In the earlier Internet days, pre-TRP as it exists today, there was a site by a bunch of frat bros who mixed some humor and good commentary, and one story had to do with why that first marriage to your sorority sweetheart was doomed.

Basically, the argument was that you get married and her Daddy throws you a big wedding and you start your career, and a year or so after that she starts to bitch and agitate because you're not as successful as her Daddy was. The author's insight: You have to realize that she was 17 or 18 before she even knew what her Daddy did for a living, and by then he was the Senior VP or CEO or whatever. Money, vacations, expensive clothes, cars, those things all just happened to her. She's never seen her Daddy being unsure of himself or struggling to make it in his career, so when she sees it in you, she's scared/pissed off. What the author described in the end game was what we now call beta supplication, which was really just appeasement until the inevitable divorce.

EDIT: If you want a good laugh, read the comments. Starting with the one by "James Scofield:"

Whoever wrote this article needs to take a look in the mirror and realize that HE is the problem in 2013, not the women who fail to live up to his screwed-up, 1960s, patriarchal expectations of what women should be. If you can't realize that women are EQUAL AND INTELLIGENT HUMAN BEINGS with dreams, expectations, ambition, desires, shortcomings, talents, and brains JUST LIKE MEN, then keep your NEANDERTHAL views to yourself because THE REST OF US are living in 2013.

To put it more bluntly, just because your mom was nice enough to wipe your ass until you were 18 doesn't mean it's some other woman's job now.

Why would you ever want to marry? Like the girl? Fine, stay with her for the rest of your life. You don't need to sign a piece of paper to do that.

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The real problem with sorority girls as I see them is the two archetypical personalities that can flourish in a sorority. You have the den mothers and the frameless girls.

The problem with frameless girls (though oftentimes initially appealing) is they have no sense of self or frame whatsoever - whoever the dominant personality in the room is consumes her entirely. Everyone sort of bends to others' frames on occasion and is somewhat flexible to different environments, but the frameless girl is a different person entirely in every environment. This can be attractive initially because it is an incredible ego massage - she takes on whatever 'color' you expect her be, assuming your values, interests, opinions, and dislikes. Of course, when you aren't there, she's assuming the position in the supply closet for the dickhead coworker busting all up in her sugar walls.

The den mother is worse. She's a nag, a gossiper, and desires a relationship dynamic that can only be described as 'mother-son'. She will attempt to nag, guilt, belittle, and manipulate you into a version of yourself she thinks is best. Of course, that version of you is disgusting and she will like it less than you will. Sex is a tool. Compliments must be earned by jumping through her hoops. She thinks she knows best how to 'raise you' into the man she wants. Run.

Literally every single sorority girl I know (which is quite a few) fit into one of those two personalities. And neither of them are appealing.

I've experienced this first hand and its one of the main reasons why I took the pill in the first place. My "high school sweetheart" I guess you could say, was close to the perfect girl especially for a red piller. She was a pretty, sweat, non-bitchy, non-entitled, down to earth girl, and I was the only guy she had really dated long term or hand sex with. Everything was really great for the first two years of our relationship and even for our first year of college together. That was until she became friends with a few of the classic entitled sorority type girls and decided to join the sorority herself. That was the exact moment she started to change and everything started to go down hill. I urged her not to go down that path but she thought I was being ridiculous, overprotective, controlling etc. Long story short, everything happened the exact way that I feared it would and we were broken up 3 months later. I was honestly very heartbroken for a while but looking back I definitely dodged the bullet and am a better man now.

And the beta of the year award goes to Mr. James Scofield with some Camelot level white-knighting:

"Whoever wrote this article needs to take a look in the mirror and realize that HE is the problem in 2013, not the women who fail to live up to his screwed-up, 1960s, patriarchal expectations of what women should be. If you can't realize that women are EQUAL AND INTELLIGENT HUMAN BEINGS with dreams, expectations, ambition, desires, shortcomings, talents, and brains JUST LIKE MEN, then keep your NEANDERTHAL views to yourself because THE REST OF US are living in 2013.

To put it more bluntly, just because your mom was nice enough to wipe your ass until you were 18 doesn't mean it's some other woman's job now."

Entitled brats in a sorority? Huge surprise.

Sororities bring out the worst in women.

I was dating this girl in college for a while. Things were never perfect, but they sure as hell got worse after she joined the sorority. I was still pretty BP back then, but through her I got to see how important validation and pre-selection are to women.

Incidentally, did you know that some sororities "black-list" guys who they deem unacceptable to date? Well, they aren't black listing the sappy betas. Being on a "black-list" pretty much guarantees you ass.

Hmm... the article failed to mention that they're also sluts.