I know, you’re wondering—wtf, Max? Don’t worry. This will be a shorter post than my usual and straight to the point. If any of you have visited asktrp in the last few days, you might know from where this came. Though it does look like the mods mopped up the mess since.
Should you tell __ that you ___ when you were __? This is an easy one. Why would you?
In your dealings with women there are two economies at work. Yours is productivity. You are defined by what you can do for her, such as what you give her or how you make her feel. The pill aware understand the latter is far more powerful than the former. Hers is informational. She is defined by what we know about her, such as how attractive she is and her past behavior. Women know very well that a detailed description of everything she has put into her orifices in the past might be information you don’t want to know. She will control that information, modify it as necessary and only use it when it is beneficial (though I will admit women are not always the best judge of that).
Productivity is a value in the moment. That is, it doesn’t matter if you gave some chick tingles 10 years ago or had a six figure job before you got laid off. What value to you provide NOW? As we have observed, women generally live in the moment, and while they can put some thinking into investing in a future, ultimately if a better value presents itself in the moment, they will be strongly attracted to it.
What you put into your ass at 12 has little to do with the value you bring to her in the moment. Telling her about it isn’t going to solve any problems. It isn’t going to provide her any value. It isn’t going to make you feel less gay (or whatever that lunatic was going on about in asktrp). It’s only going to go into her data base of “weird shit you’ve done” to be withdrawn when she is looking for a reason to get over you. She manages information, including yours.
If you want to shove a ping pong up your ass after you’ve shoved 20 up her twat, you could get away with sexy-weird. But no woman wants to hear about how you’ve explored your hairy, stinky, sweaty man body with foreign objects to expand your understanding of your sexuality. She wants you to explore her sexuality.
BluBlac59 5y ago
If you haven't gotten it. Yes, you probably should.
jamesistheman7 5y ago
Women will never tell us THEIR secrets, especially about their sexual past, so why the hell should we open up when they never do? It's all just a game they play to try to expose your weaknesses and make themselves seem better.
max_peenor 5y ago
I remember the last argument I had with Legal Cohabiting Female. I snapped and said, "Your version of communicating is me being vulnerable and then you using that information against me. I'm done doing that."
Yeah, she didn't argue with me about that.
EdmondDaunts 5y ago
“...and then I woke up and had my cornflakes”.
This is the best way to tell a truth to a woman. In fact, to anyone.
halfback910 5y ago
So to be completely clear, you did not shove a ping pong ball in your ass when you were twelve?
max_peenor 5y ago
No. I did not. My parents got rid of the ping pong table when I was 10.
halfback910 5y ago
This was hilarious but subtle. Well done.
SouloftheVoid 5y ago
This seems like it would be breaking Iron Rules of Tomassi #2 and #8. If I did something like that, nobody would ever know except my parents and the poor doctor who had to remove it. Maybe I'd share it on my deathbed if I were in the mood to. But if you tell a woman this she will always be wondering if you are a faggot and if you break up with her that is exactly what she will call you before telling everyone she knows about it.
BurnoutRS 5y ago
Context is key.
The bluepill approach is "omg if I open up to her and share and be vulnerable, she'll reciprocate and do the same. She'll feel safe knowing im a weak little bitch too"
All of these "Should I tell her x" are coming from guys who have given up on being men.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Unless you want her to get it out for you after all these years
poshmarkedbudu 5y ago
Forget that. See if you can fit 3 at 30. Progress.
max_peenor 5y ago
They give me funny looks at the gym whenever I try this.
RightHandWolf 5y ago
Would that be a new form of "repetition until failure?"
NoFaithInThisSub 5y ago
This is what you should do: __
hope that helps.
cupshadow 5y ago
This is the mind of a bluepill guy who still believes in open communication, that he should disclose and hand it over every bit of private information to her.
GlobalAsshat 5y ago
Meanwhile their "past" is none of our concern.
max_peenor 5y ago
We should send North Korea half of our nuclear arsenal as a show of good faith. Maybe then we can be friends.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
If the voter pool was all females they would be seriously discussing this.
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i_love_chicks 5y ago
shove one up hers and you’re even
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max_peenor 5y ago
What I'm trying to figure out is what combination of drugs and situational dissonance jars them enough that they take their problems to asktrp.
FaggoDeluxe 5y ago
I keep seeing this meme. The fuck does it mean?
eyewant 5y ago
HONK
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RightHandWolf 5y ago
Another lost disciple from the Church of Wendy O. Williams? What other items of sporting equipment inserted could be discussed? Baseball bats and bowling pins? Tennis rackets and croquet mallets? Inquiring minds want to know!
Obediah_Stane 5y ago
The less you tell her the better.
javiercer20 5y ago
Forget about your fiancée... go tell your psychiatrist instead.
DiSysmic 5y ago
I visit it once a day, and while the occasional contextual situation which cannot be answered with direct TRP notions stirs up some interesting discussion, AskTRP is really just a majority of "I'm-overthinking-my-situation-so-hold-me-by-the-hand-and-guide-me-to-become-Chad" subreddit. It has become more detrimental than useful.
max_peenor 5y ago
It's an important filter. A lot of people start their RP in a desperate place. The last thing we need on the main sub is these people shutting up up with their desperation. On the other hand, these are people that could really benefit from what we have learned. So the idea is they can't ejaculate their desperation on asktrp, ask their questions for problems that shouldn't actually exist (ie, why won't my unicorn love me?!?!) and then hopefully grow enough to start their journey for real.
