This is all just college drama to be honest.
Let me start in the beginning; There was a cute girl and my friend (the guy in question) wanted to go for her. a couple of months passes and there was nothing really happening. Then he told me he's now his girlfriend but the girl doesn't want anyone to know they are dating. I said to myself "what is this? Ultra hard ASD?" Imminently thought he was lying.
Now in the following days, I saw him everywhere she was, doing nothing but providing. I mean, he would spend full days at college fucking around just to wait for her classes to be finished. ENTIRE DAYS.
At this point I knew what a beta he was, I asked him why do you do all this? "I'm in love" he'd reply. Today, after a month of "serious dating" he came to me crying because she broke up with him and blocked him on social media.
It wasn't until he went into full details, he said he would go to her almost every night, they would go out, she would ask him to go to a coffee shop or restaurant and he would pay the bill every time. before the exams he would be with her to comfort her and "take her stress away", help her study and everything.
This is an exact quote: "Bro, I did all this and she still broke up with me, I never disrespected her as to never even touching her hand."
Now I know she didn't have ASD and never told him she doesn't want anyone to know they are dating. She simply never thought they were because she genuinely thought he is a really good friend :)
DON'T BE THIS GUY!
This was the biggest shock to me. I'm kinda shy when I'm alone. When I first got introduced to the Red Pill, I saw this guy as an alpha example, solely because he would talk to everyone and I was shy.
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SKRedPill 5y ago
Better let that guy read my last post and let him know that when he's in love, he's only in love with love itself, and when he looks closely, he ought to know that he really only loved himself.
That's why "love" (devotion) really doesn't work. Attraction is selfish. You have to do exactly what creates attraction in the other person.
falconiawillfall 5y ago
There is no use trying to convince guys in these situations, they need to realize on their own because they're in too deep. I had a friend with a gf who made him wait a year before taking her virginity. After that it was sporadic sex for the rest of the relationship, once a month at best. Near the end of their three year relationship, they had a 6 month dry spell where she gave him some bs excuse every time. She would get upset if he tried to escalate and I repeatedly tried telling him that he needed to date someone who was attracted to him, the whole point of a relationship at our age was guaranteed sex etc. He didn't listen.
She breaks up with him saying she's depressed and needs time on her own. One week later she's clubbing and posting it on her snapchat story. 6 months later he's still trying to get over it. Too many guys are too afraid to walk away, as I was too before my first relationship got so shitty that it RP'd me. The difference is that I wanted to change and did change. I'd rather go without sex than get disrespected repeatedly by a girl.
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AllThatJack 5y ago
Also, nothing addicts a guy like commitment to the idea of sex visa vie the promise of the almighty unicorn. In a twisted sense of nature, nothing addicts a woman like straight up, right out of the gate smashed against the wall hot sticky sex.
So bizarre, took me forever to learn this. Damn red pill wasn’t around back then. I look back at all the tail I left on the table because of my moronic “divorced mother absent father” upbringing.
Do your job and she’ll be at your door, doing your laundry, washing your dishes, caring for YOUR needs. Then look, watch, for the orbiters fighting to take care of her, it’s insane.
shinywhitedarkness 5y ago
He has to realise that he's not the victim in all that happened. Way to many guys do that and justifiy their own behaviour and say they did everything right. Maybe tell him he should learn from that interaction and find the fault in himself.
falconiawillfall 5y ago
I agree, no one likes acknowledging their own shortcomings but he has already placed so much blame on himself and I think that's the main reason he can't move on (as well as scarcity mentality). I remember he used to blame himself for wanting sex or pressuring her into it, essentially denying his own masculinity. It's a shitty situation for everyone involved. He deserves better and that starts with realizing he only needs to fuck with girls who want to jump on his dick. I don't even blame the girl at all, we can't help who we are attracted to.
shinywhitedarkness 5y ago
Poor guy. Denying his own nature for the sake of what society wants of him. Conformism at its best. I wish him the best.
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atticusfinch1973 5y ago
If he thought that was a relationship then he got what he deserved. We all need to have our eyes opened sometime. Good thing is he got his early.
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
There are a lot of Indian guys like this.
Stoicjaguar 5y ago
Makes it a heaven for a redpiller
Eclipsespirit 5y ago
Yep. Even an ugly bitch will have 5-7 orbiters. Most Indian guys are crazy as they have zero self worth.
majani 5y ago
More like zero game. Arranged marriage norms are to blame for that
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destraht 5y ago
I invested years into an Indian friend. Its been the greatest second-hand embarrassment of my adult life. We're both utter fools in each others' eyes.
