I dropped 6 friends that i've been with since high-school because I simply wanted more in life ans they couldn't follow my new path and on the contrary they would criticize, downgrade, and make fun of my new-found direction.

That's when I realized that in order to achieve what I wanted to achieve and to live the life I wanted to leave I had to 'cut down the weights' holding me down.

It wasn't an abrupt process like 'fuck you guys, I'm never hanging out with you again'. Instead it was a slow-ish separation: less spending time with them, refusing certain invitations, trying to meet more like-minded people, etc.

In the end they ALL faded out of my life without even realizing when the breaking point happened. It just happened gradually and naturally.

And it was one of the best decision of my life. They're happy, i guess, I'm happy and it all worked out for the best.

holy shit, part of me doesn't want to believe this is a real story. I mean I have some cringeworthy BP stories myself but this is like a new level of BP

Try leading by example. Let him see you crushing it with multiple attractive women and eventually he'll want to come around to your way of thinking.

I stopped reading at they didn’t fuck because “she may like it so much that she’ll cheat on him.” How do you hang out with dudes like this? Who accept that kind of shit?

It's quite depressing, but you're not going to convince your BP friends to digest the RP. They have to actively want it. In their bizarre world it's "misogynistic thinking". I am not going to tell you what to do, but I had to ditch my BP friends. They'll start to resent you, not now, not tomorrow, but soon.

"She didnt want to have sex because she may like it so much she will cheat on him"

If someone told me this IRL I wouldnt be able to get a boner for at least a week from laughing so hard

Quit trying to change people to satisfy your need for approval of newfound ideology

Get that approval yourself by testing the waters

life’s too short to hang around friends that don’t appreciate you.

took me a long time to learn but do your own shit and let the right people align themselves with you. you don’t need to be enemies but don’t waste your own time either.

Take all that time you put into helping your friends "relationship" and put it back into yourself.

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn

Good on you for leaving them. Nothing sucks worse than realize how much time you wasted hanging out with losers that are quick to throw you under the bus because you have a point and they don't see it.

Go find some winners to spend time with.

Guys that:

• Challenge you
• Make you want to find a passion and work into it
• Support you
• Give you shit when you're being shit

that's all wrong. forget the dude. he will come back begging one day.

Why do we keep having to go over this? Keep trp to yourself, you're only spitting in the wind.

Is it some kind of ego validation you're in on some big secret? Can we please can these threads already?

Just like every man has to swallow the red pill on his own after getting hurt, you internalize the first rule of fight club after you try to convert a BP friend. Happens to all of us.

Nice group of friends you have there op. Should have stopped pressing here at the very latest " From day 1 of getting with her, he was always thinking about her 24/7. Texting her even when we were in the movie theatre, while the movie is playing. " It's clear this guy is lost in the sauce, better to let these types of people do their own things. Don't try to change girls or "friends" . Maybe small details like a new set of tires or changing the sound system. You can't turn a civic into a bmw.

Just know before you try to convert people to a new ideology that it is very hard to play the messianic archetype in life. Its something only people like jesus / mohammed / buddha / sadhguru can really pull off. It is a lifestyle. Unless you are truly one of these people i think you can gain the most from just swallowing the pill.

Yeah, just give your honest opinion. If they can't even understand that you just want to help them, then just ghost them. they can't learn/adapt. Losers. You don't want loser friends.

Why are you surrounding yourself with such miserable failures

You need some new friends STAT

Get better friends. What the fuck is this cucked shit trying to help people who can’t help themselves. God refused to help them, so should you.

Good riddance. They did you a favor by freeing up slots for people who you might actually have real fun with.

I've found rewording the advice to an objective view makes things easier for BPs to absorb. I've done this with success multiple times. Avoid the active criticism, lest you hurt their feels. It's all about technique. If they still won't absorb it, then let them live their lives in ignorance, and eventually misery with a nagging hag.

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"Fill a glass with water and put it on the table. Don't ask people around the table to have it. Eventually, a thirsty one will grab it."

This is how you should approach those friends.

Crabs in a bucket. Let them fail together.

Why do you care? Fuck him. Friends like that are an anchor around your neck. They are losers. And you know who has losers for friends?

This is why you don't share TRP lmao.

The first rule of Fight Club...

I had violent cringe convulsions at almost every new paragraph in this post. OP, do you want to know what the best thing is that has ever happened to you? This:

I end up getting dissed by the entire group of friends.

Time to celebrate! You had the weakest fucking group of friends, dude. Weakest. Ever.

Losing friends is a great indicator that you are improving. Nothing sounds good or constructive about these guys. Enjoy your new life!

The truth is that BP will remain their ways forever. You can NOT change their minds on these kind of things. They will cling to their BP ways that society dictates them to.

Best you can do is explain lightly to them in laymen terms. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink it.

Also, don't get butt-hurt over the fact that your buddies are all BP. Don't judge em for it, but don't feel sorry for them when they fuck up too. Offer some advice, and if they take it then they take it. If not, move on--you guys are still buddies.

You did all you could...is your friend an incel? he sounds really pathetic.

Classic story, but not very representive, since you're still kids. How many GF/plates did you ever have and fuck?

BluePill should be treated like alcoholism, these people have to want to change to actually change.

Chubby chasing is weird, especially when your friends are going to pieces over a land whale. You just kinda want to grab them and shake them while yelling "throw a dog a bone sometimes but don't let them become your life!!". I would say to each their own but I think this perpetuation of fat acceptance /idolizing has had a marked negative impact on society ranging from health problems to overly dramatic fattys trying to out compete skinny chicks with volume, sluttyness, and mass. Your friend is lucky he didn't break a hip letting her be on top, oh wait, no sex....right...blue balls make a man do dumbass shit.

"They have to WANT to change"

That is exactly right. I will also add that often times, people need to think that they came to the epiphany themselves for them to truly internalize it.

A lot of us at TRP know that a lot of guys will never really change their habits until they get repeatedly crapped on over and over again. Then they will start to realize that maybe, just maybe what they had been conditioned to believe isn't actually true.

What's going on with your friend is textbook inexperience and scarcity mentality. I'm willing to bet that in 4-5 years or after a few more times this happens, he will look back on this and be like "wow, I was such a freakin' loser", adopt all of the advice you have already internalized, and start to get his shit together bit by bit.

It's the way it goes. All you can really do is kick back, get some popcorn and watch the developments unfold. Oh, and if you find they are ruining your life, cut them off.

Only the converted will tolerate proselytisers.

If a persons actions don't interfere with your life, allow them the right to be wrong.

Run away from the entire bunch.

A situation like this is what led me to seeking out new truths and inevitably trp. Maybe this will be a wake up call for him too