INTRO
Notes to the BluePilled errant heroically reading posts of his sworn enemies :
Will this post stroke my gigantic ego ? Yes, I am sharing my thoughts
Will this post imply that it seems better to be a male than a female ? Yes, to each one his tastes
Will this post omit all wrongs that males do to women ? Yes, we don't need to be remembered THE OBVIOUS.
Will this post be misread by horny teenagers who will later be on the news for killing their colleagues and enslaving their girlfriends ? Yes, As with any bit of text on internet, or any book.
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Do you have those moments when simple thoughts lead you to discover a whole new perspective, like a light bulb illuminates a dark room ? It always amazed me, and makes me wish I could see those tiny little brain cells getting overexited after having what we call an "idea". Conscience is a crazy complex product of nature.
I will try to be short, you have plenty of other memes and half-made-up field reports to look at today :
I do not share the hateful/cringey side of TRP which is usually useful as a cure for people who were truly hurt by life. However I am forever thankful for getting a clearer understanding on the dynamics of attraction, this has been more than beneficial to me since I unplugged from the Disney fantasies. The bit where I still get salty about is that I have never seen a single woman in my life being straight up honest to her man about her intentions - it was never out of purely bad intentions : She simply had no idea what was going on in her head.
As most of you, I see these truths everywhere. To list a few :
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Friend in a 5 years relationship with a cute - but beta - man : Giving IOI to the first rugby player entering the room.
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Interested woman giving me the fuck-me eyes, while dancing a slow with her boyfriend. She told me earlier that she was not in "anything official", he did not say the same. She is a perfectly sane women, with a perfectly fine boyfriend.
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Caught a colleague going to another capital, to cheat on her BF. He suggested to come along, she said "that was not polite to bring uninvited people in a guest listed party". He simply said "I understand" and was happy with it. He still has no idea to this day.
- ONS with a fine Christian woman, only to find out she was getting married a few months later. Go figure.
But today it is different, I caught myself red handed. Not in bed - this time - but at work.
I am a valuable employee in a niche speciality, quite demanded. It allows me to go in any major city and get a job within a few days, I also often get unsolicited offers and cold calls from recruiters. What a privilege, right ? Like I am some sort of work-HB9 ? I have now reached a position in the best company of my city, and I am starting to look into moving to other cities - to spice up my life.
I could have told my superior a straight "I am considering leaving this company, I want something else", but no. I felt like this would unnecessarily cut me from potential opportunities. So instead I told him that I would take an extended break to visit some countries, and come back next winter when they need me the most. He said there was no issues at all, and that the contract would stay rolling during my leave, then I got the usual professional dick-sucking speech about valuable employees.
I might come back at this job, I might not. I'll make up an excuse, whatever sounds best.
You can call me stupid, but I had never realised that I was purely branch-swinging, corrupting my own logic and loyalty for a chance to get a spicier life. It is crazy to realise how every time I have been honest in my professional life, people would naturally try to manipulate me with it. Think of it as when Mandy tells Billy that they have to break up. Billy goes on and on talking about all these experiences they had, all they built together, and how he will be nothing without her. Mandy is troubled and feels guilty, she will never talk to another Billy that way in the future. No instead she will prefer to "take a break", and see what she can get out there, then make up an excuse for not coming back.
I do change of employer every year or so, for convenience and increased value. As Mandy, I can't deal with their whining every single time.
Comparing human attraction to professional attraction does bring me to two other concepts :
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I will, at some point, hit "the wall" if I don't make the effort to have an exponential growth. Being charismatic and smart isn't enough in the long run, this might even be my prime-time.
- I am the female in the professional world : I do get fucked, working for someone else's profit, and I like it. Employers try their best to have me in their bed and provide me with a simpler life.
Well - any decent employee already knows those facts. However it now motivates me to become the employer instead of the employee. Like a sparkle I had been missing for a long time.
CONCLUSION
All Humans Are Like That. There are rules of physics, we can't break those.
Don't be pissed at what women, betas or bad parents are. You might as well shout at an orange for tasting bitter. Get down your fucking horse, You are not made out of purer flesh.
Read up about Power Talk, it is not something only "smart people" do, nor a secret society. It is a simple defence mechanism to being too demanded in a dishonest world. I did it for years without even noticing. It is the basis of flirting and any attractive person develops some form of it.
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Females are 1 standard deviation above men in self-deception, deception and guile. Like there is an average, and broad, intersex gap in physical force, so there is one in cunning self-lying and lying.
It's about trait distribution and averages, not about horses, and bolded cool-guy soundbites.