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GAndGMethod 5y ago
Yeah I love this.
Just have your plates tell one of their orbiters to bring us food. They are like her little slaves, and since she is my slave, they are mine also.
I can go months with out paying for my own meals if I wanted to and so can they.
They have guys post mate/grubhub them/us food, order them ubers, xbox gameshare, etc it never fucking stops. Free everything.
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Imperator_Red 5y ago
I find this a bit hard to believe, but some guys are so fucking beta that it is possible.
TheUnsteadyDonut 5y ago
For curiosity, in what country are you living?
Dos_Shepard 5y ago
???????????? That’s awesome dude haha. It’s great when guys would try to get with my ex watching their facial expressions drop when they realized she was with me. Like get your goofy ass the fuck outta here!
I don’t care to take advantage of any of these poor souls. Just crushing one thirsty relationship hopeful beta at a time is my liking. And the guys who I do take a liking to I’ll try and help out and give advice.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
Dude the thirst is soooo bad. The guys that comment on her Instagram or Facebook are the worst. "OMG!" Beautiful!"
It's not that dudes hitting on your gf in and of itself that's annoying - it's that you know these fags wouldn't in a million years say to her in real life. Not to mention that it's public - you are basically hitting on a girl in front of everyone she knows in including her boyfriend and her family. Ugh it's enraging.
So she's just getting all these fucking ego boosts for nothing. Worthless comments from guys that are so pathetic that they give women compliments online. It's messing with their heads so badly.
GeorgiR 5y ago
Holy hell lol, it just goes up the hierarchy, you say?
GAndGMethod 5y ago
Pretty much just kickbacks.
The money flows up to me always in all aspects of my game. Getting a plate to get her orbiter to spoil us is nothing.
If I got a married chick, guess what her husband is paying for our vacations, hotels, dates.
My whole game is all about gaming like i'm a women and extracting as many resources as I can from her. This works very well now because women are making mad dough and are looking for a man to spoil and spend it on. What use is all that money if they can't spend it?
Guys get into game for pussy, I got into game for money and power. I don't judge my game on how many lays, numbers, makes outs I get.
I judge my game using metrics about how much investment and financial resources can I get from her and use what I get as trophies.
They need to spoil me to receive my love.
Edit: message to the haters
Understand this, in this world you’re either a pimp or a trick. Pussy makes you money or you spend money on pussy. Life is a competition, I plan on winning it. Just because you share my gender does not grant you immunity to this game of life.
The actions and decisions of some low level beta male commoner is no concern to me.
Instead of attacking me attack the women that voluntary offer ups their husbands/boyfriend/orbiters funds. They are the cruel ones. I have no relations to these guys they do.
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daffy_duck233 5y ago
and their men are the stupid ones
forbz5 5y ago
I mean it’s happened that a girl’s orbiter happened to pay for us but I don’t take pride in that. It’s pathetic to dump money into a girl and get nothing in return but to take pride in leeching is gross too IMO. I wouldn’t be able to look myself in the mirror, just sounds kiky. To each their own.
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You evil motherfucker. You got me thinking. I still like younger women, though.
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-uftw- 5y ago
Great system mate that never occurred to me... I'd be curious how you get in that position in the first place as my game is totally different. I wouldn't necessarily adopt it but always curious for new interesting stuff. BTW, you're probably the best thing that can happen to these guys, that has to red pill a few of them in the process. Have you ever had to deal with violence? The kind of shit you describe is how couples murders happen you know.
GAndGMethod 5y ago
I expect to have a crazy guy attack me one day which is why I’m bulking up heavy taking gear for violence prevention. People won’t fuck with you if you’re bigger and taller than them.
I already have some martial arts training, but now I’m completing it.
And I carry a gun every where I can take it.
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Zdeneksfilter 5y ago
One of the reasons I treasure this sub above all others is that within 5 minutes of logging in, I will have learned something new and helpful/acquired a new perspective on things. Kudos to you, man.
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Atheist_Utopia 5y ago
Finally a break from the holier-than-thou christians above
WayTooCyber 5y ago
Bro ignore all these people hating on your game and do you. Wish you posted some tips on this. It reminds me of ASAP Rocky. He says in a sense that he's a male version of a "Bad bitch." He never spent a bag or a plane flight for a woman and they always provide and buy him gifts probably gifted from their orbiters.
GAndGMethod 5y ago
I’m working on a post right now about how to get free housing from a women. How to game her in a way you move in with her in under 4-5 days.
Living rent free for months.
