While many of us come upon the Redpill in our teens and twenties, those with clear-eyed ideas about the real nature of human relationships and sexuality have always existed. A few are lucky enough to have a father, uncle, teacher, or trusted mentor lift the veil for us. My father was in the entertainment business and impressed upon me, not quite the highly distilled and oversimplified mantras of redpillers today like “women are children” and “never lose frame”, but instead engaged in discourses and storytelling meant to illustrate the hard truths he’d come to know slaying pussy in the 70s and 80s.
As such, I’ve never had many illusions about the nature of the female character or been very moved by the possibility of long-term commitments. While I’ve had several multi-year relationships with women of exceptional intelligence, character, and beauty, even really possessing such women never satisfied my growing urge to conquer new women and expand my harem. “The siren call of new pussy” never abates – in fact, it motivates and moves me more today than it ever has. Of course, the desire to match my father’s success with women, although he passed away many years ago, has been another motivator. All that to say that, as opposed to the experiences of others, I was never raised to believe in romance, to expect fidelity, or feel shame for male conquest and promiscuity (in fact my mother still encourages me).
Lessons on frame came in the form of a hard lesson on emotional discipline. When I was 14 I went through my first breakup and heartbreak. My father explained that it never served one’s interests to make declarations of affection, outward displays of emotion or desire, and especially never to betray neediness. Neediness makes one a junkie or addict, leading to behavior outside one’s reason. Naturally when one fails to govern one’s own conduct, the outcome will be less than ideal. Emotional discipline is about walling oneself off; he said: build a high castle all the way around and seal yourself up inside so that your real feelings and beliefs are hidden. Build a huge wide moat, with pirrhanas and crocodiles, and only when you’re finished protecting yourself, walling yourself off, securing your sanity, only then can you build a little drawbridge and door. It’s a discipline, not to let anyone in, and it’s terribly lonely sometimes, but no one said life was supposed to be easy.
As far as ethics and competition went, there was only one rule: do unto others before they do unto you.
And what kind of woman should you chase after? That’s easy. It takes the same energy to seduce any woman. “Son, fuck a rich bitch.” And that’s what I do. Girls whose dads are doctors and lawyers are a lot of fun. If you date rich girls, you don’t have to have money, because they don’t give a fuck about how well you can beta provide. They want someone who’s relaxed and in charge, who can quickly solve their little anxieties and pointless woman problems. A guy like their dad, but who fucks hard an knows how to roll a joint. They usually have low n-counts, too.
I think to come to the Redpill as a birthright rather than to be awakened is quite a difference. My anger phase began immediately when I hit puberty and lasted until my late teens, but it was more or less related to fully realizing my insignificance in a cold and brutal world. From an early age, I’d been taught that to be man, to affirm one’s worth, you had to go out and slay, so that’s what I did.
I’ve never worked out for more than a few months and I don’t work too hard. I dress well, have a comfortable apartment, and drive an older model car which is cheap, reliable, and fast. Women have always come very easily to me, either through Tinder, meeting them at bars, through friends, parties, etc. I’m moderately tall but I don’t think I’d have a lot more trouble with women if I were 5’8 instead of 6’2 on the basis of these same lessons.
The bottom line is to stay frosty. Stay calm and don’t be desperate. Abundance mentality is something that can inform everything you do. If you have a problem with a job, a car, a mobile phone, a place to live, just remember THEY MAKE MORE. There is a whole universe of interlocking voluntary economic transactions that we can tap into whenever we want to wring more stuff out of the world. If you have a problem with a woman, you can always go out and find another. They make more of those too.
Unlike other redpillers, I wouldn’t go as far as to say that’s the case with women. While it’s true women are a different species than men, that we are a mammalian species with a pretty significant degree of sexual dimorphism, that we are largely a species of harem-keeping alpha males, enthusiastic cucks and dead betas, I think there is value in long-term relationships with women. I still believe in love, I just don’t expect my love relationships to last the rest of my life. I’ll do my duty and father sons, and I’ll teach them about the way things really are. Once in a while, I’ll feel sorry for myself, because I never got to believe in Santa, but new pussy usually cures that too.
