I’ll keep this very brief with a important reminder to you all that you’ve heard a million times before, but that is so essential that you hear time after time.
A plate I’ve been spinning meets up with me last Saturday wanting to talk. She pulls me aside and tells me im the one for her, how im the only guy she can talk to about everything and how she missed me when I was away on holidays. She talks about getting together.
That same night I took her home, considering giving this chick LTR-status. She deemed worthy afterall, and I enjoyed her presence. She was good in the sack as well.
Fast forward this Saturday and I went for a ride to town with a friend of mine, sober. Coincidentally I see her at the edge of the road, climbing over some construction fences with a random guy. They start making out heavily and I guess we all know how the story goes.
Such wasted potential.
Takeaways:
- AWALT
- There are no unicorns
- She’s never yours, it’s just your turn
- NEVER listen to her bullshit words, watch her actions & body language
- Thoroughly vet anyone you could consider entering LTR with
- Don’t be upset when she fucks a new Chad, spin plates and have abundance mentality
- Don’t be upset knowing that you might not ever have a meaningful relationship after discovering the pill, but rather enjoy the fact that you have the blueprint to women’s biological instincts, and act accordingly.
- Always put yourself first, you’re the only person you will ever spend your entire lifetime with
- When something like this happens, hard next and move on & improve yourself.
Obediah_Stane 5y ago
I read this somewhere else on here but someone said they hate the phrase "It's just your turn" and I agree with them. It's not your turn, it's HER turn with YOU. YOU are the prize. She needs to get in line for her chance and when her turn is over, next in line.
Sqtlol 5y ago
Fair point. I’ll start using that phrase instead. Thanks for the reminder.
Bruchibre 5y ago
Did you talk about it with her later? would be funny to hear the hamster spinning.
"But we are not in an exclusive relationship blablabla"
Gr0o0vy 5y ago
She pulls me aside and tells me im the one for her ... right now
how im the only guy she can talk to about everything ....right now
how she missed me when I was away on holidays... right now
"She talks about getting together " RIGHT.FUCKING.NOW
Sqtlol 5y ago
Amen. Acting on impulses is their only virtue.
sosexxx92 5y ago
Holy shit men. I guess if we want love we've gotta get a pup
DeNovaCain 5y ago
A good doggo will never leave you
191john191 5y ago
They can’t compete with the obedience and loyalty of a dog. I never understood guys calling girls dogs or pigs, these animals actually do love. Lol
lifestuff69 5y ago
Men love Women.
Women love Children.
Children love Dogs.
Dogs love Men.
:)
sezamus 5y ago
Love, good, evil... they do not exist. These are just constructs of a human mind.
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CrazyHorseInvincible 5y ago
Would you care to rephrase that?
TheReformist94 5y ago
Re-read it it's quite clear
CrazyHorseInvincible 5y ago
Wrong answer.
Bye.
gbdoragnic 5y ago
You gotta love yourself, a women can't love you in the way you love yourself, a healthy relationship is based on 100% selfishness
flee_market 5y ago
Why do you think so many women hate it when you have a dog? They don't want you to get something elsewhere that you're supposed to depend on her for.
420KUSHBUSH 5y ago
Why do you think so many women hate it when you have anything that takes up more of your attention than she does?
odonnelly2000 5y ago
Replace dog w/ ANY hobby or pursuit outside of pleasing them.
THAT'S A BINGO!
Fyrjefe 5y ago
That's their maternal instincts poking through. The best part is that dogs don't grow up, so they're always 'their baby'.
nofilmynofucky 5y ago
tbf this also applies to hobbies, volunteer work, your family members, hell even friendships
It's why they love the term 'bromance' so much, they're not capable of nor do they understand true friendship so rather than address that they attempt to frame it as something masculine and strange.
Kink3 5y ago
Could even replace the word frame with shame.
subnauticalife 5y ago
Idk who you're talking to but ladies love dogs in my experience.