I run male gold digger game. I think it’s going to end up becoming the future of game once women are done destroying what’s left of masculinity.
The more this “enjoy the decline” prophecy the red pill always talks about happens the more I benefit from it.
I hope women steal every job that is out there and the metoo movement becomes even more of a which hunt, I hope we get a female president, I hope child support laws become even more harsh and alimony payments.
The fatter there pockets get, so do mine.
majani 5y ago
Modern pimp game, I like it.
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It's been a few years....this was about 7 years ago, I was riding out the recession in college. I went on a hike with the Colorado Mtn Club, and flirted with one woman...I was about 37, she was about 55....and fit enough to go on a good hike. She took her 4th daughter horseback riding in Ireland for a graduation present, had a nice house in Boulder, and after the hike, said "Who wants to go for a ride in the convertible Mini?" and looked dead at me.
The last few years could have been very different. You reminded me of the story, and I'm intrigued by what you have to say.
WayTooCyber 5y ago
My dad told me about this game but he never went into full detail. Glad you're writing this up.
Edit: The movie Casino is a perfect example of the game too.
ChrimsonChin988 5y ago
Idc about the morality of this like other pussies here, I only wonder how high your personal income is?
GAndGMethod 5y ago
Not high but I work two high status jobs.
Most of the males in my social circle are business owners, lawyers, real estate agents just overall millionaires.
I get to drive there cars, boats, use there mansions for photo shoots.
So I live a high value life, but personally I don’t have a lot of money and I really don’t need it.
I have a penthouse, I drive a different luxury car every week, got comp tables at nightclubs and comp food at restaurants.
I could be homeless and still have all these things. It’s not about my money, it’s about my connections.
I get treated like I’m a female 10. Only money I spend is like on snacks and tipping hospitality workers.
majani 5y ago
You must be a glorious physical specimen.
huey764 5y ago
Damn you a real one for that
livear 5y ago
Fakest post in this whole sub
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TheRedPike 5y ago
Where are plenty of places for discussions on morality and you might be suprised to hear that many would agree with a lot of what you say after a fashion. However this is not the place for these discussions. It converts discussions of our prime mission, Rule Zero, into dick waving contests. No thank you.
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NathanHollister 5y ago
If your dick isn't getting wet, it's not a relationship.
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
Unless you’re with a virgin.
NathanHollister 5y ago
xD Unless you're dating a 16 year old, she's not a virgin, just a liar.
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
Yea if you’re a poor fucker who actually dates American whores. What kind of faggot downvotes in a one on one conversation?
NathanHollister 5y ago
I didn't downvote you.
Also, AWALT. Women in other countries have the same behavior patterns, they are just intelligent enough to lie about it. My point still stands
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
You’re telling me you don’t understand that cultures are different? You think the saudis have as many whores as we do? No I’m sure you’re right, a sexualized culture has nothing to do with how sexual it’s people are.
NathanHollister 5y ago
I understand that cultures are different. If you're Happy in the middle east, I'm glad for you. But believing a girl who says she is a virgin is blue pill AF regardless of where shes from. She could have been shit on by a Saudi sheik for $1000 for all you know.
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
You’ve never seen blood have you?
NathanHollister 5y ago
I have, although I'm not sure how you think that is relevant to the conversation
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
Virgin blood. It’s very relevant. It’s easy to tell, unless you’re in Korea and they have the surgery. “All women are whores” = “All men are pigs” people who think along these lines are equally disgusting.
the99percent1 5y ago
Depends on how long she made you wait aswell.
More than 4 meets. Move the fuck along.
She will give it out on the first meet if she wanted to.
-uftw- 5y ago
If your dick is getting wet, it's not a relationship either.
NathanHollister 5y ago
Yes. She's not yours, it's just your turn. But if she wants to think it's a relationship, that's fine with me as long as she services me regularly.
quelques_heures 5y ago
You'd think this would be common knowledge for anyone older than 17.
NathanHollister 5y ago
I've seen and heard some horror stories of dudes who orbit for years. Or have a "relationship" and don't get any action for 5-6 months or something.
destraht 5y ago
I once orbited for a year while fucking many other women that she knew about. It felt like dog shit because my head was stuck in a stupid ass place.
[edit] Don't orbit.
Short-changedChad 5y ago
If you’re not getting fucked, you’re getting fucked.
NathanHollister 5y ago
I like that. I'm going to steal it
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Andgelyo 5y ago
You’re either fucking or getting fucked. I’m rather be the first than the latter.
lobstergenocide 5y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32iCWzpDpKs
garlicextract 5y ago
technically your dick may not get wet if you wear a condom
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NathanHollister 5y ago
If she makes you wear one, it's not a relationship.
