I'm a 24 y/o Male, living in the United States. I've been following this sub off and on for about 3 years now.
I went out to a downtown area near my place with a friend of mine. We had the intention of getting a bite to eat and that was it. We're standing in front of this place debating on whether or not to go in, as it's quite crowded. At that very moment 2 beautiful women walk out and are just standing beside us, talking amongst themselves. I turn towards them and without even a thought as to what I was going to say, and I started up a conversation with them.
They were slightly buzzed for sure, but not drunk or anything. Normally I'm the introverted type, and only strike up conversations when I've had a drink or two. I was just in a goofy mood for some reason, and had total outcome independence because, after all, I just wanted some food. I hadn't a care in the world as to where this ended up going.
Turns out, they're hungry too, so we all agree to split a pizza at a nearby place. My friend has decent game, but I could tell he was beginning to feel hopeful about getting some pussy. I was being somewhat dismissive to both of the girls, and lightly teasing them. Self amusement played a key role here. I was just having fun, and I really didn't give a fuck.
We leave the restaurant and head to a bar for drinks and pool. Since I paid for the pizza, I proposed they buy the first round of drinks. At the bar, one of the girls asks what were drinking, at this point my friend says "that's alright we got them." I interjected and said "No, actually you can get us two rum and cokes." She agreed without hesitation.
While playing pool, I start to give the brunette some tips. This is the perfect opportunity to use kino in a way that feels completley natural. Girls love that shit. After a while, I suggest we head to another place that has good music, and everyone is on board with it.
We get to the spot, order some drinks and go to the dance floor. I can't dance to save my fucking life, but I give it a go and just have fun with it. I'm dancing and flirting with both of the girls (my friend is too) to feel out which one I have more chemistry with. The brunette was a little more conservative, while the blonde seemed to be more free spirited and fun. I start dancing with the blonde girl, mostly being silly and laughing at myself. Then I lead her to grinding on me. I turn her around and we held strong eye contact for probably about 20 seconds. I knew right then and there she wanted to fuck, and it was only a matter of time.
The brunette says something about her "boyfriend" and then my friend becomes discouraged. (Turns out this boyfriend was a dude she had only known a week.)
We head over to one more spot for another drink. The "boyfriend" ends up meeting us there with some of his buddies. My friend basically gives up on the brunette and decides to meet some other people at another bar. I tell the blonde I'm leaving soon, and she's welcome to come with if she wants to. I order the uber and we're on our way to mi casa. You know how the rest of the story goes.
Self amusement, teasing/flirting, outcome independence, along with some kino was all it took. You know you're on your game when it feels effortless. The blonde girl kept telling me how fun I was. She was by no means the "slutty" type either. She was 3 years older than me, had a master's degree and a well paying job. The type of girl I used to consider "out of my league."
Women want a man who takes the lead, and is really only in it for himself. If they want to join in on your fun time, they're more than welcome. If not, then who cares, right? You're having a good time regardless.
Camp_KillYourself 5y ago
PUA lingo is so fucking nerdy. "Kino"
Aroundwork 5y ago
Interesting that you didn't straight up ask her / tell her to come with you, you just said I'm out you wanna come with? Might try that one, takes the pressure off the girl and gives them a slight bit more of plausible deniability as she's just "tagging along"
Mellow__Martian 5y ago
Great advice. Has always worked for me.
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bright-morningstar 5y ago
Rollo Tomassi probably would define this situation as the natural Alpha game stuff. This is how it should be done in my opinion, everything looks natural on the paper but when you look closely it is not, it is all skill and subtlety, like a rogue knowing that he will win at the end of the game, so he is relax as fuck and enjoying it and waits for his turn to give the last laugh, but it is hard to catch this same alphaic flow and strength of the game every time.
The_Dude_Man101 5y ago
Fanfuckingtastic post op, more people need to see field reports like this
Seize7 5y ago
Great fairy tale, all the must do masteries are lined covered behind known instances. Thank you but we don't need affirmatives of redpilled mind or game, we need specific impasse examples about how you overcome and what YOU recommend us.
Bartand 5y ago
that was my gf, oh wait, she cheated me it just happened, thanks for paying her bills anyway
Untitledexistence 5y ago
Could i just ask. I don't drink, is it possible to achieve getting laid without drinking. Is it possible just taking the approach that you did without any alcohol involved or could i just use a non alcoholic beverage such as a soft drink or a cocktail then just buy the girl a drink of choice wether she drinks or not.
CasaDeFranco 5y ago
Alcohol is just a drug, you can act accordingly and the results are the same.
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If you need a prop, order lime and soda water; people respect if you choose not to drink, and if they don't, who cares?
