of Endorsed Contributors, lol
LongBeachBlackTips 5y ago
Perhaps it’s just my writing style, either way, I’m not asking for your seal of approval
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TheRedPike 5y ago
I'm done with the "fake and gay" comments. Ban rampage incoming if it keeps happening.
donkeydodo 5y ago
I call fake and gay
Jokes aside, these types of comments are so fucking retarded. We talk about women looking down and backtalking eachother, yet some conduct the same behavior; hypocritical
Also, it doesn’t matter if it’s fictional or not; if it can serve as a motivator for someone to actually try it themselves, why not? ”Fake it ’til you make it” as in write and read true/fake stories until there’s only real stories left, legends will become truth and stories will be the future
1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 5y ago
Please don't wait. Time is the one thing we can never get more of... so the more time we waste reading their BS, the more time we lose in the end...
c4toyourdoornobeef 5y ago
mate you can’t even spell lose
donkeydodo 5y ago
Any logical argument as to why this wouldn't be a plausible scenario? Smells projection here...
MammothPassenger 5y ago
use your fucking brain
donkeydodo 5y ago
Ok, I apparently can't. Enlighten me genious
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ghosts_of_me 5y ago
Do you really think there arent any non virgins on this forum? Jeez, the incels just show themselves.
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ZeppKfw 5y ago
When did you first discover TRP?
Also good job on the date ????
LongBeachBlackTips 5y ago
About a year ago, but this is my first actual date since then. I’ve had some success on nights out in that time, but I was happy to be able to do this!
bestsparkyalive 5y ago
Okay this gives me renewed hope. I discovered it last summer and have had a few dates since. Insanely close to closing the deal on 2 of them but I just am not there yet.
Good on you man. Thanks for the little boost.
masterpiece00 5y ago
Why are guys acting like this? it's as if they make RP out like it is giving them cosmic powers, unless you were a virgin its just random sex for a few minutes with promiscuous females whom are on notch who knows what -not superpowers.
Let's be real, she wasn't a "HB9", most men here don't have an SMV capable of that - as soon as one of these girls show some interest, they are suddenly the best specimen you've seen.
Guys are supposed to be less pussy whipped, not putting it on a big pedestal.
Crimson_Medicinal 5y ago
Most men are absolutely pathetic, with no knowledge of how to date at let, let alone get laid. Myself included. Before TRP it would happen almost by accident. I do agree with the SMV statement however. Even my oneitis is an 8 at best, men tend to inflate it in their minds.
This still seems like a hell of a lot of work just to get some pussy though, do long dates actually pay off? I've only been on short bar dates that either result in sex or not. I can't imagine going to place after place just to get a whiff of pussy. I'd rather be at home.
Mineralrecords 5y ago
Depends on what you are trying to get. I like dates where we go multiple places and do a lot of fun shit. I enjoy myself a lot on those dates. And that's what you go on a date for, right?
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FereallyRed 5y ago
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum. Don't let the bastards grind you down.
Nice FR. Several key TRP tenets.
Only hole I saw was allowing opposite seating, but you answered that below. Could have venue changed? Moot point. Good kino, good escalation, good cockiness.
KeffirLime 5y ago
Good Job, glad you're testing out the shit you read, and glad it's working out.
On all my dates, I always re-arrange the seating so we're seated next to each other. This makes it far more intimate, builds tension and makes it easier for kino/escalation. By the time dinners over it's not some big reunion from opposite ends of the table, she's comfortable with closeness and primed for a close.
superyute 5y ago
how do you rearrange in places with seats like this? with similar setups adjacent to, and behind you
KeffirLime 5y ago
I'll move her chair so that she's perpendicular to me. Come sit next to papa.
ziphias 5y ago
I put my leg out against theirs under the table, run a finger over their arm when I go to the restroom, something like that. Obviously you have to do it with confidence and not be a creep doing it.
90% of the work on a date is done before the date begins, i.e. working on yourself.
iamthelogos 5y ago
Yep, this is a good litmus test too. Rearranging chairs to suit (as long as you're not obviously fucking up the establishment's operations) shows your willingness to change the world around you to better suit your needs. And if it puts her off for any reason, it's probably better to have that out in the open sooner rather than later.
KeffirLime 5y ago
Precisely, I always move her chair, not mine. It's sets the mood of control, come to me, come closer.
iamthelogos 5y ago
Yep - someone posted the Russel Brand flirting with that chick on Jimmy Fallon. He sat in the chair she was supposed to sit in, then moved her around and pulled her onto his lap. Commanded presence in the room, used the space as his plaything, controlled the narrative, and when he was done, made his exit. Set the mood 100%.
Mushonix 5y ago
Great job man, hope u had fun.
Don't let those guys accusing you of writing fiction bother you though, if someone like Uncle Vasya wrote something like this, everyone would be applauding, but it's apparently it's fiction if a "normal man" fuck a girl on first date.
thirstybitch13 5y ago
The only part that's fiction is a HB9 after he's just been lurking on TRP with zero dates for a YEAR? But whatever, true or false you can learn something from seeing the method step by step like this.