DrinkBeerWinPrizes 5y ago
If you dont treat your cum like the most dangerous stuff on earth you’re a moron.
g0dfather93 5y ago
Unless she's your wife and you want kids and have the means and will to provide for them no matter what, wear a condom irrespective of what she says. Bareback on safe days with wife.
IDK what's up with you but unwanted kids and STDs await you on your exploits so good luck.
Andgelyo 5y ago
Lmao have fun raising unwanted little dicklets in 2019 bruh
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garlicextract 5y ago
That's the dumbest shit I've read on this sub. I have heard of too many dudes who's girlfriend (now wife) have "accidentally forgotten" to take their birth control for your statement to have any validity. Why would you trust someone else more than yourself, recipe for failure.
jamesbond0512 5y ago
Lmao, I’m sure the joke is somewhere.
destraht 5y ago
I'm mostly sure that it was a half-joke but it will forever need clarification and reinforcement until the end of time.
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TheUnsteadyDonut 5y ago
Gonna steal this line. With your permission of course.
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
Gonna ask for permission like a good little faggot
TheUnsteadyDonut 5y ago
Oof. Go easy with that f-bomb, son. Also manners are not dead.
VoltaireAscending 5y ago
Never worked a blue collar job or been to a frat party I see.
MiZiSTiK 5y ago
Mans just unironically posted a reaction gif im dead lmfaoo
soy overload
maverick9759 5y ago
If you're not fucking her, you're her girlfriend xD
MisplacedSanityP 5y ago
Gazelle gets eaten by lion. So is the natural order of things.
ChesterRickman 5y ago
What country are you from dude? I know a guy like that.
MammothPassenger 5y ago
What a pathetic man. Can't stand utter losers like this who enable these cunt women to live as they do
Classy_Amir 5y ago
Makes me wonder if a guy I know is like in a relationship with a girl I also know... Probably...
xnesteax 5y ago
Did you take your chance and showed him TRP?
huey764 5y ago
Do not talk about fight club
menac1ty 5y ago
I very lightly tried to drop simplest hints about TRP but he rejected it entirely.
Basically, what u/huey764 said.
rpsheepdog 5y ago
sometimes slapping her ass and calling her a ho goes a long way
ArcticFox2014 5y ago
if he thought touching her hand was disrepecting her, then this not a relationship from his perspective either ... he is worshipping a goddess
Gaboyski_ 5y ago
Dude's a victim of feminist indoctrination from childhood
Managicall 5y ago
A friend to all is a friend to none. Rubbing each other all the wrong ways tit for tat, you won't get any hoeing done like that.
shinywhitedarkness 5y ago
Even if she told him he shouldn't tell anyone they are dating, it could be that she didn't want to be seen dating someone with a low smv value.
But again a classical case of thinking being nice provokes interest.
Had the same realisation as OP. Once you swallow TRP the guys that seemed alpha, get exposed as try hard betas.
Sharmanix 5y ago
My goodness- this sounds exactly like me a month ago- I was in such a shitty place bending over backwards for a girl who was seeking a guy- I never want to go back to that, this post reminds me to follow my own path.
sadomasochrist 5y ago
Immediate and vicious third hand cringe.
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Jay-G 5y ago
This reminds me of a situation I saw in high school (far before I had any trp knowledge). I was working at a grocery store, a girl in a grade below me hires on. She’s dating a guy a grade above me. He would mate guard so heavily that he would sit in his truck in the parking lot, or inside the store on a bench 90% of the time she worked, for her entire shift. I asked her about it and she would tell me he was extremely overprotective. One day our manager told us to hang signs on the windows together. The cuck sat in his truck fuming mad because we were working together, I wasn’t even trying to game her (I didn’t know how to game at the time). Days later she tells me he was yelling at her for working with me. Fast forward several years. They have a baby together, the cuck gets in the army and gets deployed. You can guess it from here, she gets with another dude, he moves into their house while the cuck pays all the bills but the new man raises the baby. I don’t remember too many more details because I didn’t care too much about other people’s business, but I’m not surprised in the slightest. No amount of protection is going to stop a slut from riding the cock carousel.
jonpe87 5y ago
the best remedy for this situation is some beers and some sluts
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HarringtonHouseGuy 5y ago
Being outgoing is great but it doesn't necessarily make you into an "Alpha." To me, it just seems like he's a naturally friendly sort of guy who was getting himself played.