Andrew54321 5y ago
Kk ya ya not a question homie, you you’re best self bc if this and that and all things else and lack thereof lets keep it going now or not ya kno?
nysys 5y ago
I am not surprised by the number of insanely resentful bluepill commenters and hateful anti-Semitic private messages. This is not a place inhabited by alphas, but by beta cucks hunched over laptops trying to find meaning in their sexless lives. I bet if I put all the people who nitpicked my conscious desire to have children within a traditional legal marriage to the test, none of them has ever cum inside a woman of quality.
glaciusHoN 5y ago
yeah this sub is filled with sexually frustrated virgins and delusional wannabe 'alphas'
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nothing new, i've never found an internet forum that wasn't
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apoloa 5y ago
Great post op, I am very thankful by the wisdom of your dad, and you sharing with us. I would like to make some questions and I want to know what your dad teach you about:
1 - Bussiness and money;
2 - People and how to be friend of people that can open doors for you.
Thank you and I wish the best in your future marriage.
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nysys 5y ago
No, I'm not.
How many women have you ejaculated in?
vodoun 5y ago
is this the "message" I send you? lmfao
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
Lol listen to your basement dweller rantings
vodoun 5y ago
???? yes it's not at all well known that jews suck
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
I just don’t buy the Jew conspiracy theories. Yes they rise to positions of prominence due to high IQ and culture of education etc. But you have tons of WASPs alongside them pushing the same degeneracy. The real culprit is the cult ideology of leftism in its various forms. And even tho some Jews push it, I don’t buy that it’s fundamentally a Jewish thing. It’s a late civ thing. And anyone who rises to prominence in progressive orthodoxy, Jew, WASP, or otherwise, must and does adopt it. The Jew isn’t the virus. Leftism is the virus.
ChesterRickman 5y ago
Daaamn, that's what my bro did and now he has the best thing going out of all my friends. On the other hand girls from poorer backgrounds who consider themselves "independant women" etc because they are going to college/whatever care about cash, a lot, even if her parents are still paying for her shit and she works part-time as a babysitter or smth lmao.
DownVoteForDickPic 5y ago
OP’s dad is wise. I’m a downtown guy, uptown girls love me. They don’t need anyone financially so it’s more about your style and presence.
Just a gigilo...
nysys 5y ago
Somebody gets it. Style and presence. The girl you want doesn't need your money, she grew up wanting nothing. She can share your abundance. Poor people can't.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
how does a guy's who has never had it develop it? what does it look like? can u share a story or two about what you said/how you present yourself/how you act that attracts women?
nysys 5y ago
I would be happy to, but it will be a couple of day before my next post.
wanderer779 5y ago
I thought about this but it's hard if you aren't from money. I'd have to put on an act like I belonged at country clubs and so on. And I feel like when you're depending on their family for money, you're kinda beholden a little bit? Maybe I'm wrong.
thrwy75479 5y ago
Maybe not beholden, but I've seen a couple of less well-off guys marry into wealthy families, and there's extreme social pressure on them to produce, i.e., make more money to fit in. One guy is constantly bullied by people "advising" him to do this, or change that, or become this to increase his wealth.
When they can't meet those demands, they've become depressed, and suicidal. Add to this the fact that wealthy people are typically hard, and cold, so there's no emotional support.
It's sad, and I'd never do it.
monsieurhire2 5y ago
Why would you want their money or depend on it? You are a man and you can make your own money. OP is merely arguing that the rich people won't be after you for your money... except some of them are, and if they find out you don't have any, they pressure the woman into dumping you.
nysys 5y ago
I have never had any issues with parents. Well-raised women have fathers that recognize a fellow traveller. Maybe my situation is so different from others that I don't encounter those kinds of obstacles, but I doubt it. Dads love me.
monsieurhire2 5y ago
Well, you don't have to have to money to signal that you can provide and take care of the daughter. Most dads are probably paranoid that their precious little angel will repeatedly get pumped and dumped, then wind up a spinster. And most guys are hopeless man-child bums with multiple addiction issues.
wanderer779 5y ago
I knew a guy who married a woman much richer than he was. The guy made decent money, but her father was wealthy and there's no way he could keep up. And of course the father continued buying her stuff after their marriage. Furniture, cars, houses, whatever. I don't really like accepting that kind of stuff, I feel like I owe the person something. Maybe that's me.
monsieurhire2 5y ago
Well, it's a perk of marrying into money. The key, I suppose is not to value it too much, and to not let it control you. Can you imagine marrying a gross, disgusting ugly girl just because she's rich? And yet women do it all the time, and men too. Some things you can't price on, at least for me, anyway.