Untitledexistence 5y ago
Thanks, I'll keep that in mind.
Cheeri-o 5y ago
This has to be a joke, if you’re not confident enough in yourself to drink a soda then you need to stay in monk mode for some months
tyronethejabrone 5y ago
This is how it’s done. Girls are good at reading intentions. If you’re just enjoying yourself, it is infectious. And I don’t mean telling yourself you’re out just to have fun when really all you want is to get laid. Let the idea of getting laid run in the background. There’s too many situational circumstances that you have no control over.
Don’t be a stranger. Treat people as though you already know them. Be casual. Look for situational openers and easy on the small talk.
good_guy_submitter 5y ago
Wrong.
Women are terrible at a reading intentions.
Most men are equally terrible at hiding them though. So unless you're a professional actor you are better off not going in with any intentions.
tyronethejabrone 5y ago
Women are terrible at reading intentions when friend-zoned billy beta has shown the wrong intentions.
Women are significantly better than guys at emotionally assessing people and a situation. They often yield to and are molded by them. Women really are fickle. It’s how they operate. They are just so timid and apprehensive and uncertain of themselves.
I’m not saying don’t be a sexual man. Just to enjoy yourself and be unphased as any given situation presents itself.
That song “girls just wanna have fun” was... kinda right. And when they observe guys enjoying themselves, they want to be a part of it. Girls feed off of others.
BlindingTwilight 5y ago
I love this field report because there is no manipulation, no canned lines, no negging and nothing negative. Two adults met by chance and decided they were attracted to each other. End of story. This is inner game and outcome independence at their best.
NextBad 5y ago
convert contract but the balls to demand it rather than cave under pressure. This is manipulation.
teasing is negative, if you like everything about someone you are not authentic
This is a last ditch attempt to frame your blue pill fantasies within a red pill lenses.
redvelvet_oreo 5y ago
Dont be a fool. This wasnt a Disney movie story. He did makes some moves. He did escalate, he did tease(neg, whatever you want to call it these days) Strong eye contact, was leading and all those things. The difference in OPs story is that it all came natural. If anyone has ever got laid here and didnt think game just internalized it, it winds up being OPs end result. If you ever got laid before reading TRP then you know exactly what its like. The only difference now is you know whats up and its not just happening blindly and you dont just chalk it up to being lucky.
I see similar comments in like every FR now at days. Like where are you guys reading this shit? I have yet to see any FR like this in a long time. Dont confuse seddit for TRP.
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redvelvet_oreo 5y ago
You aint red pilled till you hit 4 figures.
Fulp_Piction 5y ago
OP deserves credit for this, it didn't just happen. Opening a set, frame control, DGAF attitude, kino, cocky/funny all come into play. His buddy 'just happened' to go home alone (I presume).
Auvergnat 5y ago
And that’s the power of good game: when it’s so smooth that even men don’t see it (or refuse to see it for what it is). You missed the indirect opener, the outcome independence, the actual negging (re-read the parts about him being “dismissive”, or “teasing” them), the push/pull, the frame control, the kino escalation, the bouncing, the leading the group, the passing of shit tests, the isolation... This field report is a smooth application of the most basic (dare I say the dreaded word?) PUA game concepts.
But it was so smooth and naturally done that all you see was:
And that wizardry is why Mystery called it an “art”. Good job OP
bright-morningstar 5y ago
Someone speaking the truth. Nothing is ever by coincidence or chance in this bizz, there is no fate or Godly destiny leading them to bang at the end of the night, he made the subtle moonwalk, even fellas don't notice it.
BlindingTwilight 5y ago
I mentioned inner game and outcome independence. What OP did is PUA done properly
latinasonly 5y ago
he did the real thing - PUA is "acting out " what he did .
OP love your post and love the comments BTW. some good ass info here .
redpillobster 5y ago
100%. That’s why PUA is so hated. No girl wants to sleep with a guy faking it with manipulative techniques, only to find out he’s a loser the next morning.
latinasonly 5y ago
tbh even as a male its pretty easy to tell which guys are losers and which guys are real alpha.
tyronethejabrone 5y ago
Girls love this shit too. It all falls under the “it just happened”
Masculinity is naturally aggressive and at its core is all about what one can do to affect the world around them. Femininity is passive, submissive, and all about how the world can affect them.
g0dfather93 5y ago
"It just happened" gives the women such a boner, man. They lap it up like anything, because then it was "a serendipitous encounter" (cue dreamy eyes) and not her being a cock-rider. How a certain chain of events sound as a story the day after is more important to them than how it plays out in the moment. And this is why game matters - instead of her lifting her skirt to a "dtf?" message on tinder, you charmed her panties right off of her crotch.