This one perhaps merits bolding though: you tell neither your work colleagues/seniors that you "love them" as you play your wars and battles of exploitation and deception with them, nor are you so hollow that you need telling yourself such a platitude as that you "love them"
What you say is: females are such beings that war, deceive, and exploit their intimate "love" relations the same way as a socially adept man does strangers. I still see horses, definitely.
RandyBumgardner85 6y ago
I had two close friends who started businesses at a young age (a plumber and an electrician). They went from having to slave away for peanuts from the master to suddenly being in high demand from scores of clients and handling more money than they'd ever seen. Both of them allowed the illusion of abundance to severely effect their personality and basically turned into arrogant narcissistic arseholes. Both drove their businesses into the ground within 18 months through pure arrogance and incompetence. They had completely and fatally overestimated their value. They both returned to employment afterwards but with none of the drive they previously had, now just resentfully struggling through the years of low pay until retirement.
This is much the same as the young women who experiences the abundance of Alpha dick on the cock carousel in her early 20's. She completely overestimates her own value and ruthlessly avoids anything that looks like a sure, dependable long term option until it's too late. When she does finally settle into a relationship she is damaged goods.
I also started a business in my early 20's. I was careful, didn't try to expand too quickly, nurtured anything that resembled a good long term business prospect and went to great lengths to strengthen the relationship. I spent far more effort on maintaining current, reliable prospects than seeking out new ones. I acknowledged the fact that much of the money I was handling was not mine. I didn't get greedy, I didn't act like a millionaire, I led a frugal life and saved everything I could.
I now own a nice house with no mortgage, 2 vehicles and have significant money in investment funds at the age of 32.
If women behaved like this they'd be much happier once they hit the wall.
PhilospherMalcolm 6y ago
This was very difficult to read, your grammar is atrocious.
_Ulan_ 6y ago
I am flattered that you went all the way to create a new account to inform me about it. English is not my first language indeed
Flawless44 6y ago
No excuses needed. I thought you were as eloquent as needed to be to make the point. He might be butthurt.
Mr-Ed209 6y ago
Very good.
The job analogy works on quite a few levels as well. One of the things I felt even before TRP was a feeling of being inexperienced at dating - in comparison to women of my age. And it's true, because women have waaay more value from pretty much 15. They date and trade around and work out how to maximise their returns in a dating sense. They get the virtue of figuring out how the game works because they have value.
When men enter the 'dating around' marketplace at whatever age they hit their stride (normally around 22 at the earliest) they're naive and open to a lot of manipulation - similar to a naive graduate candidate. They're vulnerable to snapping up the first offer of an underpaid/overworked offer.
As you gain value your vulnerability to manipulation decreases because you can more freely say no when somebody tries to sell you a dud deed. That's the value of abundance.
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It's really grim what happened to Billy and Mandy's relationship.
Gozsayin1 6y ago
She was sleeping with grim when Billy was at work
smyger 6y ago
Hahaha i just find it funny how cynical and brutally honest you are, but you are speaking the truth
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WonderfulNinja 6y ago
And fits reality with shocking accuracy.
Just think about interns: young, naive, inexperienced that want to get fucked for free.
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qx4758 6y ago
Men and women are the same, in different ways. A man works with his hands, women work on their backs. Men sweat and toil for employers that don't appreciate them, women spread their legs for men they find repulsive.
throwlaca 6y ago
Holy shit, the men's professional wall. This hit me hard. Too often I see job request in my industry asking for 20-35 yo men. IT's the wall. I'm going to be 40 in some months. I bet I will be asking "were all the good jobs went".
Good that I'm my own boss now but you never know.
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Shit like this makes me want to kill myself
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[deleted] 6y ago
Yes, sure! They are exactly the same thing, and every one of us can do what Mandy does, it's proved by our doing it in business issues. Or isn't it?
Gimme a break with your fucking
I am not a cowardly pile of garbage like Mandy, there's so much difference as between two separate species between me and Mandy, and Mandy's predator-level ease to soul-kill has nothing to do with how cynically and coldly we can, or have to, behave in the professional sphere.
AzJack 6y ago
This times a gazillion. Brilliant and insightful post. AHALT.
brutalanglosaxon 6y ago
Ha brilliant analogy. I've never thought of it like this before. This is a great way to understand the inner workings of a womans mind.
You've gotta make sure that you're always improving yourself and always a better option to her than any other opportunities that she has.