InfectedDonor 5y ago
dude my prev ltr started making fights because i was 'too busy with my guitar', when i only played like 1 hour a day, they want all the attention so fucking hard
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RedSkeller 5y ago
Uh oh, some pet owners and their cognitive dissonance must have been here to downvote the unpopular opinion.
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zyqkvx 5y ago
What? I thought you were nuts on first, but it seems true that sociopathic women sometimes have dogs, little cute dogs in particular.
jezusbagels 5y ago
This has to be sarcasm right? Everybody in my town has a dog. This is kind of an absurd generalization.
odonnelly2000 5y ago
I was being cheeky. I also have two dogs.
petallotus 5y ago
It’s attractive when a guy a has a dog and is very attached to them
RedSkeller 5y ago
What’s actually attractive about this? I’m guessing it’s a leader dynamic mixed with lack of access to an area of his life.
huckleberry_78 5y ago
Women want a provider. If you have a dog, it shows you can take care of something.
petallotus 5y ago
It’s just the attachment part that’s cute. Once I asked this guy why he was wasn’t speaking loud on the phone and he said that he didn’t want to wake his dogs up as they were asleep and it was late there. It just made me so fucking wet.
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UncleChido 5y ago
That’s the hardest part of the pill to swallow. Sad. It’s like discovering Santa isn’t real and there are no tooth fairies. In the end, boys must grow up.
I’ve accepted that fact and I’m happy I understand their biological framework.
Sqtlol 5y ago
It’s funny when you think about it. We’re born blue pilled as heck, thinking women are these super creatures brought to life to make our days brighter. They will help us through hard days by nurturing and loving us. Thinking back, it was almost as if things were more exciting not knowing how everything was connected, but then again that was solely due to being naive. I’ve come to the realization that handling matters like these are what defines a man. You’re the rock, and you have to carry all the emotional baggage. And that is something you should be proud of, being the stronger sex.
kaane 5y ago
Sad but true, right?
But I want to ask you a question. You say that you understand their biological framework and you are OK with this. Have you ever thought about your own biological framework?
Just asking
UncleChido 5y ago
Yes I have. I have a Bsc in biology. I can sincerely say I understand the two sexes, they have similarities and wide differences.
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smirk_addict 5y ago
I've realized that when girls initiate talks like that it either means: 1). They are just expressing how they feel in that moment. As we know they tend to do. 2). She's talking to someone else and wants to see if she can get you to commit to her. Unfortunately, this doesn't always mean she still won't fuck the other guy (or guys) she's talking to. Just at some point she'll expect more from you when she's ready for something "real".
But also, i get the feeling this girl may be vapid and impulsive.
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I'm not sure I understand why you're upset with her, as it seems you should only be upset with yourself. She did exactly what she was supposed to do. You're the one that briefly (and foolishly) got your hopes up. Don't spin 22 year olds and expect them to only be fucking you. Lesson learned.
Sqtlol 5y ago
Where do you read that im upset with her? The entire post is just a reminder of how women are. Nothing I didn’t know before. The only thing I learned from this is that I won’t spin this one no more, seeing as she lied me straight to the face and disrespected me. Abundance mentality.
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I guess when you say she "disrespected" you it comes off that way. I'm curious how she disrespected you?
Sqtlol 5y ago
She’d run off to her colleagues and mutual friends and tell them «we’re giving it a shot» and then runs off and shags the nearest Chad. If someone brings LTR-status onto the table and publicly announces it only to go fuck someone else instantly, it kinda destroys all respect I’d have for said person. Consider it an attack on my reputation, I won’t accept that.
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She sounds nuts. Same time, I expect this behavior from women in general. I think you're reading too much into it on that level, she isn't disrespecting you she's being a woman. Women have duplicitous mating strategies. She's doing AWALT because she is AWALT. I think it better to just observe it rationally and objectively and don't get any feelings about it.
Sqtlol 5y ago
Fair point, but the fact that she acts like this because shes a woman doesn’t mean I’ll let her ruin my integrity. It’s nothing that troubles me other than losing a plate.
newName543456 5y ago
As if you could have before the pill lol. Others need to BS themselves about "true love" to believe their relationships are meaningful.