RedKingRising 5y ago
I feel like I'm worth more than his money. I have a daughter, I will take care of her no matter what. The man she chooses, that's on her..that's her choice. She's my kid and I'm always going to be in her corner. If a woman chooses me it doesn't matter about her father and what he does. He would do that if I were there or not just as I would do for my daughter if she was dating chad or not.
nysys 5y ago
I'm not from money, I'm from culture. My dad wasn't a businessman, he was an artist. Social capital is nice. It's never been a problem for me.
wanderer779 5y ago
Yeah that's probably more what I mean. If you grew up on a hog farm and then decide at 18 you're gonna infiltrate high society you're gonna get laughed out of the room.
nysys 5y ago
I think that's a little defeatist. Were you squatting four plates on the day you decided to change your life forever and solve all your problems with women and attention by bulking up? Of course not. If an 18 year old hog farmer decides to 'infiltrate' high society on day one, if he has any common sense, he'll take it slow and read a fucking book about how those people dress and act. Maybe he'll try to get a job working for someone who matters. It sounds like you resent that you weren't born with a silver coke spoon in your mouth and a couple of models banging out lines for you. The Redpill tells you that life is unfair. The Redpill tells you that many people are born with absurd advantages. For me, the Redpill can teach you more than just about how to slay pussy (really, who cares? Is there a shortage of pussy?), but can be applied, more or less, to dynasties and generations. If my forefathers spent more time and energy building a useful legacy for me than yours did, then that's on you. This is beta anger phase stuff, and I hope you're better than that. If you look it up, about ten year ago there was an Indian kid out in Illinois who became the world's foremost expert on high society socialites and built a successful website documenting the comings and goings of the New York elite. So just online, ten years ago, he became extremely influential in the way that socialites and high society are viewed by the herd. If a fat hindu kid from Illinois can learn this shit without ever visiting New York, then your example is shit too. There's an old borscht belt joke, a young man holding a violin is asking an old mandirections. He says 'how do I get to Carnegie Hall'? The old man replies: 'practice, kid. Practice'. If I could sincerely apologize for the advantages of my birth, I probably would. I really don't think it's fair either. A kid born in New York gets three times more money for their public education than a kid in Florida. What can I do? Sucks to suck. My family built a legacy that would enable me to move through life, and 99. 9% of that legacy is my father's teachings, not social networks or money (I didn't get any money and I don't deal with his social circle).
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
yeah, when a man has frequent dry spells >6 months, or has never had a girlfriend then there can be said to be a shortage of pussy for that particular man.
nysys 5y ago
Maybe he wasn't born to be a man. A lot of men are just males.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
I've seen men with dry spells that lift heavy, maintain a stoic presence, are successful but still lack with women. I've been that guy myself.
Sometimes they get women, most times they don't and its often through a lack of knowing how to act in particular situation - how to turn an interest from women into bed? Sometimes 'interested' women suddenly go cold when a man asks them out - makes no sense.
nysys 5y ago
I can't identify with that at all. Not all males are men.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
True. But not all men are successful with women either
wanderer779 5y ago
Slow down bro. You're reading a lot into one reddit post. Truth is you know very little about me and vice versa.
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Anyway, I'm not saying it can't be overcome, I'm just saying it's a handicap. Some will overcome it, but most won't. Personally I don't care about hanging with country club folks, it's not a scene I enjoy so I don't bother with it.
nysys 5y ago
I'm not talking about country clubs, that's something you buy access to. I'm talking about afterparties and gallery openings. People in my world don't care about money and don't want to think about it. They want to be in a good mood, and that's what I bring to the table no matter what. You don't have to come from money and a lot don't, just bring me a good conversation.
wanderer779 5y ago
What qualifies as good conversation varies by social circle. The reverse would also be true - you'd probably have trouble fitting in where I grew up. You could fake it till you make it I suppose, same as I could, but it would take a lot of effort.
nysys 5y ago
It wouldn't take any effort, kid. I'm just as frosty shooting alley craps in Bed Stuy as I am at some rich girl finance party.
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Auvergnat 5y ago
Very interesting to have the perspective of someone who was born outside the matrix and was never plugged in. Can you let me know your age, whether you’re currently in a sexually exclusive relationship or not, whether you plan to get in one to sire sons in the context of a marriage or if you have an alternative plan?