Auvergnat 5y ago
As you mature in your TRP understanding, you'll realise that there's no magic, that TRP really is just basic social acumen, that what's strange is that there's so many guys out there that lack a skill that is both so evident and essential, that the craziest is that there was a time you lacked it too, as if you had failed to notice the sun in the sky since you were born.
Because really, looking at OP's post from a TRP-aware perspective, it's nothing but the story of a girl who wants to fuck, who meets a guy who she feels is relatively high-sexual-market-value, and of a guy who simply does nothing to contradict this feeling. What's magic in that? The only way anyone could see such normal story and either disbelieve it or believe it but call it "luck" or "magic" is that if that person lack the basic knowledge that women also want to fuck, that women are typically attracted to highly valuable men, and that by definition highly valuable men behave in ways that are consistent with said high-value (cockiness, abundance mentality, no hesitation to escalate, etc.).
As I grow in my TRP understanding, I increasingly believe it's less about doing the "right things" than simply avoiding the "bad things". Using some awesome witty pick-up line that'll make her laugh won't get her in your bed, but going through a two-hours face-to-face meeting without at any point apologising for no reason, talking about boring topics, being flustered when she shit tests you, or failing to find the confidence to make a move, may very well just be enough to convince her you're worth fucking.
BazingaBen 5y ago
I for one enjoyed reading your report and see no reason to disbelieve it, unlike some.
I don't see it as wasted time and money as some commented. If you're going to be going on a date and having fun anyway, it makes it all the more exciting to put these methods into action. I love seeing a girls reaction when I try this stuff, because it's not how I used to be and has shown me a different way of thinking.
I for one have never closed like this (nor tried to yet) on a first date but have done many times on nights out. TRP has changed my way of thinking and I've been playing with what I've picked up so far and it's made my nights out more fun. I no longer care or concentrate on one girl like I used to, instead I have fun, be cheeky and apply what I have picked up and enjoy seeing the results, both good and bad.
Sounds like that's what you've done here and you've got sex date one, yeah most of us can go get sex somewhere, anytime, but you turned what normally may have been just a date into date and sex and had fun doing it. Nothing to lose and nothing is on a pedestal imo, you're having fun with what you learned.
The mini golf line was great BTW.
McVaghunter 5y ago
Actually, TRP is about banging every possible girl, after all it's a place to discuss sexual strategy.
Your phrase shows your lack of confidence which is normal as this is your first time applying your RP leanings; you're trying to protect yourself by convincing it that you're not there for pussy, this way even if she denies you sex you won't have a hard time accepting it. Nonetheless I want you to have the correct mindset by being confident and going there for nothing but the goddamn pussy because if you're not fucking her then there is something wrong to fix.
Also, as you just experienced, sex on the first date is not a RP myth, in fact every girl does it (for the right guy). Now that you know it, it should be your standard; if a girl does not give up that pussy on the first date (unless it's that time of the month) then she's not interested in you and that's alone is enough of a reason to hard next her ass. If most girls don't fuck you on the first date then it's time to improve your SMV.
Anyway, good job my man!
tarantado_ 5y ago
Great work! A point to keep in mind for next time is try to avoid sitting directly opposite your date. It creates a more confrontational vibe and less chance to become intimate.
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LongBeachBlackTips 5y ago
Yeah that one wasn’t my choice, I would’ve liked to sit side by side, just the restaurant is communal tables so I didn’t have a choice lol
NYCSPARKLE 5y ago
Communal table means you literally decide where you sit...
LongBeachBlackTips 5y ago
A communal table is a table that shared with other people. It was a long table and we got seated. Didn’t realise you were an expert on the way restaurants work
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NYCSPARKLE 5y ago
I will endeavor to pull more HB9s and be less cunty.
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ComplexProjection 5y ago
If she's already responding well to the kino in her flat, skip all the restaurant and outdoor activities. You are already giving her a lot of your time (and so, your commitment) without any engagement on her part. This kind of meeting sets the boyfriend/girlfriend frame, which you should not be against per se, but not so early in the relationship.
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Good job on banging her, but it is far from the last step.
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BySNiP 5y ago
Sounds good.TRP sounds like taking a good perspective
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That's your big takeaway from this story? FFS lmao
light-----------dark 5y ago
This, and that mini golf is apparently a panty dropper.
LongBeachBlackTips 5y ago
It was an Uber, an Uber is still a taxi. I live in England so it’s the same thing here
ziphias 5y ago
You obviously don't live in London, then. I prefer the black cabs in the city as they actually know where the hell they're going.
LongBeachBlackTips 5y ago
I’m not sure of your point here, am I supposed to be impressed that you live in London and like black cabs?
ziphias 5y ago
Idle comment. I've just had some bad experiences in London with Uber. Great FR, thanks for sharing your progress with the community.
FKaroundNfindOUT 5y ago
Cool story here.
Quick question though, the "HB" in the rating system is supposed to stand for "Hard boiled", right? It doesn't functionally make sense to me to need a 30 point scale (soft 5, a 5 and a hard 5 ect.) but communication is only truly effective if sender and receiver have the same message in the end.
Since Webster is unlikely to broach this subject, is there a universal guide we all agree on?
Imperator_Red 5y ago
Lol what. It just means a girl's hotness out of 10, like when you tell your buddy that girl was a 7 and he says no she's a 5.
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