Sqtlol 5y ago
That is exactly the point. Blue pilled people believe in their own deceptions, whereas we’re awakened and know how this pans out.
WestyWorld 5y ago
How old are you? Ages matter in these discussions. You can expect a little more monogamous effort from a 30 year old girl compared with a 20 year old girl.
pehsxten 5y ago
30 year old girl sounds funny man
4n0nym4us 5y ago
Possible within measure. However, a few months ago I ended a 5 year relationship with someone in her 40's. Her argument? Our lives were going in different directions. Yeah, I went back to school to wrap up my degree as a tool to get better work. Regardless, two weeks later she already had her new guy move in with her. Seven months later, engaged. In the end, if you're not devoting yourself to her as some sort of zealot, women move on.
Auvergnat 5y ago
You can always expect a little more effort from someone with a lower SMV and thus less options. Though women always have more options.
Sqtlol 5y ago
Fair point. I’m in my mid twenties, so I guess it’s safe to say that women are in their «let loose» stage of life. I’ve discussed this with a female colleague of mine in her late 30’s who was a past supermodel and who doesn’t believe in monogamy and we came to the conclusion that subconsciously all women are hardwired to be the same; there will however be nuances in their behaviour that allows certain women to balance relationships better.
RedSkeller 5y ago
You’re both close but you’re still giving both parties too much credit. Just options and lack of them. When nearing the wall the tune changes from “young and wild” (had so many choices she tried every flavor in the candy store) to more monogamous (options are drying up and I only take top shelf ass based off best riding years). An older woman admitting she doesn’t do monotony isn’t an epiphany, it’s just an admission.
smirk_addict 5y ago
But how old was the girl? And could you expand on this conversation? I'm just trying to understand the epiphany that came from that talk. Because biologically you could say each gender is hardwired a certain way.
Sqtlol 5y ago
The girl in the post is around my age, 22 I believe. She’s always been a wild kinda girl, but after watching her talk about her adventurous years I did for a moment believe she was «ready to settle down" a little bit and not fuck a new guy every day, but I was entirely wrong.
As per the conversation with the late 30 year old, we work together so we share a lot of talks like this. She worked as a model in Asian countries at the age of 17-28, so she explained to me she never had the time to live like most teenagers today do. She never had that period of her life where she could go fullblown sex machine and explore her biological frame as she was so occupied in work.
She is therefore very much interested in hearing about my situation, as she feels she can relive her twenties a little bit. She is still a gorgeous woman, but has now settled down. Her last relationship was with a pitty controlling beta who abused her and is now threatening her and her children on the occasional basis. We usually have conversations with another woman at work, but she is monogamous and wants to marry her man. Note: I have heard that this woman and her man very rarely are sexual, go figure. He’s a powerlifter and a cop, but a full blown beta, my guess is that she just enjoys the feeling of protection he gives.
The late 30 year old supermodel however, is very open about how she wants to have threesomes, and shes been caught out for having hit on younger guys at work (me including) and sending nudes etc. She also enjoys the protection of her rather wealthy beta boyfriend, but seems to crave the excitement of cheating and being «filthy» now that she has everything she needs, a nice home, a wealthy partner, two kids etc.
There is no single epiphany in that sense, it’s just a continous dialogue we have where she continually reveals everything I’ve internalized from TRP. She basically just confirms things that we read here, both in action and words. I often lirk stuff out of her with cheeky questions and touching her playfully when passing her, and she LOVES the attention from young blood. I think it replenishes her youth, as she is very interested in hearing my opinion of her outfits and stuff.
She basically just craves exciting new impulses due to the vast amount she has experiencef thus far.
smirk_addict 5y ago
Something about your post jumped out to me that the girl in question was kind of a party girl. I've just seen it so many times and i've lived through it myself. They bounce from extremes of wanting something serious to a few days later finding out they blew some guy at a party.
Thanks for the extensive write up. This comment in itself could've been another topic that could generate discussion. So many red pill truths.