How did your dad do it? How did he have a son and raised it while pursuing pussy variety at the same time?
richernixon 5y ago
I'm 30, and I've been in sexually exclusive relationships before, but I've had a hard time maintaining them. My father didn't have me until he was in his late 30s and wasn't too concerned with chasing down tail, but he was still in the music business which is really focused on power, access, and sexuality. I'm not in an exclusive relationship right now but I'm seeing a 19 year old who is exclusive with me and will likely become my wife.
doorterblack 5y ago
Are you OP on a diff account?
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8xin1nite 5y ago
May you have many lovely daughters. You will make a great dad.
nysys 5y ago
I wouldn't mind daughters, but it's important to have sons.
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nysys 5y ago
I met her on an online special interest forum for philosophy. She was 18 when we met. Downvotes are a sign of jealousy. You're right to feel that way.
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
Damn a philosophy chick too. Extra bonus points
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Mangasbzo7 5y ago
That a 'big if' buddy. You're assuming your 19 year old isn't going get FOMO in her mid 20s and bail.
Also, fact you believe in marriage means you clearly still hold onto some delusions
nysys 5y ago
I only feed the spooks in my head if I want to.
Mangasbzo7 5y ago
lol, so it's 2019 and sticking your head in the sand is your survival strategy
nysys 5y ago
I'm part of an unbroken genetic and cultural tradition that echoes through history. I intend to honor my ancestors. What do I have to lose? I have everything I want. Nothing I value can be taken away.
Andrew54321 5y ago
K you’re good w the worst case scenario, lets move on.
nysys 5y ago
I don't really understand the question. I'm my best case scenario, baby.
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nysys 5y ago
I'm Jewish. That is my race and my tribe. My life is the result of an unbroken tradition of patriarchy and siring sons. Marriage doesn't scare me, I want to have children in the tradition I was raised. That's my choice, and it isn't bluepill. Stop being so orthodox.
GuruDev1000 5y ago
Haha. Such a relative term, considering the community we are in.
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nysys 5y ago
Is resentment part of yours? Yes, she comes from money. Did you read my post?
RiseAndGrind7 5y ago
Everyone has had that tradition though. Your situation isn't really unique. Everyone here was "sired" at one point, or else we literally wouldn't exist haha... Just had to point that out.
Also in your post you say that you don't expect love relationships to last the rest of your life, so are you expecting this 19 year old to divorce you?
nysys 5y ago
My situation is unique to me alone. You may approach it differently. Your responsibility to your ancestors may be different. Perhaps, like most, they are not worth honoring. Who names their son after a father that left?
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nysys 5y ago
As to the second part of the question, I don't have expectations about anything. Ever. I have everything I need and I will always have everything I need. I am.
MakoShark93 5y ago
Wisdom on wisdom or a BIG Flex. Either way, I'm with it.
GuruDev1000 5y ago
What's the reason for you using that? Apart from that being God's name in the Old Testament (I'm a Christian) and some powerful spiritual teachings using it, I've never heard it being used sensibly in secular settings.
That's another thing that interested me about your comment—you aren't going by logic but faith.
bro4all 5y ago
If you are marrying someone, her being much much younger than you is a must. You can mold her into a being a good wife, but you can never make a hoe a wife.
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omega_fat 5y ago
What if she has more money than me and in case of divorce I win mega cash and prizes? Then do get married, right? Grow out of your anger phase Jesus Fucking Christ.
bro4all 5y ago
No bro, TRP is not for your ass to not get married, that is fucking incels and men go their own way shit. The red pill is about preparing for reality of the world, telling you the truth about woman, and giving you the freedom of choice in life as long as you hold frame and don’t be a bitch. If the red pill main point is not to get married then it is a failure because a man’s duty to his kin is to produce a well maintained and a well raised son that will carry his family’s name. The problem with western society is that men started loosing the sense of pride in their heritage and connected their value to woman’s looks or superficial shit. The red pill is about getting you of lazy shit like porn and orbiting women that obviously don’t want you but you too blond to see it, and telling you to focus on your goals and your duty of your life and women are the last thong that comes with that. Definitely not all women out their are raised sluts and That’s why immigrants usually go marry back home, and in my case my dad taught me frame and taught me self confidence since I remember and that’s why I’m thankful. If you are going to avoid kids because of women then you already lost your battle with the blue pills.
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AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
Nah Redpill takes a pretty hard line on marriage, at least in the US. Bad deal is a bad deal.
