The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
anontgb
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FalconWrite 5y ago
Eugh. Well I’ll say this much, it may not be because he himself looks like he’s killing it, but the sight of that cringy pineapple going up and actually spitting that hyper beta cornball game should instill any man with even a sliver of real suaveness with courage. If he has the nerve to make an ass of himself like this and clearly isn’t dropping dead from a chain of soft rejections, what are you afraid of? That’s literally what Approach Anxiety is: your primal brain hysterically misinterpreting the concept of rejection as instant death. This fucker is going out there basically shooting himself in the face with a rejection gun repeatedly and it’s clearly harmless
One of the most empowering feelings that most men rarely feel is the moment when a smoking hot chick you cold approached just straightup walks away or stonewalls you and you realize it wasn’t even a big deal afterwards. You need that first real ice cold spike in your chest to loosen up and get the flow going
anontgb 5y ago
Beta cornball game? A beta is never able to put out his intentions like that and put himself in a place to get outright rejections.
But my point of posting this video here was exactly what you mentioned. As in the title this is for beginners. The one's who get last second anxiety.and aren't able to approach.
FREECRACK6 5y ago
A big LOL for anyone saying this guy has bad game, yeah he compliments a lot, but his comfort building is A1, perfect body language, complete DGAF attitude, look at out comfortable the girls are with him from the beginning . All he lacks is a little edge though, I’m pretty sure he could’ve pulled most of the girls who said they had boyfriends but kept talking to him if he didn’t just give up
bsutansalt 5y ago
I don't know what you're talking about. Most of them their body language was saying they couldn't wait to escape his presence at first. He got through that with most of them, so good on him, but a lot of that is just running your mouth and keeping them entertained.
90% of the time this kind of shotgun approach grabbing numbers on the street doesn't convert into anything. Just an odd story for them to tell their friends about later more often than not. However, do it enough times (again, it's a numbers game) and you'll actually manage to stumble onto women who actually like you for various reasons and THOSE women will be sticky later when you contact them.
I've written about this phenomenom years ago when I developed the bell curve model. Some women will be a YES right from the start, many women in the middle will be "meh" and may be convertable into a YES with tight game, and some women on the other end of the spectrum will be a hard NO no matter what you do and how impeccable your game is. Most of the success PUA's arrive at without realizing it is by approaching thousands of women they're more likely to stumble onto women who are a hard YES from the get go (and their PUA dancing monkey bullshit wasn't needed anyway), and through tight game possibly convert some of the "mehs" into a YES. The taller, better looking, nicer car you drive, etc, the larger the number of women who are going to be a YES from the start. Such is life.
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hearse223 5y ago
Question: I notice when he approaches he mentions "dont panic im not crazy or anything!" is this really necessary? Only crazy people interact with strangers?
bsutansalt 5y ago
It's an odd approach, and there's much more comfortable lines you could use. One of my favorites is the tried and true compliment followed by a justification.
"Excuse me. I know this is totally random, but I just had to say <insert complement>. If I didn't say something now I'd be kicking myself all afternoon."
Simple and to the point. Intentions made known, and if you add "sexy" to the compliment then you're sub-communicating your intent, aka an early frame announcement.
If she's wearing an outfit that you think is sexy as fuck, then say it:
"Excuse me, hi! I just had to say you're killing it with that outfight, and between you and me you look sexy as fuck. If I didn't say something now I'd be kicking myself all afternoon."
With proper eye contact, body language, and not looking like a Shrek yourself, it won't be uncommon for them to blush and stammer. At which point you can transition to comfort building....
"You know what, you're embarrassed. Great, now I've embarrassed you. (feigning as if it were a mistake)"
If she's socially savvy at all she'll say something to the effect it's okay, which is your opening to pivot...
"How about we talk about something else for a second. <insert open ended question to make small talk>"
Congrats, now you're locked in and having a quick talk on the street.
chrisname 5y ago
In London, yes. If anyone cold approaches you in London they are either crazy or selling something.
MikeTyson91 5y ago
Well, his bun gives him kind of a crazy look.
AAThrowaway5 5y ago
I couldn't get passed his introduction of the first approach... Damn that was hard to watch.
But point taken, if this out of shape, man bun wearing try hard can approach anyone....
bsutansalt 5y ago
Yup. Pretty much all PUA success comes down to a numbers game. You have to approach thousands of women to have success, just how it works. The video was hard to watch with how cringey his approaches are, but he'll get laid more often than those just sitting at home Friday and Saturday night or hanging out with friends not appraoching women.
CokeRockOnYourClit 5y ago
He comes across as a tryhard
hearse223 5y ago
He's trying hard to demonstrate for his audience, the viewer.
MikeTyson91 5y ago
Well, one can watch PUAs that hire actresses and show impeccable game, then.
keeponlifting 5y ago
Khmee his hair is weird, khmee he's a tryhard autistic faggot, khmee I'd rather mentally masturbate to field reports that make me feel good about myself than approach girls. Fuck that shit.