Sqtlol 5y ago
She was/is indeed a party girl. They are indeed capable of the most absurd extremes, but im figuring she was looking for a beta to have around her finger while she fucks Chads at parties. Im relieved I found TRP, otherwise I’d be that cuck she was playing. It’s so much fun when you learn to see patterns of behavior so that you can pinpoint people.
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How do we know that you don’t just suck at seeing red flags? It’s not hard to believe she did it but damn dude. You blind?
Sqtlol 5y ago
There was a lot of red flags, hell even her colleagues and mutual friends told me. I guess I was caught in a weak moment, but it was definitely a wake up call: never forget AWALT. I almost did for a minute.
uwey 5y ago
Why love?
As human, you have some much more to do. Die along? Pain? Suffering?
We are after all, always alone.
Alone in the dark, that is it.
Pursuing of happiness and self awareness is actually the light in the abyss. Get used to it.
Hyper_Sonik 5y ago
LTR's are extinct. I'm tempted to say LTRS are for betas....
Andgelyo 5y ago
No shame in saying that. Nearly half of my friends in Facebook are in LTRs, I’m friends with lots of girls and all I see are “ OMG I’m engaged!” posts lol. Some of these girls l know have promiscuous pasts, and deep down I’m thinking damn good luck
Hyper_Sonik 5y ago
Lol its a status notch. Like getting to a new level in a video game. Damn it feels good to be Red Pilled.
AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
My last 3 relationships ; alpha as fuck until we got exclusive. My behavior doesn't really change. It's her. It's them.
"Oh hehe he's dumb enough to think I was serious! Hey Sally too bad he doesn't know the same time I called goodnight I was getting fucked by Thomas LOL right?!"
They are weaponized. All it is for them now is racking up more fake social points to feed their bottomless ego.
This is why youth/innocence is so valued.
mlbmoneyliner 5y ago
I'm starting to agree
Then when they play you and you're "dumb"
They lose respect for you and do it more
Hyper_Sonik 5y ago
And how will the dynamics change once the majority of men start realizing this? Will women change their behavior? Or will they continue their moral degeneral?
AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
A good question. Out there somewhere is a game theory model that treats cheating like a pathogen - it spreads, flipping non cheaters to cheaters the more people fuck each other over.
Makes sense. Survival / self preservation kicks in. The problem is how powerful the lie is, and how widespread. That's "the matrix".
Really they are shooting themselves in the foot. If I was born 10 years earlier I would have been beta Billy for life probably.
But I was in my 20s right around the time Smartphones came out.. dating around.. sowi g my oats etc.. and the dating scene today leaves very little to the imagination. You only need eyes to see.
Sooner or later, 51%> of men will be woke. Women will continue getting worse and worse until this tipping point.
And then something new will have to happen. When beta Billy can finally see the State of the Game for what it is, and says No to marriage and a lifetime of servitude.. well.. the system breaks.
Hyper_Sonik 5y ago
Good point. When women see that men refuse to get married and therefore can't take half his shit in court, their yellow brick road lottery ticket won't be an option anymore. Makes me wonder how women will adjust. Will they become more loyal to men who can provide? (Because we know they won't work for $ the same way men will) Or will they find a way to manipulate the system and economy to find provisions? If they get the system to provide $ for nothing, hypergamy will become even more rampant. Lot of potential scenerios. Strange times....
Sqtlol 5y ago
It’s interesting because our biological instincts surpass our evolutionary interpretations about modern society. Our minds haven’t evolved with our subconscious to the level where we are aware of our biological traits and know how to overcome/surpass them. Women just rely on their emotions and natural tingles from the alphamale as they are hard wired that way, and even though modern societies are constructed in a way that means no real harm is in sight, most women just don’t realize that they might not need the biggest badboy around to manage.
I believe we’ll see more badass career women in the future who make their own empires, seeing as there are so many weak men today, the competetion is not fierce at all.
naIamgood 5y ago
They just need to show some tits Ina. YouTube video and make money
whoareyou31 5y ago
Im sorry bro this story sounds made up af. Like you didnt even try to make it sound realistic. Wtf you were driving with a friend and you just so happened to bumped into her and also just so coincidently saw her making out with another dude? What are the odds of this?
