TL;DR: Next two girls who knew each other. They went apeshit for validation
Okay. So a little context of my field report first. I'm a college student, currently studying my 3rd year. I started swallowing TRP last year. Needless to say, it was just what i needed. I began to work out, get a well-paid job as a tutor, socialize more, solving my relationship with family members. I really feel like I am heading in the right direction for my life.
So, besides those things, i also spend time gaming girls. Anytime i have a chance to meet a girl in my campus, i make small talks, get numbers, maybe even social accounts. It's not always successful , but it improved my confidence a lot.
A few weeks ago i got texted my this girl on social media ( Let's call her Girl A ). Short. A 6/10 on her best day. We texted, exchanged logistics. She was interested so we met up at a coffee shop for talking and drinking. Girl A had just broken up with her boyfriend so she started finding new guys ( emotional tampons ). I wasn't interested one bit. Next her real fast.
Afterward Girl A came back from the date and started telling her classmates bout me. Another girl ( Girl B), was curious, so she started checking me out on social media. She was definitely interested. We talked for a bit. Again, She's another chick looking for emotional tampons. Next .
After i ended my conversation with Girl B, I noticed that both girls started posting statuses on social media. Some vague lines about how all men are trash and horny and hopeless and all good men are dead. Also some stupid lines glorifying Beta behaviours. I didn't really care much. Though, i should have blocked these girls from the beginning, after nexting them . We were still friends on social media at that moment.
Fast foward to a few days later, i came home from work just to found out that they had been posting vague statuses that clearly refered to me ( for "lolz and giggles"), saying that i was a selfish fuckboy who steps on everyone to reach his goals, saying that i should have texted them back. Did i also mention that they constantly tagged each other in these posts ?
However, i didn't flinch. I held my ground and didn't say a thing to them. I couldn't tolerate that amount of disrespect. I still keep them on my friendlist til this day. Sometimes , i go out with other girls, taking selfies just to see how crazy they can get. So far, they're still being butt-hurted.
I can never understand why these girls think that after just a date and a few texts, i have the responsibility to commit to them.
Lesson: Women can't handle rejection. They're hungry for validation, just like children.
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SKRedPill 5y ago
And this link deserves an Oscar (no seriously, read it):
https://www.unilad.co.uk/relationships/woman-reacts-terribly-to-being-rejected-by-guy-she-friendzoned/
She wanted the pleasure of rejecting him, not the other way around.
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cherrypicker27 5y ago
100% agree. Back in college I told a hot girl that I only saw her as a friend, and she gave me a look on her face as if the sky was falling. Fast forward an entire year later, I walked past her and she blatantly rolled her eyes at me. Hilarious.
sciew 5y ago
What kind of trashy women do you go out with? Jesus
Zech4riah 5y ago
Still waiting something like this to happen to me. Most women handle the rejection very well.
Of course the case may be that I choose the girls I hang out with or date really carefully so the girls I interact with never dare to challenge me.
Barvazon 5y ago
Lesson - don't add random girls to social media
iCeeYouP 5y ago
Can confirm. I've been privileged enough to reject generally good looking women, and they went fucking ballistic. Think incel sperg gone super saiyan.
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I called a 10 a bitch in a bar (she was acting terrible) and got stalked by her for a month until I quit my place of employment.
Ya, bitches be crazy.
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If a girl calls you a fuckboy, it means she totally in your frame. Well done lad
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Mach2Machiavellian 5y ago
Hahaha TRUTH. I’ll never forget the time a girl outright called me a fuckboy to my face, on our first date.
We were fucking by the second.
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tempolaca 5y ago
>If a girl calls you a fuckboy, it means she totally in your frame. Well done lad
It depends. I've had a girl in my fucking bed, stand up and leave, telling as excuse that I'm a fuckboy. Yes that was typical LMR, recognized it, tried to fight it (push pull, etc), didn't work. Setup a date for later, but she fucked another guy and exited my life.
Being called a fuckboy might seem you are on the good track, or might be an excuse to leave. Depends on the tone.
