I generally try to look and act my best. There are some nights I am successful. However some nights I am just sullen and it’s not attractive. It almost seems to be a mild form of bipolar however the feelings aren’t cyclical, there based on what’s going on in my life.
I have control over most aspects of my life except work.
When it is going well, I am in a great mood. When it is going poorly, I am in a terrible mood.
When I’m in a great mood I’m charismatic, attractive, witty. Bad mood, I am widthdrawn, passive and sullen.
How do I either overcome my bad moods or game girls in that state?
camouflagedbale27 5y ago
Totally feel you man, wish i had the answer. I'm starting to incorporate mediation and keeping a stoic Mindset at all times. Hope that helps :)
AnyDoughnut 5y ago
There is no magic bullet to be optimistic and happy 100% of the time, but I've found there are 3 things that help with my mood substantially.
Those 3 things work wonders for me, but everyone is different.
CarnelianCore 5y ago
Life is like a pendulum. It swings back and forth. Moods won’t always be good, nor will they always be bad. If you learn to appreciate that, you’ll be in your bad moods knowing that they’re an undeniable part of life and will soon be followed by a good mood.
Generally, the ‘higher’ you are in your good moods, the ‘lower’ you’ll be in your bad moods.