Im a big RP fan but I’m here for the truths, not made up bullshit to further a narrative
Sqtlol 5y ago
... what would there be to gain from making up a story? I just shortened the entirety of it down. To clarify, we drove friends home and made several rounds throughout the city (all the clubs are close to one another where I live) so by no means did we bump into her by chance at some random point. It happened after 4 am when all the clubs close, so obviously people are nearby. I also saw 500 other people that night, one of them just happened to be this plate of mine.
Regardless, your focus is on the absolute wrong things if all you got from this short story was that its made up. Just read what I posted and internalize the takeaway bullet points once again.
whoareyou31 5y ago
Well you could gain karma or to further the redpill ideals and make men think more like you. Im ok with redpill ideals and the concrete field report that backs them up, however, only if these field reports are real. Because if they arent real, then these ideals are based off false premises.
Sqtlol 5y ago
I have a 3 year old account and 500 karma. If that doesn’t give away how little I care then I don’t know. It’s based on a real incident, I tell you. It’s as stated just shortened and I don’t wanna elaborate thoroughly on everything. Everything I share on here is from personal experience in hope that others learn not to do the same mistakes.
NeedingAdvice86 5y ago
This is the funniest part...people believe the shit.
And he had a unicorn that goes around climbing construction fences to fuck some random dude in a construction site in the middle of the night?
Did he leave out where he jumped out of the car following this chick, watched her make out with said dude then ride his dick? Are they 13 years old?
Might best bet is that he saw his young teenage girl hanging out with a guy then his feverous mind invented all sorts of shady sexual fantasies about what went on....
Sqtlol 5y ago
You really do seem like you need advice, you’re entirely lost in confusion. Take what you want from my experience, the point still remains the same - AWALT.
AwakenedSovereign 5y ago
Ignore the troll. If the sub was better moderated he'd be out already.
I've seen tents filled with nothing but wives and girlfriends getting drugged and fucked by men whose names they don't / can't remember.
I've seen C beams glittering off the shoulders of Orion
Betas have a hard time believing just how much like a cheap soap opera this shit can be. He'll figure it out.. or not.
NeedingAdvice86 5y ago
Taking advice from made up stories\fantasies works about as well as taking the advice from Hollywood rom-coms about how to seduce a woman.
No thanks.
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whoareyou31 5y ago
Thats the thing, it doesnt sound believable. After all this is the internet and we shouldnt believe everything is true just because we support the ideals of a subreddit. There are stories here that i believe but this aint one of them.
Sqtlol 5y ago
Go spend your time somewhere else then, nobody is forcing you to look at this post. Jesus christ get a grip dude
whoareyou31 5y ago
You seem very defensive. I think you are the one who should get a grip. My response wasnt even towards you, it was towards needingadvice86.
Sqtlol 5y ago
Just slightly bored of your stupid remarks. Have a great day.
A_Bandini 5y ago
So what are you going to say/do when this bitch comes scratching at your door? next her with no reason given or are u going to put her to task for her actions?
Sqtlol 5y ago
It’s funny because I can tell this kinda girl will come crawling again after I radio silence her for a while. When she does I’ll just hard next her. You’d just cement your position as a weak dude if you surrender to the pussy after she disrespects you like that. There are always other pussys around.
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Man, I fucking wish unicorns were real.
JohnIan101 5y ago
To a certain extent they do exist; just not in America.
You find this higher in Russian and Asian (Eurasian too) women - which is why so many men have given up on U.S. girls. They have become far too corrupted, entitled and downright insufferable.
I'm reminded Janet Jackson's 1986 song, "What Have You Done For Me Lately". Some women at the time took it as their anthem and it grew into a snowball; owed, deserved and pedestal worship... because they're women.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
The body language in this instance being seeing her body with another guy. You got lucky you saw it.
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