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Yea I've had similar experiences. My rule of thumb is if they are mad enough to start name calling, it's usually because they realize they have no real power and can't control the direction of the interaction. Sometimes they chase, sometimes they leave. It's why I don't focus on the outcome, girls are just pretty distractions
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HandsomeCub 5y ago
Let me unpack this: she calls you a fuckboy, because she interested enough to care, but annoyed you "broke it off"
anon35201 5y ago
When women verbally attack men they have no formal or informal relationship with, it's a shit test and means they're totally crushing for you. See: https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia She's the femine descendants of alpha fucker tournament species, she will be nothing but trouble and strife all your days. If you were raised in the Church proverbs 31 has specific guidance to leave these women alone to let that genetic line die out.
You think this is something new under the sun, but here, see the same phenomenon seen to occur up to 800 thousand years ago, in our ancestors 3500 times removed: See: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6fv9KtPGN0 At 0:31 seconds you can see uncontrollable female flirting and affection quickly turn to uncontrollable violence. This DNA code still exists in humans and can be seen to occur in women in heat.
Part of the reason why men 3500 years ago insisted that women not be put into positions of authority over men is because they are slaves to their sexual urges and motherly instincts and practice those ideologies at the national level, and that politics is bankrupt. Evolution abhors and self sabotages any ship of the Valkyries. That's not to say all women can't be leaders, but a majority of women have very strong uncontrollable sexual and motherly tendencies that contaminate their entire reason for being. Men are emotionally disconnected enough to practice objective statecraft, while women not only cannot, but for the most part cannot even be taught to. Hear this concept from a PHD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQHH6o9ual8
SKRedPill 5y ago
Notice that feminine dominated societies tend to behave like a giant hypergamous engine that runs on socialist welfare and allows itself to decline to be taken over by another stronger civilization?
halfback910 5y ago
Yeah, it's true. My last boss told me I reminded her of her son. Could do no wrong. One time a colleague in another department got slightly shitty at me and my boss tried to get her fired.
The irony is she was a halfway decent boss and I wish she had been my mother.
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halfback910 5y ago
I've done that too. You'll just have clients telling you what to do. I prefer bosses to clients. Clients generally have lower switching costs than bosses. And clients have a more adversarial relationship with you. A decent boss will close ranks with you in many occasions. Even the best client almost never will.
I work with a lot of vendors representing my company as thr client/customer. I would not want to have to deal with me. Buyers and supply chain folks/negotiators for clients or customers exhibit hypergamous behavior at its finest. I know I do.
halfback910 5y ago
A: I don't work for honor. That's retarded. I work for money. Only children and the indigent have the luxury of thinking working is about your feelings.
B: I'm no longer there as my comment stated.
If you want to get paid in feelings, go into charity, kid.
0kool74 5y ago
DAYUM!!!!!!!!!! Talk about getting NUKED from high orbit.
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halfback910 5y ago
Work is what you do to FUND your life.
By all means if you want work to be about your feefees go into charity.
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halfback910 5y ago
I'm not saying it's separate from existence. This isn't a philosophy course. I'm saying that I work because I have to to get the things I want. And I'm actively working, saving, and investing to NOT have to work ASAP.
If I had millions of dollars I wouldn't fucking work. If work is what you love, then you DO work for feelings. Go right ahead, more power to you. I fucking don't. I work for money. I'm in a good field that I like, but I'd quit tomorrow if I were rich.
Not at the lifestyle I want.
RedPillCoach 5y ago
Good job feeding us quotes from Scripture and packaging them so nicely!
> they are slaves to their sexual urges and motherly instincts and practice those ideologies at the national level
I think it is more accurate to say they are slave to their emotions. The sexual urges and motherly instincts are just a window on their emotions which is all that matters to them. Of course the conclusion is the same.
RedPlanetMan 5y ago
Where do you figure it says to let a group of women genetically die off? Why would God have such a thing occur?
anon35201 5y ago
Hmm looks like my brain is convolving, consolidating and adapting information without my consent.
I meant to say: Proverbs 2:16 through 2:20 and Proverbs 5:3 through 5:8. The writer, supposedly one of the God-kings of the world at the time writing advice for his son, speaks about the woman who's tongue goes from the smoothness as oil to the sharpness of swords, ending with an instruction to stay very far away from her. Telling him to let that old way die out.
