I used to fuck this girl, it was a really hypogamous relationship tbh and was on and off for about 5 months, but it was good. We clicked.
Anyway, in Feb, she hits me up with a LJBF because she "needs me" in her life and she's not ruling out "that we'll be together in the future" but she really needs to be serious this year(she's a top academic student and excels in sports) so that she can get accepted by a uni. I do tell her that I don't do female friends and she respects this and we stop talking for about two weeks.
She gets back to me telling me she "can't do this" and doesn't feel comfortable being in the middle(we're not fucking but not friends either). I was wasted that day so I tell her that although I would not compromise, I had no problem with being at least cordial if we met in public(we clicked, really really intensely).
I sober up the next day, and I text her: "Nah, you're right. I'm not doing this. Idc anymore. Bye." and block her immediately. She doesn't block me back. It's been over a month and all my other relationships have felt "empty" compared to this one, and I genuinely miss her. I'm hoping that the timeout has wiped the LJBF shit from her mind. Should I unblock her?
oilrigo 5y ago
Don't listen to other dudes saying unblock. You already did it. Most guys would never do that to such a princess because they don't wanna "burn Bridges". Don't unblock. If she wanted you she has your number. What has happened is she lost attraction. You did a good move. You walked away. Most betas and simps won't. You probably got to beta and that's why she ljbfed you. Whatever you do don't contact her. As long as you fucked good she will back around. Might take a month two months or a year. Focus on other pussy. She lost all respect for you. And lied to you. Remember that. She doesn't see you sexually anymore. Hold out. Don't unblock. She has your number or has mutuals. She can do the work. She knows what she did. Stay strong.
FereallyRed 5y ago
She nexted you, so now you want her back.
Sounds like she's redpill.
Don't go back to the curb.
BigFeetBigDick 5y ago
I’d say move on. I think you should just forget about her tbh, you’re too attached.
superpowered_andrean 5y ago
I have moved on, in a way. I fuck plates and I spin them regularly but it feels empty, you dig? I don't think I was built for that kinda lifestyle. I feel more comfortable in a monogamous relationship with bomb sex and a deep connection, which was what me and this girl had. I haven't felt anything for the other plates.
rexchan91 5y ago
Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/
arcwhy 5y ago
If you have to ask, them you already know.
Don’t unblock
MisterRoid 5y ago
Pretty pathetic to block to begin with That's feminine behavior. Sure if she's spamming you with calls and texts and you want nothing to do with her, blocking is a good idea. But otherwise just be a man and ignore her.
Now you have changed your mind and you will appear like even more of a dramaqueen when you unblock her.
FlyingSexistPig 5y ago
o n e i t i s.
Be good with yourself. Develop some hobbies or some shit. This girl is fucking nuts and you're thinking that somehow your life will improve with her in it.
asorals 5y ago
She made the decision to just be friends so she should be the one running back. I wouldn't have blocked her because I always like to keep a door open just incase.
I wouldn't message her or anything. If you want to, unblock her, but I'd leave it at that.
superpowered_andrean 5y ago
I understand but I also have a feeling that unblocking her after a month would give her a "I've been thinking about you" vibe?
asorals 5y ago
It's entirely up to you. To me it shows that you're going back on yourself. If she wants you she will reach out. Women could care less if you blocked them or not sometimes. They will find a way if they want to.
oilrigo 5y ago
thats not the vibe you want retard. shes not stupid. of course she knows youre thinking about her. thats why she ljbfzoned you, you were thinking about her too much.
cut your losses.
superpowered_andrean 5y ago
Precisely. I have my doubts about unblocking her because it would send a message to her that I've got nothing to do with my time except think about her for a whole month. It shows scarcity, which is why I felt I needed to ask about it here.
oilrigo 5y ago
1.dont unblock her.
wait 4 months.
if you dont hear back maybe unblock.
360_no_scope_upvote 5y ago
You fucked it up by being a little bitch. Don't act like a woman let the woman do that. Unblock her and get the wad out your twat and start acting like a man and not a boy. Learn to shut the fuck up when necessary.
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
You're not gonna want to hear this, but what you need to do now is shit in a basic brown bag (the kind you may have eaten lunch out of as a kid), put the bag on her porch, light the top of the bag on fire, ring the doorbell (or knock) and run to a pre-set hiding/viewing location. If all went as planned the victim will see the flaming bag and be all like "ahh fire!" followed by a quick stomping of the bag.