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So after swallowing the red pill a few years I have been spinning plates ever since. I usually do not continue a FWB with a plate for more than a few months as I get bored with women quick. However this one particular girl I kept around so long because she just does it for me (sexually that is). She's like my 'ole reliable' whenever I didn't feel like pursuing new plates during a period of time.
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Nonetheless, she went out last night and got wasted and you know what they say...Drunk mind, sober thoughts. She popped the famous question wanting to know where this situation-ship is "going". I haven't responded yet but will probably just ignore it and change the subject entirely.
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The point I am making is that no matter how long you spin a plate. Spin them long enough while keeping their interest high they will be asking for a relationship. Don't cuck into accepting what she wants. You're the prize and will always be. The abundance mindset will always show a woman's true nature. Her AWALT nature.
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Imperator_Red 5y ago
How stupid could you be to think that a guy that has been plowing you for two years is gonna just commit now?
You almost feel bad for them because they are really in an impossible situation - they have to give up the goods to have a shot with the men they are attracted to or he will just move on. Of course they could just lower their standards and.... HAHA jk no they can't. Hypergamy doesn't care.
Is this really difficult for her to believe???
EvelynnSpoiler 5y ago
Couldn't you just twist that around towards friendzoned guys who chase a girl for years?
Grimsterr 5y ago
Guys linger in the friend zone, girls in the fuck zone.
Bane-- 5y ago
Friend zone can turn in to the fuck zone if you play your cards right. I've done it.
WellShit23 5y ago
Not worth the effort 9/10 times, unless you improve and she comes to you.
Bane-- 5y ago
Don’t put your money on it but it’s a reason why it’s still good to have female friends
yungassed 5y ago
Friend is such a vague word that it doesn't really mean much. You should be friendly and curious to everyone, females included.... unless given reason otherwise on an individual basis. Outside of family and people I grew up with, I would rarely call someone a friend. The best relationships I have are business relations that we both make money together on an equal level
mp111 5y ago
Whatever you want to call it, having chill females in your life can open up to new plates
yungassed 5y ago
It just seems like your still on a level where you are restricted to mostly having to fuck within your social circle. When you start off, thats where the most easy lays come from, but as your game advances, it actually becomes the most tedious because jealously and group politics when the plates break. Also known as don't fuck where you eat.
Thizzlebot 5y ago
This man gets its. I dont even want women in my same TOWN anymore let alone my same circle. Too much drama and I dont do that.
D3athN0te101 5y ago
This.
I'm still a noob struggling/recovering from a 3 year dry spell (former Incel), but I swear every plate in my social circle comes with drama.
Some good, some bad, but annoying nonetheless.
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Relying on social circles to get laid is a beta tactic, really. An alpha should be confident in his ability to fuck the women of other tribes, and even pull women into his tribe (social circle).
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To put it another way, it's "scraps" mentality. The alpha goes out & catches the meal, and the beta is content with eating whatever is thrown on the table.
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Also, social circles don't just magically form. They are created by a leader, often the initiator, whom followers want to follow.
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Sparky159 5y ago
And both of them are just equally as miserable
Scorchyy 5y ago
Dunno, the guy in the friendzone ends up alone watching porn while the plate gets regular sex and maybe attention/dates from a guy she’s attracted to. One clearly has it better
erarjorin 5y ago
At least the plate has a happy period of time on witch she thinks she Is in a happy relationship
Blackphish88 5y ago
You feel bad for them still? They're the architects of their own fall.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
They're children. They're not the architects of anything except whatever they currently desire 3 feet in front of their faces.
jonpe87 5y ago
"Bring the movies" is the perfect answer of course. Every red pill knows that OP.
nevalutionary 5y ago
You dirty dog, preying on illiterate women.
Cavannah 5y ago
Are you telling me that the statement “I’m home as fuck” typed in broken and abbreviated English is not the height of literacy?
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gorebwn 5y ago
If a girl called me "bruh" I would vomit on myself.
AngryCockOfJustice 5y ago
yeah, I would be disgusted and replused if some girl I was copulating called me "bruh"
someonesopinion6969 5y ago
not many people refer to fucking as 'copulating' either bruh
xddm2653 5y ago
It's not gay if you call it copulating
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Wildside1911 5y ago
Lol she is not ghetto, just drunk and illerate af during this time.
helenvsgladys 5y ago
Ah there’s the problem, OP is that kind of person too.