It's part of the bible studies on the carnal woman, the worldly woman who is a slave to her ancient brain limbic system, the one in the cat video I linked above where affection and violence go together. Some humans are genetically closer to ferocious rodents than of sensible adults who have their ancient brains in check.
God is evolving humans up and away from the rodents we once were 800 thousand years ago, he's continuing this through evolution and natural selection. This guidence is manifest through the teachings of the Bible, through king David in proverbs 1 through ten. All men should give it a solid read. If you don't believe in evolution, then you don't yet have the foundation to understand the timeless magnitude of the wisdom he was trying to lay down. The people who wrote the bible were extremely privvy to natural selection and evolution, and numerous times used the phenomenon to extort and manipulate their enemies. It's comical that people today mostly don't believe in it. I guess it's a testimony that most people have brains in their heads, but only use it as a recording and regurgitation device.
Fyrjefe 5y ago
The best and the worst of women and men show up in the Bible, especially the OT. Great post. Interesting exegesis. Though many people discount scripture in these days because of those few who deny science and evolution, there are many tools in the Good Book that help us understand ourselves and the way societies go and come around. All in all, we constantly need to put this stuff to the test and see what comes of it. The Endorsed around here constantly call us to engage in our encounters, and I don't see how religious belief isn't something we can use to help us with our direction and goals. To those who have a trigger moment when The Bible is quoted, try having an open mind. And keep lifting.
Peace, brother.
SKRedPill 5y ago
Religion has a lot of red pill truths, but organized religion's solution for that is to turn into the biggest betaizing engine on earth.
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RedPillCoach 5y ago
My Coaching Website (www.coaching4men.com) describes my wife in terms of Proverbs 31. I hope at least a few people recognize it:
> I have been married to a "strong independent" Christian woman for 25 years and we are the parents of 3 children. Shelie is a lawyer and a Certified Public Accountant (CPA and tax lawyer, yes really) who looks well after the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. While we have had our share of struggles I sing her praises and am pleased to call her blessed. Her children do as well. As the Good Book teaches: Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised.
There is an awful lot of Red Pill knowledge in that Book.
Way to many women get hung up on "submission" in the New Testament and ignore Proverbs which clearly describes a thrifty businesswoman who takes care of her family and gets up before light so she can attend to her servants and her many businesses. A good woman is not mousy and submissive to the world but rather she ships commerce all over the world, buys land and improves it.
However, a truly "Noble Woman respects and submits to her husband. Of course this is also explained in the Book:
> Though I have searched repeatedly, I have not found what I was looking for. Only one out of a thousand men is virtuous, but not one woman!
SR1G4 5y ago
Dude, you can learn moral stories from the Bible. But, if you blindly follow any rekigious text as a zealot then you are a subjugated fool.
anon35201 5y ago
ha, there's an if-then statement if I ever saw one. Where did you get that definition of fool?
A word fool isn't exchangeable with: "I don't like.. " or "I don't agree with..."
Yet here you are, running away from the ideology that western civilization handed you, and tracking in toward principles hammered out 2500 years ago.
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SR1G4 5y ago
Peterson sounds dumb. Read how you type.
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SR1G4 5y ago
Overcompensating for a small weiner. Sorry, you are not more intelligent or respected than Jordan Peterson.
skyancez 5y ago
Amen man. I just rejected this 5 this past friday (i met her through tinder and kept talking cause she was into some freaky/similar shit that i am) because i wasnt looking to hangout with her and be her emotional tampon, just fuck for practice (and flirting practice too, new to this redpill meta). She wanted to be going out getting coffee and other shit once, twice a week if not more. And she's got a beta boy she's in an open relationship with. Anyway, i wanted none of that anymore cause i barely found her attractive after meeting in person. Text her saying thanks but no thanks, not what im looking for. Well this sweet girl 180'd and sends essays cursing me out and calling me full of shit, yadda yadda. Probably her first rejection in a while, somehow. I was so glad to have kept to redpill knowledge and not even try to fight or continue with her, bitches are crazy once you tell them you don't want them.
