Never had a problem picking up a chick at the bar on campus. That being said i went thru the escort stage just find a specific type. Sitting at the bar does take time to find what you want and then figure out whats required to accomplish the mission. Getting a room and procuring services i found to be just as time consuming. Sometimes they ended up costing the same. Bar tab. room. Etc.

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When your time is at a premium, you may acknowledge the fact that all human interactions are an exchange of value in some form.

There comes a time for some individuals where you actually lose value by attempting to game women depending on time, location, and circumstances.

Return on investment. If you're in some bumfuck town instead of a bustling metropolitan area, you'll generally have a quicker turn around by calling up a dumb bitch over driving an hour out to hit a city.

Op's post should be deleted.

op has no experience of prossies

op is projecting his own silly insecure assumptions.

op is typical moron posting crap with no experience to base it on.

What does your mentor do for a living?

I believe you can go either way. Maybe your SMV is low, maybe you don't want to pick up women fine, go to an escort. There's abundance, I don't find anything wrong with going to an escort even if you're as young as 20. Sometimes it's the best option if you're working hard on your job, career or studies and don't have time to go date women.

If you can't get laid and want the experience what do you suggest?

This is bullshit. I have no problem getting girls,but I sometimes pay for a piece of pussy whenever I want to,because why not? 1 call and I get served whenever I want,however I want. I pay,do my thing and leave. No asking for relationship or other bullshit i sometimes get from a plate. Also,nobody will blow you like a pro does.

As an initiation into the power of leverage? Sure.

A few times a year after a big score? Sure.

Instead of sex with plates? No.

Because you need xyz to get hard now? No.

If you aren't a street dude, pay a premium for safety. Do not deal with street-level operations.

I found that I fuck much better when having mutiple sex partners. I just get bored if I fuck always the same girl. Fucking an escort once in a while helps me get a high sex drive with all girls. They don't complain that's for sure.

It's not that I'm not worth it. I go to the gym every day, I'm quite jacked, believe me I have no problem with girls.

It's just that sometimes I want to fuck a girl with huge huge tits, like, right now. And that's hard to find. Same with a girl with huge ass. Or a black girl.

Now that I think about it, I fuck too much, ha!

Ive gotten laid off game and bought a hooker the next day just to keep my ego in check and keep the pussy off a pedastal.

Fucked a stripper for free after watching her make 3 grand in 2hrs from shaking her ass at dudes Who would have loved to fuck her... and probably have or would fuck her.

Once agian it put everyhing in perspective. If shes gonna fuck, shes gonna fuck. How you get her to fuck depends on how she feels and what she wants out of YOU.

The same girl you fuck for free, fucks for cash. Same girl who fucks for cash, fucks for fun. Its the perk of having a pussy. Dont hamster it. It is what it is. End of the day are you busting high quality nuts with the chicks YOU want to bust nuts with or are you perpetually jacking your dick to your favirote porn scenes or blowing your load in mediocre chicks that actually gave you the time of day because her wanting you for your "SMV" validates your ego.

I like your point about how there are some people that need to pay because they have some problem and would otherwise be rejected if they tried to pick up a girl on their own. There is also a field of sex therapy which intends to be therapeutic but it is not legal in many states. Prostitution can provide some therapeutic value to men that struggle with sexaul performance, intimacy, or just inexperience. But it should not be relied upon, just like anything else.

If you're invested in a LTR you're paying for sex. Ultimately as men you're paying for sex one way or another. Are you buying anniversary presents, birthday, holiday presents, picking up a tab here and there, paying for concert tickets or some other event even if it's once in a while out of the goodness of your heart? I doubt many, if any guys in a LTR or marriage have their wife or gf pay their own way for everything.... If you weren't getting regular sex from a gf (and not a beta orbiter) would you still be springing for these things? The only reason us guys fall for a LTR is the premise of a steady stream of sex from some chick we find hot and want to keep banging for years to come.

I think of prosties like junk food, it feels good but ultimately won't add any positive value to your life, and can only negatively affect everything in excess. Moderation is key. That said I think every man should pay for it at least once ton hammer into their heads that it's always a transaction

Ive had the exact opposite experience.

"paying for sex says that somewhere deep down you know you arent worthy, attractive, etc"

When I paid for my first blowjob I had those same fears. Thats why I went for the blow and not even sex. Figured id get an encounter out of the way, gain some experience. Since that day almost 2 years ago, ive had sex with 3 girls by my own merit.

The truth is, if youre at a point where youre considering paying for sex and it seems like the only option, its likely true. Its likely that your SMV is very low and the complex you've developed by pedestalizing pussy is keeping it there. Its like how jobs want people with experience but you cant get experience without a job. Which makes it hard as fuck sometimes to get a job until you get your first one.

