Hi guys, wanna discuss something. I've been in LTR with a girl for 9 months who's shown no red flags up until now, vetted her good, checked and confirmed she's been loyal, and give her great sex when she comes all the way along to see me, cooks me etc. (pull her hair, boobs, rip her pussy up and making her squirt, it was her first time with me as she was a virgin and now we fuck often) I try to be as red pill as possible. Also dreaded her as fuck, she thinks other girls in her vicinity want to fuck me bad and confirmed it herself and I can tell she's jealous of them.
So tonight, there was supposed to be her favorite band concert in a city next to ours, and her parents wouldn't let her go until she entered a contest and for my bad luck she won a ticket, most of the time we talked about this crap band she would praise them and some of them specific, say they're attractive but not in a tone of wanna fuck em etc. More like a shit test. It's a rap band and the concert takes places at 7 tonight.
I don't know how to handle this, I actually can't tell if my girl is a fucking groupie and would do shit after the concert (I think you never know what these dudes and fangirls are up to, not experienced this before. They rap about irrelevant shit most of the time, and have fame in my country, they usually round up after the concert to give autographs and leave.)
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How to work this out? I asked her some things and she said she just wants to go see them for a couple hours that the concert will last cus it's her favorite band but inside I got really furious about this shit. Told her I don't like this at all but whatever, she can go even if I don't like it, her choice, got my permission. What can I do? Anyone with insight and experience in such situations here? Says she won't drink and all but you never know.
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I can't go with her, she had asked me to go together some time ago when the date of the concert was up, but I injured my eyebrow last night and my eye looks shit and I hurt. So she'll go with one of her girlfriends who's a fan too.
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Edit: I thought of starting retracting attention from her as it starts burning me up inside about such stuff, and rather work various TRP theories again in general so as to avoid any more emotional attachment. But right now I'm confused and don't know how to handle my inner psychology about this.
caius100 5y ago
The moment you guys start experiencing this type of paranoia for something as unimportant as your girl going to a concert, you are fucked. It's a clear sign you are lacking abundance. And if you feel it, chances are she will start feeling it too. My advice: Go empty your nuts in somebody until you literaly dont give a fuck if she gets drunk or not. She fucks somebody else? Good. Her loss. Because you got other 10 girls waiting for you to cum in their mouths. If you dont, start getting these girls goddamnit it. You cant maintain a ltr without abundance ffs
whiffofass 5y ago
This reeks of neediness. It's a concert. If you are so worried and emotional about something like that your relationship will not last long. You should have a DGAF attitude and she should be the needy one worrying where you are going.
CainPrice 5y ago
You do realize that liking rap music, thinking celebrity musicians are attractive, and going to a concert with her girlfriend doesn't make your woman a slut, right?
Women buy 70-150$ tickets with their friends, go sit in section 37 row H, stand up the entire time cheering while fucking around with their cellphones posting pictures about how they're at a concert, then go home. 90% of concert attendees are women. Women at concerts don't actually have sex with the performers.
addwater 5y ago
Sounds like she wants to gargle balls
civilizedfrog 5y ago
Well done, you made me laugh
BigFeetBigDick 5y ago
Did you injure your eyelashes as well OP?
civilizedfrog 5y ago
I might have sprained my eyelid
DiggerClam 5y ago
Can't wait until we get thread titles like this in the future:
LTR wants to have cheese sandwich. Dread?!
RedSkeller 5y ago
Every girl is a groupie for someone. A long time ago in my blue days I took a plate to a concert and saw her get googly eyed for some nobody musician and it clicked - those same googly eyes when we first started fucking. That being said, you can't control women/girlfriends when it comes to 'girls night out' or any event you're not invited to. Your best bet is to stay aloof and distant and do your own thing, don't text and be needy and don't try to one up her with 'boys night out' or anything. Be a rock.
Also, sidenote, depending on the rap group it could be a sketchy crowd and she might have an awful time, which might be great for her as a lesson learned/let's never do that again. Worst thing you can do here is mate guard, be pissy. Accept it for it is, there will always be a better man, but having abundance here is key.
Brandojr1 5y ago
If she was going to fuck them, She wouldnt have asked you to come with her beforehand.
BrodinsOats 5y ago
Why don’t you quit bitching and just go with her? Is your eyebrow seriously in that much pain? Who gives a fuck what your eye looks like, you’d be there with your girl.