Mach2Machiavellian 5y ago
Acquire more of them and build a hate/fan club. Then, if you’re lucky, one of them will see you out somewhere, act all crazy around you, and you’ll have all the social proof you need in front of the girl(s) you actually want.
“That girl’s crazy. I turned down a second date with her and now she’s acting all psycho.”
New girl’s internal thoughts: What is it about this guy that’s making girls act like this? I must find out!
Later, new girl also goes crazy and joins your orbit. Rinse, repeat.
Gearski 5y ago
Sounds like a good way to get murdered by your cult...
Mach2Machiavellian 5y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ADxFPQZAlJw
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Squidward voice "... that idea just might be crazy enough..."
ivkemilioner 5y ago
You don't owe anything to them!!! ????????????
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
> I can never understand why these girls think that after just a date and a few texts, i have the responsibility to commit to them
They want what you could offer, therefore they own you, so why aren't you paying up already, fukboi ??
SKRedPill 5y ago
Committing cheaply is man whoring...
ajayhemant 5y ago
They can handle rejection. Most difficult thing for them to handle in indifference. Cold indifference.
Avesatanie 5y ago
They can handle indifference if they are indifferent towards you.
JJ3314 5y ago
I think they hate both, but I think withdrawing when you are already in a committed relationship is what they absolutely hate.
ajayhemant 5y ago
Since girls are by default selectors, you can't reject them as such. Only way of rejection is cold indifference.
Mach2Machiavellian 5y ago
Oh, they hate rejection too. It’s one of the reasons why they generally take absolutely no initiative – mortal fear of rejection.
In fact, they hate it so much that they will sometimes suddenly find themselves pursuing a guy they initially didn’t want, just because the guy preemptively told them to get lost.
jihocech 5y ago
I read an interview with a psychologist who works for a brothel. He told there, that part of the money men pay to prostitutes is for the possibility to choose the girl they want. And that it is sometimes hard for the whores when the customers are not interested in them - not for the money, but attention.
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A psychologist who works for a whore house. Now that's the job I want lol.
AHumilationADay 5y ago
Dear god the daddy issues you'd hear day in and out
Mach2Machiavellian 5y ago
I can imagine. It’s enough of a blow to the ego when someone refuses to buy your art (for example), I could only imagine how it would be if the thing for sale is you.
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mlgpc 5y ago
Who cares what they say or post??
Best thing to do is block them and move on with your life.
Taxidriver98 5y ago
shit, fuck them bitches. honestly brother keep on moving on your journey and catching mad tail :p thanks for sharing.
Tdemps01 5y ago
Wait you met them once and they are posting vague statuses like that about you for not texting back? dogged a bullet there pal
lucasblake69 5y ago
It's insane. What's more insane is that some Blue Pill dude i know told me : "Dude you should apologize to them. You made them mad" This is why we're only accquaintances
TheEnglishman28 5y ago
Ask that guy how long ago he built his cuck shed.
mleko69 5y ago
Damn, are that levels of betaness even possible?
izaacibanez97 5y ago
Almost as bad as male feminists
SKRedPill 5y ago
You haven't seen what the blue pill is capable of then...
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Frich3 5y ago
she was probably just getting you to finally respond to her so she could have the unread text notification on her phone to try and look cool. Plenty of women do it. They think it's cool to have 300 unread text messages from guys but when you dont respond then they keep bothering you until they spike an emotion out of you and you respond. Then they wont respond.
lucasblake69 5y ago
Damn. A stock photo .She was really scraping the barrel huh ?
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Stron2g 5y ago
Serious side question - why are tattoos seen as attractive I notice every person my age (early 20s) seems to have at least one
nitefuzz 5y ago
They aren't - they've just become more popular due to changing fashion trends. I should really get into the tattoo removal business because in the next 1-2 decades, there's gonna be a lot of money to be made.
victor_knight 5y ago
Very true.
AmazingNone 5y ago
I think if you consider these girls a below 6, you shouldn't care or waste time anyway, only maybe some flirting so you can boost your confidence if that's your intent.