My first encounter with an escort gave me a real life example of how sex actually works. Its baffling to me how i failed to see how simple it is. You're there, the girls there, you're both naked, your dick is in her mouth. Why the fuck did i think that was so complicated? That one experience gave me a huge confidence boost and lifted the weight of being a sexless loser off my shoulder.

Either way you pay for the pussy somehow. Whether its money up front, the work you put into raising your SMV, or just the gas money/uber charge to get her back home. Does that mean youre not deserving of sex because you had to put forth some sort of effort?

If youre falling into the hooker trap then make it a rule that you cant call up that escort agency until you've done x number of cold approaches, or even gotten a lay on your own merits.

you're teaching yourself that you're not worthy of sex and need to pay for it to have it.

It teaches you that if you want to have sex with a model within 15 seconds of meeting her that you have to pay for it.

FTFY

Maybe, maybe not it’s 2018. I mean if your against I get it but too each their own . Ones in Costa Rica are regulated by government also

There are even some theories that suggest that all human creation from skyscrapers to space exploration is the manifestation of delayed sexual gratification. Essentially, your sex drive is often tied to your drive to achieve things in life.

It is called 'life energy' for a reason. It is not wasted by feeding it to the sex nerves, rather it is re-directed elsewhere. In eastern cultures it's considered something sacred that should not be wasted. Condoms and the pill changed everything though.

When did the Christians start infiltrating The Red Pill sub-Reddit? A bunch of stuck up prudes on here. I'm more offended by the high cost of prostitution. Decent looking bitches want like $300 for an hour in America? Like GTFO with that bullshit. We need to start importing hookers from Thailand.

I tend to agree with point 3. Relationships are a whole job on their own. Anyways, you work hard being a romantic and cultivating relationships, or work hard making money. One way or another, you are working hard and having to pay. Both ways give you experience, both ways make you better specific ways.

Sometimes it's just easier and more cost effective. You can fuck a 9 when "IRL" you could only get a 6. We need to get our fix sometimes and it's a guaranteed return of investment while you work on yourself to attain better "IRL". I also have a soft spot for Latina bimbos with huge fake tits that I probably couldn't get in reality, or aren't my normal type. You don't have to hear anyone's life story or what X friend from work said about Y which pissed off Z.

It's a flavour. Just don't make it a crutch. If you're only paying for whores, then you've got a problem.

IMO it's alright to do this if you have outlets in life you want to focus on but not too much.

Dan Bilzerian has a setup that makes it easier for him to fuck hot women. I find that emasculating and lazy. It is better to keep your hunger for cold approaches and even sparsely do social circle game.

Most men let themselves go after a little success. They are lazy, unimaginative, not greedy enough. I understand that glass floors and ceilings are idiosyncratic but if you are a PUA and you get just a bit of success, it's not alright to just get out.

It's not alright to not invest in yourself and use crutches e.g. I got money so fuck game. You should be as self-dependent as possible.

If you lost all your wealth, income streams would you be alright? How alright? If you lost this (or any other setup), would you still be banging hot broads because going from artisanal pizza back to Pizza hut is going to have severe effects on your psychology. It creates feelings of envy, resentment. It crosses a line in entitlement relative to position. Feelings of powerlessness, low self-esteem, depressive tendencies etc. You may become a feminist, Marxist or something. Begin opening up your life to losers after a humiliation.

It makes you especially vulnerable to being more liberal, self-disrespecting, having an intense identification with the dispossessed, the weak, defeated, the poor, the ugly etc. (Leftist). Being a bleeding heart. Being a hateful, resentful, whiny beat.

Now, when you’re going out trying to learn this stuff, you will tend to be testing, refining, and iterating. When you're a farmer, hunter and a gatherer in many stages of reaping, sowing, killing and harvesting in multiple areas of your life.

You'll be improving yourself, taking the edges, have momentum and breaking free of all dependencies by expanding your capacities in many areas in a self-dependent way. You must need this. Want it.

In learning game, you’ll be doing different stuff, trialing different behaviors, experimenting with different looks, and the like. Discovering new things, applying and deconstructing new social rules and getting better calibrated ...

While there is a general upward pattern toward breakthroughs, often when a breakthrough occurs it will because you happened to do a bunch of things right all at once. It is skill, and it is hard work. Yet it is also luck.

To cement the breakthrough, you need to go back and examine what you did that likely led to the positive outcome, and then you need to go do it again. You must repeat it. And then repeat it again. And repeat it again.

If you’re able to continue achieving similar levels of success with the new elements you’ve added to your game or presentation (or both), you solidify that as a gain. You learn, conclusively, that this combination of elements and this approach works. You become confident that these ingredients lead to this outcome.

Does an alpha man not want to raise his sister's alongside him? To be a leader and take us somewhere better together, brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers, sons and daughters.

We want to bring these women out of those jobs. If that was my mother, my sister I'd drag her out of that job by her hair. It would be hypocritical of me to continue indulging in this mud.

In this world. Your money is your vote. Why are we creating this horror.