OrionsGucciBelt 5y ago
Nerds don't use slang when texting makes sense why they don't understand
ChesterRickman 5y ago
And foreigners. Bet half of the userbase here is from overseas.
porkpotatopie 5y ago
That and “I’m home af. And mad lol”.
xddm2653 5y ago
HOME AF but you don't commit af?? WTF
An_Actual_Politician 5y ago
He's fucking the Cash Me Outside chick, apparently.
Nov51605 5y ago
I don't see any comment topping this one
Complicated_Business 5y ago
She's a millionaire now, maybe he's playing for a cut.
fuze_me_69 5y ago
based on the lingo and the emoji hand color i would guess she and possibly op are black
Frich3 5y ago
Thought the same thing. I’m black too. I could tell by how both spoke
yungassed 5y ago
West coast white people speak like that now as well though.
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iManera 5y ago
The overuse of Emojis tells me something about her
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BingeV 5y ago
I'd tread lightly, always remember that there are PLENTY of other girls that can do it for you (sexually). Looks like this one might be past her "best if used by" date.
B-L-G-Y 5y ago
Dumb shit said when plastered doesn't make for a broken plate. Confirming that she feels this way -- despite having known the situation for two years -- the next day when she's sober is how you would tell that it's time to move on.
I'm interested in these phrases:
What'd you tell her when she was fucking with Terry? Did you tell her she deserves a better man? OP, did you initiate this entire fling on the basis of eventually forming a relationship?
I'm more than willing to believe this bit is just drunk bitch crazy talk, but gambler that I am I'd wager you have fucked this up in slow motion for two years. There seems to be more you're not telling us.
This doesn't seem at all like an example of abundance mindset leading to a woman demanding exclusivity. I'd love to be wrong. But I think you have a post-mortem that needs doing. Don't be a coward -- be honest with yourself. Confront your mistakes.
Wildside1911 5y ago
Even though I have nothing to prove to you I will explain.
[All that] shit you was talking when I [was] fucking with Terry was bullshit?
Did I tell her she deserves a better man? Of course not. Terry is the beta male bf (ex bf). I'm the guy she would tell her all her problems too. But I never gave her a solution and I chose not too... Just listen then eventually get head immediately afterwards. I told her to not leave him because he's a "good guy" but I guess he isn't something she needed but only wanted. So on a drunk night her questioning me is basically confirming that I am the type of guy she "thinks" she needs, which is odd because all we do is fuck and drink together.
That's why you act the way you act [continued drunken ramblings]?
This is self explanatory dude.. I hold a frame around her that shows little emotion. My actions align with my frame, so of course she would think I do not care.
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TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Looks like it isn't going much farther.
OutsideTheCage3 5y ago
This is also not really "AWALT." Normal women want a relationship with a high-status man and will not tolerate being an uncommitted lover for a long period of time. The strange thing is that this one will.
Ivabighairy1 5y ago
If she’s been putting out to him for two years, she’ll be back.
russian_nigger 5y ago
bro this girl sounds like the one i was fucking with all last year until i finally tossed to the side. these messages were very frequent and i always ignored lol. the only reason i kept her is because the sex was great, did whatever i wanted and then some. broke her in at many sexual things she never done too which felt good. but sometimes you gotta cut that rope and move on. too funny though, she was black too
hearse223 5y ago
You should abandon this one asap.
vas_mhtro 5y ago
This bitch has been probably passed around more than a good blunt
papunigga031 5y ago
Jesus Christ. I’m not saying I take women seriously, but the emojis don’t help her case at all, lmao
Ignore. If the plate breaks it breaks. Nothing lasts forever.
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MadSalty 5y ago
sorry couldn't read whatever that was it's all over the place
alphabachelor 5y ago
And make sure to keep your eye on the condoms. This one will do anything to lock you in, including getting pregnant.
says_harsh_things 5y ago
I bet she'll suddenly be pregnant when he breaks up with her.
Wildside1911 5y ago
Maury: You are NOT the father!
