I'm a 21 yrd old incel.
Raised by single mom and her friends, and never met my father or had any strong man in my life.
However, I've always played sports (captain of a federate basketball team for 7 years) been lifting for about two years and now I'm studying Computer Science and Programming (on the afternoon schedule, important later), and working on the side as a model. Thank god I found TRP.
Started my CS course last october, and in the first day I met girl 1.
Not that beautiful, but nice body. Not that smart, but nice & warm girl.
The first day every student had a sticker on his chest and she offered to stick my sticker on my chest herself, and I let her (dunno if that's an IOI). However, she's on the morning schedule, so I only saw her in passing, and wasn't that interested to begin with.
A few weeks later, I saw girl 2 for the 1st time.
Now this girl is drop dead gorgeous, intelligent, shy (at least to me), dresses conservatively, seems like a keeper.
I first saw her at a lecture. Her eyes met mine as she was coming in and she froze for a bit and then nervously looked away. Sat right behind me with her friend. Another time, I was walking towards the bathroom and we suddenly met right around the corner. I should have approached, but it was so unexpected and I was in a rush that it took me about two seconds to process it and she was gone. However I do remember her looking at me, and immediately and nervously looking down at the ground. She's on the morning schedule too, so I rarely see her. Whenever I do see her, she's always with people, especially a guy who might be her boyfriend, but I've never saw them touch, hug, kiss or anything. Saw them say goodbye to each other and she didn't even give him a kiss or anything. He might be her boyfriend and she doesn't want Public Displays of Affection, but I think he's probably just an orbiter.
I usually go to school in the morning to study and sometimes I'd find girl 3 and her friend in the same room.
Girl 3 is just cute (not beautiful) but she's a smart and nice girl.
So about a week ago I sat next to girl 1 at an audition. We flirted (for example, she's a fashion student and we joked about her taking my measurements), and I told her to give me her number. I told her to pass me her phone and I saved myself as "Hot guy from (our school)" and texted my self "omg ur soooooo cute". She laughed, and then I jokingly said "ok now get outta my sight".
That night (a thursday) I texted her:
Girl 1: omg ur soooooo cute (sent by me)
Me: stop seducing me
Girl 1 (almost 2 hours later): cmon, sorry but its inevitable
Me: you are gonna by me a drink first
Girl 1 (30 mins later): you got some nerve, you are buying me dinner first
It was late, I had to get up early and this chick was taking forever so I said fuck it and didn't reply. This monday I tried again:
Me: psst
Girl 1 (over 24 hours later): do you think that's a way to get someone's attention? (but jokingly, it's hard to translate from our language to english)
I haven't replied yet to girl 1.
In the meantime I approached girl 3 and got her number. Saved myself in her phone and sent myself a cocky text. She laughed too (this seems to work pretty well). But I see girl 3 a lot. I was thinking about asking her out in person, so the girl 1 situation doesn't repeat itself. But if I ask her out, leave, and then 5 mins later we're eating at the same place it's hard to maintain tension. Also, should I like take her for a walk, talk, then ask her out? Or just go straight for kill and ask her out immediately?
Girl 1 and 3 I'd like to bang. But girl 2 is the one I'm most interested in.
However the last times we've passed each other, she doesn't seem to be that nervous around me anymore...
So far I'm 2 for 2, but haven't asked for girl 2's number yet. She's rarely alone, most of the time with her orbiter.
I was also recently interviewed by a startup and I may start working mornings soon, so I don't have much time to approach girl 2 either.
Help? Tips? Thanks
Brandojr1 5y ago
21 yr old incel. Work part time as a model. Pick 1
lukee-z 5y ago
Haha good one
VeinyMeat 5y ago
It's the truth.
_Last_Man_Standing_ 5y ago
how did you manage that??
I mean seriously.... it must have required considerable effort to pull off...
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Pajca 5y ago
Mentalcel. I was a victim of this a long time ago.
UmiForgetWho 5y ago
What's that
Pajca 5y ago
When you are normal looking but mental ilness is making you incel.
MrAgamemnon 5y ago
Stop being a fucking retard. You're doing well.
Ask them out. Just make sure you escalate, you have a finite amount of times to escalate and if you don't you will forever become an orbiter.
0io- 5y ago
If you're good looking you can do well being direct. If you're out on a date with her and you don't know how to kino properly, just honestly say "I really want to kiss you now" or "I really want to make out with you." Odds are she'll say something like "well why don't you" or just start kissing you.
If she doesn't react well and says "Hell no, I thought you were my gay best friend!" you're doing yourself a favor and can bail out on the date because it was never going to happen.
Odds are she'll react well.
SiLeet 5y ago
Damn make a tl;dr . We are very busy with our time in this reddit and community.
ComplexProjection 5y ago
Don't flirt by text. Try to meet her asap to escalate. Girl 1 seems not opposed to meet you, just keep your frame.
VeinyMeat 5y ago
Thanks! And what about 2 and 3?
QawL 5y ago
2 ask her out for a casual thing (in person better).
For 3 i have an anecdote : a girl flirted with me for the first time we've seen each other, we joined the same lab group in class, I didn't wanna seem as needy so I waited for the next week, after that I saw her with a guy, didn't care and asked her number, texted "good morning". She didn't answer and told that guy, which turned out to be her boyfriend lol. He confronted me, I asked him if she is his girlfriend, he doubted for a moment and said yes, I said okay and get out.
Long story short even if he is her bf, he still is an orbiter(not holding hands, not kissing). Talk if she talks you and escalate but you're probably better with ghosting her.
Ohboohoolittlegirl 5y ago
Stop defining yourself as an Incel and your start has been made... You call yourself and incel while you pretend to have options, why make up these stories
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trpboy123 5y ago
If you think all the three are fuckable, then take them out, escalate and fuck. More girls, better abundance or more abundance or whatever.
chazthundergut 5y ago
By focusing on Girl # 4 - 100
rad_dynamic 5y ago
huge wall of text about one girl, typically means one thing. oneitis + hamstering. not a good combo if you want to go anywhere with a girl.
broaden your scope, be busier, be successful, be muscly, and hot women will come naturally.
max_peenor 5y ago
Stop playing games and escalate already. Crafting a monument to this unicorn in your head is going to lead to disaster. Sully her already, either by fucking her or crossing her off your opportunity list.