Redpillandrew 6y ago
I read the same concept in another post, days ago, came in another formula. It probably inspired you, if you read it. All I have too say is that too much - to delusional - entitlement can affect you: both the often courted woman and the man
_Ulan_ 6y ago
Link it if you remember it, can be useful for someone doing some lurking later on
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BurnoutRS 6y ago
"will this post stroke my ego" thank you for addressing this. Its kind of a natural human behaviour. You write from your perspective, about your life.
See Ive been a straight A student most of my life. I never studied, never did homework, always brought home the grades. If I start telling you about my past and I omit this character detail, you dont get as much of a sense of who I was. The context isnt as strong. Do I get something out of writing about myself? Well yeah it strengthens my sense of self, it allows me a chance to be a little prideful. Its also fucking relevant to the story.
Flawless44 6y ago
If you're still in high school and gonna go to college you need to fix that. It will not work there. Waaaaay too mad by people learn this the hard way.
Concepts are less intuitive, less time is devoted to them, and there are a lot more of them. You cannot just pay attention in class and get away with it. Maybe for the first year if you're really good at it, but as you start getting into 300 lvl classes, you will start failing and won't graduate in 4 years.
Trust me, your GPA will thank both of us.
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[deleted] 6y ago
Very good post.I have enjoyed it.
scruffys_enigma 6y ago
Any recommendations for audiobooks with a solid chapter on Power Talk and how to get better at it?
[deleted] 6y ago
Just like women, men have a wall.
You need to become your own boss by the time you're 40. You need to be comfortably established for retirement by 50.
No matter how "valuable" of an employee you are, eventually you'll be eclipsed by that one younger, hotter intern who's willing to do more for less.
Make sure that you have something to show for all your hard work. Something that will keep you out of a retirement home.
reluctantly_red 6y ago
These ages vary a lot by field and geography. I'm 53 and still one of the younger attorneys at the local courthouse.
hammerhearth 6y ago
I appreciate the humblebrag
kenpachitz 6y ago
Why these ages in particular?
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Do you really want to be calling a guy half your age "boss" by 40?
Do you really want to be doing shit for someone else after 50?
My guess is no. You only live once, don't waste it being a slave for someone else.
kenpachitz 6y ago
I agree with the overall sentiment. I meant that I'm curious about why specifically make 40 and 50 the cutoffs versus say 30 and 40, respectively.
I'm 24, so I'm curious why those numbers.
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They're more cutoffs, generally, than goal posts. The earlier the better, honestly.
Buy yourself a shipping container and convert it into a TinyHome. Buy some land and set down roots.
Your 20s are generally the figure shit out years. I'm not setting the parameters, in any case. By all means, do your thing.
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I'd say the teens are the figure shit out years, and the 20s are the getting shit done years.
Ideas without execution are delusions.
Always work for yourself. Even when you're working for someone else, absorb and learn, invest in your skills and intelligence.
I'm grateful to be a medical student cuz honestly it's a less competitive cutthroat field when everyone's career is relatively secure. You can work as an employee or you can set up private practice. It's all up to you tbh.
kenpachitz 6y ago
Got it. Thanks for the clarification.
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scissor_me_timbers00 6y ago
Uh yeah I mean it’s sidebar material that women treat men like men treat jobs.
VickVaseline 6y ago
This is true, but I never fully understood and personally internalized the statement until reading this just now.
FinancierGuru 6y ago
I think your conclusion is a bit of the wall.
As long as you're in charge of your career, you're not the female.
Take the bull by the horns and leave if you don't like it.
And that's how we do it.
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_Ulan_ 6y ago
Getting senior experts to work together, bridging different kinds of expertise.
redpilledcuck 6y ago
No offense but sounds like a bullshit made-up American-type job. But congrats on making it work for you.
_Ulan_ 6y ago
No offence taken, hard to describe a job without giving out its title. Any corporation is usually built on bullshit, made of bullshit, and spills bullshit. So my job has a bit of american-style bullshit in it, yeah.
Flawless44 6y ago
There are network engineers that basically do that after a company completely fucks up.
hdosnxbjdjeb 6y ago
Depends how attractive you are for the most part
Flawless44 6y ago
It is a barrier to entry. If you can't make it past, nothing you do matters. If you can, that's when the fun starts.
strikethrough123 6y ago
Solid post. The analogy is spot on.
EDIT:
I'd like to expand on this idea. What looks, game, and status are to women are how good a job looks on a resume, what type of job it is, and the pay it provides for men. Depending on your preferences and current needs, you'd easily leave a high paying job for a decent paying job (not a significant difference in pay, but significant enough to be noteworthy) that provides good growth opportunities and life experiences, and vice versa. I'd say the only major difference is that women don't weigh their options with men as carefully as men do with jobs.