You can have kids without getting married. Seven kids from four baby mommas get steppin bruh.
nysys 5y ago
Why do you care what "Redpill" takes a hard line on? Make your own line. Fuck what anyone else says. I will do what I wish.
TheRedPike 5y ago
You are both correct.
Now end the slap-fight. /u/AwakenedSovereign
AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
Because I prefer learning from every resource available, not just the school of hard knocks. If you don't change the behavior/belief then you haven't learned.
And on the topic of marriage I can see the forest for the trees without needing to don the ring myself.
I've been to plenty weddings where it was just obvious the man was being led to slaughter. Friends married to whores, robbed of their hard earned money, custody, dignity.
But you do you bro. Thump that chest some more because you are ego-invested in the idea of marriage. See you back in a few years lol
bro4all 5y ago
I think marriage in the western society is an outdated law for sure, but it is and will always be there because the fundamental building block of a healthy society driven by the purpose of insuring prosperity to it’s members, is a healthy house hold. The book 12 rules for life talks about that a bit. I prefer maps of meaning to understand your purpose and I will say as long as you don’t loose your vision and chase pussy instead of your frame and power, women will just come along the way. Yes the 10s are and always needed a bit more work to get into their pants and that’s fundamentally there to secure a healthier more genetically qualified baby. The western culture changes that and shifts the purpose from a mans life from reproduction to legacy and goal.
nysys 5y ago
Why are you so worried about money? Are you a bank?
womans_algorithm 5y ago
The fuck are you saying, OP was never blue pilled / in the matrix, that's his main point in what he wrote. He cant turn blue pill, like you said.
nysys 5y ago
Exactly. I am free to choose, with no illusions.
womans_algorithm 5y ago
Don't get me wrong, I don't think getting married in USA is a good idea.
nysys 5y ago
You're missing it. I'm not afraid of losing a bunch of property in a divorce. It's just stuff. I like my work, it's fulfilling and allows me to express my creative potential. Money is nothing to me.
womans_algorithm 5y ago
Sure man, you do what you want. Trp is here to tell you what you lose in a divorce, and it isn't just money. What i would be most afraid is wife telling my kids i am an evil person. Not the money.
nysys 5y ago
What is it like to live in fear? If you are truly a good man, your children will love you regardless of what their mother says. The whole premise of fearing a woman makes no sense to me.
womans_algorithm 5y ago
I dont live in fear, as I'm not married.
Tell that to all the men who got divorced by wives and them (wives) brainwashing their kids to hate him. Tell them how stupid they were. Tell them you wont be like them, but an exception, a good example on how to be a husband and a dad. Example #372856.
AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
I'm happy for you that you were born/raised Redpill but you are delusional of you think being 5'8" wouldn't change things for you.
Htowngetdown 5y ago
I’m not short but that still stuck out to me. Girls are drawn towards height like flies to a light
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As someone who's 5'8", I can happily inform you that it's actually OP who is right. What do pussy slayers do? They slay pussy.
nysys 5y ago
Doesn't take a genius to look through history and find great men, powerbrokers, warriors, artists, etc., who are average or ugly.
AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
Of course - but height is an amplifier for certain conditions. Not saying give up if you are <6 ft. I'm saying don't pretend that six inches means nothing.
It does and always will. Which is natural.
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
Napoleon was like 5’6-5’7. So was Churchill
futianze 5y ago
Picasso was 5'4, Bruno Mars is 5'4, Kevin Hart is 5'4
jonpe87 5y ago
This was more succinct than I expected
redpillcad 5y ago
there was only one rule: do unto others before they do unto you.
Should be law 49
If you date rich girls, you don’t have to have money, because they don’t give a fuck about how well you can beta provide. They want someone who’s relaxed and in charge, who can quickly solve their little anxieties and pointless woman problems.
In fact, they will buy you presents with their beta husbands money.
no one said life was supposed to be easy
Yet feminism produced a shit ton of soft millenials soyboys who think they are very special
nysys 5y ago
Just confirming richernixon is me.