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Yep, social media gives them that. Don't react, keep it moving.
oldrunnerguy 5y ago
The fat shaming tactic that NeinNoNon9 mentioned, know it well. Women complain about the fact that they got more fat cells, but when you talk about their diet and their actual amount of exercise you understand the reasons for their problem. I see many of these women, about my age (I am 55), having to ride around in a powered cart at Walmart. I don't even believe it was that prevalent in my mom's generation. It's not just an issue about looking good, it's about taking care of yourself. It's a personal responsibility issue. One thing a man can't do for them is exercise and keep them in good health. They only want us to accept them and pay for their health insurance.
HyperSensitiveSigma 5y ago
I think we can. I tell all my FWB if they ever get fat I will put a chain around their neck and drag them to the exercise bike. They tell me I'm a jerk but I know they like it. They fear getting old and fat and are looking for a man who can lend them the discipline they need to look good as they age, even in a short term relationship.
With junk food, "it makes you unhealthy" is a weak argument. But telling them it makes you stink, gives you bad skin and causes hair loss makes them listen. I always drag them to healthy restaurants and they seem to like it.
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What is it about junk food that gives you bad skin? Is it the chemicals in it, or is it one of the macros that need to be kept in check? I’m trying to clean up my diet a bit, drinking water, doing intermittent fasting, taking a multi etc., skin tips are important to me.
TheObservationalist 5y ago
Devil is in the simple sugars
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michaelrym 5y ago
My dear boy, you should have paid more attention in school. This phenomenon has been described hundreds of years ago:
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
No, I won't tell you who wrote that. You'll have to find out yourself.
RedPilledRoaster 5y ago
Damn good job man, you didn’t unfollow them on social media! What a fucking alpha
7mile_ 5y ago
Ahhh an example of first world problems. "I came home one day and saw they posted vague statuses on their social media". OMG how are you going to handle this tragedy? Will you be OK??
Grow the fuck up
eatavacado 5y ago
Agreed. People who post vague comments about being upset at someone through social media posts aren’t even worth noticing. Why are you even thinking about them, OP? You don’t need to.
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TheRedPike 5y ago
Don't hotlink other subs.
But yeah, we work really hard to make sure no other sub has to deal with our little corner of the world, but they rarely share the same courtesy.
What I can't figure out is why TheRedPike hasn't been banned from anywhere...
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TheRedPike 5y ago
Don't worry about it. It's one of those things we need to be paranoid about given our mission, but most of reddit just ignores. This is why no one has ever been banned for it and they won't be. (FYI, automod is who removes the posts.)
That said, despite your post getting removed I wanted to point out that I appreciated what you said.
blue-jean 5y ago
One theory, and I only present it as food for thought, is that validation isn't it. Instead, women have a pre-programmed mating ritual that entails rejecting a few men before accepting one. This is just a subconscious programme they follow rather than a consciously developed plan.
Now, if they can't find those men to reject (because the men reject them first) they can't reach the accepting stage of the ritual. So they can't cop off in a natural way (they might force themselves to prove a point, but it feels bad for them).
adonis_forte 5y ago
As a man I know there are rooms or places on the planet where no woman will find me desirable and that is okay. However a woman without a makeup and wearing a trash bag will still feel entitled to male attention wherever she goes.
NoSurrender94 5y ago
So make up and good clothes makes an attractive woman?
adonis_forte 5y ago
I was mostly making a point about women’s entitlement for attention since it relates to the topic about rejection. With social media, women get validation and approval for low effort (just wear leggings and point your buttocks at the camera). As a black guy I’m part of a race where women are just known for having big butts so the women are super arrogant. Unfortunately these women have no hair. Their confidence goes up and down depending on when they last got a pack of horse hair to attach to their heads. So you will see a fat gorilla faced woman with long hair and a big butt act as if every man on the planet wants her and if they don’t then they must be gay or blind. TLDR; I ranted.
NoSurrender94 5y ago
I agree. It’s the same with make up.
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dontseemecoming 5y ago
Why are you checking their social media on a daily basis?
lucasblake69 5y ago
I don't . They just appear on my news feed
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