Wildside1911 5y ago
Yezzir, I always use the condoms I bring with me. Can't trust females man.
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Imperator_Red 5y ago
Can't trust females. Can't cum with a condom on. Hell of a world.
secretluver 5y ago
Fucking right? I've had some women try to sneak the condom off me. Dropped them on the spot. Bitches are cray
Blueasfukk 5y ago
I’m having a sign made for my room that says this ^
Imperator_Red 5y ago
I'll look for you on the national news.
Edit: I read room as roof haha
Blueasfukk 5y ago
You just gave me a good idea hahahaha
Chadster113 5y ago
What does "I'm home af" mean? lol
whatdidshewrite 5y ago
She's home AS FUCK bro come on now
Pajca 5y ago
Yeah, I guess he knows that.
I guess he is just asking about it because it makes no fucking sense.
How can you be home as fuck?
EdAnt 5y ago
It makes sense if you understand language better. She's using the AF tag as an intensifier, here. It's actually very common for words to shift meaning like that. For instance: how can something be "terribly good"?
Eat_Animals 5y ago
It's what passes as the English language among a vast swath of the young American public. The generation that doesn't know what life was like before smartphones, Facebook, Twitter and reality TV.
Sirkisskindofman 5y ago
It means she got drunk at home and didnt like that she didnt go out and nobody took her to go out. Therefore shes been stuck at home and has done nothing else except drink and be at home. Home af bruh
Wildside1911 5y ago
Thank you. Guys here act like they're twelve when trying to decipher text messages.
Iwassleepingawake 5y ago
Yea, maybe because I'm 34...I was trying to figure out whatever that trainwreck was as well
Chadster113 5y ago
Lol your girl is speaking another language
BloodSurgery 5y ago
Dont think people are really acting, personally
4theLiquorStore 5y ago
Man, this is why you shouldn't read comments. The post is dope. You're trying to share proof. The message and example are fuckin stellar. These guys are focused on the wrong thing.
ChesterRickman 5y ago
Maybe bc most of us here aren’t native speakers smh
anna435 5y ago
This girl sounds kind of slow..
ahackercalled4chan 5y ago
sounds more like a hood rat to me
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So, you gonna put a ring on it? /s
Look, this is a terrible AWALT example. AWALT is when your wife branch swings because you're laid up in the hospital or lost your job and are no longer able to provide.
If she has to ask where this is going after 2 fucking years, you've probably been deceiving her.
Clearly, pretending this never happened is the only way to keep this one in the air.....still, part of the idea of spinning plates is to hold Frame, and it sure sounds like you haven't been.
Wildside1911 5y ago
I have been getting my way for two years. MY WAY. If that's not holding frame then I have personally been deceived all my life. You sir gave one example where AWALT ended up in a bad circumstance. I gave an example of AWALT when one holds frame long enough with a plate. So please, explain what have I done wrong here...
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I don't know that you have done anything wrong!
I suspect that you made promises you have no intention of keeping. If I'm wrong about that, I'm happy to stand corrected. I would prefer to.
Yes, it is important to get it your way, but that doesn't mean damn the consequences. From my point of view, "spinning plates" is a trickier concept than is appreciated. If you can keep women in a state of non-monogamy because you're awesome, perfect. If you do it by deception, fuck right off.
Wildside1911 5y ago
Leading a woman on just to get your way is truly disgusting. But that isn't the case here. Her issue is mainly that she wants more of my time, and for that time to be spent not doing sexual things. But that'll never happen and she probably knows this. But I guess the liquor gave her the courage to ask.
4theLiquorStore 5y ago
Dude, these commenters kill me. Who actually would care enough to lecture you, when all you're doing is trying to inspire. Fuck, if I had someone share this shit with me 10 years ago...I'd be thankful not critical.
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Damn, I responded elsewhere, but you're the OP. If you want to keep a plate spinning for more than two years, you better be able to lick your own eyebrows.
I trust you when you say you were acting right.....as much as I trust any Internet stranger, that is to say completely and not at all.
One of my biggest problems with this sub is you never know who you're dealing with. Frankly, most guys couldn't spin a plate for 2 months, never mind 2 years, without a problem.
