I'm from Turkey where guys hit on everything that moves and women think they are hot shit because of that. I was overweight and had confidence issues before going abroad. since I came back two months ago, every single one of my old oneitises and two exes reached me. I hate this shit, these women didn't give me a time of the day and now think I'm marriage material, that I would actually accept them back because I'm the same old pathetic guy still.
I didn't have those feelings when I was in Europe, I felt like the women there did what they did because they actually liked my presence, appreciated my attention. But I see women of my own country as vampires, they now smell the smell of potential and flock to it. I have no idea how to proceed to be honest and I realize I'm acting like an asshole to most women around me. I need directions I guess.
effyouasshole 5y ago
Your mentality is the same as a former fat chick who used to be invisible, but then gets in shape and is resentful of all the new male attention she gets. "This is why men are trash," she says to herself.
This is the wrong perspective. Women are not doing anything wrong. You used to be a fuck-up, and you were treated accordingly. Even though you're in a much better position now, you're still saddled with toxic hate because you think you were entitled to women's affections. Nope. You weren't. Nobody's entitled to shit. You're not entitled to their attention now, either--you earned it through hard work. Don't waste it.
Women's behaviors are guided through millions of years of evolution. They are doing what they are programmed to, just as we are programmed to seek out attractive women. It makes no sense to be upset about it.
You probably need to go into monk mode for a little bit so you can let go of all your old hate. Wipe the slate clean. Realize that you've attained a true gift: the ability to see the world for how it is, and the opportunity to bend the world to your will.
BookyMcBooks 5y ago
In other words, fuck em right in the pussy.
AWorseManThanYou 5y ago
I really hope that was an accurate tl;dr
un_knownguy 5y ago
Turkey is a very famous country, fuck tourists as I do.
ImplodedVeggies 5y ago
How is the tourism industry lately? Had a little dip not too long ago
un_knownguy 5y ago
You can meet a lot of young/hot females looking to have fun, but gotta keep strong frame/alpha traits or they'll dump you inmediatly and fuck chad.
I have been rejected countless time, but I keep learning and growing from each experience.
Kurush559 5y ago
It's great fun, and good for casual sex too. If you speak a bit of Turkish (it's surprisingly easy) it basically puts you in the top 0.5% social status because no foreigners can. It basically gets you a free pass into better treatment and cheaper prices in most cities.
showerdudes9 5y ago
Stop thinking you deserve to be loved for being who you are (as a fuck up, loser) because you dont and youll never be and theres absolutely NOTHING wrong with how the women treated you before. Its natural and its how losers get treated. Embrace this fact.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Aren't you the same OP that said just yesterday girls are repulsed by you when you mention your country of origin?
VeryTalentedCheff 5y ago
Nope must be an Indian.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
How do you have "multiple oneitis's?" That's a contradiction.
VeryTalentedCheff 5y ago
I had an attitude of refusing to listen their love interests and just told them I liked them and listening those stuff hurt me. Not the best approach but it ended all those one sided friendships real quick giving me peace of mind.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
That's not oneitis.
Builtblind 5y ago
Keep doing exactly what you were doing
You are the god of your own little world and every bitch that comes near you is lucky to be I. Your presence
Additionally if you find yourself repulsed by the people and place you reside then leave man
You won
Now go enjoy you reward of confidence, endless pussy and good times
throwawaytrpguy 5y ago
Turkey is a muslim country - isn't dating/approaching/sex before marriage punishable by death or something?
VeryTalentedCheff 5y ago
Not yet but we are slowly going in that direction.
Fuck Erdoğan.
Kurush559 5y ago
Dostum - this is really weird to hear cos Turkish women are SO much better than most Europeans. Turkiye'de nerelisin? Surely if youre in the west it should be easy to get exactly what you want. I think your mindset is totally wrong, you're expecting women to be something they're not. They're always gonna look for potential and resources in a guy. But if you're hot and jacked like you said, it shouldn't be any trouble getting them to want you for you and your body rather than money. Tamam mi?
impotentludius 5y ago
at yalanini sikeyim inananı
civilizedfrog 5y ago
Women from all over the world would behave the same way if they saw the past you, my friend. You are naive if you think women from Europe, or anywhere else for that matter, would behave differently to the beta lardass. AWALT