MakoShark93 5y ago
Damn, I've never seen jealousy to such an extent from the people in this reddit to just one man's post. Finding any type of "thing" to harp on. Interesting.
hang_all_sjws 5y ago
Interesting story. Care to share any more of your dad's wisdom?
nysys 5y ago
My dad had a saying, "it's all mood." Life is about mood control. Mood is frame but it moves beyond frame into naturally managing others' feelings. This requires sensitivity to the feelings of others. You might feel yourself tune in like an empath to feel the way others feel. Don't worry about breaking frame, about getting into someone else's mood to get them out of it, and about the consequences. Never worry about interpersonal consequences. Never be outcome dependent. You are the abundance. You are God's gift to women.
apoloa 5y ago
Interesting point is that Greene in his book (law's of human nature) says that you have to "Infect people with the proper mood", your dad was a truly wise man.
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ZeppKfw 5y ago
Having a dad like that is a true blessing, or maybe because I've never had one. Whoops.
ultrab1ue 5y ago
If you were 5'5" and Asian and live in SF like me, you'd hate how difficult it was
scissor_me_timbers00 5y ago
That’s when you get jacked and lean
Mangasbzo7 5y ago
Lol if you 5'5 and Asian it's going to be difficult everywhere.
A real man doesn't sit around feeling sorry for himself. He takes his anger & frustration and uses it to make the world his bitch
glaciusHoN 5y ago
lol, realistically no one here is ever going to make the world his bitch.
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and it's harder for some than it is for others
FinanceConnoisseur 5y ago
Yes, being a 5’5 Asian sucks, those are the cards life dealt you. But based on the simple mentality behind your post, I can tell you’re still upset about your hand compared to others, instead of playing the game on your terms. Until you do the latter, you’re screwed man.
Best of luck.
ultrab1ue 5y ago
Thanks. I'm trying to try. It's difficult for me
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nysys 5y ago
I know a lot of hot women with 5'5 Asian boyfriends. Grow a personality.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
I don't know any. There's one average height and jacked Asian dude at my gym. His gf is cute. Maybe a 7 tops.
superman127 5y ago
I'm a bouncer on the side and work a lot of EDM shows, I see short jacked Asian dudes with legitimately hot girls all the time.
nysys 5y ago
You clearly don't live in New York, SF, or LA if that's all you've observed.
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ultrab1ue 5y ago
I've lived in both LA and SF. I knew 2 in LA, none in SF, and never lived in NY before. I've heard SF to be pretty different from NY, though
RedHoodhandles 5y ago
Very enlighting. Best read on the main sub in a while for me. Words cannot describe how thankful you can be for your dad.
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INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Great post. There is something about hearing all the Red Pill truth confirmed by a source outside of red pill, or who came before it.
I cringe at the amount of unmitigated bullshit we've been fed. This is real, raw, and straight from the old-school.
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vodoun 5y ago
post a picture of you and your 19 year old future wife
you can blur the faces if you don't feel confident enough
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nysys 5y ago
This resentful beta sent me a message saying I'm shadowbanned for "Jewish tricks". Sucks to suck.
vodoun 5y ago
I didn't send you a message, I posted it here...new to Reddit?
so wheres this pic...
DiSysmic 5y ago
Some are fortunate enough to be exposed to the pill through early stages of their life. Some got exposed to the pill in an attempt to remedy to a certain life problem. And some don't ever get exposed to it. I'm part of the second group; raised by a single mother. While I would've preferred having a fatherly figure in my life, I'm fucking delighted not ending up in the third group. But each carry their own advantages.
While naturally red-pilled people come often with the advantage of coming on top in early stages, the concepts aren't systematized in a clear way. Their repertoire has a useful, but messy, mashup of internalized concepts. They unconsciously know that, for example, neediness is unattractive, but in times of desperation, they don't quite understand like we do that attraction cannot be negotiated. On another hand, people who are exposed to TRP after a decade or two inevitably struggle in internalizing those concept because they're so counterproductive to what we were taught to believe at a young age.
So, optimally, we blue-pillers try to apply what we discovered. And naturally red-pilled people ought to put some order in their knowledge. Good on you for being the latter.
richernixon 5y ago
Attraction can't be negotiated but it can be potentiated, cultivated, and, on the whole, imposed. My dad had a saying: "it's all mood". Mood is a little like frame but you can more or less bring it around with you and really improve the lives of others by being positive and supportive.
NYCMusicMarathon 5y ago
There is no Santa Claus?
Who knew?
Is this true?
There is no Santa Claus?
tl;dr: Santa Claus no, Pussy yes. Ok I'll live with dat.
nysys 5y ago
"santa" is a metaphor for the blue pill mentality.