Scorchyy 5y ago
Then why is she saying you said something that wasn’t true. It looks like you explicitly promised her a relationship or something serious and never delivered, it’s a bit unethical to lie like that.
TheDeathOfMorality 5y ago
How does any of this imply he hasn't held frame....? Dude got home girl strung along for 2 years. Seems like a solid frame to me, shes the one continuously operating under his plans.
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Because after 2 years, she should know better.
TheDeathOfMorality 5y ago
How is a woman suppose to know better? LOL
you dont argue he isnt keeping frame, and then say it's really because she she know better.
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Everyone, from Blackdragon to Dr. Nerdlove to the Good Looking Loser to How to Manage your Bitches, lays down similar rules. See her no more than once a week, text only for logistics, don't do boyfriend shit, be ready for "The Talk" and hold Frame when it happens.
Just about 100% OP didn't follow these sorts of rules, and quite probably led her on. That's fucked, after about 6 months anyway.
Underestimate women at your own peril, bro.
Wildside1911 5y ago
Seeing as I don't usually keep plates around long enough for this to happen often, I only shared this experience because this was my first experience with a woman trying to negotiate her way in my life. I am sure if I had kept around the other plates longer this too would eventually happen.
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We're all at different stages, bro. Take care of yourself and your bitches, and I'll tend to mine.
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Kushbushh 5y ago
You're sleeping with a hood rat.
knuglets 5y ago
Sounds like a wannabe hood rat to me. A true hoodrat would have just had a baby, told him he was the father and called it a day.
yungassed 5y ago
Preach, racists love to trash black men by saying they're absent fathers, but no one acknowledges its just a reaction to their female counterparts becoming toxic via elite funded indoctrination of radical feminist ideology into their communities.
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Im_Not_Kevin 5y ago
Por que no los dos?
Also doesn't explain the Black Male to White Female issue of single Mother families being overwhelmingly the outcome.
ChesterRickman 5y ago
White women are the least likely to sleep around outside their race according to statistics, look it up. You are talking about hollywood and blacked porn induced fantasy. White women who become single mothers with mulatto children are pretty much guaranteed to be crazy in some way.
yungassed 5y ago
Depending on the area, there is still a huge stigma for white girls to actually sleep with black guys, so the ones willing to do so are normally pretty damaged to begin with. Black men in the rest of the world like UK and Ireland dont seem to have the same family issues.
xddm2653 5y ago
So you're saying black women are the problem... lol
yungassed 5y ago
No, the ideology that majority have adopted is. It's not innate, its cultural and every media outlet reinforces their victim complex mentality.
xddm2653 5y ago
I mean I agree, just found your complaint about racists funny. Most black people do grow up with trash culture. The ones who dont embrace it get my respect
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Scorchyy 5y ago
A plate for 2 years?? Was it an on-off thing or was it 2 years of frequent meetups and sex, multiple times a month let say. If you only saw her once a month I can understand but if you’re telling me you saw her once a week or more I can’t believe you didn’t get any feelings for her, especially since you’re saying "she does it for you". I’m a bit skeptical
ParmeetSidhu 5y ago
Sounds like the perfect plate, satisfies sexual needs and is retarded enough to not catch on.
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BlindingTwilight 5y ago
I don’t know why people are throwing shade at you. Just make sure you be nice to her and give her some comfort. If she really keeps pushing for commitment then you either respectfully offer her the choice to end your relationship or keep having fun. Since she is there for you for sex and intimacy I suggest you reciprocate and be there for her emotionally sometimes. Just because you are nice and caring to someone does not mean you are going to marry them. Keep having fun brother and remember to leave them better than you found them.
JustLurkingIgnore 5y ago
She is just drunk and feeeeling insecure. Consider it a shit test. Ignore her until she sobers up, sees what’s on her phone and apologizes for texting stupid things. (or not)
Understand that could be ‘never’ and she nexts herself. Plates stop spinning and they all fall eventually, maybe it’s time...
Edit: When they do this sober, no pass, cut & run.
Billy_Sunsteel 5y ago
Jeez, the ones I date do this after 2 months
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ChesterRickman 5y ago
Fact - People trying to tell OP he’s doing something wrong are larping theoreticians with no real experience.