Managicall 5y ago
You are over complicating this its just about spending enormous amounts of time until the female sex drive finally inflates that uterus. There are faster ways to trigger this chemical reaction and cut time wasted without these silly carnival games.
McDrMuffinMan 5y ago
Can you expand on that please?
g0dfather93 5y ago
That may be true in its place, and if that floats your boat, you do you.
Making her feel less like she's a roadside slut slave to her fanny's desire and more like she had a fleeting tryst with a man that gave her the butterflies is something I would just prefer. And it seems healthier.
good_guy_submitter 5y ago
What's the secret to increase blood flow to the uterus instantly on a girl you just met?
BrownGummyBear 5y ago
By tipping your fedora while complimenting her
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Managicall 5y ago
Well typically the adolescent females will run at you and slam their abdominal into you to jump start the process. But as I stated quite literally just skip the carnival games and pick a ride that can pull some G force and you will get a faster reaction. Its basic physics, they make female viagra for a reason. Some men use alcohol, but that just dries out their cooch and gives you whiskey dick.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
i agree but in today's world, i am not fucking and will not fuck a girl that's been drinking.
that "regret rape" shit is real.
ReVeRSe_PaRaDoX 5y ago
After reading a couple of this you just see patterns.
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masterpiece00 5y ago
So some whore at or approaching the wall with a shopping list of girl power attributes like career etc allowed you to be the 50th spaceman in her wet hole? great story.
latinasonly 5y ago
LOL - nice reframe ! haters gonna hate
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KronkIsLove 5y ago
So.... you basically paid for food, two bottles of rum etc., entrance fee to a club, additional drinks and an Uber just to get laid.
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Better be worth it. I wouldn't pay that much for just one night. Hope you can make her your gf for a while op
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AAThrowaway5 5y ago
Make more money don't be a peasant, peasant
KronkIsLove 5y ago
I make enough and have enough. Doesn't mean that you should waste it if you don't have to.
Blaxxun 5y ago
Having a fun night out in the city costs money. Unless you are in some backpacking hostel in SEA or some house party with a cool crowd.
KronkIsLove 5y ago
I really like house parties. They have the most chill atmosphere, couches, food and girls.
Of course it costs money. I just wanted to say that it wouldn't make sense to spend that much just for sex over and over again (also probably not good for Mr. liver). For me, one visit at the cinema and a drink is usually enough and I don't need the full night :)
OP is happy and that is most important. Take my comment as chitchat or whatever.
reversec 5y ago
Is this the effect of Alexandria Ocasio Cortez? You want free stuff?
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Obediah_Stane 5y ago
He posted it on reddit so others may learn from his example. You cared enough to post a stupid response on here that doesn't add value to this subreddit in any manner.
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triavatar 5y ago
This subreddit is about male sexual strategy in a world dominated by female thought paradigms. People forget their instinct because they are told it is wrong by feminists and cucks.
Unfortunately, reproduction still happens with the brainwashed people and those who have been indoctrinated into feminist cuckoldry. So if you "care" you will not get in the way of a positive male world by spreading BS like this comment.
reversec 5y ago
don't explain things to a kid.
triavatar 5y ago
How else they supposed to learn tho :P
MobleUserNameMu 5y ago
How .. I got AIDS. How I got .. herpes. How I got .. 20 years of child support payments. Try thinking with the other head.
_i-like-turtles_ 5y ago
This is literally a sub dedicated to sexual strategy. Not abstinence.
CainPrice 5y ago
Typically, guys who piss on other guys for having casual sex are guys who are unable to have casual sex themselves.
Instead of pretending on the internet that you don't want to fuck and you're somehow better than men women will actually go home with, why don't you hit the gym, practice your social skis, and learn how to get into the game like a normal person?
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1v1crown 5y ago
That's patently not true. A lot of us have had many women and realized they just aren't worth it. We try to now share our knowledge with the new generation. These women would NOT DO what that guy did to fuck him. It's absurd to pay that much and invest that much time for chance at a lay. Glad he got it but he shouldn't be worshipping sex like that.
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Married_Dominant_NL 5y ago
There are inventions for that you know. Science has made these things called condoms. Nifty little fuckers
masterpiece00 5y ago
Because they are 100% all - and don't stop crabs, warts, hpv, hsv2 etc.
Married_Dominant_NL 5y ago
But the redpill crowd doesn't target skanks as far as I'm aware. Maybe you do, but then you belong somewhere else
Sumsar01 5y ago
Get vaccinated and dont have pubes.
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