After you have gotten a girl from tinder’s number after 3-5 messages back and forth. What is the most effective way to set up a date?
My idea is: Ask her what she’s gonna be up to to the following week. She will answer something and ask about mine; I text something like: “Apart from meeting you at X place X day, something more I am going to do”.
Is this good/bad?
What are you go-to “lines”? Maybe it’s just best to say “meet me X at Y time” immediately?
atticusfinch1973 5y ago
Always make a defined date and time and tell her, don't ask.
Like meet me at x bar Friday at 8, don't ask what day is better for her or when she is available. If she's interested but busy she will suggest an alternate time. You pick the place, don't ask what she likes or say what does she want to do.
Always lead. The amount of women I had compliment me when I just took charge was a big eye opener.
Guaccamolepepe 5y ago
I’ve got the part with taking the lead; but isn’t that what I’m doing in the one I suggested? By “asking her what she’s up to” I mean “does anything special happen this week?” not “when are you free this week?” it’s more obvious in my mother tongue.
Thanks for the response.
atticusfinch1973 5y ago
You don't care what she's up to or what happens this week. You want her to meet up with you so just tell her a place and time.
ReformSociety 5y ago
"X (event/activity/setting) at Y time, you in?"