The truth of the matter is, Sasha actually approaches and gets the girls. Do you?
Vikingcel 5y ago
Khmee if I had his looks I'd just get laid off tinder
anontgb 5y ago
This! This video is a total anxiety buster. He's fat. He's ugly. (compared to girls he is approaching IMO ) He's dressed like a kid. His hairstyle is the last thing you'd want to try in this world.
But he was still able to pull off so many approaches. None of the girls dissed him they just rejected him saying they were in a relationship and even then he made a try on them before letting them go.
And the best thing about this video is how many times you can get rejected even if you're approaching confidently. The takeaway is that you shouldn't get phased.
bsutansalt 5y ago
That should be the takeaway from this video. If this goofball can approach, then anyone who's not totally an autistic socially uncalibrated retard should be able to do the same.
Most women, at least during the day, are not totally dismissive bitches that will hard reject a guy on the spot. They're often more amicable than people realize, which is why everyone should prefer day game to night game IMO. It's cold approach on easy mode. Most guys are just too chickenshit to approach.
anontgb 5y ago
Atleast some people understand. The amount of negative feedback on this post clears why people make fun of TRP.
DiSysmic 5y ago
Don't rationalize your own state by watching those types of videos.
The standard of physical attraction will never change. Go lift. There's no shortcut.
antariusz 5y ago
Exactly this.
2 months hardcore in the gym, along with better style and he could have approached half as many girls and gotten many more successful interactions.
Sure, dating can be a numbers game, if you’re a 7-8. Approach more girls, get laid more. Maybe you can go from 1 girl a quarter to 1 girl a month if you approach at least one girl every day. And if you’re starting from a 5-6 just discovering TRP or game, just getting any female attention at all feels WONDERFUL, I should know, I was a virgin until I was 25.
But as you begin moving up the ladder of success, you can begin to achieve things like 1 girl a week, or even fuck 7 girls in a week (because I wanted to challenge myself and it worked, but it was difficult). You don’t have to try nearly so hard.
I don’t talk to girls because I enjoy random-ass conversations about the weather. I do it with purpose. And so should you.
keeponlifting 5y ago
Don't get me wrong, maintaining a strict diet and lifting weights is essential, but really you could approach without lifting, albeit at a significantly lower success rate.
anontgb 5y ago
It's all about confidence and owning oneself. RsdTyler isn't anything shredded or aesthetic still he can pull 9s with his mouth shut. That level of confidence comes when you dedicate your life to approach.
Lifting is the other way so that you can focus your time on other things like your job.
nross368 5y ago
No it's the kind of game that comes from making millions of dollars of chumps like you. Yea he's got game, but game has a ceiling.
My bone to pick with this whole video and the pickup community goes as fhis; wtf does a number mean? Like really? It's so fucking easy to get a number. It's what you do with that number that counts. Yet everyone never shows to that or the statistics on how much they get laid....
You can get 50 numbers a day but what will actually come of it? Don't consider a number meaningful because it's not.
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nross368 5y ago
The point with that post is that 99% of day game videos is just getting a number.
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Delirious_Solipsista 5y ago
This dude made me cringe so hard man
Imperator_Red 5y ago
I'm gonna cut that man bun off.
RightHandWolf 5y ago
If he had a touch of a beer belly, he'd look like John Belushi's "Samurai Futaba" character from Saturday Night Live.
Edit: Now I'm hearing the voice of Don Pardo, inviting us to stay tuned for another thrilling episode of Samurai Speed Dating.
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lowpro 5y ago
After a bad night, this really picked me up.
throwitpplaway 5y ago
Damn. Cringy, but super peacocking if he was doing this in front of everyone and NGAF.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Ugh, nah this dude is a fucktard.
He rabbits on and on, plays like a dancing monkey, doesn't get to the point. No dynamic, no game. It's 'the funny guy routine'.
stigma17 5y ago
But he’s doing what works for him, and that’s the red pill - you do you.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Is it working for him, though?
He supplicates, comes off as lower status, appears like he has scarcity, compliments chicks he doesn't know.
He's rejected in majority of cases. Not sure how that's working.
Vikingcel 5y ago
Riddle me this. Is opening a chick with a compliment bad and 'beta'? Often I find myself in a situation where I want to approach, because I find the woman attractive, but trying to come up with something seemingly random to say feels wrong.
stigma17 5y ago
I’d say opening with a compliment like ‘you’re sexy’ etc. Makes your intentions very clear so is a good opener by default. This guys game isn’t perfect, but he’s actually doing something which puts him in a different bracket from the beginning.
Vikingcel 5y ago
I am sure that your demeanor and intent is important when delivering the compliment. Fortunately for me, whenever I get the urge to approach and compliment, it's not because I'm trying to wease my dick into a womans crotch region. I just really want to speak my mind and would feel satisfied even if she just thanked me and walked away.
Direct, confident, outcome independent approach (rare by itself). Then I'd hit the rear delt/tricep flex pose and watch her gush, probably.
I'm thinking I must've been stupid to not act on this gut feeling I get.
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