Or they get banned for being hopeless spergs.
Win-win
That said, I do have a problem with the teenagers that show up asking for advice on how to finally touch a boob. Look, kid, I had to figure it out on my own too. It's part of growing up. BUT. The other side of this is when I was a teenager fumbling with boobs, there was no facebook or twitter to nock the ever living shit out of me when I fumbled it. Kids have an easier world to live in than I did. They also have a terrifyingly harder world to live in.
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LokiWantsToPlay 5y ago
AskTRP is essentially dumpster diving at this point. It used to kids too lazy to read the sidebar, Indians trying to score blonde white girls or those with genuine mental issues (Depression etc). Dafuq happened?
TRP at it's simplest is;
Stfu
Improve Yourself
Kick any anxieties in the bollocks and do what you fear
WTF is going on?
Imperator_Red 5y ago
AskTRP is awful. Mods need to clean it up. It's bringing down the rest of the TRP brand.
FrontloadPain 5y ago
I agree, the dumpster you're jumping into is full of rancid food and burning though. Today some guy on asktrp asked what he could in his small idle time breaks throughout the day (like when he's taking a shit) to improve his life. The fuck is this?
It's no exception either. Besides the billion desperate oneitis kind of posts, there are so many guys on there who seem to believe being spoon-fed information somehow makes you a man or "alpha". That subreddit needs some serious moderation imo.
MatrixofLe3adership 5y ago
Then don't bother with it at all, why do you even think about it? These issues will resolve themselves, ie. redpillers who choose to advise...and redpillers who choose to avoid entirely. It's a non-issue.
LokiWantsToPlay 5y ago
"Is it alpha...?" should be a banned statement, i swear.
bjcm5891 5y ago
Asking "Is it alpha" is like asking "May I kiss you?" on a date.
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The fact you feel the need to ask means you're doing it wrong.
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LokiWantsToPlay 5y ago
Lol fucking good comparison
nipple__chips 5y ago
Hate to be that dude, but what's wrong with Indian dudes trying to score blonde white girls? Admittedly it's a little weird that they're asking about it but it doesn't seem particularly wrong to me.
Thotwrecker 5y ago
Because these guys don't ever want to acknowledge and believe that brown dudes are out there fucking white bitches. They just want to complain and corroborate each other's loser perspective - aka they want to treat TRP like it's the incel community.
If you try to help them, they don't believe it, and they get upset or mad that you're trying to explain the shit they asked you to explain.
They have a weird complex about it, which comes from a place and needing validation in both their masculinity and ethnic value -- and they are coming from a point of basically holding their hands cupped and needing a white woman to pour a little attention and validation into their hands to heal their childhood wounds.
They don't want to change their mentality though, fuck no that would be too hard. They just want results. But again, back to point number 1, they don't believe any OTHER bhais are out there fucking bitches, so they don't even believe in the existence of the results they want.
nipple__chips 5y ago
Yeah I was unaware that there was one dude who repeatedly did this shit. It seems to me pretty hypocritical to say you've taken the red pill and then consistently blame your lack of results on things you can't control. That's incel shit and Tumblr shit, doesn't seem to belong on TRP or askTRP.
Thanks for the response.
askmrcia 5y ago
It wasn't one guy. One guy was the biggest offender, but every now and then we had minority post pop up about how hard it is for minorities to date.
And everytime those threads pop up it broke down to Indian dudes crying how no white girls want them no matter how much they lift or whatever.
The problem with this thinking is these Indian guys are putting white women on the pedestal. Why be only obsessed with white women and women of no other ethnic group?
These dudes claim they are red pill, but in all honesty just want to to be validated by their goddesses the western white blonde girl.
TheRedPike 5y ago
The first time he asked the question, it was ok. The 126th time he posted the question, it was a little old. Hang on though. I'm sure he's working on a new alt and will visit soon again.
LokiWantsToPlay 5y ago
There was actually nothing wrong it, but it used to spammed over and over by the same few people
Razkolol 5y ago
Telling women about shit you did? xD If you're doing club approaches you shouldn't even tell them your real name. You should filter the shit out of information that doesn't work in your favour, it will be weaponized against you, even info that would put you into provider territory should be filtered out if you want to have an easier time pulling. You will be surprised that they will remember shit that you even forgot that you've mentioned, when it comes to social info nothing will get past, but when it comes to seeing road signs or double white lines that shit just doesn't register with them for some reason.
TheUnsteadyDonut 5y ago
Just a curiosity. Why not even your name? Seem excessive.
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Let's go further.
Remember, none of this was ever about you.And in fairness, is you wanting to fuck her more about her, or about you?
kerrielou73 5y ago
Most people are boring. Truly interesting people rarely talk talk about themselves unless asked and even then there are a myriad of reasons they may choose not to at a any given time to any given person.
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grandmasbroach 5y ago
You have to now!!! If you're really lucky, she'll get a couple more balls and a paddle.
Seriously though, pics or it didn't happen...
max_peenor 5y ago
Oh dear space Jesus, I sure as hell hope it didn't actually happen.
grandmasbroach 5y ago
Only you and God know Max... Knowing you, you totally jammed that sucker deeeeep in your sweet little doo doo puss. Did it at least feel good? I don't have the, excuse me here, balls to do that.
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